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Pro Tips for Life

Ikael said:
I consider that fashion is utterly stupid and that taking care for dressing is one of the most worthless and boring activities know to man, but even I have to recognice that these advices are spot on, people with sexual insecurities be dammed.
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Worthless is incorrect. When you dress well, you also instill confidence in yourself, and others will be more confident about you. You will also radiate that confidence from you and people notice that. The term "Dress for Success" does stand.

Most successful people dress well.
 
radiantdreamer said:
Worthless is incorrect. When you dress well, you also instill confidence in yourself, and others will be more confident about you. You will also radiate that confidence from you and people notice that. The term "Dress for Success" does stand.

Most successful people dress well.
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Yeah, they always say "don't judge a book by its cover" but it's just natural to do so. We can tell a lot about a person by their exterior. First impressions certainly count so it would only help to make it a good one.
 
Nocebo said:
Yeah, they always say "don't judge a book by its cover" but it's just natural to do so. We can tell a lot about a person by their exterior. First impressions certainly count so it would only help to make it a good one.
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Not only that, but when you wear good clothes, you DO feel more confident in yourself and your abilities. Things that you thought you couldn't possibly do (due to low self esteem or whatever), you suddenly feel like you're worth a million bucks, and can do more than you thought. And with that, you do project more than what your clothes are showing. You're basically confirming what your clothes are showing, and your clothes are confirming what you are feeling.

You know those makeover shows like What Not to Wear and Style by Jury? You can just tell from the expression on their faces and how they carry themselves totally differently, and all it was is a change of clothes.
 
I think that you are mistaken cause and effect: sucessful people tends to wear nice clothes, but clothes does not make sucessful people (Bill Gates doesnt dress exactly like an trendsetter savant).


Worthless is incorrect. When you dress well, you also instill confidence in yourself, and others will be more confident about you.
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Ok, I must admit that I have a personal, visceral hate to all things clothing, but I shall not let it cloud my judgement. I am an extremely insecure person, so hell, why not trying it? Still, It is not as if I havent dressed well before (suit, silk tie, and all that jazz), but ok, I will try to do it more frequently and see if it affects my behaviour somehow beyond some first minutes of amusement (never noticed anything more beyond that).
 
Ikael said:
I think that you are mistaken cause and effect: sucessful people tends to wear nice clothes, but clothes does not make sucessful people (Bill Gates doesnt dress exactly like an trendsetter savant).
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I'm not saying that clothes make successful people. I am saying that clothes make you feel more confident in yourself and your abilities, and also how people see you in that regards.

Buying the right clothes is a START to becoming successful. It's not a cheat code.

Confidence CAN lead to success. People don't become successful and then dress well. It's always dressing better first.

Bill Gates knew what he was doing, and he DOES dress appropriately. If he showed up to work wearing sweat pants, I doubt he would have become successful, and I'll bet his confidence would take a hit too.

I think you're confusing dressing "fashionable" with dressing "appropriately".

In terms of your insecurities about yourself, it really depends on what those insecurities are. Do you think that if you fixed your hair better, wore more fitting clothes, that people would listen to you more? If you can look in the mirror and say "hmm, nice." then you're well on your way. If you answered no to these, then you're doing it wrong.
 
Physicians say if a patient argues with you, it's a good sign. It means they want to stay under your care, but have concerns. Most people that leave for another doctor will quietly say "fuck this" and leave.

Apply this to life as your feel appropriate.
 
Never tell secrets to honest people or blabbermouths. Liars make the best keepers of personal information.

Never date overly attractive people. All other guys/girls will want to get in her/his pants. Also, there's a better chance of them being shallow.

Don't be a know-it-all. I don't know about you, but I hate people that always have to be right.

Never overestimate anyone. Always expect the worst of them. Then they can only exceed your expectations.

No, not reading books is not cool. Being ignorant is not something to be proud of.

Never doubt yourself. You'll only look back on your life and regret not taking chances.

Time spent wishing is time wasted. Nobody's life is perfect, so go out there and make something of yourself.

Hanging posters of anime girls with big tits in your room is creepy. As are half-nude anime figurines. Most girls don't like these things. Don't act so surprised no girls will date you.

If you want to succeed find ONE thing you're good at and practice every day. Don't be a jack of all trades, master of none.

Don't take yourself too seriously. Be able to laugh at yourself. Have a good sense of humor about your misfortunes.

If a friend is really, really angry at you for something you did, odds are it's only because they care about your well-being.

Money/electronics/cars/big houses can't take the place of true accomplishment of friendship. Success isn't about the size of your bank account.

Jealousy and pity are a waste of time. Nobody can say they're better or worse off than anybody else.

Try not to hold grudges. It's easier on both parties to just forgive and forget. No unnecessary drama and stress. (I wish I could follow this one better than I do.)

Everything is fine in moderation. Don't do anything in excess and you'll lead a better life.

When it comes to friends, quality is better than quantity. It seems to me people with lots of friends can tend to lose themselves easier.

Take advice from NeoGAF users.with a grain of salt. Seriously.
 
if your starter is crapping out, you can give it s couple good taps with a hammer and it will probably work.

dont be shy, hit the motherfucker.

this is ghetto science.
 
EricDiesel said:
Hanging posters of anime girls with big tits in your room is creepy. As are half-nude anime figurines. Most girls don't like these things. Don't act so surprised no girls will date you.
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So true...

But please read: http://radiantdreamer.wordpress.com/2008/03/01/are-you-a-hentai-otaku/

Protip - When you stop hearing complaints from people about what you're doing wrong, or you stop getting advice from people on how to do it right, it means they've given up on you. That's the worst place you want to be in.
 
Don't carry a weapon that you can not confidently use.

DON'T

And often times, carrying a gun will just get you shot.
 
Captain Awesome said:
Fashion Pro-Tips for Men:
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All the above shit is gay (not in gay is bad, but gay is not what real guys should do...)
Oh wait. he did gave some good points:

A great dealbreaker to avoid: Your whole outfit looks great until your pants come off and you're wearing shitty beat up worn out underwear underneath your clothes. Don't skimp out and get those 8 packs of cheap shit. Respect your junks.[wash them well]


Throw out your shitty old beat up shoes. They kill any outfit, and people DO notice. Get new shoes that match with your wardrobe and take care of them. People WILL notice.

But...even when you have expensive new shoes and they look like this:
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you still look shitty

I mean come on. Women go all out to look good. nails, hair, scarf. Most guys don't notice or don't care, they(the ones with titties) still look good no matter what they do. But if you can't even show up in public without guys thinking you look like some Euro-fag with wing tips and rocca wear, and dirty high raincoat over internet "meme" tshirt, you need to rethink your style...


whoops. this is a shit idea also:
If you want to succeed find ONE thing you're good at and practice every day. Don't be a jack of all trades, master of none.

life is not only being good at 1 thing
 
sasimirobot said:
All the above shit is gay (not in gay is bad, but gay is not what real guys should do...)
Oh wait. he did gave some good points:

A great dealbreaker to avoid: Your whole outfit looks great until your pants come off and you're wearing shitty beat up worn out underwear underneath your clothes. Don't skimp out and get those 8 packs of cheap shit. Respect your junks.[wash them well]


Throw out your shitty old beat up shoes. They kill any outfit, and people DO notice. Get new shoes that match with your wardrobe and take care of them. People WILL notice.

But...even when you have expensive new shoes and they look like this:
Skull%20wing%20tip%20shoes.jpg


you still look shitty

I mean come on. Women go all out to look good. nails, hair, scarf. Most guys don't notice or don't care, they still look good no matter what they do. But if you can't even show up in public without guys thinking you look like some Euro-fag with wing tips and rocca wear, and dirty high raincoat over internet "meme" tshirt, you need to rethink your style...


whoops. this is a shit idea also:
If you want to succeed find ONE thing you're good at and practice every day. Don't be a jack of all trades, master of none.

life is not only being good at 1 thing
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Who the fuck cares what the GUYS think? You care what the GIRLS think, right?? (unless you're gay).

You do not succeed in life, so you have nothing to say. No contribution? GTFU.
 
Its funny how your fashion sense changes as you get older... I mean I still rock chucks and a hoodie from time to time but when I go out I tend to dress a bit classier. Loafers can do a lot for you man.
 
sasimirobot said:
All the above shit is gay (not in gay is bad, but gay is not what real guys should do...)
Oh wait. he did gave some good points:

A great dealbreaker to avoid: Your whole outfit looks great until your pants come off and you're wearing shitty beat up worn out underwear underneath your clothes. Don't skimp out and get those 8 packs of cheap shit. Respect your junks.[wash them well]


Throw out your shitty old beat up shoes. They kill any outfit, and people DO notice. Get new shoes that match with your wardrobe and take care of them. People WILL notice.

But...even when you have expensive new shoes and they look like this:
Skull%20wing%20tip%20shoes.jpg


you still look shitty

I mean come on. Women go all out to look good. nails, hair, scarf. Most guys don't notice or don't care, they(the ones with titties) still look good no matter what they do. But if you can't even show up in public without guys thinking you look like some Euro-fag with wing tips and rocca wear, and dirty high raincoat over internet "meme" tshirt, you need to rethink your style...


whoops. this is a shit idea also:
If you want to succeed find ONE thing you're good at and practice every day. Don't be a jack of all trades, master of none.

life is not only being good at 1 thing
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Eurof*g huh?

Also, while I agree the shoes are ugly, I don't agree with your "advice".
 
DY_nasty said:
Its funny how your fashion sense changes as you get older... I mean I still rock chucks and a hoodie from time to time but when I go out I tend to dress a bit classier. Loafers can do a lot for you man.
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I've noticed this too, even as I've gone just from early 20s to later 20s. Back when I was 23 I was wearing stuff from Buckle all the time. Nowadays I just don't feel right in those clothes.


Also, lol @ being a "eurofag" for dressing nicely. (although there are some guys who try just a little too hard)
 
demon said:
I've noticed this too, even as I've gone just from early 20s to later 20s. Back when I was 23 I was wearing stuff from Buckle all the time. Nowadays I just don't feel right in those clothes
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Question is if it's genuine change of style, or just social pressure and standard which make you automatically look for more mature clothes as you get older.

Also funny is how no matter how much you say you don't, you are influenced by fashion. I don't mean everybody "hops on" a fashion trend, but those trends do shape your views on what is considered nice clothes, even if it takes some years.
 
sasimirobot said:
uh. you miss the whole point really...
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I bet they do sk8erboi_94_xxx_666

Really, most of those tips are good, and those shoes will certainly give a better impression than DC's in most cases.

Anyway, the only part that is not true is the one about hair gel, well unless you mean specifically hair gel as in Walmart Hairgel, because if you know how to do it with either wax/better gel/anything else, it actually helps a lot.
 
Since we're on hair and stuff...

Black men, keep a fresh cut. And when it comes to pants, a little bagginess is okay (I kind of need it to feel comfortable tbh), but pull your pants up. Seriously.
 
While there is a certain truth to the whole "dress appropriately" advice, I do believe there is a point where you are taking it too far. And matching you wallet to you belt and shoes is certainly past that mark.
 
What a great thread...

Here's a quote that I really try to live my life by:

"The only limits we have, are those we give ourselves."

Think about it.
 
If you are angry DON'T throw your mp3 player... they break easily

And really don't throw it 10pm on black friday after all the stores are closed, along with their sales

I'm speaking from experience here, take my workd to heart!

Oh, and everything about too much sleeping being bad is WRONG. Sleep is soo greatzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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TRY NEW THINGS CONSTANTLY, that goes for tv shows, food, games, girls, sports etc. And go in with an open mind.

Its crazy how one minute you will think something is stupid and the next minute its your favorite thing ever.
 
joshuagor44 said:
Any tips for making yourself want to study?
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go to the library with all your books, take half an Adderall

Edit: my tip,

change your approach to women based on their menstrual cycle. If you know they are ovulating act like a tough guy, if they're menstruating act like a nice guy.
 
genjiZERO said:
go to the library with all your books, take half an Adderall

Edit: my tip,

change your approach to women based on their menstrual cycle. If you know they are ovulating act like a tough guy, if they're menstruating act like a nice guy.
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I've heard this for a while, but i have never been able to apply it because i can't figure out how i'm supposed to know. How can you tell? Pretend to drop something at her feet and take a big sniff while bending down?
 
The Question Mark said:
Really?
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hair gel, maybe. Not all products. Hair gel generally makes your hair really stiff and is normally used for very douchey hair styles.
 
If there's one thing I've learnt, it's you should never grow up completely. Act like a kid whenever you are able to... not necessarily by acting immature, but allow yourself to look at the world with a sense of childlike amazement and curiosity. Take pleasure in the small things. Treat everyone you meet like they're your best friend. Act like you don't have a care in the world. Don't forget how to have fun!
 
Witchfinder General said:
Read this:

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You will find yourself handling situations better.
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Yes, this is HIGHLY recommended. In conjunction, you should also read this:

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You'll find yourself more focussed on disciplining yourself to achieve greatness.
 
Captain Awesome said:
Fashion Pro-Tips for Men:

Avoid the classic male trap of trying to get a whole new wardrobe in one outing. You'll end up with a bunch of shit you won't like down the road. Instead, learn to shop like a girl. Go shopping and try things on, but only buy one, maybe two items per pay period. That way your wardrobe is CONSTANTLY updated, and you only end up with things you really like.


When you're evaluating a new piece of clothing, don't get it because it looks cool by itself. Mentally go through your closet and see what you already own that would work with it. A pimp-ass jacket that clashes with 90% of your wardrobe is useless to you. Get items that compliment your existing wardrobe.


If you're on the fence about a particular item, ask yourself this: If it cost twenty bucks more than it currently does, would I still want it? If the answer is no, put that shit back.


Ask attractive women for recommendations for clothing stores. They know what looks good. When you get to the stores they recommend, go up to the hottest girl working there and ask her to help you put together a good looking outfit. Girls love to play dressup, they will go nuts and love you, and you'll walk out of there looking good. While we're on this topic, just take girls clothes shopping with you. They love that shit, seriously. And they'll usually steer you in the right direction (usually, use common sense for god's sake.)


At least once in your life, go get a manicure so that you'll know what your fingernails SHOULD look like. Chicks notice these things because they pay attention to THEIR nails.


Go to an upscale salon and get a male hairdresser. Women will cut your hair to make you look safe. A man will cut your hair to make you look dangerous. Also, hair gel is for douche rockets.


Have more than one scent of cologne. Variety is the spice of life. And avoid cheap shit. Go to upscale department stores and see what they recommend, then get a tester, hit your wrist with it, and see what people think of it on you.


Throw out your shitty old beat up shoes. They kill any outfit, and people DO notice. Get new shoes that match with your wardrobe and take care of them. People WILL notice.


I really shouldn't have to say this but make sure your shoes match your wallet match your belt... and while we're there, anything beyond a bifold wallet is too thick.


A great dealbreaker to avoid: Your whole outfit looks great until your pants come off and you're wearing shitty beat up worn out underwear underneath your clothes. Don't skimp out and get those 8 packs of cheap shit. Respect your junks. Dress them well.
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What the fuck is this? Only follow this if you are a homosexual.

And gel does not make you a douche rocket. I use it all the time.
 
salva said:
What the fuck is this? Only follow this if you are a homosexual.

And gel does not make you a douche rocket. I use it all the time.
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:lol :lol :lol :lol

sorry, I can't stop!! :lol :lol :lol

protip : if you want your significant other to play video games with you, play cooperative multiplayer games like Rock Band and Halo.
 
salva said:
What the fuck is this? Only follow this if you are a homosexual.

And gel does not make you a douche rocket. I use it all the time.
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Most of your posts I've seen lately indicate you have very little experience with women. So what do you know?
 
Its women's role to stress about how they dress, look, and smell. Leave that to chicks. Fuck the aforequoted advice. Girls arent attracted to guys because they dress well, they are attracted to guys because they either treat them like shit or are hanging out with other girls that make them jealous.
 
Trevor360 said:
Its women's role to stress about how they dress, look, and smell. Leave that to chicks. Fuck the aforequoted advice. Girls arent attracted to guys because they dress well, they are attracted to guys because they either treat them like shit or are hanging out with other girls that make them jealous.
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This is also true. But for those of use who don't have the personality of an alpha male orangutang, fashion also works wonders.
 
Captain Awesome said:
Fashion Pro-Tips for Men:

Avoid the classic male trap of trying to get a whole new wardrobe in one outing. You'll end up with a bunch of shit you won't like down the road. Instead, learn to shop like a girl. Go shopping and try things on, but only buy one, maybe two items per pay period. That way your wardrobe is CONSTANTLY updated, and you only end up with things you really like.


When you're evaluating a new piece of clothing, don't get it because it looks cool by itself. Mentally go through your closet and see what you already own that would work with it. A pimp-ass jacket that clashes with 90% of your wardrobe is useless to you. Get items that compliment your existing wardrobe.


If you're on the fence about a particular item, ask yourself this: If it cost twenty bucks more than it currently does, would I still want it? If the answer is no, put that shit back.


Ask attractive women for recommendations for clothing stores. They know what looks good. When you get to the stores they recommend, go up to the hottest girl working there and ask her to help you put together a good looking outfit. Girls love to play dressup, they will go nuts and love you, and you'll walk out of there looking good. While we're on this topic, just take girls clothes shopping with you. They love that shit, seriously. And they'll usually steer you in the right direction (usually, use common sense for god's sake.)


At least once in your life, go get a manicure so that you'll know what your fingernails SHOULD look like. Chicks notice these things because they pay attention to THEIR nails.


Go to an upscale salon and get a male hairdresser. Women will cut your hair to make you look safe. A man will cut your hair to make you look dangerous. Also, hair gel is for douche rockets.


Have more than one scent of cologne. Variety is the spice of life. And avoid cheap shit. Go to upscale department stores and see what they recommend, then get a tester, hit your wrist with it, and see what people think of it on you.


Throw out your shitty old beat up shoes. They kill any outfit, and people DO notice. Get new shoes that match with your wardrobe and take care of them. People WILL notice.


I really shouldn't have to say this but make sure your shoes match your wallet match your belt... and while we're there, anything beyond a bifold wallet is too thick.


A great dealbreaker to avoid: Your whole outfit looks great until your pants come off and you're wearing shitty beat up worn out underwear underneath your clothes. Don't skimp out and get those 8 packs of cheap shit. Respect your junks. Dress them well.
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This is so awesome it has to be on every page of this thread.

For those who go "OMG WTF diz iz gayz", every wondered why ladies like to hang out with stylish, cool gays? Right.

They also like to hang out with cool guys who follow this advice, regardless of your orientation.
 
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