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Nocebo said:
Where's the proof? Didn't god create diseases and the like? Aside from disease God has been known to create calamities as well (floods anyone?)
I brought this out a little while ago, but disease does not have to be invented by someone although I'm sure God caused inflictions as punishment for particular sins, that's not a reason imo to say he caused all illness which results often in particular actions- personal or environmental and simple human imperfections.

Nocebo said:
Most religions also seem to be designed to cause conflicts. If there was only one true God there should only be one book. The fact that God went around being dishonest to incite conflict can be substantiated by the existence of the Koran.
Religions don't create conflicts as much as misplaced/incorrect zeal does. A lot of the good arguments raised by the anti-religious tie into the fact that many people use their religion as a justification for their bad deeds.

I can't speak for all religions, but Christians aren't expected to cause conflict at all. Not a lick. They are supposed to sit back and let God handle matters. Sowhen a "Christian" army goes on the strike, I automatically know that they are doing it wrong.

I don't have conflicts with anyone although I strongly disagree with 99.9% of the religions out there.

Nocebo said:
Can you prove he's telling the truth about: the creation of the universe, the creation of man and the animals, the global flood, heaven, hell?
Between the two prevailing idead - creation vs. life without creation, creation makes more sense. It's all atheists have to go on to in their belief belief that life got here without God. Since there is absolutely no proof in that

It is good enough for you if you're not aware of the harm and it makes you superficially happy? A drug addict and a drunkard are perfectly fine in their addictions then I suppose?

Nocebo said:
The mind can easily be tricked into thinking you're happy about a current situation that is ultimately detrimental to you. Ever heard of http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stockholm_syndrome ? Though not exact of course, a lot of paralels can be drawn.
Threats of going to hell etc.
I disagree with this. You cannot trick being happy. Doing that always has a level of denial & depression attached to it. If someone is happy, it shows. If someone is grumpy, angry, or more intent on disproving other's happiness rather than working on their own, that shows too.

Religion would never be detrimental in and of itself because the end result, if incorrect, is simply the same course as the non-religious.
 
NegativeZero said:
Was he banned for posting that same stuff in other threads? Surely he wasn't banned for posting all of that in this thread, which I suppose was the best place for it since this is "The Official Religion Thread."

If he was banned for his post in this thread, I can agree that he shouldn't have been banned since this is the religion thread.
 
jdogmoney said:
Tell me, right now, that slavery is immoral.

Sorry for the double post; I missed this earlier.
You lying and saying I said slavery is ok is not remotely the same thing as you denying history by thinking slavery was a moral issue.

If you can't read the difference then no wonder you don't grasp any opinions beyond your own.
 
JGS said:
You lying and saying I said slavery is ok is not remotely the same thing as you denying history by thinking slavery was a moral issue.

If you can't read the difference then no wonder you don't grasp any opinions beyond your own.

You still won't say that it is immoral to own another human being.

Just sayin'.


Negative Zero said:
Authorial intent regarding misogyny is important because otherwise what you are telling me is that these misogynistic passages in the Bible are accidentally misogynistic. If misogyny is "hatred of women," then the passages in question must, by default, be written with the intent of suppressing women. Otherwise, why write them at all? My answer to that question is that the point of the passages is not misogynistic at all, but if you are correct, then your only option is to claim that the point is misogyny. If you disagree and say that the point of the passages is not misogyny, then please inform me as to what you think the point is.

The point was to have a set of laws written by Moses so that his people wouldn't die out or disband. The misogyny is a side effect. A characteristic that permeates the whole of the work.

It's like, the point of Atlas Shrugged is to tell a story, but the objectivism of Ayn Rand is on every page, even when the people aren't making long speeches about objectivism.

The argument you just quoted is indeed sound, but the argument you were previously making was "The Bible is misogynistic because the Bible denigrates women," which is, in fact, begging the question because the conclusion you are reaching is assumed in the premise. Thank you for the specificity of the second argument.

And yes, I would claim that it's invalid based on the premises because I would claim that you must prove your initial premise, i.e., "The Bible has a bunch of stuff that puts men ahead of and above women." But of course, that puts us right back where we were before.

I'm making the same argument. I reworded it so that you could focus less on the form and more on the content. Pity it didn't work...

I think that that list posted earlier makes for pretty good evidence. Do you really want me to post more? Because, you know...there is more.

Rather than go through the entire Bible, answer me this. If there is no misogyny in the Bible, I can't believe this is a point of contention, then why is a man in God's image but a woman in man's image? Why is a husband's relationship to his wife the same relationship as Jesus (the LORD) to the church?
 
JGS said:
It is good enough for you if you're not aware of the harm and it makes you superficially happy? A drug addict and a drunkard are perfectly fine in their addictions then I suppose?

[snip]

Religion would never be detrimental in and of itself because the end result, if incorrect, is simply the same course as the non-religious.

Ignoring your refusal to look at the evidence for abiogenesis, I think these two quotes from the same post sum up things pretty well.

See, I'm implying that the happiness you get from religion is the same kind of happiness that you seem to think people get from irreligion, and I go further to imply that you're projecting, is what I did there.


I sincerely wish that religion could "never be detrimental". Something something Osama bin Laden something something 9/11 something something Jesus Camp.

[Also, I'm lol'ing at the idea that I've never read the Bible. If I hadn't, maybe I'd still be a Christian...]
 
jdogmoney said:
Ignoring your refusal to look at the evidence for abiogenesis, I think these two quotes from the same post sum up things pretty well.
I'm assuming you're talkin about your evidence which basically amounted to some guys in a lab verifying creation without actually having the abilty to create said life. That is not evidence of abiogenesis, that's evidence of mankind's intelligence which I have not doubted. We are smarter than all other creatures on the planet.

See, I'm implying that the happiness you get from religion is the same kind of happiness that you seem to think people get from irreligion, and I go further to imply that you're projecting, is what I did there.

I sincerely wish that religion could "never be detrimental". Something something Osama bin Laden something something 9/11 something something Jesus Camp.
You're macrosizing the controversy.

Addictions aren't the same as beliefs and they do have immediate harm for many. Someone believing that God is taking them to heaven has no affect on their health at all except to make it better or help them to accept their poor health.

EDIT: Forgot to add that people usually aren't addicted to faith. Oftentimes, faith is a hard thing to have whereas addiction is a hard thing to get rid of.

The OP was alluding to the idea (I thought) that religion is a danger just for believing in it. It is not. Of course there is danger in how people use their belief against others. However, from a Christian standpoint, this would not be an issue either as they are discouraged from forcing conversion or fightin on the behalf of religion. In other wros the religion (Christianity) can't be blamed for the actions of those who ignore it's beliefs. The particular churches can I suppose, but if they aren't practicing Christian teachings...

It's true I can't speak for Islam or other religious beliefs so I apology for the blanket statement, but not my opinion of my beliefs.

jdogmoney said:
[Also, I'm lol'ing at the idea that I've never read the Bible. If I hadn't, maybe I'd still be a Christian...]
First, it doesn't matter what I think and my opinio remains the same. If you think the horrible, atrociously cherry picked scriptures Dani brought out were misogynistc, you should read it again- or at least invest in a good dictionary.

You stopped being a Christian because you may not have ever been one or no longer believed it regardless of how many times you claim to read the Bible. I'll side with you and blameyour religion on that.

I'll stick to my view that even if you did read it, you didn't get it.
 
jdogmoney said:
You still won't say that it is immoral to own another human being.

Just sayin'.
I did say that numerous times. What I say about it is irrelevant to what people the past considered. What you say about it is irrelevant too so don't value your opinion too much!

However, I don't need to because you're the one setting the stipulation that slavery was considered immoral in Bible times. Why would I take your word for it over the abundant information that says it wasn't?!:lol

jdogmoney said:
The point was to have a set of laws written by Moses so that his people wouldn't die out or disband. The misogyny is a side effect. A characteristic that permeates the whole of the work.
There is no misogynist side effect. Further, Moses teachings don't permeate the entire work and his teachings were more about the punishment to men than women anyway. Once again, the verses show that if God hated anyone, it was men, but even that's only if you warp the definition of hate!

Submission is a universal viewpoint so it's silly to blame the permeation of it on one teaching.

However, the laws in place did not cause a man to hate women in any event. Of course, there were no doubt men that hated women, but there is no indication from the laws that Israelite women were specifically hated just for being women- unless it was on the basis of their actions which is fair.
jdogmoney said:
Rather than go through the entire Bible, answer me this. If there is no misogyny in the Bible, I can't believe this is a point of contention, then why is a man in God's image but a woman in man's image? Why is a husband's relationship to his wife the same relationship as Jesus (the LORD) to the church?
That's not misogyny. Man was created first so there was no man's image to base it on. Woman was created from the human made.

The second point makes no sense since it simply shows the submission arrangement applies to all humans. Further, as I stated before, the rewards men and women receive are the same. There are just different requirements/responsibilities of the two genders.

Submission wasn't even absolute. It was only on the assumption that the man was a worshipper of God. If a man tried to exercise his headship to do something against Christian teaching, the woman was expected to refuse. Does it switch to men being hated then? If the command is to love your wife as you do yourself, where does misogyny fit in unless we hate ourselves? If a women can lack respect for a husband fothat's a loser, where does misogyny fit in? If a man and a woman have to settle an argument before going to bed, why would the man who hates his wife care about the argument being settled? Neither a male or a female Christian had the ability to divorce except for the case of adultery. So if God hates women, doesn't this mean he hates men too in this regard? If a man can't even look at another woman besides his wife, where does misogyny fit in?

Your vast Bible instruction that shows misogyny to be rampant in Bible teaching (That's the point since obviously as a book that tells stories, there are stories of women being treated wrong) has quite a number of gaps.
 
JGS said:
If a man can't even look at another woman besides his wife, where does misogyny fit in?

What about concubines and sex slaves? Remember the scripture I quoted earlier permitted men to have as many as he wanted besides his wife.

Seriously, you accuse me if picking and choosing yet you're doing a grand job of it here yourself.

Also, how dare anyone say that those that read the Bible and come to their own conclusions don't "get it".

No not everyone is happy to an an apologist for the clear, obvious and multiple instances of misogyny, racism, intolerence and pro-slavery scriptures found within it.

You can't even reach the point where agree to disagree with other people, you simply believe you are right and everyone else is wrong and that they don't get it.
 
jdogmoney said:
The point was to have a set of laws written by Moses so that his people wouldn't die out or disband. The misogyny is a side effect. A characteristic that permeates the whole of the work.

It's like, the point of Atlas Shrugged is to tell a story, but the objectivism of Ayn Rand is on every page, even when the people aren't making long speeches about objectivism.

I'm making the same argument. I reworded it so that you could focus less on the form and more on the content. Pity it didn't work...

I think that that list posted earlier makes for pretty good evidence. Do you really want me to post more? Because, you know...there is more.

If that argument is correct, if Moses was making those laws for the sole purpose of keeping the people from dying out or disbanding, then many of the laws mentioned in "the Bible is misogynistic" lists are superfluous, as they do not serve the purpose you claim they serve.

Case in point (from earlier on this page of the thread):

Leviticus 15:19-32 said:
When a woman has her regular flow of blood, the impurity of her monthly period will last seven days, and anyone who touches her will be unclean till evening. If a man lies with her and her monthly flow touches him, he will be unclean for seven days...

How does this serve the purpose of making it "so that his people wouldn't die out or disband"? If it doesn't, then you are left with only two options: either the law is for a different purpose or Moses was being intentionally misogynistic. However, since you are unwilling to argue that Moses was being intentionally misogynistic and are only comfortable saying that the supposed misogyny in the Mosaic law is simply a byproduct, then you are left to conclude that the law was for a different purpose. What might that purpose be?

jdogmoney said:
Rather than go through the entire Bible, answer me this. If there is no misogyny in the Bible, I can't believe this is a point of contention, then why is a man in God's image but a woman in man's image? Why is a husband's relationship to his wife the same relationship as Jesus (the LORD) to the church?

A man is made in God's image because man was made first. A woman is made in God's image as well--just because she was made through man does not mean that she is not made in God's image. See:

Genesis 1:26-27 said:
Then God said, “Let us make man in our image, after our likeness. And let them have dominion over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the heavens and over the livestock and over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them.

Note the seamless interchange between "in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them." Clearly, the author is equating "them" with "him" when it comes to the image of God and this is made even more explicit through the Hebrew in which it was originally written.

As for a husband's relationship to his wife being like Jesus' relationship to the church, the Bible says,

Ephesians 5:25-33 said:
Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, because we are members of his body. “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

In summary regarding marriage here, Christ gave himself for the church sacrificially, so in the same way, husbands are to love their wives with a sacrificial love.
 
Dani said:
What about concubines and sex slaves? Remember the scripture I quoted earlier permitted men to have as many as he wanted besides his wife.
I was discussing Christianity since that's what jdog brought up.

However, it seems odd that you are actually seperating wives from concubines from sex slaves now when you were rolling them all up into one with your fake proofs.

Anyway, Jewish Law allowed for the many wives and concumbines (No sex slaves) and again, that is not a sign of hatred for women. Christianity does not allow polygamy whereas Jewish law did.

Dani said:
Also, how dare anyone say that those that read the Bible and come to their own conclusions don't "get it".
*Groan*

[incoming rant] I have just as much right as you saying it or mdog. The difference is that only a person that doesn't know how to read would come to the whacky conclusions you came up with on the bulk of your "proofs". You know how to read and it was clear by the way you intentially manipulated what was being said in the verses that showed that either you did not read them or you did not expect others to do so.

In any event, you haven't a clue what misogyny means except for the strange definition you made up.

The majority of your proofs were retarded and if anyone is stupid enough to think that the entire Bible is misogynistic towards women after straight up ignoring verses RIGHT NEXT TO THE ONES listed as proof of misogyny, then I can certainly challenge their "getting it" until they help me "get it", which you flat out failed completely to do.

When you are able to address the entire context rather than a list of verses cherry picked by someone else, THEN you can say what I have a right to do or not to do. Otherwise, stick with the limited info you've got and try not to be offended when someone takes you task on it.

Agreeing to disagree is what I practice on the board. You're the one that threw down the gauntlet for no reason.

Since that was the case, there is no way that I am agreeing to disagree with the tripe and made up accusations in the bulk of your post or the idea by both you and jdog that the Bible hates women. If I did that I would be accused of hating women too just like I'm accused of wanting slavery. That is what agreeing to disagree with the likes of you means.

Quit condemning me on the basis of your incorrect views about me. Agree to disagree with me, then I promise I will agree to disagree with you. I do it with plenty of people on the board and this thread. However, if it means I have to take a bunch of crap from an ill informed person thinking they know far more than they really do, then I'm only going to turn the other cheek so many times.[/rant]
 
JGS, I don't agree with your Men as the head of the household argument. You claim that this section is not misogynist because someone has to be the head of the household and God chose the man. You then made arguments that the women is emporwered enough through the man if both are good Christians. This is all moot because misogynist point is that the man HAS to be the head of the household and the woman can only be empowered if he lets her. Whether the man is a good Christian or not, her empowerment is at his control.
 
Blergmeister said:
JGS, I don't agree with your Men as the head of the household argument. You claim that this section is not misogynist because someone has to be the head of the household and God chose the man. You then made arguments that the women is emporwered enough through the man if both are good Christians. This is all moot because misogynist point is that the man HAS to be the head of the household and the woman can only be empowered if he lets her. Whether the man is a good Christian or not, her empowerment is at his control.
I didn't make the bold statement. This is completely untrue in fact. The woman is empowered enough on her own. She accepts God, worships God, or rejects God completely on her terms married or not. her husband will never have the ability to end her faith - ever. Further, she accepts marriage or rejects marriage on her own terms although that means accepting the headship principle. She is woman hear her roar. She does not need a man to tell her to do any of those things.

After all, if the woman is single she doesn't have a head beyond Christ. If she is single, she makes her own living.

On top of that, there are plenty of guys that willingly abdicate the headship arrangement even wtihin the Bible. She does nothing wrong when that happens but the guy fails at his responsibility.

The things I was explaining was from the man's requirement because that's where we get the info that there is nothing dictatorial about the headship arrangement. Further there is absolutely nothing misogynistic about it since it is all tied to the opposite of hatred.

It's true that when making decisions as a family, the guy would have the final say after discussion with his wife especially true if he is the primary breadwinner of the family anyway. However, if a guy is making decisions without input from his wife, he is not following Christ as an example. Further, if his wife leaves him, he's not going to go after her and hack her to pieces. The woman has the ability to leave a marriage under the exact same principles as the man.

This is why submission is about acceptance of it. A woman doesn't enter into it blind or forced in Christianity. It's something she's willing to accept because it's both normal that the guy is the head in a family and does not in any way convey what the accusations here imply.
 
Dani
Dani said:
What about . . . sex slaves? . . . you simply believe you are right and everyone else is wrong and that they don't get it.
I'm just going to come right out and say it, Dani.

You don't get it.

jdogmoney, Mgoblue201, and the others all at the very least respond to what their opponents have to say; that is, they engage in the discussion. You seem to have no function except to copy and paste without thought from whatever shadowy, unwashed corner of the internet you hail from. JGS has done a fine job responding to your last set of poorly-chosen verses, but let me reiterate why I don't take you seriously by reviewing some of them. Some of these are little more than repeating what JGS already said, but maybe you'll finally comprehend them once you've seen them twice.

Dani said:
Job 14:1-4 said:
Man born of woman. Who can bring what is pure from the impure? No one!
More misogynist bullshit? I'm shocked.
This one right here illustrates how little research you did before copying and pasting. Does that really look like four verses to you? No? I wonder why that is? Let's see what Job 14:1 - 4 really looks like:
Job 14:1 - 4 said:
Man born of woman is of few days and full of trouble. He springs up like a flower and withers away; like a fleeting shadow, he does not endure. Do you fix your eye on such a one? Will you bring him before you for judgment? Who can bring what is pure from the impure? No one!
Any half-brained reader would recognize that the "pure from the impure" question relates to the question immediately preceding, and not the full sentence three verses prior.

A tad more research would have shown you that the bulk of the book of Job consists of people other than God voicing their opinions, and so doesn't constitute either Jewish or Christian doctrine. For example, Chapter 14 is Job complaining about how unfair his life has been. This may be hard for you to grasp, but just because both "Job" and "God" are three letters long doesn't mean that they're the same person.
Dani said:
Men could divorce their wives on a whim - Deuteronomy 24:1-4
Is that... is that what that says?
Deuteronomy 24:1 - 4 said:
If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house, or if he dies, then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again after she has been defiled. That would be detestable in the eyes of the LORD. Do not bring sin upon the land the LORD your God is giving you as an inheritance.
Which part of that very specific description of a very particular situation--all of which is framed as a conditional--gives you the idea that a man was permitted by the Law to divorce his wife on a whim? I guess you missed the part where God said:
Malachi 2:16 said:
"I hate divorce," says the LORD God of Israel, "and I hate a man's covering himself with violence as well as with his garment," says the LORD Almighty. So guard yourself in your spirit, and do not break faith.
Christians, of course, can also rely on Christ's statement interpreting the OT treatment of divorce:
Matthew 19:3 - 9 said:
Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, "Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?"

"Haven't you read," he replied, "that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate."

"Why then," they asked, "did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?"

Jesus replied, "Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery."
Dani said:
[Genesis] 19:1-8 Rape virgin daughters instead of male angels.
This, along with a few others, seems especially pointless. Did God tell Lot to offer his daughters to the men? If not, then what's the problem? You're complaint is especially silly given that the angels cursed the men of Sodom with blindness, so that Lot's daughters weren't raped.
Dani said:
[Genesis] 19:26 Lot's wife turned into pillar of salt for disobeying god.
And Lot got away with disobeying God because he was a male! MISOGYNY! No, wait, what? That didn't happen? So Lot's wife was turned into a pillar of salt for disobeying God, and not for being a woman? AND you said as much in your original post? Then why did you even bring it up?
Dani said:
[Genesis] 19:30-38 Lot impregnates his two daughters while drunk. (So much for "family values"!)
Because God told him to! Right? Right?

No? Then, again, why mention it?
Dani said:
[Exodus] 20:17 Wife as property.
Let's see here:
Exodus 20:17 said:
You shall not covet your neighbor's house. You shall not covet your neighbor's wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.
Where's the part where it says anything about ownership? And, to emphasize:
Metaphoreus said:
In the modern world, a kind of ownership exists between a husband and wife, since they have (or at least should have, in most cases) exclusive rights to one another's sexual services. Additionally, spouses owe each other a duty of support, so to some extent own the labor of each other.
Dani said:
[Exodus] 21:4 Wife and children belong to master.
21:7-11 OK to sell daughters. Female slaves can be used for sex.
Polygamy permitted. Unwanted female slaves can be set "free" without payment of money.
Let's review.
Dani said:
[Exodus] 22:18 Kill witches.
Yes, Dani, witches, not women. The Israelites were also instructed to kill idolaters (22:20), and those who had sex with animals (22:19).
Dani said:
[Leviticus] 12:1 Childbirth a sin
No, Dani. Uncleanness != sin. Also sources of uncleanness: infectious skin diseases (Lev. 13:3), clothing contaminated with mildew (13:51), a house contaminated with mildew (13:44), and you might be particularly interested in Lev. 15. Just a hunch. Oh wait,
Dani said:
[Leviticus] 15:19-32 Menstruating women are unclean.
Ah, so your research has already led you to chapter 15. So, then, you certainly already saw the first 18 verses, regarding "when any man has a bodily discharge" (v. 2). And since you saw those first 18 verses, that explains why you didn't quote Lev. 15:19 - 32 to show how God discriminated against women, because then you would appear disingenuous and not to be taken seriously. Smart thinking.
Dani said:
[Leviticus] 21:9 Burn daughters.
Yes, all daughters. That explains why the Israelites vanished mysteriously after one generation of living under the Law.
Dani said:
[Numbers] 1:2 Census lists only men - women do not count.
What kind of a census was that, anyways? What were they listing?
Numbers 1:45 said:
All the Israelites twenty years old or more who were able to serve in Israel's army were counted according to their families.
Oh.
Dani said:
[Deuteronomy] 28:18 The FRUIT of your womb will be cursed - eclectic "pro-life" verse!
I'm sorry, what does this have to do with God's alleged hatred of women again? I'm also confused why you capitalized "fruit"--and by "you," I mean, of course, the imbecile whose work you've plagiarized. Is the argument that since it refers to "fruit" that God doesn't think of a fetus as human? Here's an equally implausible interpretation of the above: this verse is only referring to homosexual offspring.
Dani said:
[Judges] 14:20 Samson gives wife to another man.
Again, what does this have to do with God? On top of that, why do you say Samson did that? I'll tell you why: because you didn't actually read these verses before regurgitating this nonsense:
Judges 14:20 - 15:2 said:
And Samson's wife was given to the friend who had attended him at his wedding. Later on, at the time of wheat harvest, Samson took a young goat and went to visit his wife. He said, "I'm going to my wife's room." But her father would not let him go in. "I was so sure you thoroughly hated her," he said, "that I gave her to your friend. Isn't her younger sister more attractive? Take her instead."
Dani said:
[Judges] 16:1 Samson visits prostitute.
HOW COULD A GOD OF LOVE POSSIBLY HATE WOMEN SO MUCH THAT SAMSON WOULD VISIT A PROSTITUTE?! What violent hatred must burn within God for women!
Dani said:
[Judges] CH 19 Concubine pack-raped and butchered.
You seem to have this naive conception of the Bible, where it endorses everything recorded in it. Much of the Bible merely records historical occurrences, without passing a moral judgment on them. The last two citations from Judges also fall within this category.
Dani said:
RUTH
Ruth shags Boaz.
So... women having sex shows that God hates women? Do you know how much research it would have taken for you to realize that this part of your post makes absolutely no sense whatsoever? All you would have had to do was look at what you were copying, and you would have realized that. So I assume you did this copy/paste thing blindfolded.
Dani said:
[I Samuel] 21:4-5 Men avoid defilement with women.
So...?
Dani said:
[II Samuel] 6:20-23 Mischal punished with bareness.
And? I'm not sure how punishing one woman illustrates hatred for all women. I doubt you're sure, either, but go ahead and give it your best shot.
Dani said:
[II Chronicles] 15:13 Put to death unbelievers.
You know, and I know, that this has nothing to do with women as distinguished from men. Why include it?
Dani said:
[II Chronicles] 11:21 Hoards of wives and concubines.
Rehoboam's dad had nearly 40 times as many wives and 5 times as many concubines, yet Rehoboam had "hoards" of wives and concubines? Not to mention this business a bit later on:
II Chronicles 12:1 said:
After Rehoboam's position as king was established and he had become strong, he and all Israel with him abandoned the law of the LORD. . . . Then the prophet Shemaiah came to Rehoboam and to the leaders of Judah who had assembled in Jerusalem for fear of Shishak, and he said to them, "This is what the LORD says, 'You have abandoned me; therefore, I now abandon you to Shishak.'"
Showing, again, that not everything recorded in the Bible is given its endorsement.
Dani said:
[Esther] CH 1-2 Queen Vashti dethroned for disobedience; setting "bad" example to all other women.
Who was Queen Vashti the queen of, again? Hm? Persia, you say? And who dethroned her? Xerxes, the king of Persia, at the suggestion of his advisors (1:16 - 20), you say? So how does this show God's hatred for women, again?
Dani said:
[Psalm] 127:3 Sons are heritage from god.
Let's look at the entire verse, shall we?
Psalm 127:3 said:
Sons are a heritage from the LORD, children a reward from him.
And what of that word, sons? Does it mean only male offspring? The KJV translates it "children," and the word used there can mean "son, child (of either gender), descendant (in any generation), offspring (human or animal); by extension: a term of endearment; one of a class or kind or nation or family." Given that even the full verse in the NIV shows no preference for gender, I think you'll have to scratch this one off your list.
Dani said:
To begin, Proverbs is a book of sayings directed to the speaker's son. Chapter 5 contains warnings against adultery. Chapter 7 contains, as you said, "more of the above." 6:24 refers to the "immoral woman," a term explained further in 6:26 as "the prostitute" and "the adulteress." Of course, you were aware that the qualifier "immoral" before the word "woman" meant that it was referring to a smaller class than "all women," and so couldn't be used to show that God hates all women. That's why you didn't bring them up in support of your claim that God hates women. Oh, wait, you did bring them up! How awkward for you, then.
Dani said:
[Proverbs] 31:3 Do not waste strength on women.
This is from "the sayings of King Lemuel." It is "an oracle his mother taught him." (31:1.) Read in context, it shows that a king must be wise and not waste his strength on frivolities, such as chasing women and getting drunk. I guess you'd prefer if President Obama spent all his time in wild orgies? (Don't answer that.)

Boy, I'm getting tired of this. From the above, it becomes painfully obvious that one of the following is true:

(1) You are illiterate.
(2) You are not illiterate but are an idiot.
(3) You are not illiterate, are not an idiot, but blindly follow what others tell you without doing even minimal amounts of research to try to verify what you've been sold told.

I'll give you the benefit of the doubt and go with (3). Don't complain about another person's arguments when yours are so dreadfully absurd, and take so much time and energy away from the serious discussion being conducted between thoughtful individuals.

jdogmoney
jdogmoney said:
I didn't say anything about an objective morality. That phrase doesn't seem to mean anything.
You've been hanging around Mgoblue201 too much.
William Lane Craig said:
To say that there are objective moral values is to say that something is good or evil independently of whether anybody believes it to be so.
Metaphoreus said:
an objective morality--a morality that exists whether anyone believes in it or not.
Metaphoreus said:
an objective morality--a morality that exists regardless of whether anyone believes in it or not
If you're having difficulty understanding the words I used, say so and I'll try to explain it differently. Don't wave your hands and say it doesn't "seem to mean anything."

Every time you pass a moral judgment on another's actions, you are invoking an objective morality. If there is no objective morality, then you have no basis against which to judge the other's actions. If you both define your moral codes on the basis of empathy, then it's your empathy against his--and since he's the one acting, you're an unwelcome interloper intruding into how he lives his life. How arrogant that you think your morality should dictate how he lives his life! Now then, it certainly is possible for you to say, "According to my sense of empathy, what that person is doing is immoral," and the effect of that would be that you have just stated that you would not do that thing (or that if you did do that thing, you would be acting immorally.) But if all that your moral judgment comes down to is, "I wouldn't do X," while denying the existence of an objective morality, then you cannot justifiably condemn a person for doing X, since, to them, it may be perfectly moral!

So, let's say that God exists, and that He has developed His own morality but that this does not create an objective morality. Assume further that God has overtly commanded that His followers discriminate against people based on their gender, race, national origin, sexual orientation, and family status. If you condemn that command, then the effect is that you have said, "I would not discriminate on those bases." But nobody should give any meaning beyond that to your words--after all, God is just as capable as you are of developing His own morality, and so there is no reason to accept that yours is right and His wrong. They're just different. So here. You say,
jdogmoney said:
It is immoral for a woman (or a man or a black person or a Jew or a homosexual or a anybody) to be treated unequally.
Your argument is that it was morally wrong for God to condone a family arrangement in which the man and woman bore unequal authority with respect to one another. I read that as, "I would not condone a family arrangement in which the man and woman bear unequal authority with respect to one another," but I don't care what you would do. If there is no objective morality against which to judge God's condonation, then whatever He does cannot be condemned on the basis of your feelings. Your morality is applicable only to you, and not to others, including God. Only by arrogating to yourself the status of the creator of objective morality could you condemn God or anyone else for acting in a way contrary to what you believe. And if you aren't arrogating to yourself that status, then you are only saying, "I wouldn't do X," but that isn't enough to condemn the actions of the other, since said actions may be justified by the other's own morality.

As one final note, I think NegativeZero has a strong point that's being ignored. Calling something misogynistic doesn't make it so. And the responses to that point so far have been weak. For instance:

jdogmoney said:
The Bible has a bunch of stuff that puts men ahead of and above women.
Putting men ahead of and before women is misogynistic
Therefore, the Bible is misogynistic.
All that you've done is added in a step to give it a syllogistic form. The substance is the same. Rather than blatantly saying "The Bible shows God hates women," you now say, "Putting men ahead of and before women shows a hatred for women." But that's ridiculous. Hatred relates to intent, not results. You presume the intent based on the results, but that's unjustified. Let me make your syllogism true:

Person X puts men ahead of and above women because he hates women.
Putting men ahead of and above women because you hate them is misogynistic.
Person X is misogynistic.

But you see from the corrected syllogism that what is key is "hatred of women"--in other words, intent.

Also, a few of you have quoted Dani with approval, just as you did with the last batch of verses he posted. Don't be so gullible.
 
JGS said:
I didn't make the bold statement. This is completely untrue in fact. The woman is empowered enough on her own. She accepts God, worships God, or rejects God completely on her terms married or not. her husband will never have the ability to end her faith - ever. Further, she accepts marriage or rejects marriage on her own terms
So far I agree with you.

JGS said:
although that means accepting the headship principle. She is woman hear her roar.
This I do not agree with. First, if she can accept marriage on her own terms, how does that automatically assume accepting the headship principle? Second, why is there a headship principle to begin with? Why can't a couple come to a natural conclusion of head of household question (if there even needs to be any.) Why default it to the man?

JGS said:
She does not need a man to tell her to do any of those things.

After all, if the woman is single she doesn't have a head beyond Christ. If she is single, she makes her own living.
I agree with these.

JGS said:
On top of that, there are plenty of guys that willingly abdicate the headship arrangement even wtihin the Bible. She does nothing wrong when that happens but the guy fails at his responsibility.
So you are saying the guy fails at his responsibility if the guy willingly gives the woman headship responsibility? Can you reword this or explain in more detail?

JGS said:
The things I was explaining was from the man's requirement because that's where we get the info that there is nothing dictatorial about the headship arrangement. Further there is absolutely nothing misogynistic about it since it is all tied to the opposite of hatred.
According to you, to have a marriage with another man, the woman has to accept the headship principle. That is close enough to dictatorial. The bible doesn't really encourage romantic relationships with men that are not marriages so if a woman wants a romantic relationship she must submit to the man. If she doesn't she is a bad Christian.

JGS said:
It's true that when making decisions as a family, the guy would have the final say after discussion with his wife especially true if he is the primary breadwinner of the family anyway. However, if a guy is making decisions without input from his wife, he is not following Christ as an example. Further, if his wife leaves him, he's not going to go after her and hack her to pieces. The woman has the ability to leave a marriage under the exact same principles as the man.
The guy having the final say is the misogynistic thing about all of this. I'd also say that your comment about the breadwinner, while irrelevant, is misogynistic. I agree that whatever decision is made, that the couple needs to take input from eachother but here it is still always the mans decision, regardless of what the input from his wife is. The woman isn't allowed to make any decisions, only to have opinions.

JGS said:
This is why submission is about acceptance of it. A woman doesn't enter into it blind or forced in Christianity. It's something she's willing to accept because it's both normal that the guy is the head in a family and does not in any way convey what the accusations here imply.
Are you saying that households where women are considered the head of the family are abnormal? Deciding who is head of the household shouldn't be about what is normal, it should be about what is best for the family.

The bible has many quotes about husband and wife treating eachother good and fair and thats all good! There are some good lessons in there! I just think that a lot of it is advice from another time where women held another place in society and some is completely inappropriate to follow today. Just like I think it is inapropriate to think that a woman is unclean while on her period I also think it is inaprorpiate for a woman to have to accept to submit to the man to be married to him.
 
Blergmeister said:
This I do not agree with. First, if she can accept marriage on her own terms, how does that automatically assume accepting the headship principle? Second, why is there a headship principle to begin with? Why can't a couple come to a natural conclusion of head of household question (if there even needs to be any.) Why default it to the man?
Sorry, that was worded whacky. She can accept a marriage partner that that is not Christian. She can marry a person not interested in headship. She can wait to be married. She can accept the headship arrangement.

My point is that a woman that does not accept the headship arrangement will not find the perfect husband to be someone that expects submission.

Blergmeister said:
So you are saying the guy fails at his responsibility if the guy willingly gives the woman headship responsibility? Can you reword this or explain in more detail?
The headship principle is not one that man made up. It's a requirement of the religion, led by Christ, and approved by God. To not accept the headship arrangement means the guy does not want to follow a pretty obvious command. It's not really his choice to abdicate (Proof again that God hates men?)

If he really loves his wife, it will not be a burden to her or to him to play that role.

None of that has anything to do with the woman who again must take care of herself (physically, mentally, spiritually) if the man does not wish to.

Blergmeister said:
According to you, to have a marriage with another man, the woman has to accept the headship principle. That is close enough to dictatorial. The bible doesn't really encourage romantic relationships with men that are not marriages so if a woman wants a romantic relationship she must submit to the man. If she doesn't she is a bad Christian.
The woman does not have to accept a perfect Christian standard. In fact, she couldn't if she refused headship. It's really a case of not being able to have it both ways. You can't have the perfect Christian marriage and then expect it to be perfect by breaking a requirement of it. The woman would never be happy in any event.

The reality is a strong willed woman will still accept headship and keep her strong willed ways. Again, headship is not about silencing the wife.
Blergmeister said:
The guy having the final say is the misogynistic thing about all of this. I'd also say that your comment about the breadwinner, while irrelevant, is misogynistic. I agree that whatever decision is made, that the couple needs to take input from eachother but here it is still always the mans decision, regardless of what the input from his wife is. The woman isn't allowed to make any decisions, only to have opinions.
That's not misogynystic because it is not based on hatred. It's based on what's best for the family. Since I didn't live back then, I can't say for a certainty, but I have bnever seen a healthy marriage where the final decision meant that a discussion was no made. Many seem to be focusing on the end of the process and not paying attention to how it got there which would discussion between the spouses backed up by scripture on it.
Blergmeister said:
Are you saying that households where women are considered the head of the family are abnormal? Deciding who is head of the household shouldn't be about what is normal, it should be about what is best for the family.
Outside of Christianity, what is best for the family may be a woman heading the house since who knows what the headship is based on. It is abnormal to see a Christian woman taking the lead in a house where there is a Christian man residing as well.

However, I was actually talking about in general with society, it has been a normal thing to presume headship is given to the husband. Most of the planet thinks of it this way including the majority of the western world.
Blergmeister said:
The bible has many quotes about husband and wife treating eachother good and fair and thats all good! There are some good lessons in there! I just think that a lot of it is advice from another time where women held another place in society and some is completely inappropriate to follow today. Just like I think it is inapropriate to think that a woman is unclean while on her period I also think it is inaprorpiate for a woman to have to accept to submit to the man to be married to him.
Like I said before, that's just picking out a particular scripture when there are tons of scriptures that make it clear bodily fluids of any kind (except maybe snot) leaking out was unclean for men or women.

There are plenty of examples of the Bible liking women just fine, throughout all the books including those evil OT ones. There are books dedicated to them and plenty of examples of women acting far more faithful than men. Reading the Bible through, I honestly can't see how anyone could see a pattern of hating women unless that is the only thing they are looking for. That's why I'm pretty confident is saying that the Bible does not hate women.

Now if submission is by default a hatred of women than I suppose we agree to disagree, as I do not even remotely think that submission, loving your wife, & hating your wife by default because of the headship arrangement is reconcilable.
 
Metaphoreus said:
jdogmoney

You've been hanging around Mgoblue201 too much.

He has cool stories, what can I say.

:)

If you're having difficulty understanding the words I used, say so and I'll try to explain it differently. Don't wave your hands and say it doesn't "seem to mean anything."

Well, see...nobody has been able to come up with anything that would be "good" or "evil" if there weren't anyone around to call it that. I misspoke. The phrase "objective morality" does mean something. I apologize. I just don't think it is a legitimate concept.

Every time you pass a moral judgment on another's actions, you are invoking an objective morality. If there is no objective morality, then you have no basis against which to judge the other's actions. If you both define your moral codes on the basis of empathy, then it's your empathy against his--and since he's the one acting, you're an unwelcome interloper intruding into how he lives his life. How arrogant that you think your morality should dictate how he lives his life! Now then, it certainly is possible for you to say, "According to my sense of empathy, what that person is doing is immoral," and the effect of that would be that you have just stated that you would not do that thing (or that if you did do that thing, you would be acting immorally.) But if all that your moral judgment comes down to is, "I wouldn't do X," while denying the existence of an objective morality, then you cannot justifiably condemn a person for doing X, since, to them, it may be perfectly moral!

This is where I don't follow your thinking.

If there is no objective morality, surely the standards I've come up with and the standards humanity as a whole have developed over time matter more? Something can be subjective and still be important. That's why we have works of art. The label "subjective" doesn't make something less important. If the debates on Gaming side are any indication, the more subjective something is, the more passionate the defenders.

I try not to condemn anybody, actually, but on the off chance I find myself in that position, I'm perfectly validated. My moral code is about respecting others. If I see someone, say, not wash his hands after going to the bathroom, I'm perfectly justified in thinking that is wrong. It's just as wrong as it would be if I didn't wash my hands, since the effect it has on the general population (someone is being gross about their bathroom habits) is the same, no matter if I were being super gross or if someone else were.

So, let's say that God exists, and that He has developed His own morality but that this does not create an objective morality. Assume further that God has overtly commanded that His followers discriminate against people based on their gender, race, national origin, sexual orientation, and family status. If you condemn that command, then the effect is that you have said, "I would not discriminate on those bases." But nobody should give any meaning beyond that to your words--after all, God is just as capable as you are of developing His own morality, and so there is no reason to accept that yours is right and His wrong. They're just different. So here. You say,

Your argument is that it was morally wrong for God to condone a family arrangement in which the man and woman bore unequal authority with respect to one another. I read that as, "I would not condone a family arrangement in which the man and woman bear unequal authority with respect to one another," but I don't care what you would do. If there is no objective morality against which to judge God's condonation, then whatever He does cannot be condemned on the basis of your feelings. Your morality is applicable only to you, and not to others, including God. Only by arrogating to yourself the status of the creator of objective morality could you condemn God or anyone else for acting in a way contrary to what you believe. And if you aren't arrogating to yourself that status, then you are only saying, "I wouldn't do X," but that isn't enough to condemn the actions of the other, since said actions may be justified by the other's own morality.

Hooray! My defense from this post applies here, too! I don't have to retype it.


...

I hope? :D

As one final note, I think NegativeZero has a strong point that's being ignored. Calling something misogynistic doesn't make it so. And the responses to that point so far have been weak.

Well, I had hoped I wouldn't have to explain why it's wrong that "men>women", but it seems that I do.

Wait, what's this? Someone already started for me.

Blergmeister said:
JGS, I don't agree with your Men as the head of the household argument. You claim that this section is not misogynist because someone has to be the head of the household and God chose the man. You then made arguments that the women is emporwered enough through the man if both are good Christians. This is all moot because misogynist point is that the man HAS to be the head of the household and the woman can only be empowered if he lets her. Whether the man is a good Christian or not, her empowerment is at his control.

Thanks, Blerg.

The point of the Adam and Eve story that I, at least, am trying to bring about is, in the story, Adam, the man, was created first. Eve, the woman, was created because Adam, the man, needed a helper.

[Why Adam needed a helper when the Garden of Eden was apparently eternal paradise, I don't know. But that myth doesn't make any sense anyway, so let's continue on why it's bad for women.]

Whoever wrote the story wrote it so that woman came from man, when it's the other way around. Women give birth, men don't. (Matter of fact, the first female common ancestor of all of humanity was around about 100,000 years before the first common male ancestor.) In the story, though, woman is an offshoot of man. A reflection of a reflection. A copy of a copy. A second-class creation.

This isn't a Good Thing.

And, in the story, who fucked up?

Eve. The woman. Of course.

The woman ruined everything.

[In some interpretations, noble Adam only went along with eating the fruit to stay with his dumb broad of a wife. No need to respond to this directly; I know this isn't a common interpretation, I merely include it to illustrate the point.]

From the very first story in the very first book of the Bible, men are treated as superior to women, and, by extension, women are treated as inferior.

JGS, dude, I can understand that you disagree with me, but saying that I don't "get it" because I disagree with you is not the way to go. I've read the Bible. I spent the majority of my life reading the Bible. I researched the "context". I know the stories. I've looked at plenty of different translations. I've considered the historical placement of the texts. I've delved into the writing styles of the different authors of the Bible.

What I'm saying is I've looked into it, all right?

If you would consider the possibility (you wouldn't) that the Bible is NOT divinely inspired (it isn't), you might be able to see that other people can come to conclusions that you don't necessarily share (you won't).
 
This whole 'women versus man' extrapolation is interesting. Take the Islamic school of thought which is similiar as regards Adam and Eve, whereby Eve came from Adam, or after Adam at least. But in Islam, the common mother is to be regarded three times higher then a father. Yes?
 
Metaphoreus said:
This is a fair cultural criticism from a modern standpoint, but it doesn't go to a moral issue.

The right to autonomy over basic life decisions isn't a moral issue?

What does it matter what "most people think"? If morality is determined by what "most people think," then slavery of whatever sort was absolutely moral at whatever time during which it was generally accepted. And if that's the case, then you have no complaint against God, since slavery was perfectly moral.

"Most people think" was essentially shorthand "even Bible-believing Christians would concede" that slavery is immoral. Apparently that is not correct, as your posts show. But anyone who does think that slavery is immoral should reject the notion that Biblical literalism is worth anything as a moral guide.

But on the topic of missing points:

I am aware of your lengthy defense of slavery.


So what was the point I missed again?

The point that it does not follow from the fact that slavery B is worse than slavery A that slavery A is therefore moral.

In the case of Western slavery, that property was another person; in the case of OT slavery, that property was the labor of another person.

This is incorrect. A right of ownership in other person's labor is not a master-slave relationship. It's an employer-employee relationship.

Why does violating fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity make something wrong? Who chose human equality and dignity as the gold standard for morality? Whose concepts of human equality and dignity are we discussing? Why theirs?

The concepts of anyone who thinks slavery is immoral. This isn't a complicated argument. As explained above, the only point is that anyone who thinks slavery is immoral cannot accept the literal word of the Bible as a serious guide to morality.

Neither slavery nor involuntary servitude, except as a punishment for crime whereof the party shall have been duly convicted, shall exist within the United States, or any place subject to their jurisdiction."

You may have heard of a civil war and three amendments that abrogated that clause. The antebellum Constitution's pro-slavery provisions are generally considered flaws. Apparently you are an exception.
 
One quick note and I'll return to the rest later.
Dude Abides said:
You may have heard of a civil war and three amendments that abrogated that clause. The antebellum Constitution's pro-slavery provisions are generally considered flaws. Apparently you are an exception.
It does seem to ring a bell, but... which three amendments were those? Amendments XIII, XIV, and XV? But what did I quote?
Metaphoreus said:
U.S. Constitution, Amendment XIII
How embarrassing. I'll let it slide if you aren't from the U.S. (I'll even let it slide if you can't read Roman numerals, just 'cause I'm a nice guy.)
 
jdogmoney said:
Thanks, Blerg.

The point of the Adam and Eve story that I, at least, am trying to bring about is, in the story, Adam, the man, was created first. Eve, the woman, was created because Adam, the man, needed a helper.

[Why Adam needed a helper when the Garden of Eden was apparently eternal paradise, I don't know. But that myth doesn't make any sense anyway, so let's continue on why it's bad for women.]
The helper wasn't meant as a co-worker, but as a compliment which is mentioned in the same verse as helper. Many of the other animals had mates, so it made sense that Adam get one too. If it was solely as a helper, then Adam would have had another man (Adam & Steve?).

The relaity is pretty clear. Eve was created so Adam wouldn't be alone and also so they could get busy and fill the Earth.

jdogmoney said:
]Whoever wrote the story wrote it so that woman came from man, when it's the other way around. Women give birth, men don't. (Matter of fact, the first female common ancestor of all of humanity was around about 100,000 years before the first common male ancestor.) In the story, though, woman is an offshoot of man. A reflection of a reflection. A copy of a copy. A second-class creation.
She is an offshoot of man but god created both. You've intentionally ignored twioce the reason for that. Is there a reason for that?

jdogmoney said:
]This isn't a Good Thing.

And, in the story, who fucked up?

Eve. The woman. Of course.

The woman ruined everything.
No, Adam did. Eve was decieved. Adam was not.


jdogmoney said:
]From the very first story in the very first book of the Bible, men are treated as superior to women, and, by extension, women are treated as inferior.
In actuality, Adam is shown to be the idiot for being around longer, knowing more, & STILL eating the fruit.

jdogmoney said:
JGS, dude, I can understand that you disagree with me, but saying that I don't "get it" because I disagree with you is not the way to go. I've read the Bible. I spent the majority of my life reading the Bible. I researched the "context". I know the stories. I've looked at plenty of different translations. I've considered the historical placement of the texts. I've delved into the writing styles of the different authors of the Bible.
It has nothing to do with disagreement which is completely expected.

That's not the reason I say you don't get it. If you had simply discussed that men and women should be treated equally in a marriage, I would have only had to go on the fact that it's doctrine (Which is what I was getting at at the top of the page). However, you took it up a notch, so now it's about being wrong. You have said repeatedly the Bible is full of misogyny but fail to verify that. The only basis for this is headship. However, you fail to connect that with misogyny. Your whole disagreement has to do with your opinion that you twist into fact.

You constantly accuse me of stating my opinion, but it's backed by the same scriptures already quoted. You don't get it if you think your "research" did not involve context from a verse or chapter over or any type of historical background, or any kind of verification that men and God actually did hate women any more than they apparently hated men too.

jdogmoney said:
If you would consider the possibility (you wouldn't) that the Bible is NOT divinely inspired (it isn't), you might be able to see that other people can come to conclusions that you don't necessarily share (you won't).
This doesn't have anything to do with divine inspiration. There are plenty of cultures and lifestyles that don't follow the Bible that are not so extreme as to the think men who take the lead in their house is a sign they hate women or any number of whacky things like ones liking slavery just because it existed in the past.

You don't get it because you don't see the problem with your statements.
 
jdogmoney said:
The problem with my statements?

Please.

Illuminate me.
There's plenty.

Your last post assumed my beef had to do with not seeing your view because I believe the Bible is inspired when it really had to do with you not getting a book as written whether you believe it's fiction or not.

The most recent one though is in regards to your ideas of the Bible and headship.

You flat out spoke in absolutes.

me said:
The Bible doesn't address superiority, it addresses headship. It's not a question of superiority. They are equal to each other.

you said:
"Superior" in the sense that your boss is superior to you in the hierarchy. I know what the Bible says; it's still wrong.

you said:
No. The Bible says a woman has to answer to a man. That the man is the unquestionable head of the family.

This is wrong.
Where exactly are we supposed to go from there? You are not open minded enough to accept another person's view and then accuse me o the same as if you have a freeness of speech in the matter. You then suggest non-misogynistic passages are and are so obvious as to simply prove it with Adam & Eve, which is a poor example of misogyny like the rest of them.

You fail to address the points brought up that are contrary to yours and then you accuse ones of being blinded by the simple premise that the Bible is inspired, therefore all is good- something I've never said.

Your statements are weak because at the end of the day, you don't know how to argue your points, just counter argue others. Blerg, who may very well hate my guts and think my views are as silly as you do, knows how to present arguments that advance the discussion rather than retreat back to warmed up soup.

Your lack respect for others views is evident which is sad for one claiming to be on a morally superior level than us Bible thumpers.
 
JGS said:
There's plenty.

Your last post assumed my beef had to do with not seeing your view because I believe the Bible is inspired when it really had to do with you not getting a book as written whether you believe it's fiction or not.

You keep coming back to that.

I see something differently, thus I don't "get it". The thing is, though, I "get" what you're saying. The idea that man>woman in a marriage is so ingrained in you that you don't even see how it could be viewed differently.

You don't, for lack of a better term, "get it".

It's true, I'm not "open-minded enough" to allow for a second-class citizen, no matter if they're a woman, a person with a different skin, a dude who likes dudes or a lady who likes ladies. These are all people who have been treated as inferior throughout history (we're still working on some of those) and throughout the Bible, which, incidentally, has been used to justify them being treated as second-class...

Where we "go from there" is you trying to convince me that it's not wrong for a man to always be in command of a woman in a relationship, or that Adam and Eve isn't a tale full of chauvinist malarkey.

It's actually kind of like you not "believing" in the evidence for abiogenesis. I can point out how chemical reactions can lead to more chemical reactions that eventually lead to a set of molecules that become self-replicating and it's all very scientific and cool and fascinating but it doesn't matter, because you think the fact that humans set up the experiment invalidates the fact that the reaction and process would happen in those conditions no matter what. It's far from a proof, to be sure, but to not even say it's evidence for is what we in the business call intellectually dishonest.

[It is amusing how people accuse me of these things without having any perspective at all. Something something speck of dust and a plank something eye.]

The same principal applies here.

I say that the fact that man is created first despite that not really making much sense is misogynist, in that the woman is an offshoot of man and therefore not as important as the original. (Paul sort of agrees with me here, actually. He says stuff to the effect of "man was created first, therefore he's in charge". I...I don't like Paul.)

But you see, your rebuttal can't be "Nuh-uh!"

Simply asserting that my claim is weak does not make it so.

You have to explain why the order of creation isn't inherently misogynistic, when it is "man" and then, as an afterthought, "woman, too, I guess, or whatever?". A rebuttal is not, "well that's stupid". You have to explain why it's stupid.
 
jdogmoney said:
You keep coming back to that.

I see something differently, thus I don't "get it". The thing is, though, I "get" what you're saying. The idea that man>woman in a marriage is so ingrained in you that you don't even see how it could be viewed differently.
You're not seeing something differently. You're take a book that's well over a thousand pages deep and saying a silly little one sentence statement on it that is flat out incorrect and has been shown to you repeatedly at this point to be incorrect except you refuse to at least see how someone else can view the matter.

If yo can't, by the explanations of at least 3 people see how your version of things may have at least one or two flaws in thinking, then you're thick. Case in point:

jdogmoney said:
It's true, I'm not "open-minded enough" to allow for a second-class citizen, no matter if they're a woman, a person with a different skin, a dude who likes dudes or a lady who likes ladies. These are all people who have been treated as inferior throughout history (we're still working on some of those) and throughout the Bible, which, incidentally, has been used to justify them being treated as second-class...
You don't get it. You refuse to get it.

jdogmoney said:
Where we "go from there" is you trying to convince me that it's not wrong for a man to always be in command of a woman in a relationship, or that Adam and Eve isn't a tale full of chauvinist malarkey.
We don't go there at all. I have not a care whether you are convinced or not since from my view, you will never ever change you view on the matter which is your right. I'll simply dispute your claims when necessary and then watch you refute claims with a paragraph like above, simply bypassing any arguments that were brought up.

jdogmoney said:
It's actually kind of like you not "believing" in the evidence for abiogenesis. I can point out how chemical reactions can lead to more chemical reactions that eventually lead to a set of molecules that become self-replicating and it's all very scientific and cool and fascinating but it doesn't matter, because you think the fact that humans set up the experiment invalidates the fact that the reaction and process would happen in those conditions no matter what. It's far from a proof, to be sure, but to not even say it's evidence for is what we in the business call intellectually dishonest.
That's not true. What invalidates abiogenesis is the fact that it's impossible. It's nice to have the series of processes in place, but if they are fundamentally impossible for nature to work out, then you simply look like someone trying to replace God.

That's a far cry from ready one verse that is written, ignoring another verse that is written and then deducing that the whole book caters to the one verse you read.

jdogmoney said:
I say that the fact that man is created first despite that not really making much sense is misogynist, in that the woman is an offshoot of man and therefore not as important as the original. (Paul sort of agrees with me here, actually. He says stuff to the effect of "man was created first, therefore he's in charge". I...I don't like Paul.)
That's your right to think that but it doesn't actually make it right. By your view, the only option was for Adam and Eve to be created at exactly the same time.

Further, the act of creating Eve in the first place was an act of hatred by God which makes no sense whatsoever. The thought that she would be a compliment to Adam was an act of hatred and disdain makes no sense whatsoever. Everyone and their uncle knows that a woman is equally important if for no other reason, then to make sure more misogynistic men are born.

jdogmoney said:
But you see, your rebuttal can't be "Nuh-uh!"
My rebuttal never was that.

jdogmoney said:
Simply asserting that my claim is weak does not make it so.
That's true. Your claim actually being weak is what makes it so.

jdogmoney said:
You have to explain why the order of creation isn't inherently misogynistic, when it is "man" and then, as an afterthought, "woman, too, I guess, or whatever?". A rebuttal is not, "well that's stupid". You have to explain why it's stupid.
I don't have to explain something that outlandish at all. You need to explain why chronology pays such a big role in hatred. There a lot of younger siblings that will be in need of therapy if that's the case.

Again, if you had simply stated that the Bible should mirror the EEOA, this conversation would be a lot shorter and I would only have "The Bible says so". But since you've elevated to the ludicrous notion that God and the men that worship him have a disdain for women on the apparently primary basis of Eve being created second, then there's more to say on it.
 
No, that's not the primary claim. It's the first one, chronologically. I could give more examples, but there's not really a point, since you don't even see how this one is perfectly legitimate. I'm going to continue supporting my point, but you can skip the next few lines, since it's clearly going to have no effect on you.


In the Bible, something's name has power. God named Adam. Adam named Eve.

Why not create both simultaneously?

If it doesn't matter, why not create the woman first?

The account of Adam blaming Eve is unique to the Old Testament. In the Koran, they share responsibility.

You ignored how I'm espousing the same view as friggin' Paul, who said "And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 TIMOTHY 2:12-14)

Here's an article written on the subject by someone who does this sort of thing for a living: http://witcombe.sbc.edu/eve-women/1evewomen.html (It goes on for seven parts, so keep reading once you get to the end of the first page.) It's a great explanation of what I'm saying, since apparently I'm not being clear enough.


Okay, JGS, I'm going back to a general argument now. You seem to pay more attention to those, so...

I don't assume God hates women. Why would I? The intention of God, if there were such a being, which there probably isn't, would be immaterial, since there is not any conclusive evidence that He intervenes on Earth. What matters is how people interpret the book, since people are what I have to deal with on a day to day basis. People have interpreted it to denigrate women. This is a fact. Even if you think the interpretation is wrong, people have still used the Bible to keep women down, just like they used it to justify slavery*, and how they use it justify homophobia. These are all Bad Things.

*[bad example, since you still don't think slavery is immoral, but work with me, here]

It's not a question of differing views. Again, you think the Bible is something more than a collection of stories with some good bits mixed into a whoooooole lotta bad. I don't. These are different views, and I accept that. I'm not going to convince you that the Bible isn't the work of God, and you aren't going to convince me it is. Or that God exists as more than a concept, for that matter, but...

The claim that the Bible is misogynist, on the other hand, is a qualitative statement. I am saying something that is either true or false. It's a question of fact. I've given evidence to support that claim. Evidence which you have not disputed, beyond saying it wasn't good enough. If it's not good enough, explain why it's not good enough, like you think you did about abiogenesis.



All right.

Let me try something else.

Why is an all-powerful, all-knowing, life-creating, all-loving, benevolent being with no counterpart a "He"?
 
jdogmoney said:
No, that's not the primary claim. It's the first one, chronologically. I could give more examples, but there's not really a point, since you don't even see how this one is perfectly legitimate. I'm going to continue supporting my point, but you can skip the next few lines, since it's clearly going to have no effect on you.
I don't see how it's perfectly legitimate because you haven't explained it.

jdogmoney said:
In the Bible, something's name has power. God named Adam. Adam named Eve.
So? Most of the names in the Bible

jdogmoney said:
Why not create both simultaneously?
Why would he need to? Further, no one is disputing that man is the one God referenced as creating in his image which is ...

jdogmoney said:
If it doesn't matter, why not create the woman first?
God did not create woman first.

jdogmoney said:
The account of Adam blaming Eve is unique to the Old Testament. In the Koran, they share responsibility.
They share responsibility in here with the clear cut primary culpability being on Adam. Jesus sacrifice was to correspond to Adam's sin, not Eve's.

Now, with all of your examples about Adam & Eve, absolutely none of it explained why or how Eve being created by God from Adam's rib a misogynistoc act.

All you highlighted was that you feel it wasn't fair. Why was it an act of hatred toward women. What in all of that showed that God hated women?

I know you look at it as a writer thing, but even then how did the writer of Genesis show himself to be someone who hates women?

jdogmoney said:
You ignored how I'm espousing the same view as friggin' Paul, who said "And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression." (1 TIMOTHY 2:12-14)
Are you thinking I'm denying the headship arrangement? The two reasons are given in the verse.

1. Adam, being made in God's image and tasked with the responsibility of taking care of the earth is God's dominant creation.
2. Eve, because of the manner in which she sinned and also the fact that she flunked her first headship test was not qualified for the responsibility. Adam was not deceived because he ate the fruit too although he knew full well what the consequences were. His sin was more heinous.

Although they did not teach from the platform/pulpit in a congregation, they still could dispute matters with the hubby per the headship arrangement. 1 Corinthians 11:8-12 written by Paul too makes it pretty clear that women were not viewed differently in terms of their worship which is more impiortant than the roles they take on. This is further proven by the fact that, although no leaders in the ciongregation, women played a very important role as preachers and teachers in the Christian Ministry with that dastardly paul asctually working with them (Shock!)

Now again, how exactly is this a clear sign that God and man hate women?

jdogmoney said:
Here's an article written on the subject by someone who does this sort of thing for a living: http://witcombe.sbc.edu/eve-women/1evewomen.html (It goes on for seven parts, so keep reading once you get to the end of the first page.) It's a great explanation of what I'm saying, since apparently I'm not being clear enough.
Oh, you're doing fine as a disciple of Mr. Whitcombe. Like you, he is simply telling me his view (Women are to be like the Virgin mary? Really?) The rest of the pages are purporting to explain the damge to women's psyche that is caused by the Adam & Eve story.
jdogmoney said:
I don't assume God hates women. Why would I? The intention of God, if there were such a being, which there probably isn't, would be immaterial, since there is not any conclusive evidence that He intervenes on Earth. What matters is how people interpret the book, since people are what I have to deal with on a day to day basis. People have interpreted it to denigrate women. This is a fact. Even if you think the interpretation is wrong, people have still used the Bible to keep women down, just like they used it to justify slavery*, and how they use it justify homophobia. These are all Bad Things.
So you don't think the Bible is misogynistic? Good.

Does the Bible deneigrate women if that definitionnvolves them seeing the man as head in the family and the congregation? Sure why not.

However, the vast majority of Christian women in no way feel they are denigragted by that. On dealing with people on a daily basis from various backgound, not a one of them feel somehow disconnected from God or lorded over by men simply because they are not pushing it to the extremes that you and others do..

I am not concerned with what people use religion for if it's contrary to what the religion teaches. I've said that before. Christianity does not:
- Teach slavery
- Denigrate women (Except if you view headship as such)
- Denounce homosexuals although it denounces their actions along with the actions of unmarried heterosexuals.

Why would I sleep any less at night fretting over people using the Bible to justify their bad practices?
jdogmoney said:
*[bad example, since you still don't think slavery is immoral, but work with me, here]
*groan*
There's the lie again. You couldn't help yourself.

jdogmoney said:
It's not a question of differing views. Again, you think the Bible is something more than a collection of stories with some good bits mixed into a whoooooole lotta bad. I don't. These are different views, and I accept that. I'm not going to convince you that the Bible isn't the work of God, and you aren't going to convince me it is. Or that God exists as more than a concept, for that matter, but...
By your opinion, you don't believe there are even good bit which is why it's a case of you being wrong. That's the problem. You think that the bulk of the Bible is bad when the bulk of the Bible, even by liberal standards, is good. You cannot see beyond your opinion.

That's why I don't think you've read it or read it well. All those verse Dani brought out weren't even 1% of the entire Bible and yet MOST of it is bad? That's whacky talk!

Even amongst Dani's verses, that make up less than 1%, most of those were bogus. You are upset with a book that explains historic details. It actually gives you a view of what times were like back then and then all of a sudden, war is more heinous because the Bible describes it instead of The Illiad. It's silly reasoning and deduction.

jdogmoney said:
The claim that the Bible is misogynist, on the other hand, is a qualitative statement. I am saying something that is either true or false. It's a question of fact. I've given evidence to support that claim. Evidence which you have not disputed, beyond saying it wasn't good enough. If it's not good enough, explain why it's not good enough, like you think you did about abiogenesis.
So God is not misogynistic but the men who wrote the Bible (Since God obviously doesn't exist) are? Let's roll with that.

Again, how is what you've shown indicated that mankind as a whole and men of the Bible hated the women they loved?

jdogmoney said:
All right.

Let me try something else.

Why is an all-powerful, all-knowing, life-creating, all-loving, benevolent being with no counterpart a "He"?
This has already been answered. If man is made in God;'s image and woman from man, then...
 
JGS said:
Now if submission is by default a hatred of women than I suppose we agree to disagree, as I do not even remotely think that submission, loving your wife, & hating your wife by default because of the headship arrangement is reconcilable.

Coming back to your response, this is the part that I think gets most to my point.

First, let me replace the word misogynist with sexist or sexism. I associate misogyny more with sexist than outright hatred and it seems that you associate it with sexism at its ugliest, which I can understand. In any case its changing the meaning of both of our arguments as you are arguing against outright hatred and I'm arguing that it is sexist.

Moving on...

I agree that very happy Christian (and non Christian) marriages can take place following this principle if both treat each other with respect and listen to each others opinions, as the Bible does says should happen. That is not the part I think is sexist. I think the sexist part is that by default that man is the head of the house. There is no reason that women cannot be.

You agree that in a good Christian marriage the wife should agree to be submissive (which would then work out for her with a good Christian husband.) This is okay because it was commanded from on high from God himself. To people who don't believe the supernatural parts of the Bible and are reading it to try and find the life lessons of that story, there is no reason for why that should be. No parable or life lesson. Good Christian women are submissive their husband. That is sexist.

To help picture this from an athiest perpective I recomend replacing God with Bender, and whoever in the story I'd replace with those random people living on his stomach and ass... but thats just me. In this scenario we are told that Bender thinks that men should be dominate in the household and that women should submit. I'll ask "Isn't that sexist" and he'll respond by taking a puff of his cigar and saying "ahh, it'll be fine as long as the dude is not a jerk."
 
Blergmeister said:
Coming back to your response, this is the part that I think gets most to my point.

First, let me replace the word misogynist with sexist or sexism. I associate misogyny more with sexist than outright hatred and it seems that you associate it with sexism at its ugliest, which I can understand. In any case its changing the meaning of both of our arguments as you are arguing against outright hatred and I'm arguing that it is sexist.

Now we're getting somewhere. I associate misigyny with hatred because that it's definition. Sexism is quite a bit different.

Because women do not share the same responsibility as the men, from a secular standpoint (or one who is not a follower of the religion), I would concur it's sexist. Happy?!:lol

However, from within a religion that is voluntarily joined by both genders, that one chooses to exercise faith in, that receives the same rewards/benefits of that faith, it's not sexist at all. It's not oppression/harm from the religious viewpoint as women still have plenty to do and plenty to say in both the family and the congregation.

However, again, I have no way of arguing that with a person looking from the outside and the point is valid from their view. At this point, btw, I'm primarily speaking of women serving as pastors/elders in a church/congregation. I honestly think that the man as head rule is practiced nearly universally to the point where there is not even a discussion on it between the husband and wife. A good courtship would have disclosed those types of issues anyway. Men and women just fall into their roles and most marriages operate just fine. Maybe that's the secret. Number one rule of headship is don't talk about headship.

This is also why religion is seperate from secular, because it is completely inappropriate for women to be discriminated against because the standards of a religion cannot be carried over to the standards of a government. Ditto for gay marriage, burqa wearing, one nation under God, etc...

Blergmeister said:
I agree that very happy Christian (and non Christian) marriages can take place following this principle if both treat each other with respect and listen to each others opinions, as the Bible does says should happen. That is not the part I think is sexist. I think the sexist part is that by default that man is the head of the house. There is no reason that women cannot be.
Again, I can't argue that, but I think it's blown out of proportion. Secularly, it is sexist for the man to say the final yes, but it should also mean that the woman said yes to whatever the decision was too. When two Cristians are married, there should be very little in dispute anyway.

I get in trouble for using personal experiences, but with my wife and I, the main disputes involve purchases. If it's an expense we need to share (like buyng a house), then we both have agreed to purchase a particular house. If it's something that is with our own money, we buy what we want provided it's not illegal or something crazy. If it's something I dislike but listen to the reason we need it (like a mini-van), then we buy it over the sports car. In all of those scenarios, I never gave up being the head of household although there was never a time that a dispute arose or that I put my foot down.

When it came to kids, we knew before we got married how we were going to raise them, whether we would have them, and guessed at how many (That changes- you either want more or less; we chose less!). We knew what our shared goals were, and knew that we were made for each other. If my wife did not agree with what I was expecting, I wouldn't have married her and vice-versa. Again, none of the headship principle should have been a shock or unwieldy prior to marriage, so there was no reason for it to be now that we've been married forever.
Blergmeister said:
You agree that in a good Christian marriage the wife should agree to be submissive (which would then work out for her with a good Christian husband.) This is okay because it was commanded from on high from God himself. To people who don't believe the supernatural parts of the Bible and are reading it to try and find the life lessons of that story, there is no reason for why that should be. No parable or life lesson. Good Christian women are submissive their husband. That is sexist.
I agree with this in the sense that non-Christian men and women do not need to practice Christian teaching. They should however try to mind their own business on the matter unless there are clear signs of abuse. In that case, anyone should be calling the cops.
Blergmeister said:
To help picture this from an athiest perpective I recomend replacing God with Bender, and whoever in the story I'd replace with those random people living on his stomach and ass... but thats just me. In this scenario we are told that Bender thinks that men should be dominate in the household and that women should submit. I'll ask "Isn't that sexist" and he'll respond by taking a puff of his cigar and saying "ahh, it'll be fine as long as the dude is not a jerk."
I don't have a problem with the atheist perspective. After all, my assumption is that most atheists feel that if the religious themselves aren't stupid, their religion is. So their view of headship would fit right in there. What I have an issue with is the idea that what an atheist thinks is good/bad, moral/immoral, right/wrong, true/false should somehow translate to an absolute on the matter - effectively becoming the moral standard that they ridicule religion for trying to be.

It does not affect the atheist whether sexism exists within a religion they would never follow, would never listen to a woman pastor anymore than a male one, would never have reason to marry a Christian woman (Although know they do), and yet assume that women that willingly and happily enter into the terms of the Christian arrangement are oppressed, hated, demeaned, & denigrated when their demeanor seems to indicate otherwise.

Their concern should be on whether or not sexism exists in the secular world. If it bleeds over from the religious side of things, then there are ways to correct that that don't involve attacking the religion in a blanket condemnation.
 
JGS said:
Now we're getting somewhere. I associate misigyny with hatred because that it's definition. Sexism is quite a bit different.

Because women do not share the same responsibility as the men, from a secular standpoint (or one who is not a follower of the religion), I would concur it's sexist. Happy?!:lol

I'm glad we came to an agreement on this.

JGS said:
It does not affect the atheist whether sexism exists within a religion they would never follow, would never listen to a woman pastor anymore than a male one, would never have reason to marry a Christian woman (Although know they do), and yet assume that women that willingly and happily enter into the terms of the Christian arrangement are oppressed, hated, demeaned, & denigrated when their demeanor seems to indicate otherwise.

Their concern should be on whether or not sexism exists in the secular world. If it bleeds over from the religious side of things, then there are ways to correct that that don't involve attacking the religion in a blanket condemnation.

I think that the religious should be free to practice whatever it wants (as permissible by law.) The woman who discovers Christiantiy and agrees to be submissive, that is her choice. A problem is that for children raised in Christiantiy, how much of a choice do they have? I'm sure we can agree that the vast majority of women born Christian stay Christian, and even those who turn away grow up with the same basic value sets. Some may understand the choice they have and then choose to be submissive but I believe that most probably grown up thinking that being submissive is the right way to live (which to Christians it is.) The point is that they didn't choose to be submissive, they were raised that way. They were raised with sexist beliefs. They may not care or they may resent it. They are going to judge other people based off of that, and they are going to promote it in the world culture. That is why people have a problem with the sexism that is in the Bible.
 
Seems like a topic going so sorry for going off topic of your discussions but my question is isn't there a way for a muslim woman to marry a non-muslim man? So far, all I heard is that they can't marry pagans, from what I see.
 
Blergmeister said:
I think that the religious should be free to practice whatever it wants (as permissible by law.) The woman who discovers Christiantiy and agrees to be submissive, that is her choice. A problem is that for children raised in Christiantiy, how much of a choice do they have?
They have plenty of choice too. Because they do as their parents tell them, they follow the rules until they're grown. They then have the opportunity to make their own decisions. It seems like that is what many atheists/agnostics did who were raised religious. They is not anything particularly special about the ones who broke free. It's just that many children are fine staying in the religion.

Blergmeister said:
I'm sure we can agree that the vast majority of women born Christian stay Christian, and even those who turn away grow up with the same basic value sets. Some may understand the choice they have and then choose to be submissive but I believe that most probably grown up thinking that being submissive is the right way to live (which to Christians it is.) The point is that they didn't choose to be submissive, they were raised that way. They were raised with sexist beliefs. They may not care or they may resent it. They are going to judge other people based off of that, and they are going to promote it in the world culture. That is why people have a problem with the sexism that is in the Bible.
From a religious standpoint, they weren't raised with sexist beliefs - just belief which they are indeed fine with. Most women and men realize that they work and play outside of their religious environments. Thus women demand and expect the same equal opportunities in the workforce while in general not concerning themselves with who is in front of the pulpit. They know exactly what they will tolerate at home too. They are able to seperate the secular from the religious as they should.

Now it's true that women often choose more than the man to stay at home and raise the kids or whatnot, placing them at a further headship disadvantage because they are completely dependent on the man. However, that is usually a voluntary action as well.
 
Dani said:
It is a fact that life first appeared in the ocean before spreading out onto the land. It is a fact that animals, insects and reptiles evolved, over millions of years, from plants.

I don't believe this is correct. Animals and plants evolved seperately from single celled organisms.

I also think your comments would benefit from directing people to the evolution thread. That thread has a wealth of information and useful links which help provide a solid understanding of the evidence, process and integrity of the science surrounding evolution.
 
dark_chris said:
Seems like a topic going so sorry for going off topic of your discussions but my question is isn't there a way for a muslim woman to marry a non-muslim man? So far, all I heard is that they can't marry pagans, from what I see.
Derailing topics is welcome!

I'm not Muslim though so I don't know the answer. Sorry!
 
JGS said:
It seems like that is what many atheists/agnostics did who were raised religious. They is not anything particularly special about the ones who broke free. It's just that many children are fine staying in the religion.
Yes, many people are fine with staying within the values of the religion, and some do turn against it. What I am saying is that Christians are raised with the belief that men are the head of the household with no exceptions, something that you agree that outside of the religion is a sexist concept, and that, whether they choose to remain Christians or not when they are older, this belief is still instilled in them and they will influence society which has largely decided against that belief.

I hate to do this because it is walking a fine line between being offensive or not but lets create a hypothetical religion. This religion believes that white people will hold the final say over any decision involving a white and a black person. White people are always supposed to decide based on whats best for everyone, black or white, so things should turn out for the better no matter what. Outside this religion society finds this extremely racist. There may be people, white and black, who choose to follow this religion and that is their right. This religion has been going on for generations. I state that the children raised in this religion are likely to show racist tendancies when dealing with people outside of the religion, whether they choose to continue on with it or not. There will be exceptions but I still believe that parents who follow this religion are generally raising a bunch of racists.

JGS said:
From a religious standpoint, they weren't raised with sexist beliefs - just belief which they are indeed fine with.
Whether a belief is sexist or not doesn't change when it comes from religion.
 
Blergmeister said:
Yes, many people are fine with staying within the values of the religion, and some do turn against it. What I am saying is that Christians are raised with the belief that men are the head of the household with no exceptions, something that you agree that outside of the religion is a sexist concept, and that, whether they choose to remain Christians or not when they are older, this belief is still instilled in them and they will influence society which has largely decided against that belief.
Got it.

The belief wouldn't be instilled in them if they choose to no longer be Christians as they would be forsaking more important aspects of the doctrine. Further it is not carried over into the secular world even now so there's no reason to think that non-worshippers would do so if the forsook their faith.

Blergmeister said:
I hate to do this because it is walking a fine line between being offensive or not but lets create a hypothetical religion. This religion believes that white people will hold the final say over any decision involving a white and a black person. White people are always supposed to decide based on whats best for everyone, black or white, so things should turn out for the better no matter what. Outside this religion society finds this extremely racist. There may be people, white and black, who choose to follow this religion and that is their right. This religion has been going on for generations. I state that the children raised in this religion are likely to show racist tendancies when dealing with people outside of the religion, whether they choose to continue on with it or not. There will be exceptions but I still believe that parents who follow this religion are generally raising a bunch of racists.
Society would view this as a racist tendency. It's pretty similar to how Israel operated. Anyone could join with the nation of Israel, but the religion itself was race based because that was the covenant God had with their ancestor - Abraham.

However, from the religious viewpoint, everyone is benefitting. There are churches out there that are 100% racists that could not care about another race whether talking about deep south rednecks or urban preachers like Jeremiah Wright.

To be clear, this is not something I would ever hold to because it's not a Christian teaching.

Now, in regards to women though, the same thing applies although the scenario is entirely different specifically because it's gender. Society as we know it now views discrimination against women as a sexist thing even amongst the religious. However, the view from the inside makes it pretty clear that woman have any number of privileges involving worship, teaching, & preaching- this includes having the ability to help her family make decisions and what not. If we were to directly compare your scenario, then the assumption would be that women don't have this when in fact they do.

This is the reason why the religious shoud not concern themselves with what society outside of the religion view them provided they are following the laws of the land which they are.

Blergmeister said:
Whether a belief is sexist or not doesn't change when it comes from religion.
I disagree.

It's largely perception and how society right now defines what sexism is and isn't. It's the reason why women can't play in the NBA, NFL, & have their own division in sports. It's why there are more accomadations for them when children are born. It's why some career fields are predominantly one gender. It's why there are gender based schools, health clubs, and drink nights. There are many places where a dominant gender mentality rules in mainstream society and little of it if any is considered sexists nor should it be.

Within a religion made up of both men and women of all races, it is their right to determine who they want having headship and it's why society doesn't interfere with it that right except maybe by peer pressure or coercion.
 
Right, well, JGS, I lost the response I just typed up, and I'm annoyed at that, so I'm just going to hit the major points.

-I didn't realize it was the word "misogyny" you had a problem with, rather than the concept it describes.

-I've read the Bible. Cover to cover and multiple times. Stop saying I haven't. It's getting annoying.

-This quote:

JGS said:
1. Adam, being made in God's image and tasked with the responsibility of taking care of the earth is God's dominant creation.

-explains everything. You accept the bolded as perfectly natural and good. The bolded is sexist.

-I see the Bible as a lot of bad with some good bits sprinkled in, as I told you in that post. This ties in to the above; stop presuming to know what I think.

-It doesn't really affect whether or not something is sexist if the women don't argue against the arrangement. There were happy slaves, too.

-Speaking of, I'll stop with the slavery comments when you tell me that slavery is immoral.

-I said earlier, I think, that God wasn't misogynist. Or maybe you said that I said that, I don't care enough to go back to check. Either way, that may not be true. I don't think God is misogynist, for the very good reason that I don't think God exists, but God as outlined in the Bible? I think there's a very good reason that He is called "He". There might well be an argument to be made for God being misogynist. That's getting away from what we're talking about, though, which is: is the Bible sexist?
yes, it is
 
Dude Abides
Dude Abides said:
The right to autonomy over basic life decisions isn't a moral issue?
Is that what I said?
Dude Abides said:
"Most people think" was essentially shorthand "even Bible-believing Christians would concede" that slavery is immoral.
That's some funny kind of short-hand you've developed. OK, then I'll reevaluate your statement:
Dude Abides said:
It seems you missed the point. [Even Bible-believing Christians would concede] slavery - the ownership of one human being by another - is inherently wrong, even if one form of ownership is crueler than than another.
To begin, Christians don't have to "concede" that slavery is wrong. Christians were instrumental in the abolitionist movement, and they based their opposition to slavery on Biblical principles. I think what you might have meant was, "What even atheists would concede," since atheists have no basis for believing in the inherent wrongness of anything. But I'll use your phrase, just to make you feel better.

Second, I find it amusing that you base your morality on what Bible-believing Christians will concede. Can't you think independently? But let's say that Christians would not always have conceded the wrongness of slavery, just for the sake of argument. In that case, the point remains the same: slavery was moral at whatever point in time Bible-believing Christians would not have conceded its immorality. So, either Christians have never refused to concede the immorality of slavery, or you can't complain about what God did or did not condone or condemn, since slavery was perfectly moral at some times. Of course, you'll have real trouble with the OT institution called slavery, since there were no Christians, and so none to concede slavery's immorality. Thus, OT slavery was moral under your second metric as well as under your "shorthand" first.
Dude Abides said:
Apparently that is not correct, as your posts show.
This is a confused sentence. You're saying that, on the basis of my posts, it is incorrect to say that some Bible-believing Christians will concede the inherent wrongness of slavery. But even if I had rejected the inherent wrongness of slavery, that would not mean that other Bible-believing Christians wouldn't concede the same. In other words, my posts cannot show what you think they showed, even assuming your characterization of my posts is accurate.

Which it isn't.
Dude Abides said:
I am aware of your lengthy defense of slavery.
You are clearly not well-enough aware of my "defense of slavery" to know that it was not a "defense of slavery." Feel free to read over that post again; I'll give you a hint to solving the conundrum that has you tying yourself in knots:
Dude Abides said:
This is incorrect. A right of ownership in other person's labor is not a master-slave relationship. It's an employer-employee relationship.
This is incorrect. Modern law does not recognize a right of ownership in another's labor--at all. Even once labor has been contracted for--and even paid for--courts will refuse to specifically enforce personal service contracts on the basis of (1) the common law, and (2) Amendment XIII (I'm sorry to bring this up again. I know it must still sting). Yet, in modern society we retain the employer-employee relationship. Therefore, the employer-employee relationship must not involve a right of ownership in the labor of another.

Moreover, let me say to you what I already said to Dani:
Metaphoreus said:
at this point you really should have started wondering whether your definition of slavery and the word as used in the Bible were somehow inconsistent with each other.
If I say that the ancient Israelites conceived of "slavery" as involving the ownership of one's labor and not the ownership of the person, then it is no answer for you to say, "No, because slavery means the ownership of a person!" That may very well be what it means to you; it may very well be its modern common meaning, but the modern common meaning has nothing to do with the ancient common meaning. If this is too difficult for you to wrap your brain around, then don't think about OT slaves as "slaves," but think of them as 'ebed, the transliteration of the Hebrew word used; or you could even think of them as servants, which is how the KJV translates the term. My point is, your argument is nothing more than "This is how I define the term and no one can think of it differently." If that's how you mean to frame all of your arguments, I have no interest in dealing with you.
Dude Abides said:
The point that it does not follow from the fact that slavery B is worse than slavery A that slavery A is therefore moral.
That's not actually the point you were referring to. The point you claimed I missed was that "[m]ost people think even Bible-believing Christians would concede slavery - the ownership of one human being by another - is inherently wrong, even if one form of ownership is crueler than than another." This other business about slaveries A and B is irrelevant, especially since you don't even believe slavery A is slavery!
Dude Abides said:
The concepts of anyone who thinks slavery is immoral. This isn't a complicated argument.
I wouldn't have even called it an argument, but I guess I'll give you the benefit of the doubt.

Let's put together what you've said so far to see what this "argument" consists of:
Dude Abides said:
Slavery is wrong because it violates the fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity held by people who think slavery is wrong.
In other words, you've got the conclusion in hand, and now you just need to find someone who agrees with it so that you can pretend you had a basis for arriving at that conclusion. WHOA! Look out! Here comes someone now! You agree with that conclusion, and therefore slavery is wrong because you think it is wrong! But then how is the following false if the above is true? Slavery is not wrong, because it is consistent with the fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity held by people who think slavery is OK.

Not to mention the remaining 75% of questions you left untouched. Actually, I'll save you the time and answer them for you:
Dude Abides' Probable Answers said:
Metaphoreus said:
Why does violating fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity make something wrong?
Violating fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity is wrong because it is wrong to violate fundamental concepts of human equality and dignity.
Metaphoreus said:
Who chose human equality and dignity as the gold standard for morality?
Human equality and dignity were chosen as the gold standard for morality by the people who chose as the gold standard for morality human equality and dignity.
Metaphoreus said:
Why theirs?
Because if I chose to rely on the concepts of people who disagreed with me, my "argument" would make even less sense!

jdogmoney
jdogmoney said:
nobody has been able to come up with anything that would be "good" or "evil" if there weren't anyone around to call it that.
We aren't talking about whether people are around to call something good or evil, or moral or immoral. What's the point of discussing morality if no choosing agent exists? The definition given presupposes the existence of such moral agents--so there is someone around to "call" something good or evil. But that's not the point. The point is that, regardless of what that person "calls" good or what he "calls" evil, some things are good and some evil. Some things are right and some wrong, and they remain right or wrong regardless of whether they are called right or wrong by whoever is doing the calling. (Of course, the scope of this definition is limited to apply to those who are not the source of that objective morality.)
jdogmoney said:
If there is no objective morality, surely the standards I've come up with and the standards humanity as a whole have developed over time matter more?
My argument is only that if there is no objective morality, then there is no standard to judge others. It doesn't matter what standard you choose--whether a standard you have adopted or a standard developed by "humanity as a whole" (is there such a thing? If it is the latter, for example, can you really say discriminating based on sex or race or sexual orientation is wrong? Would most humans agree with you?)--you can't meaningfully judge the morality of someone else's actions unless there is an objective morality. Your example of the fellow who doesn't wash his hands after using the restroom misses the point; I already said that you could pass judgment, but I also said that the effect of such judgment is limited to a declaration that "I would not do such a thing." How can you tell him that he ought to wash his hands after using the restroom, when his morality could be completely different from yours? Or how can you tell Hitler he oughtn't kill six million Jews, when to him that may be the perfectly moral thing to do, or even something he is morally obliged to do? Only if there is a standard of morality that is objectively true--regardless of whether you or Hitler believe in it--can Hitler's conduct be condemned as immoral. And, back on point, if there is no objective morality, then on what basis can you judge God's actions as recorded in the Bible? The most you could say is that "God's morality is different from my morality," but it would require an objective morality to enable you to say, "God's morality is wrong." So, either there is an objective morality, or you cannot judge another person's morality and decisions pursuant thereto as being wrong.
jdogmoney said:
I had hoped I wouldn't have to explain why it's wrong that "men>women", but it seems that I do.
First, saying that X is wrong is nowhere near the same as saying X is misogynistic.

Second, this is a perfect example of you wanting to bring in an objective morality without acknowledging the existence of an objective morality. You are saying that it is wrong "that 'men>women,'" regardless of whether someone believes it or not. If that isn't what you're saying, then you can't condemn God for allegedly believing that. If it is not wrong regardless of belief, then that means that its rightness or wrongness depends upon belief. Therefore, if God or anyone else believes that it is not wrong to believe that men are inherently superior to women (in whatever respect we're discussing), then it is not wrong to believe so for that person.
jdogmoney said:
A second-class creation.
This doesn't follow at all. You're importing your belief that the Bible is misogynistic into the creation account, and finding reasons to confirm it. But consider the following as an alternative interpretation:
  • Life is more valuable than non-life. Adam, the man, was made from dust, which is non-life. Eve, the woman, was made from a human rib, which is life. Therefore, Eve was made of a more valuable source than Adam.
  • Regarding Adam, the man, God said, "It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him." (Gen. 2:18.) This shows that man was not self-sufficient. He was lacking something essential. On the other hand, God never says anything of the sort concerning Eve, the woman, which implies that Eve did not need a helper; she was enough in herself. This interpretation is further supported by 2:24: "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife." In other words, the man goes from the support provided by his parents to the support provided by his wife, because on his own he is not capable of being complete. Again, there is no similar lack with the woman.
  • Eve ate of the fruit first, then gave some to Adam. If Adam were in a position of authority in the relationship, he would have rebuked Eve; instead, he did as she said, showing that she was in authority in their relationship. Furthermore, 3:3 says that the serpent spoke to Eve, and not Adam, even though 3:6 says Adam was with her. When dealing with two individuals, you speak to the one who has authority, not the one who has none.

Misc.
Now, I'd like to address a few verses that have come up, because there's (surprise, surprise) more that should be said about them. (I'm using this document as my primary source):
Ephesians 5:21 - 28 said:
21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
If you look at the original Greek in verse 22, you'll notice a pretty important word missing: "submit." It isn't in verse 22. In fact, it is borrowed from verse 21. And who is verse 21 directed to? Everybody. In other words, to the same extent that the wife is told to submit to her husband in verse 22--deriving its meaning from v. 21--the husband is told to submit to his wife in verse 21.

To emphasize this point, the relationship between husband and wife is compared to the relationship between Christ and the church. Does the church submit to Christ unwillingly, contrary to its desires? No. The church chooses to submit to Christ, freely. And what of Christ? Did he come to rule the church? No. He came to serve the church. (See Matthew 20:28.)

In brief, the passages from 5:22 - 6:9 are instances of the general rule to submit. Thus, wives are to submit to husbands; husbands are to submit to wives; children are to submit to parents; parents are to submit to children; slaves are to submit to masters; masters are to submit to slaves. In these verses, Paul is turning the Roman household codes--which dictated how the man as absolute ruler of his home should govern it--on their heads. And this mutual submission is to be done "out of reverence for Christ," who taught, "You know that the rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them. Not so with you. Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be your slave." (Matthew 20:25 - 27.)

(Regarding the discussion of the man as "head" of the woman, the Greek word used there is kephale. When not referring to a literal head, this can mean either "boss or authority" or "source or provider." Given the context of this passage, it's clear that the latter is the more appropriate sense.)
I Corinthians 14:33 - 36 said:
For God is not a God of disorder but of peace. As in all the congregations of the saints, women should remain silent in the churches. They are not allowed to speak, but must be in submission, as the Law says. If they want to inquire about something, they should ask their own husbands at home; for it is disgraceful for a woman to speak in the church. Did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached?
There is something odd about this verse. Why would Paul say that women are not allowed to speak in churches, but should remain silent, when, just a few chapters prior, discussed how they should pray and prophesy in churches? (11:5.) And, throughout chapters 11 - 14, he referred to orderly worship, and spiritual gifts (such as teaching, prophecy, and so on), and did not differentiate between men and women.

In addition, v. 34 refers to "the Law," but doesn't refer to any particular part of the law. Compare that with 9:9 ("For it is written in the Law of Moses: 'Do not muzzle an ox while it is treading out the grain.'") and 14:21 ("In the Law it is written: 'Through men of strange tongues and through the lips of foreigners I will speak to this people, but even then they will not listen to me,' says the Lord.") Yet 14:34 refers ambiguously to "the Law." More confusing, the Law doesn't say anywhere that women "must be in submission." Commentators claim that this refers to Genesis 3:16, but there God is merely describing something to occur in the future, not commanding submission. In short, the reference to "the Law" is (1) incorrect, and (2) not in Paul's style. So what to make of this?

In v. 34 - 35, Paul is stating an incorrect belief, and then refutes it. Paul does this on several occasions in the NT, including in I Corinthians 6:12 - 13, which I've referred to before. There is an untranslated particle (in the NIV; the KJV translates it, "What?") at the beginning of v. 36. It also appears at the beginning of Rom. 2:4, after the statement of an erroneous belief, and immediately preceding the rebuke. The same thing occurs in Romans 9:21 and I Cor. 6:9, among others.

This interpretation is further supported by the surrounding verses. 14:26 - 33 refer to "everyone" having "a hymn, or a word of instruction, a revelation, a tongue or an interpretation;" "if anyone speaks in a tongue . . . someone must interpret;" "if a revelation comes to someone;" "you can all prophesy in turn." Verses 34 - 35 contrast with these broad, gender-neutral statements with a stringent restriction on women, particularly. V. 36 - 38 constitute a rebuke to something in the nearby text ("[What?] Did the word of God originate with you? Or are you the only people it has reached? . . . If he ignores this, he himself will be ignored."). V. 39 - 40 return to the previous tone--and I should note that "brothers" there is a Greek word (adelphos) that "regularly refers to men and women," so that the universal nature of 26 - 33 is taken up again along with the gentle tone.

In conclusion, these verses do not constitute a command that women be silent in churches; instead, it constitutes a refutation of such an order.
I Timothy 2:11 - 14 said:
A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent. For Adam was formed first, then Eve. And Adam was not the one deceived; it was the woman who was deceived and became a sinner. But women will be saved through childbearing--if they continue in faith, love and holiness with propriety.
At first glimpse, it seems that Paul is outright forbidding women to be placed in positions of authority. However, this is inconsistent with what we know of Paul and the NT church.
  • For example, in Romans 16:7, Paul refers to the "apostle" Junia, a woman (at least, she was a woman until 13th century copyists decided that no woman could have been an apostle, and turned her into a man with the non-existent name Junias); of her, Paul--the apostle--writes that she "[is] outstanding among the apostles, and [was] in Christ before I was." Likewise, in Romans 16:1 - 2, "our sister" Phoebe is referred to as a deacon--or church elder. Paul likewise referred to numerous women as his "fellow workers," of whom we know: "They assisted in composing letters (Rom 16:22; I Thess 1:1), carried apostolic messages to local churches (1 Cor 4.17; 16:10-11), sought to encourage the believers on Paul's behalf (1 Thess 3:2), reported to Paul the status of congregations under his care (1 Thess 3:6) and even occasionally hosted house churches (1 Cor 16:19) . . . In view of this wide range of ministry, it would be ludicrous to deny that Paul's coworkers possessed authority in the churches (1 Cor 16:17-18) . . . a role which included the task of admonition (1 Thess 5:12) . . . Paul spoke readily of women, as well as men, as his coworkers." Moreover, Paul instructed the Corinthians to submit to these "fellow workers" (I Cor. 16:16). Considering that Paul referred to women apostles, and was certainly aware of prophetesses (Acts 21:9; I Cor. 11:5), and bearing in mind the hierarchy of I Cor. 12:28+ ("In the church God has appointed first of all apostles, second prophets, third..."), it's clear that Paul's views on women in the church were not nearly so mysogynistic as some of you seem to believe.
  • Women played a significant role in a number of churches founded during the NT period. Mary, the mother of John Mark, hosted a church in her home (Acts 12:12). Lydia founded the church at Philippi (Acts 16), and Paul's "fellow workers" Euodia and Syntyche were some of its leaders. The husband-wife pair Priscilla and Aquilla (jdogmoney will appreciate the fact that the woman's name typically comes first in Biblical references to this pair) played a significant role in the beginning of the Corinthian church--where women were involved as prophets and in prayer (I Cor. 11); the two later moved on to Ephesus (Acts 18:19). Four prophetess daughters of Philip ministered to the church at Caesarea (Acts 21:7 - 9). The woman Nympha ran a house-church in Laodicea (Colossians 4:15).
  • It bears noting that there are references--Biblical or otherwise--to women bearing every title in Christianity by the fourth century.
So, why would Paul say something that so clearly contradicts his own actions? Again, looking to the Greek reveals some interesting facts about this passage. The word for "authority" is authenteo, and this is the only time that it occurs in the New Testament. (Most of the time the word used for "authority" is exousia.) The meaning of authenteo is uncertain, but it seems to connote some idea of wrongdoing, such as usurpation. (The KJV translates it as "usurp authority over.") Thus, the problem is not with women having authority but with women usurping authority. Specifically, the women are usurping authority over men (given all of the above, it would appear to be incorrect to claim that Paul is treating "having authority" over men as the equivalent of "usurping authority" over men, so probably nobody should suggest that). Also of note is the joinder of usurping authority with teaching; it's almost as if, just maybe, there was some teaching going around in Ephesus that was leading women to usurp authority over the men. Maybe relating to the issues addressed in v. 13 - 15. If 13 - 15 represent a correction to this teaching, then the teaching might look like this: Eve was formed first. Adam was the one deceived, and not Eve. Childbearing is bad. (NB: I Tim. 5:14 seems to indicate that whatever teaching this was, it was anti-marriage and anti-childbearing.) Such a teaching would be consistent with the non-Christian religious elements in Ephesus at the time, as well as the mixing of Jewish and non-Jewish religious imagery evidenced by archeological finds in the area. In fact, Paul appears to be attempting to address an early form of what would later become Gnosticism, which taught that Adam was deceived, that Eve was enlightened by the serpent and then enlightened Adam, and that childbearing was part of the "evil" material world.

In short, Paul was not formulating a universal command here, but was addressing a particular problem in a particular church at a particular time. And I think that's enough for now.
 
Metaphoreus said:
jdogmoney

We aren't talking about whether people are around to call something good or evil, or moral or immoral. What's the point of discussing morality if no choosing agent exists? The definition given presupposes the existence of such moral agents--so there is someone around to "call" something good or evil. But that's not the point. The point is that, regardless of what that person "calls" good or what he "calls" evil, some things are good and some evil. Some things are right and some wrong, and they remain right or wrong regardless of whether they are called right or wrong by whoever is doing the calling. (Of course, the scope of this definition is limited to apply to those who are not the source of that objective morality.)

HOLD IT!

Metaphoreus said:
an objective morality--a morality that exists whether anyone believes in it or not.

That's much different than saying that some things are going to be called moral and other things are not going to be called moral.

Because of COURSE some things are going to be moral, right, good, or whatever. We have those words to describe the abstract concepts of "right" and "wrong".

Objective morality, as I understand it because you totes explained it to me that way, is the idea that a particular set of moral values are the correct ones, in this case, the set of morals imposed on humanity by God. It's "objective" morality because, no matter who you are and no matter the circumstance, that morality is the one that is correct. The idea that some things are right and some things are wrong is called...well...morality...



My argument is only that if there is no objective morality, then there is no standard to judge others. It doesn't matter what standard you choose--whether a standard you have adopted or a standard developed by "humanity as a whole" (is there such a thing?

[snip]

So, either there is an objective morality, or you cannot judge another person's morality and decisions pursuant thereto as being wrong.

You're putting up a false dichotomy. Something is wrong, to me, if it doesn't line up with the way the world ought to be. I can call it wrong. I may not italicize it, but hey.

My morals are not any less valid because they are subjective. In fact, if I were in the mood, I could probably make an argument at least as valid as yours that my morals are objectively valid, as they are based on the universal concept of empathy and mutual respect. Not everyone is empathic or respectful, of course, but the concepts are there for them to discover, just as God's morality is there for people to use or not.

Not that I'd want to use God's morality, because I'm a good person. ZING!

Obviously, I'm of the opinion that the occasional joke is okay in a civilized debate. If you disagree, I'll knock it off...

First, saying that X is wrong is nowhere near the same as saying X is misogynistic.

Second, this is a perfect example of you wanting to bring in an objective morality without acknowledging the existence of an objective morality. You are saying that it is wrong "that 'men>women,'" regardless of whether someone believes it or not. If that isn't what you're saying, then you can't condemn God for allegedly believing that. If it is not wrong regardless of belief, then that means that its rightness or wrongness depends upon belief. Therefore, if God or anyone else believes that it is not wrong to believe that men are inherently superior to women (in whatever respect we're discussing), then it is not wrong to believe so for that person.

Okay, I've already discussed this earlier in this post, but interestingly, you talked about how it's not okay for me to make a judgement call on the morals of the Bible, rather than discuss the judgement call I made.

Direct question time!

Do you think the Bible espouses gender equality?
 
jdogmoney said:
-I didn't realize it was the word "misogyny" you had a problem with, rather than the concept it describes.
I have no idea how you could have missed it.

The doozy of a clue was right here and we could have saved several pages:

me said:
That's not the reason I say you don't get it. If you had simply discussed that men and women should be treated equally in a marriage, I would have only had to go on the fact that it's doctrine (Which is what I was getting at at the top of the page).
In addition, a simple review of several phrases would have made this apparent:

  • me said:
    All you highlighted was that you feel it wasn't fair. Why was it an act of hatred toward women. What in all of that showed that God hated women?

    me said:
    Now again, how exactly is this a clear sign that God and man hate women?

    me said:
    So you don't think the Bible is misogynistic? Good.

    Does the Bible deneigrate women if that definitionnvolves them seeing the man as head in the family and the congregation? Sure why not.

    me said:
    Now if submission is by default a hatred of women than I suppose we agree to disagree, as I do not even remotely think that submission, loving your wife, & hating your wife by default because of the headship arrangement is reconcilable.

    NegativeZero said:
    The very definition of "misogyny" is, quite simply, "hatred of women."

    Precisely how does each example constitute misogyny?
    me said:
    However, the laws in place did not cause a man to hate women in any event.

jdogmoney said:
-I've read the Bible. Cover to cover and multiple times. Stop saying I haven't. It's getting annoying.
I don't know you well enough to know whether you cracked open the book and read it several times so I apologize as I did state that you haven't read the Bible as fact.

I didn't mean to say you haven't, I meant to say I don't believe you have.

Based on your comments and the fact that you ignore humongous chunks of it in favor of highlighting "negative" parts prohibits me to believe you are even close to a reader of it. However, as the previous quotes testify to, you apparently read the Bible the same way you read comments on the board.

As I've stated before, I don't get why people that have such a complete hatred for a book would even read it once, but whatever floats your boat. I prefer to read stuff that either educates me or I enjoy. The Bible does neither for you. Interesting. Maybe your job is to attempt deconversions.
jdogmoney said:
-explains everything. You accept the bolded as perfectly natural and good. The bolded is sexist.
No it's not. It's only sexists if you think God should have created both at the same time which is irrelevant since you don't believe God exists or not a practicer of a religion thast teaches man is head of the women.
jdogmoney said:
-I see the Bible as a lot of bad with some good bits sprinkled in, as I told you in that post. This ties in to the above; stop presuming to know what I think.
Did you just repeat what I said? I knew you thought that so I presumed correctly!:lol

You're still wrong though.
jdogmoney said:
-It doesn't really affect whether or not something is sexist if the women don't argue against the arrangement. There were happy slaves, too.
Women do argue against the arrangement. Why do you think there are women pastors in some churches now? That doesn't mean the arrangement is being followed correctly but it certainly means that women have tons of influence as they've had throughout history.

Further Christian women have complained to men abotut the way things were handled and it got results. So maybe, rather than hanging onto one verse to condem all of Christianity, it may be a good idea to read the book one more time.
jdogmoney said:
-Speaking of, I'll stop with the slavery comments when you tell me that slavery is immoral.
Again with the lie.

I tell you what, since you don't wish to look for the instances, you can keep saying I like slavery and I'll keep calling you a liar. That seems like a fair compromise.
jdogmoney said:
-I said earlier, I think, that God wasn't misogynist. Or maybe you said that I said that, I don't care enough to go back to check. Either way, that may not be true. I don't think God is misogynist, for the very good reason that I don't think God exists, but God as outlined in the Bible? I think there's a very good reason that He is called "He". There might well be an argument to be made for God being misogynist. That's getting away from what we're talking about, though, which is: is the Bible sexist?
yes, it is
This is strawman. Because God doesn't exist, he's not misogynistic, but his worshippers who believe he exists are? *Yawn*

It's nice to see at least that you've changed words though!:lol
 
JGS said:
I have no idea how you could have missed it.

Just to reiterate.

You have no problem whatsoever with the concept of a woman being inherently unequal to a man, you just don't like one of the words that describe that relationship.

...

All righty.

I don't know you well enough to know whether you cracked open the book and read it several times so I apologize as I did state that you haven't read the Bible as fact.

I didn't mean to say you haven't, I meant to say I don't believe you have.

Just because you believe something doesn't make it true.

Based on your comments and the fact that you ignore humongous chunks of it in favor of highlighting "negative" parts prohibits me to believe you are even close to a reader of it. However, as the previous quotes testify to, you apparently read the Bible the same way you read comments on the board.

That much is true, at least; I read every word.

As I've stated before, I don't get why people that have such a complete hatred for a book would even read it once, but whatever floats your boat. I prefer to read stuff that either educates me or I enjoy. The Bible does neither for you. Interesting. Maybe your job is to attempt deconversions.

Actually, I read it a couple of times through when I was still a member of a Christian church, once more when I was desperately seeking answers to my crisis of faith, and now I refer to it from time to time, because I do talk about it, and I want to make sure I have my references straight.

No it's not. It's only sexists if you think God should have created both at the same time which is irrelevant since you don't believe God exists or not a practicer of a religion thast teaches man is head of the women.

No, see, this isn't true. Something is either sexist or it is not. Whether or not the thing in question is religious in nature or not is irrelevant.

You said "Adam...is God's dominant creation."

Or, to put it another way, "Man, and not woman, is God's dominant creation."

This is sexist, since it puts one sex (male) above another (female).

Did you just repeat what I said? I knew you thought that so I presumed correctly!:lol

I said that, actually.

You're still wrong though.

Well-constructed argument.

Women do argue against the arrangement. Why do you think there are women pastors in some churches now? That doesn't mean the arrangement is being followed correctly but it certainly means that women have tons of influence as they've had throughout history.

Further Christian women have complained to men abotut the way things were handled and it got results. So maybe, rather than hanging onto one verse to condem all of Christianity, it may be a good idea to read the book one more time.

:lol :lol :lol

[CITATION NEEDED] much?

Women have started to have a tiny bit of influence in the past couple of centuries.

And it's really not only Adam and Eve. If you come up with a reasonable refutation of Eve being inherently inferior to Adam, I'll move on to the next one.

Again with the lie.

I tell you what, since you don't wish to look for the instances, you can keep saying I like slavery and I'll keep calling you a liar. That seems like a fair compromise.

Oh, I'm not saying you like it. I'm just saying you don't think it's immoral.

I don't like cheesecake, but I don't think it's immoral.

This is strawman.

No it isn't.

A strawman would be me setting up an argument that is meant to represent your side, but in actuality is an exaggeration or misstatement that I easily refute.

Because God doesn't exist, he's not misogynistic, but his worshippers who believe he exists are? *Yawn*

Ah yes, the "arrogant dismissal" school of argument. Championed by William Lane Craig, and used the world over to get out of actually having to argue a point.

Wait, maybe the "This is strawman." comment was actually a warning...perhaps next time you can use a colon and save us all the ambiguity.

See, I didn't say that thing you said I did. You warped what I was saying so as to make it easier for you to dismiss out of hand without arguing.

Let me put it this way.

God, here defined as the Creator of all the Cosmos and an omnibenevolent, omnipotent, and omniscient force of Good, the deity who listens to prayers and answers them all, is not misogynist, even if it exists, which probably isn't the case.

God, here defined as the character portrayed in the Old Testament, known as the Lord, Elohim, Yahweh, and various other names, would be misogynist, if He existed as portrayed.

I hope that's clearer.

It's nice to see at least that you've changed words though!:lol

"Tomato, subjugation of women..."
 
jdogmoney said:
Just to reiterate.

You have no problem whatsoever with the concept of a woman being inherently unequal to a man, you just don't like one of the words that describe that relationship.

...

All righty.
It's obvious that JGS has no problem defending himself, but you appear to be missing his point. That inequality you describe is not inherently misogynistic. If A != B, there's no reason to conclude that either A or B is hated, which the charge of misogyny requires. Thus, "misogyny" is not a word that "describe that relationship." It's a simple point that he, NegativeZero, and I all made. How it slipped past so many for so long, I have no clue.
jdogmoney said:
That's much different than saying that some things are going to be called moral and other things are not going to be called moral.
Of course it is, but the definition nevertheless presupposes the existence of "anyone" who can believe or not believe in the objective morality.
jdogmoney said:
Because of COURSE some things are going to be moral, right, good, or whatever. We have those words to describe the abstract concepts of "right" and "wrong".
Just because we have words to describe something doesn't mean that that something exists. In other words, it is not a matter of course that some things will be moral, right, or good. It may be a matter of course that some things will be called moral, right, or good, but only an objective morality could make anything actually moral, right, or good.
jdogmoney said:
Objective morality, as I understand it because you totes explained it to me that way
Totes?
jdogmoney said:
Objective morality . . . is the idea that a particular set of moral values are the correct ones, in this case, the set of morals imposed on humanity by God.
N...

No. Objective morality is a morality that exists regardless of whether anyone believes in it or not. That is the way that this tote has constantly explained it to you. The source of that objective morality is irrelevant at this point.
jdogmoney said:
You're putting up a false dichotomy. Something is wrong, to me, if it doesn't line up with the way the world ought to be. I can call it wrong. I may not italicize it, but hey.

My morals are not any less valid because they are subjective.
I'm apparently having difficulty conveying my meaning. I have acknowledged that you can think of something as wrong. You can call it wrong, italics or not. I haven't disputed that. What I have disputed is that, absent an objective morality, your calling something wrong carries any meaning beyond, "I wouldn't do that" to another individual. Let me try it another way:

You are on the right. Hitler is on the left. There's a neutral third party standing between you. Hitler is in the process of killing six million Jews. You boldly proclaim that "what Hitler is doing is wrong." Hitler, in turn, says, "What I am doing is a moral imperative, and therefore right." On what basis will the neutral third party judge between you? How can she (I made the neutral third party a girl, just for you) know which of two competing moralities is morally right? She would need an objective morality to determine which of two subjective moralities is right. Absent a decision regarding which morality is right, she would also be unable to determine whether Hitler's killing the Jews is morally right or morally wrong. You could try to convince her that your morality is the right morality, but in doing so, you would be arguing that your morality is an objective morality, being true regardless of whether Hitler or anyone else believes in it or not. (Because if it is not true regardless of belief, then its truth depends upon belief; thus, if Hitler doesn't believe in it, then it is not true.)

To summarize, any time you make a proclamation that X is right or X is wrong, you are either (a) appealing to an objective morality or (b) wasting everyone's time.
jdogmoney said:
In fact, if I were in the mood, I could probably make an argument at least as valid as yours that my morals are objectively valid, as they are based on the universal concept of empathy and mutual respect. Not everyone is empathic or respectful, of course, but the concepts are there for them to discover, just as God's morality is there for people to use or not.
Well, let me know when you're in the mood.
jdogmoney said:
Not that I'd want to use God's morality, because I'm a good person. ZING!
Proverbs 21:2 said:
All a man's ways seem right to him, but the LORD weighs the heart.
I think joking and sarcasm are a fundamental part of internet discussions, so feel free to continue. I can't promise one of your jokes won't go over my head, and in the process of responding to it I'll make myself look like a jackass, but I think that's part of internet discussions, too, so no worries.
jdogmoney said:
Do you think the Bible espouses gender equality?
I'm tempted to say yes, just for the sake of argument, but what do you mean by "gender equality," and what by "espouses"?

Personally, I think gender equality, or any kind of equality between different individuals, is a difficult notion to establish. Equality is a mathematical concept. 1 = 1. 1 + 1 = 2. I do not "equal" you. Generic Male does not "equal" Generic Female. Generic Person X does not "equal" Generic Person Y. Further, the inequality of individuals is self-evident: some are weaker, some stronger; some smarter, some less intelligent; some faster, some slower; some taller, some shorter; some fatter, some thinner; and so on. This is why I need you to define what you mean by "gender equality."

As for "espouses," it is defined as (1) Marry; (2) to take up and support as a cause; to become attached to. "Adopt" is provided as a synonym. Clearly we aren't talking about marriage. So, do you mean the second definition, or something different (which would be fine; personally, I don't think of "espouse" as meaning "to take up and support as a cause"--that seems too strong a definition. "To become attached to" or "adopt" seem closer to what I would use)? I don't usually care for extensive definition-matches in discussions, but if I'm going to defend an idea, I want to know what it is I'm defending.
 
Metaphoreus said:
N...

No. Objective morality is a morality that exists regardless of whether anyone believes in it or not. That is the way that this tote has constantly explained it to you. The source of that objective morality is irrelevant at this point.

I'm apparently having difficulty conveying my meaning. I have acknowledged that you can think of something as wrong. You can call it wrong, italics or not. I haven't disputed that. What I have disputed is that, absent an objective morality, your calling something wrong carries any meaning beyond, "I wouldn't do that" to another individual. Let me try it another way:

You are on the right. Hitler is on the left. There's a neutral third party standing between you. Hitler is in the process of killing six million Jews. You boldly proclaim that "what Hitler is doing is wrong." Hitler, in turn, says, "What I am doing is a moral imperative, and therefore right." On what basis will the neutral third party judge between you? How can she (I made the neutral third party a girl, just for you) know which of two competing moralities is morally right? She would need an objective morality to determine which of two subjective moralities is right. Absent a decision regarding which morality is right, she would also be unable to determine whether Hitler's killing the Jews is morally right or morally wrong. You could try to convince her that your morality is the right morality, but in doing so, you would be arguing that your morality is an objective morality, being true regardless of whether Hitler or anyone else believes in it or not. (Because if it is not true regardless of belief, then its truth depends upon belief; thus, if Hitler doesn't believe in it, then it is not true.)

I'm going to have to jump in here, Metaphoreus, you are intelligent (intimidatingly so) but I think I might be able to go toe to toe with you here (said the man before his humiliating fall).

There is no such thing as objective morality. To be honest in the quagmire of debate occurring here, I am not sure if you agree with me or disagree, but I will assume you disagree for now.

In your scenario, if she were to judge Hitler, if she were to decide which set of morals she subscribes to, she would be drawing from her own personal set of morals.

Does this mean that someones personal set of morals carries no 'truth'? Well truth can be a pretty abstract term, but lets assume you mean an objective universal truth - if that's what you mean, I completely agree with you. Hitlers morality is on equal grounds with mine - mine carries no more weight than his did.

Now why is this a problem?
 
jdogmoney said:
Just to reiterate.

You have no problem whatsoever with the concept of a woman being inherently unequal to a man, you just don't like one of the words that describe that relationship.

...

All righty.
This is what makes it clear you don't know what you're talking about.

Misogyny is hatred of women. The Bible is not misogynistic...at all. Nothing in it denotes that is a teaching.

Further women are not unequal to men just because they are submissive. The fact that the punishments/rewards were identical for Christians (and Hebrews too for that matter unless slavery is thrown into the mix).
jdogmoney said:
Just because you believe something doesn't make it true.
Of course not. It is completely my opinion and I only wish you had as humble view of yours.
jdogmoney said:
That much is true, at least; I read every word.
Oh so that means you just didn't get it.
jdogmoney said:
Actually, I read it a couple of times through when I was still a member of a Christian church, once more when I was desperately seeking answers to my crisis of faith, and now I refer to it from time to time, because I do talk about it, and I want to make sure I have my references straight.
So what happened with these conversations? Omitting crucial references does not make your references straight, it makes them more dismissive. It is unlikely to have an absolute view on something if you had actually read your "references" through.
jdogmoney said:
No, see, this isn't true. Something is either sexist or it is not. Whether or not the thing in question is religious in nature or not is irrelevant.
This is not true. We base things on gender all the time with no sexist connotation whatsoever. Religious faith is no different.
You said "Adam...is God's dominant creation."

Or, to put it another way, "Man, and not woman, is God's dominant creation."

This is sexist, since it puts one sex (male) above another (female).
Man is the one that was created first and tasked with the assignment of headship- the dominant creation. He was the one made in God's image- the dominant creation. Unless you say that God himself is gender neutral then the choice of Adam's gender is already etched.

The woman, on the other hand, was a new creation. God did not need a wife or children since he had the ability to create and also was never lonely. The woman was for man and their physical and emotional make-up compliment that relationship. Between the two of them, the man is the head of it whether he wants the responsibility or not. Adam clearly did not and there are plenty of other gys like him that rreadily do what the Missus tells them. Gove them a big high five!.

If that gets you bent out of shape, well so be it. Given the explanation of human creation, the only other option would be that god is hermaphrodite which is unlikely.

jdogmoney said:
[CITATION NEEDED] much?

Women have started to have a tiny bit of influence in the past couple of centuries.
Are you kidding me. Are you actually saying that women had little to no influence until the past couple of centuries? Talk about sexist!
jdogmoney said:
And it's really not only Adam and Eve. If you come up with a reasonable refutation of Eve being inherently inferior to Adam, I'll move on to the next one.
Don't let that stop you. Go ahead and move to the next one.
Oh, I'm not saying you like it. I'm just saying you don't think it's immoral.

I don't like cheesecake, but I don't think it's immoral.
You said that I said slavery is OK. You are lying.

Further you have said that I did not state slavery is immoral. Again, you are lying.
jdogmoney said:
No it isn't.

A strawman would be me setting up an argument that is meant to represent your side, but in actuality is an exaggeration or misstatement that I easily refute.
Which is exactly what you did. I am arguing that if the Bible is inspired by God and you call it misogynistic, then you are calling God misogynistic without providing proof of that.

You are saying; "No, no, no dear boy! I'm not saying that at all because God doesn't even exist! Thus no disrespect caused to your God at all!":lol

Whacky!
jdogmoney said:
I hope that's clearer.



"Tomato, subjugation of women..."
Let'smake this clear. You have still failed completely to show that even men hate women in the Bible. Even if men alone invented Bible teaching, implemented it's rules, & made up the rule of headship (Since we know it's not practiced anywhere else but the Bible - just like slavery), you still have not shown one example of the irrepairable harm caused to women that was not caused to man as well.

The best you've got so far is Eve was created second, thus this is misogyny...sexist.
 
dark_chris said:
Wish someone woulda answered my question previously. :lol

As far as I understand, marrying outside of the religion is a nono regardless, but much worse if you are a female. The idea is that the last name (and apparently) the religion is inherited from the father.
 
soul creator said:
*pokes head in*

I would say that cursing someone with the pain of childbirth is a pretty hateful thing to do :/
Are you talking about God or man?

Don't forget guys had to work harder than necessary for less results, does that count as a curse too?
 
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