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Tinder is a buggy mess!

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My t mobile G5 just updated to nougat and now tinder, grindr, and maps don't work. Something to do with gps I think. Other than reverting the update I have no idea how to fix this. Shame, I just started online dating on Monday :(
 
tinder is miles ahead of hinge.

app is basically broken. notifications dont work. itll randomly log you out. not remember who you passed on, etc.
 
Try Bumble, it markets itself as a slightly more feminist alternative to Tinder by letting the women talk first (they have to within 24 hours or lose the connection), which means you don't have to try and start conversations constantly, which is awesome.

It also has a much better UI design than tinder, swiping up just lets you scroll through pics instead of that stupid "ultra like" or w/e.

That said, I've been out of the game since I met my gf on tinder last year, so maybe things are different now.
 
Try Bumble, it markets itself as a slightly more feminist alternative to Tinder by letting the women talk first (they have to within 24 hours or lose the connection), which means you don't have to try and start conversations constantly, which is awesome.

It also has a much better UI design than tinder, swiping up just lets you scroll through pics instead of that stupid "ultra like" or w/e.

That said, I've been out of the game since I met my gf on tinder last year, so maybe things are different now.

I'd love to be able to use bumble but there's only about 1% of the user base tinder has. Maybe 10-15 women near me.

I met my last girlfriend on tinder, we were together almost 18 months.
 
Try Bumble, it markets itself as a slightly more feminist alternative to Tinder by letting the women talk first (they have to within 24 hours or lose the connection), which means you don't have to try and start conversations constantly, which is awesome.

It also has a much better UI design than tinder, swiping up just lets you scroll through pics instead of that stupid "ultra like" or w/e.

That said, I've been out of the game since I met my gf on tinder last year, so maybe things are different now.
Bumble has a decent amount of users but only a few have contacted me or even matched. I got way more hits and convos on tinder. But reality is you should use as many apps as possible..
 
Try Bumble, it markets itself as a slightly more feminist alternative to Tinder by letting the women talk first (they have to within 24 hours or lose the connection), which means you don't have to try and start conversations constantly, which is awesome.

It also has a much better UI design than tinder, swiping up just lets you scroll through pics instead of that stupid "ultra like" or w/e.

That said, I've been out of the game since I met my gf on tinder last year, so maybe things are different now.
I love Bumble it cuts through all the small talk because none of my matches message me.
 
I'm 19 turning 20 Sunday haha

You might be too young for Tinder btw For men, tinder etc. gets good once you don't look like a boy anymore (and stops being good once you are creepy-old and fat).

Tinder is 18+ and depending on where you live, it's starting to pick up in user numbers in the twenties age range. Even the girls your age are likely more interested in a guy a couple of years older than themselves. That basically only leaves the few 18 year olds and the ones faking their profile.


@pics: Pic 2 is good, the rest is not. Selfies are to be avoided, especially the mirror ones. I have one myself but only to show a bit of muscles and I put it as the last pic to avoid scaring girls off.
The pic with your friends would work if they weren't even younger looking than you. Girls will think you are 16.


Also, get used to writing first. Pretty girls get too much attention so unless you are way hotter than them, you have to make the first move. It's also kind of expected as some sort of manners. Many will be glad you finally write them so that they are "allowed" to chat with you.

It's not a big deal, there's no real rejection as you don't get a "no" but just silence.
Write more than Hi/Hey. Just tell what you doing that day and pick some aspect from their photos/profile. Being Haha-funny is enough. There, you're already doing better than 90% of your competitors.
I usually do the messages for new matches in batches and just copy paste most of my original text and change the names etc. I'm lazy (efficient?)


Finally, when you actually meet you better be just like the person she imagined from your profile. Not only regarding looks and likes. There's no point in pretending to e.g. be some super-confident womanizer if you are a shy wet towel on the date who can't hold an interesting conversation.
 
Finally, when you actually meet you better be just like the person she imagined from your profile. Not only regarding looks and likes. There's no point in pretending to e.g. be some super-confident womanizer if you are a shy wet towel on the date who can't hold an interesting conversation.

See, my friend told me to use Tinder, and I've had others said that I have to basically bury the fact I'm a greasy nerd shut-in, but I have an issue with doing that for exactly this reason.
 
See, my friend told me to use Tinder, and I've had others said that I have to basically bury the fact I'm a greasy nerd shut-in, but I have an issue with doing that for exactly this reason.

Well, crashing and burning on Tinder hurts quite a lot less than c&b IRL, so you might wanna work on that. Or put honest info on your profile and try to make the rare match that appears work.

Is possible. i was there, FAM.
 
See, my friend told me to use Tinder, and I've had others said that I have to basically bury the fact I'm a greasy nerd shut-in, but I have an issue with doing that for exactly this reason.

Well, as usual white lies are ok if you otherwise don't get dates at all. You can still rephrase it.
greasy nerd shut-in = I'm usually more introverted and kinda geeky.
If it's really stereotype-bad you can either change yourself if you want to or use the dates as a way to improve your social skills until you can be more functional with other people but still enjoy whatever your like by yourself.

Don't be weird-weird. Same reason why you don't start your profile by listing your favorite porn genres even though that's part of who you are. Unless you want to bet on that one girl in 1 million who is also attracted to balloons.
 
Try Bumble, it markets itself as a slightly more feminist alternative to Tinder by letting the women talk first (they have to within 24 hours or lose the connection), which means you don't have to try and start conversations constantly, which is awesome.

It also has a much better UI design than tinder, swiping up just lets you scroll through pics instead of that stupid "ultra like" or w/e.

That said, I've been out of the game since I met my gf on tinder last year, so maybe things are different now.

9/10 first messages by women on bumble or tinder are just hey. So lazy.
 
Yeah, those pics arenÂ’t good.

Nobody wants to see you in a public bathroom.
Second one is fine.
Get rid of the kids.
Third is fine.
The last one is passable, but IÂ’d get rid of it.
 
Stopped working since the Nougat update...

Edit: Works after re-install!
 
Allright so I have a hard time introducing my self to woman becuase, well I dont know why. So I decided that I would get a tinder account, not for anything to serious but just to full around while im in college. Anyway this app fucking sucks and is a bug ridden mess.

First off you have to use your facebook log in which is dumb becuase it says im 36 and shows the interest I choose while I was 10 like 50 cent and can this fat man get more likes then justin beiber. Like shit im sorry I created my facebook when I was 10, but I dont want this dumb shit on my tinder acount. So I had to go into facebook and change all that which was anoying but I can live with that.

Then I get my acoount and for the first day it wouldnt let me upload a fucking photo. I tried everyhting re deleting the app, logging out, and shutting my phone down. Nothing would work and it would just say "try again later trouble uploading". Until one time it just started uploading my photos.

After that and a still going problem I get a message from a girl. Fuck ya this app is working I think. Wrong, I go into my messages and all it says is I have no matches, which I know i do becuase I get notifications for it, or they are loading and it should take a few minutes, then I wait 10 minutes then give up. Like what the fuck, you cant do your one job tinder the one job you had.

Then there is the ammount of microtransactions in this app. I mean I know they make money so I understand the plus thing, but why limit the amount of swipes I have. Like that is just dumb.

Overall this seems like a good app if it would fucking work whihc it never does. Does anyone have problems with it, and if so how did you fix them. Also I'm on a iphone 7plus so my phone isnt out of date.

They probably unmatched you before you had the opportunity to see the match.
 
Do you have any recommendations then? I know pictures mean a lot but I'm not really a photogenic person.

Pictures on tinder don' mean a lot. They mean everything. They sell you. Either by how you look or what the hell are you doing in those pictures.

My recommendations are simple, take quite a bit of photos (you tend to get to know how you look after taking a few) and choose the less terrible ones and try to be creative in them. No crappy bathroom selfies. No awkard poses. No forced smiles. A profile a person looks and thinks, this one seems funny.
 
My friend has gotten well over a hundred matches and I've gotten 4 ( 2 were bots). He lists himself as 6'3" which helps...I don't list my height but I'm sure most tinder girls swipe left on guys who are under 6'0" or don't list their height at all like me.
 
Pictures on tinder don' mean a lot. They mean everything. They sell you. Either by how you look or what the hell are you doing in those pictures.

My recommendations are simple, take quite a bit of photos (you tend to get to know how you look after taking a few) and choose the less terrible ones and try to be creative in them. No crappy bathroom selfies. No awkard poses. No forced smiles. A profile a person looks and thinks, this one seems funny.

Thanks for the advice, I'll be sure to have better photo's before using tinder or any online dating websites again. I hate smiling unless its a side smile but eh I'll work on it. lol
 
You look a bit meek and have a bit of an awkward smile in those pictures.
Also you look too young, and the long hair makes you look a bit washed out and unhealthy. I'm presuming none of these are attractive qualities for most Tinder users. I'd probably consider mixing up your style a bit.

Pic 1 - you look fine here, but no one will be impressed with a selfie in a dirty looking public toilet
Pic 2 - what is with the baggy jeans and sandals? No
Pic 3 - you look uncomfortable, awkward smile
Pic 4 - this picture is fine
Pic 5 - again, awkward smile
 
Yeah, Tinder is bullshit. I've met a couple women (literally two) using it and one became a very good friend, benefits included (until she moved to Ohio...) but yesterday it pissed me off because I somehow got like 7 matches which NEVER happens but Tinder decided to fuck up and not show anybody's photos at all for a few hours so I had no idea who I was matching with. Then when it finally decided to work, 5 of those 7 women were just spam bots anyway. Go figure.

This has nothing to do with it being buggy but what's the deal with women matching with me and then unmatching me while I'm in the middle of writing them a message to say hello? I assume some people just swipe right nonstop and when they get a match they don't like, they unmatch. It even happened with a Super Like as well. Then again, I can't tell you how many profiles I've seen where the woman claims "If I Super Liked you, it was a drunken accident" or some other bullshit such as that. Tinder is nothing but spam bots and chicks who are on there "for no reason". Every profile is prefaced with "No I don't want to hookup with you" and it's like, yeah....we know...we get it already...

/vent
 
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Just listen to the advice in the thread. Tinder and all those other dating apps seem to be very superficial in their approach, play to that if you really want success.
 
Addressing your complaints Op

-The interest thing doesn't show up on anyone else looking at you unless you both liked the same thing. It comes out as a common interest.

-The facebook log in thing is to "try" to prevent more bots than are already are on the app

-The message notification thing is not a bug. It was either a bot who sent you a trap message and then unmatched you. It could have also been a real person who sent a message then decided to unmatch you before you checked it.

-You get more swipes after a certain amount of time. If you pay you get infinite swipes, 5 "super likes" a day (Its like going notifying a person you swiped right on them), and you get one "boost" a week (This thing makes it so people swiping will see you first for 30 min).

Tips
-Any person who sends you a link or a number(right away) is a bot

-Instagram being connected to the tinder account more than likely is a real person

-Don't give up cause you aren't fucking someone after one day lol but don't rely on it 100%
 
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