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or, How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Realize This Assgrab is Delicious
This whole "rape" line of discussion keeps going well for Dawkins. He should keep it up ;P
People are often moronic about things that are not their expertise.He's smart as whip, although he can be incendiary. There's nothing moronic about him.
He didn't say "some forms of rape are worse than other forms of rape"; he said "date rape is bad" and "stranger rape at knifepoint is worse," which is a dumb reduction. How bad a particular rape experience is depends upon the victim and exactly what happened; you can't make axiomatic statements about "date rape" being worse than "stranger rape at knife point," especially since he's clearly eliding over the violence (or the similar implicit threat of violence) that can just as easily occur on date rape.
Because his entire point is that you can think two things are bad, but one can be worse. He wasn't making a blanket statement about every case of rape.
You are right that rape experience 100% depends upon the victim and circumstances. But date rape usually involves date rape drugs and usually it's no longer called date rape when it becomes a violent attack. When a boyfriend spikes his girlfriend's drink without her knowledge and no signs of violence, that is usually termed date rape. When he violently attacks her at home it's just called rape. Although every situation is different.
As for him not being able to speak in any informed capacity about rape, that would also include 90% of the general population and the majority of those who criticise him. But I think he is entitled to an opinion and as a human being he is able to empathise, in his mind he is thinking one outcome would be worse if it were to occur to either him or those close to him. You have got to think about your own daughter and your wife.
He error was in thinking that as a man, he could quantify the experience of female rape victims.
It's a stupid comparison, with lazy logic and rationalization. Both are awful. A knifepoint rape you might die if you fight back or he might kill you anyway. A date rape (assuming he means drugged here) you can't fight back against, he might kill you anyway, and you might have serious effects from the drugs. Both rapes are going to have serious psychological repercussions, though date rape could actually be worse long term on knowing the perpetrator and being more difficult to prove depending on how things the crime was committed. It's not something you can rank and give modifiers like violent, serious, mild, etc. All rape is a violent act in some form, and all rape is serious.
As Mumei said, the idea that some rapes affect people in a worse manner (and might therefore be deemed a "worse" rape) is reasonable. Saying that "date rape is bad, but stranger rape is worse" isn't incorrect because it raises that possibility, but because it suggests that whether or not you know the perpretrator of rape is a consistently important quality in affecting the victim's experience (to the point where even a broadly general statement can be made), which simply isn't the case.
Rape is not a matter of degrees.
Woah, how did this thread turn into a discussion about the current Israeli/Palestinian conflict? Guess I should go back and read the prior pages.
Everything can be placed in a matter of degrees, rape with the threat of violence (and thus possible death) is clearly worse than rape without any threat of violence. That is a fact. If you think that is somehow an endorsement of rape or a statement that is somehow inflammatory then you just go to prove the point.
We cannot start segmenting personal tragedies such as this into 'bad' and 'worse' categories. They're horrific, full logical stop. This reminds me of Whoopi's infamous 'rape' and 'rape-rape' differentiation. Even if Dawkins is not meaning to, he's assigning a difference emotional value to the two forms of rape which could cause some to feel delegitimized in their feelings.
I think even if you limit the analogy to "ceteris paribus, rape with threat of violence is worse than rape without the threat of violence" it's silly because that's simply not an analogy you encounter in reality.
How severely getting raped affects a person isn't just dependent on how severe the act itself was. The victim's psyche itself and the victim's condition and experiences before that are factors, the reactions and treatment the victim receives by friends, family, law enforcement (if involved at all) is a major factor too.
Correct me if I'm wrong but the best analogies are supposed to make you grasp a concept through real life examples, right? Well with this analogy I just don't think that's the case because even if you clearly state that "all other things remain the same" they just do not remain the same in real life.
So yes, logically it's sound. However it looks at rape in a bubble, offers us no real insight and is insensitive towards rape victims.
Here's my problem, putting date rape consistently on the sliding scale of "not as bad as other rapes" is a really shitty thing to do considering how prevalent it is. Not to mention a lot of victim blaming results from the very idea that if it's something sort of stranger rape a person invited it. So it'd be nice if people like Dawkins just kept their damn mouth shut about rape.
I don't think there's anything rational about the claim that date rape is less bad than stranger rape
No, I'm not. What is the evidence to suggest that stranger rape is worse than date rape? The evidence proffered, as far as I've seen, has been based in uninformed stereotypes about what date rape is versus what stranger rape is, despite the fact that in actuality the thread of violence is implicit in date rape just as it is in the "stranger rape at knifepoint" example that Dawkins gave. It doesn't matter if he says you can reverse it; he still needs to support it.
The argument that emotions cloud your judgment is fine; I'm aware of that and I've been aware of it after the fact. But you can't pretend that the objections to the specific analogy he used are entirely due to emotionalism, without at least explaining why one is worse than the other.
No. It isn't. Consider two cases I have come across.
One - recent ex-boyfriend rapist, threats of violence and death, some actual violence enough to amount to aggravated assault but the victim knows the guy enough to know the threats are unlikely to come to anything. Nasty episode. Broken bones. Police called eventually, support sought, evidence taken, conviction got, good ongoing support, got on with life.
Two - sexually abused in-family from age 6, raped from age 11 knowing full well there is no escape for another six or seven years and faced with the perpetrator across the dinner table every damn day.
It is not clear at all which is worse.
I see where Dawkins is coming from, but I don't think he saw where he was going to.
Response to a bizarre Twitter storm
This morning (29th July 2014) I posted three tweets together, making a simple logical point. It seemed barely plausible that such an obvious point needed making, but the subsequent tsunami (as one tweeter called it) of agonised attacks, not only on Twitter but in some blogs and even some newspapers, actually demonstrated the opposite.
My first tweet set out the logic without any specific example. It’s hard to imagine anyone objecting, and I don’t think anybody did:-
X is bad. Y is worse. If you think that’s an endorsement of X, go away and don’t come back until you’ve learned how to think logically.
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I fleshed it out with two examples:-
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I should of course have said RELATIVELY mild. Obviously I don’t think any pedophilia is mild in an absolute sense. But I presume most victims would agree that being touched by an adult hand (though very unpleasant, as I know from my own childhood experience) is RELATIVELY speaking not SO unpleasant as being violently penetrated by an adult penis. But the logical point is, or should be, uncontroversial: no endorsement of the less bad option is implied.
My second hypothetical example, which caused most of the trouble, was this:
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In both my hypothetical examples, I made the mistake of forgetting to put quotation marks around the hypothetical quotations. The second one, for instance, should be amended to
“Date rape is bad. Stranger rape at knifepoint is worse.” If you think anybody who said that would thereby be endorsing date rape, go away and learn how to think.
Actually, it’s rather plausible that some people might find date rape WORSE than being raped by a stranger (let’s leave the “at knifepoint” out of it). Think of the disillusionment, the betrayal of trust in someone you thought was a friend. But my logical point remains unchanged. It applies to any hypothetical X and Y, which could be reversed. Thus:-
“Being raped by a stranger is bad. Being raped by a formerly trusted friend is worse.” If you think that hypothetical quotation is an endorsement of rape by strangers, go away and learn how to think.
I wasn’t even saying it is RIGHT to rank one kind of rape as worse than another (that caused an immense amount of agony and a scarcely creditable level of vitriolic abuse in the Twittosphere). You may be one of those who thinks all forms of rape are EQUALLY bad, and should not, in principle be ranked at all, ever. In that case my logical point won’t be relevant to you and you don’t need to take offence (although you might have trouble being a judge who is expected to give heavier sentences for worse versions of the same crime). All I was saying is that IF you are one of those who is prepared to say that one kind of rape is worse than another (whichever particular kinds those might be), this doesn’t imply that you approve of the less bad one. It is still bad. Just not AS bad.
I was only talking logic, with no desire to make light of the seriousness of any kind of rape or any kind of pedophilia. And the hypothetical comparisons that illustrated my logical point could, in all cases, be reversed without in any way changing the validity of the logic.
-Richard
His point was only ever to defend his comments about the Sam Harris blog post about the Israel/Palestine conflict. The sequence went something like this:
Blog post: "Israel is bad, Hamas is worse. See ISIS in Iraq as an example of what would happen if Hamas wins."
Dawkins: "Saying that Hamas is worse than Israel is not an affirmation of support of Israel."
Internet: "How can you support Israel in a time like this?"
Dawkins: "Saying X is not as bad as Y is not the same as saying X is good. To make that leap is illogical."
Internet: "Bwah?"
Dawkins: "Awkward rape and pedophilia analogies designed to bring about an emotional response."
Internet: "Fuck you."
Rape is rape is rape
Trying to quantify and compare the shittiness of a rape is a stupid thing to do. No judge (hopefully...) is looking at a rape case and is thinking "Well, this maybe qualifies as more of a Magnitude 2 rape than a Magnitude 3, soooo I dunno..."
Eh, not a fan of Dawkins and I can kinda see his point... but I'd argue the emotional distress of someone you trust taking advantage of you is hardly something to view as 'the lesser of two evils.'
Pretty much. He is the Ultimate Logic Man who doesn't understand people have valid feelings about things.Also what's even the fucking point. Rape across all categories is terrible, why do we need to compartmentalize them and add varying degrees of evil to them?
Rationalist logic vs. Emotional logic.
Internet is always Emotional.
He lost the battle in advance.
Even after all these pages it's still entertaining to watch posters flail about and claim Dawkins or anyone suggested logic dictates how types or conditions of rape are ranked relative to one another. If this is your takeaway, you haven't looked into any of this adequately or perhaps have simply failed to understand it.
Haha, he should play dota, he'd fit right in with a lot of pubs out there. "Wasn't me that did anything wrong, everyone else is just a moron!"
An articulate, well thought out explanation and that's all you can muster up in response?
I gave it the response I felt it deserved.
I wonder how quick you'd be to defend his point if it had been made by a Republican senator from the South...
I can confidently say that wouldn't dissuade me.
Why did it deserve that response? What is wrong with his explanation?
That's great for you, but I've been involved in a few too many debates about Richard Dawkins on the internet to know that typing out a long response wouldn't be worth it to me. Other posters on this page have responded to his post better than I did, go talk to them.
He purposely used emotional heated analogies to drive home a point. People focusing on the emotions rather than the point.
No one has typed a response to his explanation but you. Your unwillingness to engage in discussion and justify your post isn't surprising.
Ah excuse me, I didn't realize he typed out multiple responses. Regardless, I'm still not taking your bait, have a nice day.
An articulate, well thought out explanation and that's all you can muster up in response?
What if the dying men were Beethoven, Shakespeare, Einstein and Martin Luther King? Would it be then right to sacrifice a man who is homeless and friendless, dragged in from a ditch?
Ah yes, the bait of disagreeing. How dastardly. Why are you here, in a discussion forum, if discussion scares you? In the future make sure you have at least enough confidence in what you post to stand up to even the mildest of criticism and questioning.
TL;DR - I'm trolling, and i'm GODDAMN GOOD AT IT.Dawkins said:To quote one blogger, prominent in the atheist movement, ‘What would have been wrong with, “Slapping someone’s face is bad, breaking their nose is worse”? Why need to use rape?’
Yes, I could have used the broken nose example. I accept that I must explain why I chose to use the particular example of rape. I was emphatically not trying to hurt rape victims or trivialise their awful experience. They get enough of that already from the “She was wearing a short skirt, I bet she was really begging for it Hur Hur Hur” brigade. So why did I choose rape as my unpleasant hypothetical (in both directions) rather than the “breaking someone’s nose” example? Here’s why.
I hope I have said enough above to justify my belief that rationalists like us should be free to follow moral philosophic questions without emotion swooping in to cut off all discussion, however hypothetical. I’ve listed cannibalism, trapped miners, transplant donors, aborted poets, circumcision, Israel and Palestine, all examples of no-go zones, taboo areas where reason may fear to tread because emotion is king. Broken noses are not in that taboo zone. Rape is. So is pedophilia. They should not be, in my opinion. Nor should anything else.
I didn’t know quite how deeply those two sensitive issues had infiltrated the taboo zone. I know now, with a vengeance. I really do care passionately about reason and logic. I think dispassionate logic and reason should not be banned from entering into discussion of cannibalism or trapped miners. And I was distressed to see that rape and pedophilia were also becoming taboo zones; no-go areas, off limits to reason and logic.
“Rape is rape is rape.” You cannot discuss whether one kind of rape (say by a ‘friend”is worse than another kind of rape (say by a stranger). Rape is rape and you are not allowed even to contemplate the question of whether some rape is bad but other rape is worse. I don’t want to listen to this horrible discussion. The very idea of classifying some rapes as worse than others, whether it’s date rape or stranger rape, is unconscionable, unbearable, intolerable, beyond the pale, taboo. There is no allowable distinction between one kind of rape and another.
If that were really right, judges shouldn’t be allowed to impose harsher sentences for some rapes than for others. Do we really want our courts to impose a single mandatory sentence – a life sentence, perhaps – for all rapes regardless? To all rapes, from getting a woman drunk and taking advantage at one end of the spectrum, to holding a knife to her throat in a dark alley at the other? Do we really want our judges to ignore such distinctions when they pass sentence? I don’t, and I don’t think any reasonable person would if they thought it through. And yet that would seem to be the message of the agonisingly passionate tweets that I have been reading. The message seems to be, no, there is no spectrum, you are wicked, evil, a monster, to even ask whether there might be a spectrum.
I don’t think rationalists and sceptics should have taboo zones into which our reason, our logic, must not trespass. Hypothetical cannibalism of human road kills should be up for discussion (and rejection in my opinion – but let’s discuss it). Same for eugenics. Same for circumcision and FGM. And the question of whether there is a spectrum of rapes, from bad to worse to very very much worse, should also be up for discussion, no less than the spectrum from a slap in the face to a broken nose.
Lol. "Is torture ever justified tho???? Think about it!!! Have you guys heard of Kant?" No, Dawkins. No it isn't. Shut up.
Are you fucking serious? What a putz. This isn't about logic and emotion, this is about I have the powers of reason to answer this question: the answer is--categorically--"no". When he asks "Is eugenics ever justified?", I'm not letting emotion cloud my mind when I say "no" and walk away making farting sounds. Some questions are easy to answer.
And in any case, exactly all of this blog post is him missing the reason why people pushed back against his statements anyway. He's fighting strawmen here. "Oh you know, those women folk, always letting their feeling get in the way of their brains. Good thing I'm so clever and brave." --Dick D, 2014. Instead of considering that so many people reading something differently than he meant it indicates his own failure to articulate, he continues to insist that it's everyone else's fault for not being logical.
Also he says "Or is there a slippery slope that we should consider? Which again, I will answer in one word and walk away blowing raspberries: "no". I thought you were some king of Logic, Dawkins. Slippery slopes aren't a thing.
And he goes on to misquote himself.
So, great. Thanks Dicky D for being a stand up guy.
Hey, updates on his twitter. He's further discussing this! there's even a post up on his site.
https://richarddawkins.net/2014/07/...-go-areas-where-logic-dare-not-show-its-face/
(Unless my adblock is malfunctioning, there's no ads on the site, so don't go "I don't want to give that site clicks")
Although, it's basically a rant on "I try to point to the moon, and fools complain my finger is dirty", completely missing the point again.
I don't think this can't be intentional. Dawkins knows the internet like the back of his hand - And knows that stirring up the beehive that is the twitter\tumblrsphere generates a lot of attention.
Probably the most relevant part:
TL;DR - I'm trolling, and i'm GODDAMN GOOD AT IT.
Note: Trolling -> voluntarily triggering emotionally driven over-responses.
Hey, updates on his twitter. He's further discussing this! there's even a post up on his site.
https://richarddawkins.net/2014/07/...-go-areas-where-logic-dare-not-show-its-face/
(Unless my adblock is malfunctioning, there's no ads on the site, so don't go "I don't want to give that site clicks")
Although, it's basically a rant on "I try to point to the moon, and fools complain my finger is dirty", completely missing the point again.
I don't think this can't be intentional. Dawkins knows the internet like the back of his hand - And knows that stirring up the beehive that is the twitter\tumblrsphere generates a lot of attention.
Probably the most relevant part:
TL;DR - I'm trolling, and i'm GODDAMN GOOD AT IT.
Note: Trolling -> voluntarily triggering emotionally driven over-responses.
Lol. "Is torture ever justified tho???? Think about it!!! Have you guys heard of Kant?" No, Dawkins. No it isn't. Shut up.
And in any case, exactly all of this blog post is him missing the reason why people pushed back against his statements anyway. He's fighting strawmen here. "Oh you know, those women folk, always letting their feeling get in the way of their brains. Good thing I'm so clever and brave." --Dick D, 2014. Instead of considering that so many people reading something differently than he meant it indicates his own failure to articulate, he continues to insist that it's everyone else's fault for not being logical.
Why are you singling me out? I just scrolled down the last page over a ton of similar drive by posts as I made. You have no response to them, but continue to pester me to elaborate on my opinion like I'm writing an essay for school or something.
My problem is not his logic, but his use of a rape analagy. An obvious tactic to get people upset and cause controversy. And he got exactly what he wanted and now he gets to write a response on HuffPost and get a shit bunch of attention. He's a professional troll, so I rolled my eyes at him, that's it. Now please leave me be.
I think people assuming that Dawkins thought any at all about the message he was sending on rape are mistaken. He blindly grabbed at what he thought would be the highest emotional effigy he could use and set it aflame in order to prove a point he could have made without shitting on years of academic thought on rape in American society.
That said, his point was perfectly valid.
Dear Muslima
Stop whining, will you. Yes, yes, I know you had your genitals mutilated with a razor blade, and yawn don't tell me yet again, I know you aren't allowed to drive a car, and you can't leave the house without a male relative, and your husband is allowed to beat you, and you'll be stoned to death if you commit adultery. But stop whining, will you. Think of the suffering your poor American sisters have to put up with.
Only this week I heard of one, she calls herself Skep"chick", and do you know what happened to her? A man in a hotel elevator invited her back to his room for coffee. I am not exaggerating. He really did. He invited her back to his room for coffee. Of course she said no, and of course he didn't lay a finger on her, but even so
And you, Muslima, think you have misogyny to complain about! For goodness sake grow up, or at least grow a thicker skin.
Richard
What the hell was his point with that shit. Is that real?
I really dislike people like that. Not because they think logically, but I notice many of them are just incredibly, incredibly selfish, self-centered people. Most of them only think about their own feelings and emotions when they do things. However, the moment they're asked to consider anyone else's feelings, it becomes "herp derp but logic."
Exactly.
Like I wrote above, I have a strong dislike of people that attempt to dismiss others with "psh, logic." I understand there are a very small number of people out there that actually are not capable of feeling any emotion, including happiness and pleasure. I will bar those from this.
I find that many people with the "but it's logical" POV are incredibly self-centered, selfish, egocentric individuals that only care about their own feelings. However, the moment they are asked to consider anyone else's feelings, or to think about how their actions have affected other people, they rebuttal by fervently clutching onto the "BUT LOGICCCCCCC" refrain.
It's funny that so many of these people claiming to self-model after Spock don't actually have the capacity to be truly logical. Spock always acts logically to suit the interest of all, but these people only act logically when it suits their needs and interests.
Yes. Despite his intelligence and positive attributes, he is undeniably sexist.
Your focus on the subjects of these hypotheticals only really serves to prove his point. He didn't write an article discussing if torture could be justified or if eugenics could ever be accepted.
No, he addressed that specifically. The whole thing is addressing a problem he believes exists in society currently where topics are considered taboo and emotion shuts out discussion. He assigns the blame for those reactions to that problem, not misunderstanding a point he articulated poorly. That's his whole argument and precisely why he chose the topics he chose to include in his analogies.