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Stuck in a dead end job...but with a twist

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In my early 20's like many recent grads and drop outs, I struggled to find a job in my field so I took the next best option which was a desk job while telling myself that I'd save up some money, go back and get a degree in something more useful and then leave.

So here's the problem:

I'm nearing my 30's and I'm still here. Why?

  • Job security is ironclad; it's a union job and unlike many unions in the modern world, mine is very strong.
  • Defined pension package.
  • Five weeks of paid vacation
  • For nine weeks out of the year, I switch to a four day work schedule while maintaining my five days of pay. I get to pick whether I have the Monday or Friday off.
  • I work in an industry where it's impossible for my job to be automated or outsourced because it can't be privatized nor can you outsource a government job.
  • If my employer deems my job to be no longer required, they have to find me another one. They can't decrease my salary for any reason even if it's for a job that is lower on the totem pole. So as an example, if they abolished my position and I was making $80,000 and the only thing they had for me was a custodian, they'd have to pay me $80,000 a year to clean toilets. That's an extreme example but that actually happened to one of the older employees that recently retired.
  • I have private access to a bathroom with a large shower.

Basically, it's very likely that I will never have benefits anywhere near this good again. The pay was average but my union recently negotiated a very good deal with my employer. Over the next three years, my salary will be going up by 5.5% per year for the first two years. In year three, it will go up by 2.5% + the rate of inflation as deemed by the government.

So here's the deal, I'm stuck in a pretty major dilemma that I will admit is entirely a first world problem but it's still a dilemma. Like the title says, it's a dead end job. Mobility is limited because of nepotism and seniority issues. It's also dead end in that it's a basic desk job that requires very little in the way of general skills so I'm not developing on a professional level. Now because of the new collective agreement, I will be overpaid to in addition to all of the bullet points above. I have no major debts and I don't have a family. The only obligation I have is a mortgage on my downtown condo. I get no fulfilment from my job but it affords me to explore my hobbies and interests more than the average person because I never have to take it home with me. The flipside of the coin is that because of the nature of how public service jobs work, the longer you're here the harder it is to leave because you leave a lot on the table for the unknown. I could find another job but I leave all of the above on the table. I could also go back to school and develop some skills but I'd have to leave my job.

My question to you guys is: What would you do in my shoes?
 
If you're making good money, I say fuck it and stay. You are already getting good benefits and what not. I would love to work a minimalist job.
 
To me it sounds like you have a pretty good job. Do you hate your job? If I was you, and I didn't hate it, I would probably stay.
 
Stay unless you hate what you do. Your job have many more benefits than a lot of other people, it's hard to say you can get something similar outside.
 
To me it sounds like you have a pretty good job. Do you hate your job? If I was you, and I didn't hate it, I would probably stay.

I don't hate it. Can't say I love it either. I think a good comparison would be it's like a class you have to take in order to graduate but not required for anything else. You're getting a B in it while putting minimal effort.
 
im kinda in the same situation, i got pretty decent job, make more money than most and im sure someone else would appreciate it more but it is killing me inside. im braindead between 10am and 6pm
 
It really depends on what you want to do with your life. If you're single and have a comfy nest egg, you could technically take a risk and go back to school and try to achieve something. If you enjoy your benefits, just think of the job as a means to an end, and just enjoy living.
 
Your job sounds perfect. Even a job you love you'll have a hard time loving it everyday, to be content and have great security sounds like you've pretty much landed on your feet.

You're unlikely to find something better unless you became a dentist or some something in the financial sector.
 
Do you have dreams/desires that you don't think you can do because of your job?
If so, consider your options, but consider them carefully.
If don't, I would stay, sounds like a pretty sweet deal. I wouldn't mess around with it because of this nebulous idea that your job must get better all the time or you're in a "dead end job".
Real job security and defined benefits are rare these days, and both are great perks I would not easily give up.
 
I don't hate it. Can't say I love it either. I think a good comparison would be it's like a class you have to take in order to graduate but not required for anything else. You're getting a B in it while putting minimal effort.

Is there something you actually want to do/pursue instead?
 
Are you genuinely happy or do you feel like you're legitimately wasting your working years?

Job security is nice but if you plan to stay for a good long while you should either expect to have a hell of a time when you want to switch, or be prepared to ride out this line of work for the rest of your working life. If you're not at all comfortable with the latter I'd lay the groundwork for an exit strategy sooner rather than later.
 
Give us a hint OP. Which industry?

I work in the public sector. My job is your stereotypical government peon type job that right wingers characterize as low effort and overpaid. In my case it happens to be true but it's not typical of all jobs in my field. I see some of my co-workers stress out sometimes.
 
You would? Why?
There are scores of people working and going to school with much less free time than you claim to have.

Seriously.

I work in the public sector. My job is your stereotypical government peon type job that right wingers characterize as low effort and overpaid. In my case it happens to be true but it's not typical of all jobs in my field. I see some of my co-workers stress out sometimes.

Just tell us the job, if it is the public sector there are a hundred like you out there so it isn't something anyone can narrow it down to find you personally.
 
Seems like you have plenty of free time to pursue something fulfilling, get another degree or start a side business that you love.
 
While other people are developing professionaly to get a job like that, you already have it. You're on a gravy train with biscuit wheels.
 
Overpaid for your position, 5 full weeks off in addition to 9 four-day weeks (for a total of 34 guaranteed work days off a year), yet you can't take all that free time and extra money you have and apply it to something that's more fulfilling in your spare time, something you more than have the opportunity for at your current job.

What would make you happy?
 
Haha sounds pretty comfy there but I understand that it is a dilemma nonetheless.
Can I suggest that you thoroughly and patiently ask yourself what you would have regretted more five or ten years from now? Does your passion for education and career exploration out weigh your comfort in your current position?
Think about future you and do what you'll thank yourself for. Best luck, OP.
 
Sometimes a job is just a means to an end. It's a pretty recent concept that a job has to be fulfilling, AFAIK. Read a book like Die Broke - he discusses how your job is just for generating cash. Use that to have a kickass life with your ridiculous amount of vacation and low friction 9-5.
 
Overpaid for your position, 5 full weeks off in addition to 9 four-day weeks (for a total of 34 guaranteed work days off a year), yet you can't take all that free time and extra money you have and apply it to something that's more fulfilling in your spare time, something you more than have the opportunity for at your current job.

What would make you happy?

To be honest, I'm pretty happy right now. I don't know what I want to do as a career which makes the school thing kind of intimidating.
 
The job is easy, flexible and has good benefits. Stay in your job and take classes part time.

Pretty much this. Do your professional development on the side if you want it, or use that time to fulfill yourself in other ways.

Or since you have no family to take care of ditch it and go live in the woods eating granola I dunno, the world is your oyster or something. Actually you're in your 30s you should probably stay put.

If I had the money/free time I'd love to go to school for shit I wouldn't use in a career but would be fascinating, like astrophysics or something.
 
Tough choice, Chandler, I don't know. What would you be interested in doing otherwise?

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To be honest, I'm pretty happy right now. I don't know what I want to do as a career which makes the school thing kind of intimidating.

Sounds like you need to buy a red Miata and date a 22 year old.
 
Yeah, I'd keep the job, find another hobby or two.

You don't have to love your work, but if you're in a good headspace when you're done with the job, that honestly means a hell of a lot.

In your example, you said 80,000. Do you make anywhere close to that? Hell, half of that might be worth sticking around for those benefits.
 
Honestly, I'd talk to your bosses and union reps about your options for continuing education. It's entirely possible you could get them to foot the bill for part of the schooling you want. Hell, your employers may even be interested in you getting a degree.

Beyond that, I'd take a moment to really analyze why you want to go to school. Does your job just bore you to tears? If so, would it be possible to find fulfillment outside of work? Do you feel a need to expand your capabilities? If so, does that expansion need to be tied to work? Do you desire power, influence, and constant expansion of your will? Then, yeah, a dead end is no place for you.

Basically, people go to college for a ton of reasons, and at least 80% of all the reasons to ever go to college are well-represented by your current situation. I can think of plenty of reasons why someone in your spot would still want schooling, but not as many as most people.
 
Yeah, I'd keep the job, find another hobby or two.

You don't have to love your work, but if you're in a good headspace when you're done with the job, that honestly means a hell of a lot.

In your example, you said 80,000. Do you make anywhere close to that? Hell, half of that might be worth sticking around for those benefits.

I make $47K now. Goes up 5.5% as of June and another 5.5% in June 2017.
 
Study part time. Even though you said there is a lot of nepotism and seniority in the job new skills relevant to the job might give you an edge on a promotion somewhere down the line.
 
Honestly: get a part time job that allows you to 1. do what you like to do and 2. build some career skills. In the meantime, build a nest egg with your primary job now.

If you greatly prefer your second job, slowly transition to that career path. If not, you can always quit your second job and get another second job in another field. This allows you to experiment.

Your job may sound good now, but over the long run it will badly hurt you in terms of career advancement. If you get sick of your work in 5, 10, 15 years you are stuck with nowhere to go. Don't be short-sighted. Use the stability you are fortunate to have now to build a career path on the side.
 
So here's the deal, I'm stuck in a pretty major dilemma that I will admit is entirely a first world problem but it's still a dilemma. Like the title says, it's a dead end job. Mobility is limited because of nepotism and seniority issues. It's also dead end in that it's a basic desk job that requires very little in the way of general skills so I'm not developing on a professional level. Now because of the new collective agreement, I will be overpaid to in addition to all of the bullet points above. I have no major debts and I don't have a family. The only obligation I have is a mortgage on my downtown condo. I get no fulfilment from my job but it affords me to explore my hobbies and interests more than the average person because I never have to take it home with me. The flipside of the coin is that because of the nature of how public service jobs work, the longer you're here the harder it is to leave because you leave a lot on the table for the unknown. I could find another job but I leave all of the above on the table. I could also go back to school and develop some skills but I'd have to leave my job.

My question to you guys is: What would you do in my shoes?

Milk that for all it's worth. Very few jobs are rewarding/fufilling. You're searching for a unicorn.
 
So you'll be up to nearly 54k in 3 years plus benefits. Stay where you are. I'm sure you'll get increases beyond that as time goes on. You have it very easy.
There's also nothing stopping you from exploring other options in your spare time.
 
Study part time. Even though you said there is a lot of nepotism and seniority in the job new skills relevant to the job might give you an edge on a promotion somewhere down the line.

That promotion may be the worst thing to happen to him. Seems like if the work gets any more difficult or more responsibility is added, the job is now a difficult job that he hates, instead of an easy one.
 
I am guessing you work for county/state/city. Anyway it is totally possible to move up within the county/state/city. I seen office specialist taking classes and applying for higher level position.
 
Depends on how comfortable you're with the pay but I wouldn't stay personally. There are always more opportunities, there are always better jobs.
 
im kinda in the same situation, i got pretty decent job, make more money than most and im sure someone else would appreciate it more but it is killing me inside. im braindead between 10am and 6pm

So how do you deal with it? Anything you do on your spare time?

For what it's worth, I got my black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu this year and now teach twice a week. It's surprisingly enjoyable - always thought I'd hate teaching.
 
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