I will tell everyone something very important. Stick with it. I first booted it up and played, I was completely like
Also, the game is NOT a looker at all. To the UNTRAINED EYE! I kept playing and playing, and as where I didn't even know how to talk to a count at first I was holding his family hostage for ransom later. GIMMIE DAT MONAY! As I couldn't appreciate the graphics at first I would marvel at how a man would slowly ragdoll off of his mount after I counter slashed him right in his neck. I kind of want to play again, now
This needs to be stated more. It is pretty hard to get off the ground in Warband, both because the game has quite a bit of a learning curve and because it's designed to be difficult at the start.
1. Don't be afraid to turn the difficulty down. In particular, you may want to reduce the damage you take and turn off manual blocking. When you get better at the game you can ease yourself into it (it lets you change difficulty settings on the fly).
2. Don't create a character on realistic mode (no saves mode). You will get taken prisoner likely dozens of times on your first playthrough and it's nice to have a fallback.
3. Get quests. Lots and lots of quests. They are your primary source of income without a base or a large army. There are a few way to do this.
- Go to villages, select "go to the village center" (or whatever it is), and look for the villager that isn't moving; he's the elder. Ask him if he has a job for you. Most won't. These missions are the least valuable but can be done pretty much from the start of the game.
- Talk to lords and ask them if they have a job for you. This depends somewhat on your reputation. Most of these jobs don't pay particularly well but some of them do and all of them affect your reputation somehow. Keep in mind that some of them (such as the ones that call on you to instigate a war in a covert matter) will appropriately lower your reputation. Most of these are pretty easy and don't require too many troops.
- Go to towns and look for the guild master. Guild masters will always have a job available (provided you didn't already take one today from the same town) and these jobs usually pay a lot, unless they're caravan escorts. Some of these require more troops than you're likely to have at the beginning of the game but many of them are very easy and are also the best paying.
4. Recruit troops (you can do this by going to "recruit volunteers" at any town). Don't worry too much about going into debt as you will only incur a small morale penalty. You can't really be a one man army at low levels.