Uchigatana
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It's on my mind for a while now, and I am trying to comprehend the situation. I never understood why some people can be taciturn and have a major attitude problem at the same time. Recently, I was stuck with this one guy in a group project. My group had to do come up with a cyclic menu and food budgeting for a local Elementary school. My group did some brainstorming, and my group had trouble coming up with ideas. Then the aloof guy finally spoke up and gave his suggestion. His idea sounds great and the professor approved his suggestions. Afterwards, I gave him a gratitude for coming up with great suggestions on the project. However, he responds with a discontent look, and said, "don't give me that crap" and looks at his phone afterwards.
At first, I would assume that he had a bad day. As the days go by, his negative attitude is very consistent. Normally, I would shrug it off and work on the group project. However, It's not just my university where I dealt with people like my classmate. Even in a workplace environment, working with someone with an aloof personality, it's like I'm in lose-lose situation. When things need to be done, I get that nasty vitrol just from working along side "that" co-worker even though I'm just doing my job. How the hell some people can tolerate with others who are so distant and bitter? Despite having a common goal, the person's vitrol personality can really rub me the wrong way.
At first, I would assume that he had a bad day. As the days go by, his negative attitude is very consistent. Normally, I would shrug it off and work on the group project. However, It's not just my university where I dealt with people like my classmate. Even in a workplace environment, working with someone with an aloof personality, it's like I'm in lose-lose situation. When things need to be done, I get that nasty vitrol just from working along side "that" co-worker even though I'm just doing my job. How the hell some people can tolerate with others who are so distant and bitter? Despite having a common goal, the person's vitrol personality can really rub me the wrong way.