Backstory:
I have been with my woman in a committed relationship for just over two years now. I work fulltime and she works partime and does school part time and we do not live with each other. We see each other at least every other day.
Problem:
She is a pathological liar. This shit drives me fucking bananas. She will lie about the most stupid shit ever, like I would text her asking her what she's up to and she would be like "I'm driving home" but in reality she really is home. I chose that example because I was on my way over and she knew that, and I texted her saying I am pulling up I'm a few lights away, and she's like "oh I'm still on the road, be there soon" and when I got there (literally 30 seconds later) she was there.
Another time she brought me some food that I thought was very delicious, and I asked her where she got it from and she told me she made it. The first suspicion I had was that it came in like a grocery store deli type packaging and for about a week I kept asking her to bring me more and she would bring it and it would come in the same packaging. A few months later I go grocery shopping and, behold, I see it in the fucking deli section.
Another time I asked about what classes she was taking and she tells me X,Y,Z but when I see her books they are for classes A,B,C totally unrelated but equally difficult courses.
I just don't fucking understand why she does this, and I am losing my mind over it. Why does she choose to lie about the stupidest fucking shit? I have more examples but she knows about gaf but doesn't know my username so I don't want to be too specific in my details in case she is lurking.
also, please get the "she found new dick" stuff out of the way as quickly as possible so I can get some real advice.
Thank you.
I actually did a couple weeks ago, and she got really defensive and tried to shift the blame on me. Things are cooled off now, but I have that issue nagging me in the back of my mind you know?
I have been with my woman in a committed relationship for just over two years now. I work fulltime and she works partime and does school part time and we do not live with each other. We see each other at least every other day.
Problem:
She is a pathological liar. This shit drives me fucking bananas. She will lie about the most stupid shit ever, like I would text her asking her what she's up to and she would be like "I'm driving home" but in reality she really is home. I chose that example because I was on my way over and she knew that, and I texted her saying I am pulling up I'm a few lights away, and she's like "oh I'm still on the road, be there soon" and when I got there (literally 30 seconds later) she was there.
Another time she brought me some food that I thought was very delicious, and I asked her where she got it from and she told me she made it. The first suspicion I had was that it came in like a grocery store deli type packaging and for about a week I kept asking her to bring me more and she would bring it and it would come in the same packaging. A few months later I go grocery shopping and, behold, I see it in the fucking deli section.
Another time I asked about what classes she was taking and she tells me X,Y,Z but when I see her books they are for classes A,B,C totally unrelated but equally difficult courses.
I just don't fucking understand why she does this, and I am losing my mind over it. Why does she choose to lie about the stupidest fucking shit? I have more examples but she knows about gaf but doesn't know my username so I don't want to be too specific in my details in case she is lurking.
also, please get the "she found new dick" stuff out of the way as quickly as possible so I can get some real advice.
Thank you.
Noirulus said:
I actually did a couple weeks ago, and she got really defensive and tried to shift the blame on me. Things are cooled off now, but I have that issue nagging me in the back of my mind you know?
