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Should I be worried here?? (potential affair)

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maharg said:
Er, I know the thread has moved on from this point but... When my phone's text message inbox is full, I delete all messages from people other than my wife first. It doesn't seem particularly strange to me at all.
Yeah, I delete messages from anyone who isn't my girlfriend as a priority.

Also, what's the outcome of this one - I don't have enough time to run through it all but would love a summary.
 
I usually delete all the messages in my inbox if the phone gets slow.

But anyway, op is a pussy and the wife is taking advantage of him.
 
OP hasn't logged into GAF since his last post.

...what to think...what to think...
 
RubxQub said:
OP hasn't logged into GAF since his last post.

...what to think...what to think...

oh shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit. This has the potential for epic!

My prediction, even if he doesn't find out now, since the OP seems to have this love/hate relationship with his wife and with himself, he'll eventually read through all these replies again, get worried, take some of our advice and make a new thread within the next 3 months.
 
This thread is pretty fucking depressing since i lived through this almost exactly.

To the OP, she is lying to you. I was in the exact same situation, but unlike you i found proof of her lying a.k.a. the text logs. At least i wasn't married to her.
 
TONX said:
This thread is pretty fucking depressing since i lived through this almost exactly.

To the OP, she is lying to you. I was in the exact same situation, but unlike you i found proof of her lying a.k.a. the text logs. At least i wasn't married to her.

This is the ONLY course of action. Text Log Crusade '08
 
ScientificNinja said:
Jesus Christ what an enormous clusterfuck...
Why stop at his previous threads? I clicked a random page of his post history... Ended up at "Do you get angry easily, like me?"

Over this past year I've developed a real short fuse. One time (this past Christmas Eve) at a Circuit City, I was walking out of the store and some old dude didn't see me and almost hit me. I proceeded to take off my jacket throw it on the ground and call this dude a fuckin asshole for a few mintues and egged him on to get out of his car, and then I said "Stay in your fuckin car or I swear to god I will fucking kill you"

If shit doesn't go my way I punch walls, and break shit. Sometimes when my dogs are bad, I don't even feel right saying this, but sometimes I'll lift them up by their neck and put them against the wall and tell them "You do that one more time I'll fucking kill you".

Before this past year I had a mild temper, now I feel like I'm gonna self destruct any time now.
Oh yeah I forgot to add that I was on meds for mental issues, until one day I had a breakdown and I was walking in circles in my parents back yard stripping my clothes off and crying. True story.
(Quoted the entire posts. Didn't want to selectively quote things out of context. Still feel guilty for going through his post history looking for things to post though.)
 
TONX said:
This thread is pretty fucking depressing since i lived through this almost exactly.

To the OP, she is lying to you. I was in the exact same situation, but unlike you i found proof of her lying a.k.a. the text logs. At least i wasn't married to her.


So was she just chatting about cheating or had she actually cheated? Still got the logs?
 
Tntnnbltn said:
Why stop at his previous threads? I clicked a random page of his post history... Ended up at "Do you get angry easily, like me?"



(Quoted the entire posts. Didn't want to selectively quote things out of context. Still feel guilty for going through his post history looking for things to post though.)

holy fucking shit. Guy is fucking looney tunes.
 
Jesus... this thread proves that I need to do a "background check" on situations like this before I start posting. Some CRAZY shit going on here...

My initial advice still makes sense despite what I've learned through posting history, but my responses after the fact could have been toned down a bit.

...fuckidy shit.
 
RubxQub said:
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Why are there coloured stickers on the inside parts that never face the outside?
 
Tntnnbltn said:
Why are there coloured stickers on the inside parts that never face the outside?
...you've just blown my mind. I had no idea :lol

Edit: NOW IT'S ALL I SEE! WHY DON'T THE COLORS EVEN MATCH WTF?!?! You've ruined my life Mr. Voweless...ruined it.
 
ScientificNinja said:
Jesus Christ what an enormous clusterfuck...


No kidding. The GAF detectives didn't have to go far on this case.

She might just be looking for some advice for dealing with a crazy man. Or maybe she is enjoying communicating with a man who is not insane. Either way, this is a fucked up marriage/situation. If I was the OP, I would be looking in the mirror before lashing out at the wife. If his post history is just a glimpse at what it is like to be in his shoes, I can't imagine what it is like to be in her shoes living with that.

His quick acceptance of her excuse for the texts makes alot more sense now.
 
RubxQub said:
Edit: NOW IT'S ALL I SEE! WHY DON'T THE COLORS EVEN MATCH WTF?!?! You've ruined my life Mr. Voweless...ruined it.
:lol :lol

(If you watch it going in the correct order (with the blue face becoming more complete), then the inside face is the same colour as the outer face of the square which is about to be moved in front of it)
 
OP, please update. Gaf is worried about your situation and I've personally invested a lot of time and effort into reading the posts, clicking the links, and re-reading your old posts, so please do not let me down. I humbly ask for an update.
 
dskillzhtown said:
No kidding. The GAF detectives didn't have to go far on this case.

She might just be looking for some advice for dealing with a crazy man. Or maybe she is enjoying communicating with a man who is not insane. Either way, this is a fucked up marriage/situation. If I was the OP, I would be looking in the mirror before lashing out at the wife. If his post history is just a glimpse at what it is like to be in his shoes, I can't imagine what it is like to be in her shoes living with that.

His quick acceptance of her excuse for the texts makes alot more sense now.
That's exactly what I was thinking!! Good god, I wonder why his wife is still with him!
 
ilanna said:
That's exactly what I was thinking!! Good god, I wonder why his wife is still with him!


she's a WoW addict, so they're probably meant for each other
 
ilanna said:
That's exactly what I was thinking!! Good god, I wonder why his wife is still with him!
Didn't you read the old threads? He pays all the bills, does all the cleaning and shopping, and takes care of her dog that he hates while she hangs out and plays WoW all day...

...and fucks other men.
 
I AM JOHN! said:
Didn't you read the old threads? He pays all the bills, does all the cleaning and shopping, and takes care of her dog that he hates while she hangs out and plays WoW all day...

...and fucks other men.

Are we still supposed to rate his life?
 
Tntnnbltn said:
This potential affair is gonna influence his metacritic average.
But will it be a positive or a negative?

Snaku said:
So why do we not have a Star Trek gif yet?
I would be amazed if there was a scene in Star Wars that could capture this. But, there is only one person that would know.
 
I AM JOHN! said:
Stand and be counted.

I'm for hearing more of the story but definitely against his life.

Shit is pathetic, God damn.

I don't know how to score that. I guess the entertainment value is astronomical but the mechanics are terrible and the framerate is shit.

6.1
 
eznark said:
I'm for hearing more of the story but definitely against his life.

Shit is pathetic, God damn.

I don't know how to score that. I guess the entertainment value is astronomical but the mechanics are terrible and the framerate is shit.

6.1
But clearly you are forgetting that the characters, while unappealing, do speak to us of the greater weakening of the human spirit in the face of a culture that puts too high a value on ones own happiness. Clearly, the director aspired for greatness that he was unable to attain, and I believe that it is worth a 6.5, at least.
 
mysticstylez said:
Over this past year I've developed a real short fuse. One time (this past Christmas Eve) at a Circuit City, I was walking out of the store and some old dude didn't see me and almost hit me. I proceeded to take off my jacket throw it on the ground and call this dude a fuckin asshole for a few mintues and egged him on to get out of his car, and then I said "Stay in your fuckin car or I swear to god I will fucking kill you"

If shit doesn't go my way I punch walls, and break shit. Sometimes when my dogs are bad, I don't even feel right saying this, but sometimes I'll lift them up by their neck and put them against the wall and tell them "You do that one more time I'll fucking kill you".


Before this past year I had a mild temper, now I feel like I'm gonna self destruct any time now.



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crowphoenix said:
But clearly you are forgetting that the characters, while unappealing, do speak to us of the greater weakening of the human spirit in the face of a culture that puts too high a value on ones own happiness. Clearly, the director aspired for greatness that he was unable to attain, and I believe that it is worth a 6.5, at least.

undeveloped, of course we haven't really finished it yet, so I'm only judging what I've seen so far. The inevitable "girl-age" thread of depression and self inflicted razor cuts that will be the follow up will probably drop this life into the 5's.


Before this past year I had a mild temper, now I feel like I'm gonna self destruct any time now.

classic cuckold
 
GHG said:
The second one just makes me :lol :lol :lol .

Oh and mystic. Just confront your wife about it properly. What I mean is lay it all out infront of her and see what she comes up with then. You need to find out WTF is going on. Its not good for either of you if your ass is being played, especially if you're married.

Just don't lift her by her fucking neck, pin her against the wall and tell her you'll fucking kill her.
 
crowphoenix said:
That is true. I hope the OP and wife are ok.

If you look through his post history (yes, I'm avoiding work that much), he seems pretty adverse to suicide.

However, he did say it took balls to stand up to life's problems. He obviously doesn't have any of those.
 
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