I always think people have this weird need to defend video games no matter what, as if videogames doing something wrong affects them. Sometimes they do stuff wrong, and this is an example.
First of all, there's nothing inherently bad about showing attempted rape in a game. This one, however, did it in a tacky and trite manner. From developers' comments, Lara was already a survivalist and capable of handling herself, but there NEEDS to be a scene where she's (and I quote) "cornered like an animal"" in order to become capable of killing. This is ridiculous. If your game is attempting at some sort of mature storytelling, pretending this experience would make her a-ok with killing thousands as she'll most likely be doing with no second thought is bad storytelling. And follows the example of "heroines need a near rape experience to be pushed into badass". An example of this, every now and then would be bad? No. An example of this, to not only of the very few stand alone video game heroines, but THE most famous one? Ridiculous and unnecessary. Lara Croft is a videogame icon, her abilities are taken for granted, and including a near rape experience as her character defining moment is yet another example of how in the videogame industry the defining part of a female character is her sexuality.
And again, this wouldn't even be that bad if the game hadn't made such a sexualization of all violence against Lara. Unlike Uncharted, where what you get to experience is how Drake overcomes all his problems in an adventure movie-like fashion, you get Lara moaning throughout all of the suffering she goes through, which is heavily emphasized. And don't even try to deny this. Most of the promotional material shows her bruised and hurt. Almost all ads and demos have her gone through a different situation where she's getting wounded. And it all goes with lots, lots of moaning.
It all adds up. It's not just this scene. It's this scene, to this character, in this medium, given the advertisement and the focus. Ignore it all you want, call everyone who sees this as a problem a white knight or whatever the fuck new name GAF has for people like that, but please stop spewing out bullshit because it's both tiresome and ignorant.