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Not Sure I Can Handle Social Media Anymore

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Yeah trust me I want to and like I said, I've deactivated mt Twitter about 3 weeks ago.

I just admit though that in general I still enjoy talking to people and there's people I do like. Cutting all social media means I have nobody to talk to and remaining isolated. I barely even speak with my best friend and we barely hang out, even much less due to Covid.

The weirdest thing almost all the people I've had issues with are people I thought were pretty cool and/or shared a lot of common views.

Edit: the last guy turned out he's a Jo Jorgensen libertarian who got upset I called rioters Marxists and terrorists after I replied to him.

So I can cut all ties to SM, but then I'll just have little-to-no communication with anyone. And not having any money and a broken console doesn't help matters.
 
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Been off Facebook around two years now. Just need to delete Instagram but I usually use it to share funny pics between friends. Still probably spend too much time on it.

As for reddit, fuck that shit.
I generally have the least issues with FB nowadays, exception above. Probably because....

1) pretty much all my Friends are people I know or knew IRL

2) while 90 percent of them are Leftists, I avoid politics like the plague when it comes to FB
 

Men_in_Boxes

Snake Oil Salesman
Yeah trust me I want to and like I said, I've deactivated mt Twitter about 3 weeks ago.

I just admit though that in general I still enjoy talking to people and there's people I do like. Cutting all social media means I have nobody to talk to and remaining isolated. I barely even speak with my best friend and we barely hang out, even much less due to Covid.

The weirdest thing almost all the people I've had issues with are people I thought were pretty cool and/or shared a lot of common views.

So I can cut all ties to SM, but then I'll just have little-to-no communication with anyone. And not having any money and a broken console doesn't help matters.

I hear you. We're losing our (healthy) tribes and taking it's place are these toxic tribes. I don't have the answer but experiment, experiment, experiment.
 

#Phonepunk#

Banned
hahah it sucks. i don't even want to lurk on lefty boards anymore. i can't read the fucking AV Club.

oh well, that stuff sucks anyways. maybe i should spend more time being creative, writing music, or play videogames.

social media is a waste of time. it's like going swimming with psychic vampires.
 
Email
Skype
Phone calls
get a dog, go outside and walk it.

If you come to the conclusion it's the only way to communicate, then you need to get off it.
My one and only good friend I have but outside of hanging, we don't talk a lot. He's going crazy as it is from not being able to go out to his casino due to Covid and he has a live-in girlfriend and enough money from his tenants to keep him comfortable.

He's talking about going on a staycation close to my birthday in September, taking me and his girlfriend, but only if the bars reopen which looks unlikely.
 

Elcid

Banned
My one and only good friend I have but outside of hanging, we don't talk a lot. He's going crazy as it is from not being able to go out to his casino due to Covid and he has a live-in girlfriend and enough money from his tenants to keep him comfortable.

He's talking about going on a staycation close to my birthday in September, taking me and his girlfriend, but only if the bars reopen which looks unlikely.
I'll be your friend. Just don't send me pics of your dick and we're good.
 
One of my friends sends me screenshots of his Facebook arguments way too often.

I'll tell you what I don't have the heart to tell him - No one else gives a flying fuck. Reading paragraphs of social media bickering is potentially the last way anyone would ever choose to spend their time.
Cool.

Well maybe you should be more of a "friend" and tell them since you seem to have the heart to tell me.

Even better, you can actually ignore my posts or even 'me' if you wish, unlike you can do with your friend.
 
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TaySan

Banned
One of my friends sends me screenshots of his Facebook arguments way too often.

I'll tell you what I don't have the heart to tell him - No one else gives a flying fuck. Reading paragraphs of social media bickering is potentially the last way anyone would ever choose to spend their time.
Hey it could be worse...
it could be hentai unsolicited >.> Otaku friends. Keep your porn to yourselfs
 
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I_D

Member
One of my friends sends me screenshots of his Facebook arguments way too often.

I'll tell you what I don't have the heart to tell him - No one else gives a flying fuck. Reading paragraphs of social media bickering is potentially the last way anyone would ever choose to spend their time.


Sending pictures of arguments is definitely weird.
But you're also posting on a forum which is rife with disagreements, so that's a bit ironic.




OP, I check Facebook like once every month/two months or so.
Once you realize that 99% of the people on there are people you haven't actually seen since you were in high school, it gets really easy to just let it all go.

The people who actually mean something to you are already in contact with you. There's no need to pay attention to the rest of them.

It really does make life a hell of a lot simpler and more relaxed.
 

MilkLizard

Member
Only social media i use anymore is Era and GAf. I stopped using my facebook because my feed was always filled with people spewing toxic trash and it wasn't worth my time or mental energy fighting with people when it's not going to change anything or make me feel any better.

I cut a good amount of friends, but i don't regret it.

You literally called me a Loser on Resetera for speaking my mind about Robert Trumps funeral you spineless little cunt. :messenger_tears_of_joy:
 

Mistake

Member
I don’t use twitter anymore. I tried Parler for a bit, but that was actually too right for my taste. Like “no mandatory vaccines! No masks!” type stuff. I gravitate to places with people I think I could sit down and drink a beer with, whether I agree with them or not.
 

Halcyon

Member
I basically use Facebook to share family pictures but I rarely engage in discussion outside of people I know. There's a few groups I post in but it's more just when I'm bored.

Reddit I have basically a handful of interest related subs that usually don't get political that I check(plus porn).

I still think Instagram is my most used but it's really just to look at watches and clothes and gear and reinforce my buying decisions(plus fat asses).
 

Mahadev

Member
I didn't use to consider reddit as "social media", more like a collection of forums. But, of course, the San Francisco degenerates managed to turn it into another cancerous social media shithole where fun and rationality go to die within just a few years.
 

nkarafo

Member
The internet became toxic the moment it became mainstream. Social media definitely helped bring all the karens, soccer moms, normies, dumb teenagers, etc.

I mean, it was still somewhat toxic back in the late 90's when nerds only had access to it but we could control it just fine.

Man, i miss the days when the internet was this mysterious, inaccessible place for 99% of people.
 
The internet became toxic the moment it became mainstream. Social media definitely helped bring all the karens, soccer moms, normies, dumb teenagers, etc.

I mean, it was still somewhat toxic back in the late 90's when nerds only had access to it but we could control it just fine.

Man, i miss the days when the internet was this mysterious, inaccessible place for 99% of people.
Then setup Tor and get off the normal mainstream internet... good luck avoiding CP sites tho lol
 

Yoda

Member
I was never big into FB, I use to be big w/Reddit and Twitter. Twitter was the first to go for me, around 2017 I couldn't handle every other "conversation" devolving into a toxic mess. I had always avoided the default dubs on Reddit as those went to shit a long time ago, but now even more niche subreddits have authoritarian moderators, goons who manipulate post ranks, and forced injections of politics into subs which have NOTHING to do w/politics.

I think our society is changing for the worst w/social media.
 
Reddit and Twitter are the cancer of the internet. I will never fucking touch Twitter but I only touched Reddit in the cute animal sub reddit and the games I like to play. Most of the post were people just sharing their love for the game or posting funny ass vids.
 

Kamina

Golden Boy
Did you file your taxes yet, OP?

Reddit and Twitter are the cancer of the internet. I will never fucking touch Twitter but I only touched Reddit in the cute animal sub reddit and the games I like to play. Most of the post were people just sharing their love for the game or posting funny ass vids.
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