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Sweat-shaming' - is now a thing, apparently.

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My wife farts-shame me every time I fart.

She always says "you're fucking disgusting" after I fart near her.

She does it affectionately though.
 
When i try to share my controller with my wife she always comments about how sweaty it is. I am constantly sweat shamed.....


I don't give a shit though, my hands sweat and I know it





Also^^^^^^^ I get fart shamed too and breath shamed when i drink coffee (which usually causes farts too). She does not do it affectionately. I think I need to start a go fund me for all this shaming I receive.
 
This is just a subset of the terrible fit- or muscle-shaming that is so prevalent in society today.

I think that fit/muscle shaming is in response to those terrible people who post nothing but shaming and fitness memes on Facebook and tell everyone that they need to "BE ALPHA, LIFT EVERYDAY, JUICE EVERYDAY, GYM EVERYDAY BRO, MENS RIGHTS BRO". Shaming in general is kinda pathetic though.
 
Is there really a difference?

The difference being the former tries to elevate it into some kind of "issue" under the belief that nobody should be made to feel bad ever by another person. In reality if I trip and fall in a cafeteria I might be embarrassed by people laughing at me but I'm not gonna go write an article about clumsy shaming.
 
This is actually a serious problem for people who suffer from hyperhidrosis. It can literally ruin lives and it isn't unheard of to cause suicide attempts. That might sound crazy to somebody who doesn't suffer from the problem, but it is real.
 
I recall signing up in a job searching site, and had some "job hunting advice" or some bullshit like that.

Apparently, HR doesn't like if you walked out in scorching heat and got sweaty as a result, it's "unprofessional".

Well, fuck that, sometimes the parking spot is far away from the office, and I have to come to interviews in dress shirt/pants at 40°C.

Peeling back my sack is the best part about coming home from work.
You can wait to get home to do that? You're a goddamn hero.
 
I sweat a completely improper amount at the gym. Or anytime I workout really.

I'm the guy who accidentally flings sweat at you while I'm on the treadmill.

I feel no shame, however, cause fuck the haters.

I'm glad I can do all of my workouts at home, for just this reason. When I am done working out, I am absolutey drenched in sweat to the point that it looks like I just stepped out of the shower...except I smell.
 
I crop-dust my wife while she's eating.

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You can wait to get home to do that? You're a goddamn hero.

Yeah. Open door policy at work means I can't really stick my hands down my pants.
 
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HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Seriously - why does the Guardian, one of the better UK major papers, allow this shite in it.
As someone in the comments said - that isn't 'shaming' - that is just akward attempts at small talk. And also noted that although the interaction was isolated between 2 women, it is somehow sexist, and somehow an issue.
 
OMG, semi-awkward, meaningless conversation served with a "tight smile"? What is this world coming to when any person thinks they can make small talk while we both wait on a line?

Is there any doubt that this person would also feel comfortable writing an article about how people are so rude because all they do is stare at their phones and drown out the world?
 
The difference being the former tries to elevate it into some kind of "issue" under the belief that nobody should be made to feel bad ever by another person. In reality if I trip and fall in a cafeteria I might be embarrassed by people laughing at me but I'm not gonna go write an article about clumsy shaming.

Ah ok, guess that makes sense.
 
I'm glad I can do all of my workouts at home, for just this reason. When I am done working out, I am absolutey drenched in sweat to the point that it looks like I just stepped out of the shower...except I smell.

Yep, that's me. I have to wear a hat/headband otherwise I cannot see for all the sweat coming down. Treadmills are pretty much completely drenched when I'm done with them and I only feel a little bad for the people getting on after me (I wipe my shit down when I'm done though unlike SOME PEOPLE TERRY)
 
Are people this sensitive?

That's what I was thinking. It's not so much that there is a plethora of new ways to "shame" people. It's that peoples skin has become so goddamn thin that any mild sign of disapproval is now an insurmountable, heinous act of "shaming".


/thin-skin shaming
 
I'm an extra sweaty dude and it's actually a huge problem. Especially in job interviews or other situations where people might think I'm nervous or something because my face is soaked.
 
From reading the quote in the OP, I understood literally *nothing* about the transpired events. The only thing I understood is that she's reasonable enough to drink her coffee black.

Read the article though and it made more sense. Still

If I smell like shit after a work out, I take a shower first; not go to a place where people are eating.

It's called being considerate.

Edit: Alternatively, I try to dry off outside before stepping inside.

I gotta agree with this, really.


I'm an extra sweaty dude and it's actually a huge problem. Especially in job interviews or other situations where people might think I'm nervous or something because my face is soaked.

Know that feel, I tend to get really stressed out whenever I'm leaving for important meetings and whatnot, so my face just starts dripping until I get outside. Then it kinda stops, but the damage is already done
 
lol, like I give a fuck if someone calls me out for being sweaty after I've been running under the sun for 40 minutes
 
The weird thing is I don't sweat in normal situations. You can suit me up in 100% alpaca wool and I'll be dry as a bone but as soon as I start getting my blood pumping I'm slick as hot dog shit.
 
Walking into a coffee shop after you've run a half marathon without showering first is pretty strange IMO. It's not sweat shaming, it's just a bit gross.
 
I sweat like crazy when it's hot, humid, or if I work out. Loves me some AC. Hate poorly ventilated bars. There are morbidly obese guys who sweat less than me, so I know that feeling.

The way the article was written though, it seems like the other woman was simply trying to start up a conversation, and the writer flipped out from self consciousness.
 
Walking into a coffee shop after you've run a half marathon without showering first is pretty strange IMO. It's not sweat shaming, it's just a bit gross.


Yeah I can understand people who are naturally sweaty but if someone looks like they just finished a half marathon and were just dripping, go take a shower man.
 
I just google image searched "sweaty woman" and judging from that I am mostly OK with the concept of women sweating.
 
The woman was trying to make conversation. The fact that she took it as sweat shaming, says alot about the writer.

I always grab a coffee after exams, the barista recognized me one time and asked if I was passing them all, smiling and nodding towards the folder with my results. Was he success shaming me?
That's what it sounded like to me.
 
That's a weird selection to quote for the OP.

Honestly that didn't seem like shaming at all, just awkward conversation that no one should think much of at all.
 
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I think people are searching too hard for issues to get worked up over or something. I've never heard of or encountered this stigma that women aren't supposed to sweat... especially when they're in exercise clothing. Hell, I'm pretty sure I've heard a lot more instances of people mocking others in gym clothes being leisurely instead of active.
 
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