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[shanshan310]

It was going places as soon as the article decided to describe the measurements of the two guys in centimetres

But seriously is it normal for these types of articles to post measurements? I guess to show size difference, but why not in ft? Why am I taking about pointless stuff? Being awake at 4am does things to people!

Because its not America? How the hell is this thread being derailed by the damn measurements?

Isn't that why the woman should have gotten a divorce first? If she did that, then infidelity would never have been an issue here

She asked for one. He locked her in a room and bashed the guy she was leaving him for to death.

 

[Valnen]

Men don't own their wives, you have no right to claim them back if they don't want you, this should be common sense (pun not intended).

If you're married and you want to be with someone else you get a divorce first. Period.

 

[CommonSense]

I know why didnt they include the mens penis size. Ultimately we need to know that info to decide who was right.

I mean if the husband wasnt packing, doesnt the women have the legal right to the pursuit of happiness as defined in the constitution?

I'm guessing you'll find that out soon enough.

 

[Count Dookkake]

I know why didnt they include the mens penis size. Ultimately we need to know that info to decide who was right.

I mean if the husband wasnt packing, doesnt the women have the legal right to the pursuit of happiness as defined in the constitution?

I think we have an idea of who was the bigger man and it's not the crying cuckold.

 

[mr jones]

Good. I like winning.

Leave married women alone.

But they won't leave me alone, yo. I can't help it that they choose me. And the stand my ground law is pretty awesome when disgruntled husbands try to come up in my crib.

 

[javac]

Australia, duder

Darn these cultural differences! *shakes fist*

Lol thanks for helping me solve my centimetre fiasco!

 

[CommonSense]

But they won't leave me alone, yo. I can't help it that they choose me. And the stand my ground law is pretty awesome when disgruntled husbands try to come up in my crib.

So in otherwords you'll be trolling on craigslist again tonight?

 

[Opiate]

The title of this thread is like saying the reason we don't steal is because we might be punished by the law. No, the reason I don't steal is because I'm not a selfish jerk.

 

[Resilient]

I feel like the whole story was just weird. From him being perplexed, to the family feeling that 18 years was too little. That's a pretty harsh sentence for Australia.

 

[Chie Satonaka]

no, they weren't. murder is never right.

Absoutely not.

But neither is cheating.

I was seriously flabbergasted by that thread where people saw absoutely nothing wrong with it.

Of course the guy shouldn't have been murdered, but...

Any time you fuck another man's wife you are playing with your life.

Just don't do it.

 

[perfectchaos007]

And why is everyone kinda nodding their heads behind their hands that it's okay to murder people because of infidelity? She's her own damned person, and very much within her rights to change her mind.

Before filing for divorce? The crazy murderer is clearly the one that deserves life in prison, but lets not act like the woman did everything right in this case. If she just filed for divorce, this article would be 100% about the crazy jealous ex-husband, not the guy who reacted in a brash "act of love"

She asked for one. He locked her in a room and bashed the guy she was leaving him for to death.

was this event before or after she initially slept with her man on the side?

 

[freenudemacusers]

The title of this thread is like saying the reason we don't steal is because we might be punished by the law. No, the reason I don't steal is because I'm not a selfish jerk.

may you please provide your height and weight for further inquiry?

 

[ZaCH3000]

Before filing for divorce? The crazy murderer is clearly the one that deserves life in prison, but lets not act like the woman did everything right in this case. If she just filed for divorce, this article would be 100% about the crazy jealous ex-husband, not the guy who reacted in a brash "act of love"

Or the crazy ex-husband who killed his wife for filing for a divorce.

 

[User 100115]

Before filing for divorce? The crazy murderer is clearly the one that deserves life in prison, but lets not act like the woman did everything right in this case. If she just filed for divorce, this article would be 100% about the crazy jealous ex-husband, not the guy who reacted in a brash "act of love"

No cheating isn't right, but everyone in this thread is acting like murdering someone over cheating is the logical conclusion, which is blowing my tiny little mind.

 

[javac]

The title of this thread is like saying the reason we don't steal is because we might be punished by the law. No, the reason I don't steal is because I'm not a selfish jerk.

Yeah that's always been something I've found funny with such statements. It's like "Darn I would sleep with a married woman but I might get killed" when you shouldn't sleep with married woman because it's wrong end of.

 

[CommonSense]

may you please provide your height and weight for further inquiry?

I'm 6'2 215 so i believe that makes me 13,000 centimeters tall.

 

[Valnen]

No cheating isn't right, but everyone in this thread is acting like murdering someone over cheating is the logical conclusion, which is blowing my tiny little mind.

Well it kind of is. You want to ruin a man's life and make it so he has little more to live for, he's gonna snap.

 

[shanshan310]

Before filing for divorce? The crazy murderer is clearly the one that deserves life in prison, but lets not act like the woman did everything right in this case. If she just filed for divorce, this article would be 100% about the crazy jealous ex-husband, not the guy who reacted in a brash "act of love"

Again, she did ask for a divorce. It seems that the murder was his response.

I feel like the whole story was just weird. From him being perplexed, to the family feeling that 18 years was too little. That's a pretty harsh sentence for Australia.

I guess it seems like the judge considered provocation when sentencing, and perhaps the family feels like the sentence was reduced because of it?

 

[CommonSense]

Well it kind of is. You want to ruin a man's life and make it so he has little more to live for, he's gonna snap.

Honestly I feel 98.5% of gaf that backs the cheater couldn't get laid in a brothel if I spotted them 1000 bucks. So take it with a grain of salt.

Edit: \/ \/

 

[User 100115]

Well it kind of is. You want to ruin a man's life and make it so he has little more to live for, he's gonna snap.

I don't....

I'm going to leave this thread now, because seriously....

Honestly I feel 98.5% of gaf that backs the cheater couldn't get laid in a brothel if I spotted them 1000 bucks. So take it with a grain of salt.

Saying that murder should not be the logical response to cheating is not 'backing the cheater'.

 

[javac]

I'm 6'2 215 so i believe that makes me 13,000 centimeters tall.

Thank you kind sir, much appreciated! I'll add you to my diary I keep on all gaffers height measurements in case I wanna rumble with someone. I'll make sure not to rumble with you!

 

[Valnen]

I don't....

I'm going to leave this thread now, because seriously....

Have you never loved a woman? This isn't really about right or wrong, but about common sense.

 

[ghostmind]

I'm glad both parties are thinking of the four kids impacted by this... oh wait.

 

[shanshan310]

No cheating isn't right, but everyone in this thread is acting like murdering someone over cheating is the logical conclusion, which is blowing my tiny little mind.

What's blowing my mind is that conclusion vs. the general consensus in every single "I'm cheating with a married woman" thread ever. There its all about hitting it and quitting it, the husband isn't my problem, she's an adult. Here its all about the poor husband who was so hard done by when his slutty wife wanted a divorce. Does not compute.

 

[CommonSense]

Have you never loved a woman? This isn't really about right or wrong, but about common sense.

Bingo

 

[Resilient]

Again, she did ask for a divorce. It seems that the murder was his response.



I guess it seems like the judge considered provocation when sentencing, and perhaps the family feels like the sentence was reduced because of it?

The sentence is pretty high for Australia though. Usually would be a bit lighter, but I think the fact he showed no remorse pushed it up rather.

 

[User 100115]

Have you never loved a woman? This isn't really about right or wrong, but about common sense.

I am a woman, fyi. And married. I would never in a million years commit murder because my husband slept with someone else.

 

[Devolution]

Well it kind of is. You want to ruin a man's life and make it so he has little more to live for, he's gonna snap.

Or he's just an unstable asshole.

 

[BankaiZaraki]

This reminds me of the guy in here that openly admitted to sleeping with a married chick..I wonder if its the same guy. Wish I could bring up the thread but I'm on my phone.

 

[Chie Satonaka]

I am a woman, fyi. And married. I would never in a million years commit murder because my husband slept with someone else.

I don't think that anyone knows that beyond a shadow of a doubt.

 

[DrSlek]

Justice Geoffrey Nettle said Mr Moresco, who was 172cm tall and weighed 70 kilograms, had feared Budimir, who was 188cm tall and weighed at least 100 kilograms.

I dont know what any of this means.

You should probably learn the metric system.

 

[ZaCH3000]

Edit: She got this.

 

[CommonSense]

Or he's just an unstable asshole.

Yes because clearly the woman is in the right here. Clearly.

Excuse me while I go castrate myself.

 

[User 100115]

And honestly? Yeah, I am going to say I'd rather 'back the cheater' than the psychopath who murdered him and burned his body in a dumpster.

 

[Devolution]

Yes because clearly the woman is in the right here. Clearly.

Excuse me while I go castrate myself.

I said that for sure.

If you go off murdering your husband or wife's lover it's a good indication you're a psychotic asshole with anger issues. Sorry to burst the beating of chests here.

 

[ghostmind]

And honestly? Yeah, I am going to say I'd rather 'back the cheater' than the psychopath who murdered him and burned his body in a dumpster.

How about you back neither of them?

 

[shanshan310]

The sentence is pretty high for Australia though. Usually would be a bit lighter, but I think the fact he showed no remorse pushed it up rather.

Hmmm. I guess I don't pay that much attention, cause I just assumed most murder cases would the the 25 year 'life sentence'.

I don't think that anyone knows that beyond a shadow of a doubt.

oh for god's sake.

 

[User 100115]

How about you back neither of them?

How about we acknowledge that cheating in no way justifies killing someone?

 

[Valnen]

Or he's just an unstable asshole.

That generally happens to people when their lives are ruined.

 

[speculawyer]

Isn't that why the woman should have gotten a divorce first? If she did that, then infidelity would never have been an issue here

Well it can take many months to get a divorce.

 

[Rayis]

I don't....

I'm going to leave this thread now, because seriously....



Saying that murder should not be the logical response to cheating is not 'backing the cheater'.

Seriously, if it's a one-sided "love", you get over it, the woman didn't want him, yes could have divorced him and all but it still, she did do something wrong by cheating but it didn't warrant the husband to react as he did.

 

[perfectchaos007]

No cheating isn't right, but everyone in this thread is acting like murdering someone over cheating is the logical conclusion, which is blowing my tiny little mind.

No it isn't right, but from a prosecution standpoint it can lower the maximum sentence ( In America at least ). My former dentist, Clara Harris killed my orthodontist David Harris after catching him and his mistress walking out of a hotel. She ran over him with a Mercedes multiple times. But because it was a "sudden passion" the maximum sentence was only 20 years.

 

[soul creator]

I always find it weird that violent sexual jealousy is one emotion that people say "well it's wrong, but I understand".

"A beautiful relationship is more than just mere sexual feelings...but if your partner has sexual feelings with someone else I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND IF YOU RAGE OUT BRO. I ain't saying you should actually do it. BUT I UNDERSTAND"

It's like, yo, people get sexually attracted to others sometimes. I wish people would understand that going into any relationship. That's hardly something worth getting violent over. If you don't agree with it when it happens, say "peace", and find someone else, shit.

 

[ghostmind]

How about we acknowledge that cheating in no way justifies killing someone?

Agreed, but what justifies cheating when there are children involved? Or is our moral outrage finite and selective?

 

[User 100115]

That generally happens to people when their lives are ruined.

Cool. So my husband is a dick, and I eventually leave him, when he hunts me down and murders me, the thread posted about it will have lots of people standing up and saying 'Well, she ruined his life, so it's cool, don't leave your husbands folks!'

 

[Cooter]

Blah, blah, blah...Why don't you be mad at your wife? You know, the one who made the decision to cheat?

 

[Opiate]

Just to be clear -- speaking for myself only -- I am not at all condoning this man's behavior. I responded specifically because of how the OP is framed: the wording implies the problem with sleeping with a married woman is that the husband might be crazy and could attack you.

It gets to the very heart of the discussion where religious people can't understand how atheists have morals -- the implication being that the only reason people don't rape and pillage is that they're afraid of retribution from God. That the reason to not perpetually cheat on your wife is that God may send you to hell, and not because it's simply a mean, selfish thing to do.

Good people don't avoid or dismiss behaviors because they're afraid of being punished, they dismiss them because they don't want to do them in the first place. From an ethical perspective I don't think of a person who walks around all day desperately wanting to cheat on his wife with every woman he sees but who is afraid of retribution as a "good person."

 

[LaserBuddha]

Yeah that's always been something I've found funny with such statements. It's like "Darn I would sleep with a married woman but I might get killed" when you shouldn't sleep with married woman because it's wrong end of.

An appeal to logic is more valuable than an appeal to morality.

 

[Count Dookkake]

Blah, blah, blah...Why don't you be mad at your wife? You know, the one who made the decision to cheat?

Waaaaaah, but he tempted her!

 

[shanshan310]

That generally happens to people when their lives are ruined.

He locked her up when she asked for a divorce. That totally doesn't suggest longer running control issues. Not at all.