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background: My SO have been dating for two and a half years long distance. The majority of the time she was working at a Canadian Dollar Store Chain as a keyholder(below manager and assistant manager, but above regular employee) while I've been going to university. She decided to move to the city where I'm going to Uni, and I came back after the summer and we got a place together. She decided it would be easier to transfer to another store here, and have more guaranteed hours compared to a random retail/restaurant gig until she found another job. We both thought this would be a reasonable plan so we'd have some stability while living together for the first bit.


Now this store's management seems a lot shittier than her previous store and is making her depressed. She wanted to walk out, and quit a lot earlier then we both expected. I talked with her and thought it would be best to just wait it out until we find her another job, and in the meantime try to find other places to work,and update her resume.

The management belittles their employees, has inefficient methods compared to her old store, and makes them work long shifts if they can't get their monstrous amounts of work done. The store has trouble retaining employees and lots have just walked out. They only have one other person who is in her position, because they keep losing employees. It's been making my gf really stressed and she's fearing for her health.

She couldn't take it after meeting the manager(around week 2),so I helped make her resume, and made up a two-week notice letter and she handed it in yesterday(the third week she's been there). I thought a two-week notice was standard, and that they would be more professional about it. The manager seemed okay at first and took it well, but the next day he was giving her hell about it. He was even trying to harass her while she was on her lunchbreak about her leaving and she was not able to properly relax, and blurted out that she intended on leaving the company anyways. Now the management seems to dislike her even more, and she's afraid they're going to just make the next two weeks hell for her. The management doesn't seem to be responding professional as I expected.

With our finances, I'm going to be having our housing paid with the utilities for the next 10 months(government funding), and she has a little more then $10k saved up, while I have $4k saved up while making $700 a month. Our essential expense will be food, and I'm willing to be on a tighter budget for her health. Should she just walk out of her job since her employer doesn't seem to be professional about it, and my SO's being put under extreme stress?

TLDR My gf is fearing for her health due to a toxic work environment. She handed a two-week notice and the management is being dickish to her. We should be fine financially. Should she just walk out of the job?
 
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If she can't handle two weeks of dickhead bosses she's going to have a hard time out in the world

She should suck it up, especially with an end in sight.
 
She should walk out. It doesn't sound lIke they would be good references anyway given what's happening.

Years ago, I worked at the same job for 7 years and in the final year it became unbearable. I eventually just walked out on the job, no 2 weeks or anything. Best decision of my life. I hate to say it, but leaving them hanging after being flat out disrespected by shitty bosses FELT SO GOOD.

By the way, and it sucks, but she should prepare for asshole bosses wherever she goes.
 
I've put up with terrible work environments for better (on paper) jobs than retail, and it absolutely wasn't worth it. Took an enormous toll on my well being.

Putting up with all that for a retail job? Fuck that. You guys seem to have the finances to ride out things while she looks for something else so it's probably best she bails imo.
 
Just personally, I would feel weird about handing in a two weeks notice and not honoring it, especially since a) that screws over the other employees (you mention this new store only has one other keyed employee?) and b) it basically spits in management's face if you intend to use them as a reference. I wouldn't normally say retail is so high stakes that you can't leave immediately, but if she's looking at other (non-entry) retail gigs, a recent reference would be very helpful.
 
TLDR My gf is fearing for her health due to a toxic work environment. She handed a two-week notice and the management is being dickish to her. We should be fine financially. Should she just walk out of the job?

Just walk. Its not like having a dollar store as a reference is going to help her career long term. Your girlfriend should write HR an email explaining why she isn't coming in so its official and they know about the manager.
 
Hostile work environment, send a letter to her HR rep and explain due to the nature of the harassment, your GF will not be working there anymore.
 
If she can't handle two weeks of dickhead bosses she's going to have a hard time out in the world

She should suck it up, especially with an end in sight.

Congrats, this may be the stupidest post I've read all year. No wonder everyone hates their jobs, they listen to idiots telling them to suck it up instead of not being belittled and abused by people.

You, I like you.

Suck it up and work through the 2 weeks. 10 business days. That's all it is, unless there is also work on the weekend, then 11/12 days. Whatever.

Life was not meant to be easy. Tell her to put on her big girl pants and soldier on until her final day. If kids as young as 15 can do it when working at McDonald's, then anyone can do it.

Why? It's a shit retail job that is meaningless and pays probably nothing but you still have to be condescending about "big girl pants"? If she can make it until the end fine, if she can't fine. The job is meaningless and they don't need the money so......?
 
She needs to take advantage of the situation and just not give a fuck. The store is understaffed and the boss is probably freaking out because he needs her. What's the worst he could do, fire her? She just needs to come in do her job and let whatever they say go in one ear and out the other. Just nod her head and keep it moving.
 
TLDR My gf is fearing for her health due to a toxic work environment. She handed a two-week notice and the management is being dickish to her. We should be fine financially. Should she just walk out of the job?

Depends on if she wants to keep the option of ever working for that chain again open. A lot of retailers keep company-wide files on former employees, including statements as to whether or not they should be re-hired. Walking out is sometimes enough to land you on a "Do Not Re-Hire" list.
 
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