Owned both Xbox 360 and PlayStation 3 with Xbox 360 being my primary console for multi-platform games, exclusives and xbla games. PlayStation 3 was just for first party exclusives and exclusives such as 3D Dot Game Heroes and Dragon's Crown.
Currently, I own both PlayStation 4 and Xbox One with PlayStation 4 being my primary console for multi-platform games, exclusives and PSN/Indie games. Xbox One is just for exclusives such as Ryse: Son of Rome, Quantum Break, Gears of War 4, ReCore and 2017's State of Decay 2. Other than those five games, nothing else interested / interests me for Xbox One. Good console but they fucked up three years ago and still haven't fully recovered in my opinion.
Controller wise, I like both of them equally but I do wish I could turn off the vibration for the Xbox One controller and the light bar for the PlayStation 4 controller.
With that said, my Xbox One is in it's box and in my closet until ReCore/Gears of War 4 come out mainly because if I see it and not playing it, I'll be tempted to sell it. This way, it's out of sight, out of mind but I know I have it for the few games that I do want to buy and play. Both consoles are good and bad in their own ways.