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f0lken said:
thanks, i am in the bathroom, crying like a little baby, is a good thing I always take my time to shit, I needed this, I don't even have strenght to curse those bastards, just thinking on my sister who I love so much
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Don't put yourself down for feeling the emotion of this, this is some heavy shit, and you are strong as hell for even getting out of bed during this; not to mention keeping a brave face for your family. Of course you are going to terrified and upset. You are not a lesser person for giving in to those feelings when you need to. Don't let them build up and explode. Hide to cry if you have to, but don't bottle it up. Keep us updated for sure, my heart is breaking for you right now. Stay strong, you can do this. Just remember to breathe.
 
Christ, I don't know what I'd do if someone kidnapped my sister. I would simply be livid and broken. Stay strong, I'm very sorry and my thoughts go out to you and your family.
 
This is why I never visit my folks in Mexico anymore. It's just so dangerous these days.
Well, specifically those run by Narcos.
 
I am so sorry dude. Hope for the best for your family.

Hope they call you for an exchange or something. Stay as strong as you can, I know it's hard.
 
Damn. I hope to god that she is safe and returned to you and your family in one piece. Mexico really needs to sort itself out. The drug cartel problems, kidnappings, the violence. =(
 
This is fucking crazy dude. It is unbelievable the state Mexico is in. The Drug War alone is destroying that country.

I wish you all the best OP. I hope your sister is returned safely. If she is released but you discover she has been hurt, don't hesitate to go on the war path. I know I wouldn't.
 
Az said:
I am so sorry dude. Hope for the best for your family.

Hope they call you for an exchange or something. Stay as strong as you can, I know it's hard.
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that is the hardest part, even if is a cliche waiting for their call is consuming me inside, we are left with nothing just to raise their money and they can't even tell us when are they calling :(
 
It really is a nightmare to go through something like this, it happened a lot in Russia back in the early 90's. The problem is that paying money to scum will only encourage and finance them to continue their activity and as a result there will be more victims. They are the worst kind of parasites, literally worse than any other form of life on this planet.

Talking to the police is like playing the lottery and that's not an easy choice when the well-being of your relatives are on the line, I understand.

I hope that you can find strength to fight through this and that everything will turn out fine.
 
I hope this all works out. Times like this it really brings to home what goes on in the world.

IMO we should start a collection if the ransom is pretty high :-(
 
I'm an atheist, but things like this make me wish I believed there was an actual hell for people who do this to other people.

I hope everything works out for your sister and for your family, f0lken. Take care of yourself too. You can only be there for others if you leave some room for taking care of yourself.
 
Hope everything turns out okay for you in the end. So far, you've had better luck than we did when my uncle was kidnapped. Stay strong.
 
Fuerza paisano, no me imagino lo que debes sentir en este momento pero solo de imaginar algo así pasando en mi familia se siente de la chingada, dios quiera que todo salga bien y que tu hermana este pronto de vuelta y puedan olvidar este episodio lo antes posible.

Como paisano te lo digo de corazón que cuentas conmigo en lo que pueda ayudar, yo vivo en Tabasco, no se en donde vivas tu pero cuenta conmigo para lo que necesites.

Animo.
 
That's the reality of human trafficking, I would spread the word, and post pictures of her everywhere. Your sister might end up overseas, or across the border.

My thoughts are with you, and your family.

Whatever you do, don't give up, but don't do anything brash either, remember these guys are connected.
 
Sorry to hear that, man. I can't even imagine going through something like this (and you're quite strong to still be able to keep it together too).

God bless, and I hope everything turns out OK.
 
SMT said:
That's the reality of human trafficking, I would spread the word, and post pictures of her everywhere. Your sister might end up overseas, or across the border.

My thoughts are with you, and your family.

Whatever you do, don't give up, but don't do anything brash either, remember these guys are connected.
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This isn't quite human trafficking, this is kidnapping. the "rule" is if the victims loved ones pay a price, they get released. The OP is avoiding going to the police because the police have a track record of corruption in matters like these. They've raised the requested money and are waiting for a phone call telling them when and where to meet for the exchange
 
I can't imagine what that's like. My thoughts are with you and your sister. Stay strong, she'll need you when she comes home.
 
SMT said:
That's the reality of human trafficking, I would spread the word, and post pictures of her everywhere. Your sister might end up overseas, or across the border.

My thoughts are with you, and your family.

Whatever you do, don't give up, but don't do anything brash either, remember these guys are connected.
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It depends on the location and age. I am not familiar with the situation in Mexico but usually it is more likely that girls stolen in the countryside, from poor families, are shipped out.

If everyone contacted the police and posted pictures then there would be less incentive for scum to perform these acts but it's not an easy decision to make when it's your own relative.
 
Folks the best thing anyone here can do is just wish the OP and his family the best.

Trying to do some internet justice and whatnot is not exactly the smartest thing to do in these sort of situations where unnecessary pressure could put the victims life in danger. Which also can include the OPs.

So please do keep that in mind and am sure the OP understands the good will behind such notions, but lets just keep things to well wishes for the sake of the OP, his sister and family.

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With that being said do wish you luck and stay strong during this terrible ordeal.
 
I was eating with my family just now, they of course are sad, but it was a relief when my aunt said something funny and the table exploded in laugh, they needed that to free tension, never felt so bad to laugh but we needed it.
 
Ughhh sorry to hear that OP, this also just recently happened to my neighbors here at my office. His son was kidnapped in Morelia, it's a really sad, sad thing. Also happened to an old coworker I used to work with, his father owned a construction company and that is why he was targeted, he was eventually released but yeah they had to basically sell everything off. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.
 
SniperHunter said:
how old is op's sister? I am with the guy who said, it's time to spread the word asap.
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Yeah I don't think that helps in situations like this, it might even make the situation worse. There is a reason the OP won't say what state he is in.

To the OP: I'm incredibly sorry and hope that everything works out for you and your family.
 
My friend's sister went missing back like in 2008, it was pretty bad but they had a search party and sent out flyers for her. Eventually she was found. Try organizing a search party.
 
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