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[Yoshichan]

Your story is similar to my situation, I broke with my girlfriend (of only 2 months) yesterday for real because she fucked me over. I'm a jealous guy, but my instinct is always spot on, one day I checked out his phone and read a few messages that hurt me (with her ex). She lied to me saying it was just a friend, a few weeks later we run into this guy at a party and shit hit the fan, I knew there that it was her ex and everyhing made sense. Also, I couldn't trust her anymore which led me to hack her FB (I know, I went too far) and I saw even more stuff. We talked about it and we both forgive each other but it wasn't the same anymore. The relationship wasn't healthy anymore, we fought all the time, it went to shit. My advice: find new pussy.

Sorry to hear that it ended up shitty.

edit: how does one end up looking at your partners phone anyway? Doesn't it have a passcode?

 

[Frank Zappa]

Your story is similar to my situation, I broke with my girlfriend (of only 2 months) yesterday for real because she fucked me over. I'm a jealous guy, but my instinct is always spot on, one day I checked out his phone and read a few messages that hurt me (with her ex). She lied to me saying it was just a friend, a few weeks later we run into this guy at a party and shit hit the fan, I knew there that it was her ex and everyhing made sense. Also, I couldn't trust her anymore which led me to hack her FB (I know, I went too far) and I saw even more stuff. We talked about it and we both forgive each other but it wasn't the same anymore. The relationship wasn't healthy anymore, we fought all the time, it went to shit. My advice: find new pussy.

That's basically me (except the hacking thing). I read her messages on her phone.

 

[Wanace]

I'm 35 and single dude, don't give up. I feel the same as you but you've got plenty of time.

And definitely use that store credit to buy yourself and any female family members something nice to make yours and their day.

 

[Nibel]

Oh, shit. I feel so fucking embarrassed right now.

I mean, is not like I can't get girls. Is just that I'm fucking sick and tired of dating. I'm 30. I want a partner, a family.

Fuck her.

And yet you act like you are 60 already

You're in your prime, and there will be always new and exciting stories waiting for you

 

[Fou-Lu]

So you bought her an engagement ring after she blocked you on Facebook and WhatsApp?

Or just after you broke up for the second time?

And then you spent 1,100 dollars on a ring?

The fuck? Are you handicapped?

They broke up a week ago, he bought the ring a few weeks ago.

 

[Frank Zappa]

So you bought her an engagement ring after she blocked you on Facebook and WhatsApp?

Or just after you broke up for the second time?

And then you spent 1,100 dollars on a ring?

The fuck? Are you handicapped?

We broke last week. I bought the ring like a month ago, back in April.

 

[Deleted member 102362]

I guess I will need to print this thread and keep it in the bathroom to read it every time I go. I don't want to do something stupid (well, besides creating this thread).

Nah, creating this thread wasn't stupid. It helped you make the right decision.

As for the ring, there's been some good advice given in this thread. You still have options.

Masturbating is like GAFs way of saying Hail Mary.

For your sinful thoughts, you must Masturbate 10 times.

:lol

 

[Frank Zappa]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

 

[Nibel]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

New place, new friends, new love brah

 

[Deleted member 102362]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

Go to a different bar?

 

[Revoh]

That's basically me (except the hacking thing). I read her messages on her phone.

are you me? The girl is also from the metal scene around here and she's gorgeous, guys can't stop hitting on her :S

 

[rtcn63]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

Considering your actions so far, I'd just stop going. You can't say for sure how you'll be when near her.

 

[Frank Zappa]

are you me? The girl is also from the metal scene around here and she's gorgeous, guys can't stop hitting on her :S

Yeah. Same situation here.

 

[Hoodbury]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

Go to a different bar for goodness sakes.

 

[Frank Zappa]

Go to a different bar for goodness sakes.

But there are only two metal/rock bars here. D:

 

[Yoshichan]

So, should I stop going to the bar for a few weeks to avoid her or should I go just don't give a fuck if I see her?

Bro. Go to the exact same place and feel the situation. If you notice something's happening (in this case, you making a stupid move), back the fuck off. It is at THAT point that you should go find a new bar.

 

[Frank Zappa]

I will go tomorrow to the bar (a band I want to see is playing tomorrow night) and I will be updating this thread with pictures and everything. I need GAF by my side.

 

[SuperAndroid17]

When you're in a on and off relationship...why did you buy an engagement ring?

She been seeing her EX-BOYFRIEND in the off time with you and removed you from her social media. You're done. She did you a favor.

You can do better and deserve better.

 

[OldKentuckyShark]

That's a horrible, horrible idea.
But if you do end up going through with it, please film it for us.

 

[Yoshichan]

) and I will be updating this thread with pictures and everything. I need GAF by my side.

Shit just got real. I'm loving it.

 

[Deified Data]

Not sure if serious, you're under the impression that diamonds are cheap?

Not cheap, he said abundant, which they are. Their prices are inflated to infer a false sense of scarcity which makes owning them prestigious. De Beers rigged the game in the 30's and we've all been playing along ever since. One of the most successful marketing campaigns of all time.

This article is good reading.

 

[Revoh]

Sorry to hear that it ended up shitty.

edit: how does one end up looking at your partners phone anyway? Doesn't it have a passcode?

It didn't have one. But after I told her that I checked her phone she activated it which made me even more paranoid :S
The one thing I said to her when we started was to respect each other and don't hide stuff from each other. She fucked up once, I forgave her, then she fucked up again so I kicked her ass.

 

[DoubleTap]

Just.Move.On.

 

[Frank Zappa]

I could have bought an Xbox One and a new guitar. Fuck.

 

[Devolution]

We had some trust problems. We used to date last year, but we broke up. We got back together back in February. We broke up because for two reasons: when we got back together, she went out on with his ex-boyfriend, but she didn't tell me. She told me last week. I didn't even get mad, just sad. Then I told her that I knew who this boyfriend was (she never told me). See, last year when we broke up, I started digging into her past (my mistake) and I found out who her ex-boyfriend was. So, she got mad at me for investigating her past.

And you want to get engaged to this person.

 

[gazele]

I could have bought an Xbox One and a new guitar. Fuck.

Can't you return it?

What made you buy an engagement ring if there were problems? Were you being pressured?

 

[ThatGuyAgain]

I will go tomorrow to the bar (a band I want to see is playing tomorrow night) and I will be updating this thread with pictures and everything. I need GAF by my side.

Oh yeah. Subbed

 

[Yoshichan]

It didn't have one. But after I told her that I checked her phone she activated it which made me even more paranoid :S.

The bolded part makes 100% sense. I would've gotten paranoid as fuck after that. It was a wrong move from her.

 

[Dai101]

Oh, shit. I just read what I wrote and it sounds awful.

You think?

 

[Frank Zappa]

And you want to get engaged to this person.

I'm weak. I think it was more because of her appearance. I mean, she is gorgeous. Tattoed body, long black hair (butt long)...

I'm weak, I know.

 

[Revoh]

I'm weak. I think it was more because of her appearance. I mean, she is gorgeous. Tattoed body, long black hair (butt long)...

I'm weak, I know.

Dude, DUDE. Where do you live?
I think we were seeing the same girl

 

[Yoshichan]

I'm weak. I think it was more because of her appearance. I mean, she is gorgeous. Tattoed body, long black hair (butt long)...

I'm weak, I know.

Dude, DUDE. Where do you live?
I think we were seeing the same girl

Holy shit.

 

[Devolution]

I'm weak. I think it was more because of her appearance. I mean, she is gorgeous. Tattoed body, long black hair (butt long)...

I'm weak, I know.

Well do you want a hot fiance who treats you like dogshit?

 

[Spinluck]

Onto the next girl OP.

 

[Kieli]

If Revoh is the ex or Frank Zappa is the ex, oh god.

 

[Hoodbury]

Dude, DUDE. Where do you live?
I think we were seeing the same girl

You should both post the first name of the girl. Or initials or something.

 

[Frank Zappa]

You should both post the first name of the girl. Or initials or something.

OK. Her name starts with P.

 

[Revoh]

You should both post the first name of the girl. Or initials or something.

Adriana

 

[Yoshichan]

OK. Her name starts with P.

Moment of truth, right fucking here.
Edit:

Adriana

OH WELL.

 

[Frank Zappa]

Adriana

Patricia.

 

[Hoodbury]

OK. Her name starts with P.

Adriana

Aww shucks. That would have been fun.

 

[rtcn63]

I'm weak. I think it was more because of her appearance. I mean, she is gorgeous. Tattoed body, long black hair (butt long)...

I'm weak, I know.

Go to Nevada. Visit the Bunny Ranch. Find a prostitute that resembles her. Live out your dreams.

Or cheaper and requiring less effort, find a porn actress who does, and fap your nights away.

 

[Angry Grimace]

This sounds like the worst idea since showing up to a party with a boner in sweatpants.

 

[MilkBeard]

Ah, so you are the one who posted in the Relationship thread a while back. I remember I made a response and I said follow your gut, but I changed my mind. The more things you post, the more it seems like you and her just do not mix. I'm beginning to think that she's crazy, and you are of the hopeless romantic type.

Just let her go.

 

[adamsappel]

If you decide to keep the ring, keep it in a safe deposit box. I had a friend whose relationship got really serious because his casual girlfriend found a piece of jewelry. And don't ever mention it to the next woman you want to marry; they do not like the thought of you having bought it for someone else.

And I really like this specific kind of girls. Fuck.

You can't help it that you like tattooed metal chicks. It's science.

 

[Gorillaz]

Worst fucking idea ever.

Masturbate ten times before you make a decision.

this is actually a common response to relationship questions

 

[Zemm]

I've seen this in a Hugh Grant movie.

 

[Frank Zappa]

Well... I just got out of work. Right now I'm buying some tacos. I will then go to my house, masturbate, take a shower and go and see Godzilla alone.

Awesome Friday night.

 

[Deified Data]

Well... I just got out of work. Right now I'm buying some tacos. I will then go to my house, masturbate, take a shower and go and see Godzilla alone.

Awesome Friday night.

I agree. Godspeed.

 

[breakfuss]

Lolol, man GAF is cold. Never seeking relationship advice here.

OP, yes, it is a terrible idea (timing and place), but don't give up so easily if you truly want her. But don't drive yourself mad over something that wasn't good for you either. I'm just trying to say it isn't so black and white. Good luck.