Da-Kid
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So some of you guys might remember my thread I made about having a terrible roommate. I since then left to stay with my parents and save up for an apartment. This was a huge mistake.
My father has done nothing but made it unbearable. My dad has been a tyrant to the family since I could remember, always fussing and arguing with my mother about us (children at the time) and long story short, he seems to hate me, my sister and my mother for no reason other than us not being like him.
I've lost two brothers and he will throws that in my mother's face, saying things like "That's why your kids are dead" and "Your kids are dead because of you". My brothers weren't his children by blood just to clarify. He has mentally and physically abused my mother before, each time apologizing. He's stopped the physical abuse but his mental and verbal abuse is far worse.
So now let's get to what's happening now, I'll throw in some bullet points for context, then tell you all what happen.
1. My father thinks he's better than people.
2. He abuses any power he has.
3. He watches Netflix documentaries and suddenly thinks that makes him more knowledgeable. Both logically and accurately.Basically, a PhD in Netflix.
4. He's a conspiracy theorists.
5. He thinks his age and things only he's experienced makes it where anyone younger than him trying to tell him about life is inferior and a fool.
So yesterday was rent day I had to pay him $400 bucks, but of course there was a problem, SOMEHOW. So because my mother asked him if I could live there temporarily, any problem he has with me he takes out on my mother instead of just coming to me only. I'm the paying tenant. Case and point, the room I stay in was a little messy. My schedule changed at work to where I wake up at 4am to commute and make work at 6am. This has burned me out and recently when I get off of work after also commuting through two hours of bumper to bumper traffic, I have been coming home so tired that I would literally crash. I would just knock out.
Anyways, so he confronts me about this shit and just goes on and on despite me apologizing about it and explaining why and telling him I'll keep it tidy. Which he told me he didn't care. So he then tells me he's mad because my mom will help me out and clean things after me (because she knows I'm working hard and I'm very tired). So of course I asked "Well if it's all taken care of, what is the problem?" he says now that apparently my mother is somehow enabling me....... So basically it's just a lose lose situation because he despises my mother tries to help out which is pure hatred on his part. And he somehow thinks because it's his house that he has control of what someone does as far as helping someone out, lovingly.
So then he goes into me going to the bathroom at night, saying I wake him up. Then tells me in order to live here I have to pee in a bottle as not to disturb him. I told him if I'm paying the rent that I'm going to use the bathroom as needed. I also told him peeing in a bottle is unsanitary, and leaves room for error like getting pee on the floor. That's the problem, he thinks he can control someone despite them paying in a tyrannical and unreasonable way. He literally told me that "Rebellion will be crushed" in those exact words, shaking his fist..... Like, is this shit Star Wars?????????? Who's rebelling?
He also has a problem with the things I eat, multiple times he's tried to make me feel bad about what I eat or cook. All because he watched a documentary on food. At every turn I seem to be doing something wrong, I'm gone 12 hours a day yet I'm somehow causing an issue.
But he somehow thinks he's being any bit of reasonable and that other people would enforce these insane rules on PAYING tenants. I told him that every time I eat I don't want to hear his opinion on what I eat and making me uncomfortable. According to him, if you're in someone's house you can't tell them not to ridicule and force their opinion on you for things that doesn't effect them. And as i told him, no, people don't do shit like that. People don't power trip like that, or say thell put a deadbolt lock on the bathroom so you cant use the bathroom. People don't even go in their tenants rooms to see if it's dirty or not.
Anyways, I'm going to move out by the end of the month. Fuck this man, after all this is done I'm disowning him as my father, and as a person I will ever associate with, or be associated with. I made the grave mistake of thinking my father would even marginally help me. A lot of parents will help their children get on their feet FOR FREE, out of love. And even if they do have them pay, they don't put them through all this shit over virtually nothing.
I haven't even told you guys HALF the shit I've been through living with this asshole.
My father has done nothing but made it unbearable. My dad has been a tyrant to the family since I could remember, always fussing and arguing with my mother about us (children at the time) and long story short, he seems to hate me, my sister and my mother for no reason other than us not being like him.
I've lost two brothers and he will throws that in my mother's face, saying things like "That's why your kids are dead" and "Your kids are dead because of you". My brothers weren't his children by blood just to clarify. He has mentally and physically abused my mother before, each time apologizing. He's stopped the physical abuse but his mental and verbal abuse is far worse.
So now let's get to what's happening now, I'll throw in some bullet points for context, then tell you all what happen.
1. My father thinks he's better than people.
2. He abuses any power he has.
3. He watches Netflix documentaries and suddenly thinks that makes him more knowledgeable. Both logically and accurately.Basically, a PhD in Netflix.
4. He's a conspiracy theorists.
5. He thinks his age and things only he's experienced makes it where anyone younger than him trying to tell him about life is inferior and a fool.
So yesterday was rent day I had to pay him $400 bucks, but of course there was a problem, SOMEHOW. So because my mother asked him if I could live there temporarily, any problem he has with me he takes out on my mother instead of just coming to me only. I'm the paying tenant. Case and point, the room I stay in was a little messy. My schedule changed at work to where I wake up at 4am to commute and make work at 6am. This has burned me out and recently when I get off of work after also commuting through two hours of bumper to bumper traffic, I have been coming home so tired that I would literally crash. I would just knock out.
Anyways, so he confronts me about this shit and just goes on and on despite me apologizing about it and explaining why and telling him I'll keep it tidy. Which he told me he didn't care. So he then tells me he's mad because my mom will help me out and clean things after me (because she knows I'm working hard and I'm very tired). So of course I asked "Well if it's all taken care of, what is the problem?" he says now that apparently my mother is somehow enabling me....... So basically it's just a lose lose situation because he despises my mother tries to help out which is pure hatred on his part. And he somehow thinks because it's his house that he has control of what someone does as far as helping someone out, lovingly.
So then he goes into me going to the bathroom at night, saying I wake him up. Then tells me in order to live here I have to pee in a bottle as not to disturb him. I told him if I'm paying the rent that I'm going to use the bathroom as needed. I also told him peeing in a bottle is unsanitary, and leaves room for error like getting pee on the floor. That's the problem, he thinks he can control someone despite them paying in a tyrannical and unreasonable way. He literally told me that "Rebellion will be crushed" in those exact words, shaking his fist..... Like, is this shit Star Wars?????????? Who's rebelling?
He also has a problem with the things I eat, multiple times he's tried to make me feel bad about what I eat or cook. All because he watched a documentary on food. At every turn I seem to be doing something wrong, I'm gone 12 hours a day yet I'm somehow causing an issue.
But he somehow thinks he's being any bit of reasonable and that other people would enforce these insane rules on PAYING tenants. I told him that every time I eat I don't want to hear his opinion on what I eat and making me uncomfortable. According to him, if you're in someone's house you can't tell them not to ridicule and force their opinion on you for things that doesn't effect them. And as i told him, no, people don't do shit like that. People don't power trip like that, or say thell put a deadbolt lock on the bathroom so you cant use the bathroom. People don't even go in their tenants rooms to see if it's dirty or not.
Anyways, I'm going to move out by the end of the month. Fuck this man, after all this is done I'm disowning him as my father, and as a person I will ever associate with, or be associated with. I made the grave mistake of thinking my father would even marginally help me. A lot of parents will help their children get on their feet FOR FREE, out of love. And even if they do have them pay, they don't put them through all this shit over virtually nothing.
I haven't even told you guys HALF the shit I've been through living with this asshole.
