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Realpic Gaf |OT| January 2016 edition [Shocking revelation post #11890]
- Thread starter Lucian Cat
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Caffeine
Sounds like you are going to the right place
Today is my day for fixing the sleep schedule as well so I will be drinking a lot of coffee,
Silphonica
Banned
in 28 hours from now i will be back in work.
but i could fall asleep now, maybe just a little nap and lots of wine when i do wake up will help.
but i could fall asleep now, maybe just a little nap and lots of wine when i do wake up will help.
Cocaine
At around hour 10 do a speedball.
trab pu kcip
Member
haha! nice! good luck man!
also dating related question to the guys of Real GAF:
so pls tell me: isn't inviting a girl to a sauna like...a terrible & super obvious date idea, considering the lack of clothing? or would you say it's a normal move to you?
haha! nice! good luck man!
also dating related question to the guys of Real GAF:
so pls tell me: isn't inviting a girl to a sauna like...a terrible & super obvious date idea, considering the lack of clothing? or would you say it's a normal move to you?
I've never asked a girl out and then picked a sauna. That'd be a new one.
haha! nice! good luck man!
also dating related question to the guys of Real GAF:
so pls tell me: isn't inviting a girl to a sauna like...a terrible & super obvious date idea, considering the lack of clothing? or would you say it's a normal move to you?
I suppose it'll depend on the person's cultural background and whether saunas are a regular thing for him.
Well, then I am different.
fengshuifever
Member
haha! nice! good luck man!
also dating related question to the guys of Real GAF:
so pls tell me: isn't inviting a girl to a sauna like...a terrible & super obvious date idea, considering the lack of clothing? or would you say it's a normal move to you?
Bold. Creative and bold.
that is so strange. Points to the dude for creativity though!
I think it's more finnish, I dunno. But when I think sauna I think Finland.
kommen in die sauna mit mir.
trab pu kcip
Member
Thats super weird. Like how is a sauna a date
thanks, this is supporting the initial idea I had about this.
it's not haha^^ Germans are usually very reserved with this kinda stuff on dates. plus he isn't even German.
hmm I don't really think it has any cultural background to him
a bit too bold for my tastes. but yeah I guess it's something new at least^^'
He just wants to get you into that sauna, I guess. Bring mace.
Silphonica
Banned
Not for the first couple of weeks of dating. After that though, it's not such a bad idea I think, I haven't done it myself but if it is like a spa thing, sauna, steam room, swimming pool jaccuzzi and massages in a place thats not terribly busy. You get to relax, chill and shoot the shit with each other. Not only that but I think in an atmosphere with that if you are comfortable together it'd be a good place to have some solid conversation with each other, more so than trying to say "hes trying to see me close to naked". I think netflix and chill is much more obnoxiously in the latter camp, since it's now become with synonymous with trying to get laid. Not saying sauna & spa wouldn't increase sexual tension given the circumstance, but sexual tension done right is good.
Anyway, the gods of listened, groceries arrived 90 mins early! advocados are smaller than I imagined, pretty disappointed with that.
trab pu kcip
Member
haha oh god, this is probably his inspiration.
oh I guess I'll pass on that entirely.
oh yeah in a relationship (or after some more time has passed) it's something different. but I only saw this guy like two times...both within one week too. seems like he's in a real hurry^^
haha! nice! good luck man!
also dating related question to the guys of Real GAF:
so pls tell me: isn't inviting a girl to a sauna like...a terrible & super obvious date idea, considering the lack of clothing? or would you say it's a normal move to you?
If this was a first date/early date, the suggestion would weird me out. I'd assume the dude wants my clothes off and to leer at me. Even if that wasn't the case, it's an odd choice if you want to get to know a person. Just sounds awkward all around.
man guys are so lame. hahahha. fuckin sauna date on date 3.
Silphonica
Banned
well just decline and ask to do something else, see his reaction, if he seems annoyed about that then there you go, intentions revealed.
trab pu kcip
Member
thanks! these were my exact thoughts too
see.
I already did and he agreed. but on the basis of all this I'm not really interested in seeing him at all anymore I guess. even on "normal" dates he was quite forward. meh.
Drink plenty of water. Take a walk. Think about our cosmic insignificance.
You know, standard stuff.
Well, being that I currently live in Florida, I'd question the wisdom of any man who thought a sauna was a good idea here regardless.
As a date, though? Especially when it concerns a woman I hardly know?
Yeah, no, dude's probably just thinking he's clever for cultivating an ingenuous method of inconspicuously urging you to take clothing off. Maybe I'm wrong, but I'd be surprised if I were.
Above all else, it seems like a terrible method of getting to know a person. I'd much rather ask a woman to a coffee shop or a park or something. Somewhere we can speak, not... bathe...
what the heck
You probably listed the top three things in my life, yeah.
trab pu kcip
Member
lol
you guys are right though... I should probably start asking people for cheese maybe that way I will finally meet a decent man.
Don't forget to ask for tweezers first.
Not least of which because I wish I had a do-over where I had those too.
Silphonica
Banned
I'm not going to judge the guy, because I honestly don't know how he acted or who he is as a person to say for sure. So many factors. Like if he is inexperienced at dating then it doesn't define him as a person, he might also be acting out of character, which is the biggest problem I see guys have. They don't just act like themselves, and it's very easy to do.
They do what they think the girl would like, rather than what their first original ideas where. Not that means anything about you, but theres two camps of girls when it comes to that.
Some girls like wild spontaneous ideas that don't seem date normal, generally quite like things to move quickly. And other girls who like to go at a slow pace. My ex gf now, we went pretty quick off the bat, don't think she was into going that fast. I just got so wrapped up in being excited about it, it never bothered me. Relationship lasted half a year. Then the first girl I dated after it ended I took things more slowly. Didn't kiss until the 3rd date after spending a long nice day out at sushi, walks on the beach and visiting city spots at 4am when noone was around. It was very chill, and I thought I was doing good. No subsequent dates after that because that was the opposite of what she wanted. It's not her fault, no two girls are the same and a lot of guys are trying fit a nonexistent mould rather than just be themselves. I was left scratching my head, like u fukken w0t.
He could be an pushy ass, but thats only an assumption at this point. You can never really know for sure. But if you've lost attraction to him, then so be it, it's not a big deal anyway.
Good post, yo. I can't help but agree with it, or at least the gist of it.
see.
I ain't taking you to no sauna, don't blame me
trab pu kcip
Member
you're right...not every guy is a greedy sex-monster right off the bat, it all depends on the character and the situation etc. ...+I don't even blame people who just want quick sex, I get that, it's just usually not for me. that being said I even told him that things were way too fast for me and just left it there. that was before the sauna incident so I kinda feel like I was talking to a brick wall or something at the time haha. that's certainly not the kind of slowing down he promised. other stuff happened too that just make him come off as really needy, that's a turn off in itself :l I don't even think he's a bad guy, but like you said if I already lost interest because of his actions it doesnt matter anyway.
just thinking of a way to break it to him now @_@
not blaming you, but I think we had a brief conversation here last time about how men were disposable or not. not RPG men of course, we agreed on that!
"Things are moving too fast.." "Let's go to the sauna."
Also I think most guys are greedy sexy monsters, some just have more taste and impulse control than others.
if we're being serious this is kind of my line of thought, but I'm a ball buster + I naturally talk down other guys to women
trab pu kcip
Member
just wrap your FBI jacket around her shoulders and it's done.
CarlieCaplin
Member
Almost! It's actually Schmetterlingseffekt. (Or did I miss some inside joke?)
What you wrote means "smash-left-effect". Small change, huge impact.
need me to pack the speedball
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