dr3upmushroom
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Ugh, worst type of people. To me, people who are fat out of laziness are basically like smokers or alcoholics. I probably don't want to sit by you on a bus, it's going to be a real hurdle in any relationship we might have, and I'm probably going to think less of you even if we do become friends, but as long as you're only hurting yourself I'm not indignant about it.3N16MA said:It's horrible when overweight women decide to wear clothes that is obviously not made for their size. Not only that but these women seem to have the bitchiest of attitudes as if they are permanently pissed at the world. I even overheard one the other day at Union picking apart women that passed by, pretty much all were fit and better looking than her. I think it's a growing trend.
However, have some perspective about it. If you choose not to exercise and to eat shit, dress accordingly. Of course, I guess it's kind of a Catch 22 because if fat people had the required introspective ability to dress appropriately they'd probably stop killing themselves prematurely, but still, every time I see a girl with a huge gut in a skin-tight shirt I have to wonder what they're thinking when they look at themselves.
Honestly I think the whole "It's becoming more acceptable to be overweight" thing goes hand in hand with the talk you hear about the increasing number of man-babies. I'm 22 and a senior in college, and I'm shocked on a weekly basis by my classmates' unwillingness to accept responsibility for their actions or work for anything. I'm totally with all the people who accuse my generation (kids five or so years younger than me to a greater extent, but still plenty of kids my age) of being overly coddled and totally unable to face the real world. While genetics and media portrayal definitely play a disgusting role in perception of weight in our society, a lot of people just really like ice cream and cake and can't be bothered to exercise, and just like they'll blame their failing test grade on a teacher not explaining something to them (even though they could have easily asked for clarification), they blame the extra ten pounds they're carrying on the prevalence of HFCS, or the cheap price of fast food, or their schedule being too packed to exercise, etc.
I agree with this to an extent, but I really do believe there's just a lot of grown children out there who were never forced to eat their vegetables. It's kind of like the ADD thing, on one hand going around saying that a ridiculous number of kids are being wrongly diagnosed could hamper research of ADD if it's perceived that it's not a "real" disease, but on the other hand if a ton of kids really are being wrongfully diagnosed, you need to point out that they're just being kids.teh_pwn said:OP, the problem is the apparent unwillingness of people to understand that body composition and hunger is regulated by the brain just like body temperature, and that certain environmental and dietary factors can put this system into disorder. The attitude "fat people just aren't trying hard enough" if anything makes the problem worse because it diverts attention away from the biological causes and replaces it with blame.
Media portrayal of "attractive" people certainly makes it difficult for tons of people to be comfortable with their natural body size, but I don't think you can look at how much the average weight in the US has gone up over the last few decades and reasonably conclude that it's all body composition.