Sorry you think I'm creepy. I've never really 'dated' or been on 'dates' before. I've recently been divorced from a six year relationship and never dated before then because I was in high school. Personally, I believe you can "hang out" with someone of the opposite gender and it doesn't have to be a date. I've always thought it bad form to be direct and ask if it's a date.
Should have told her to take a pic of her face with the Vita camera and send it to you through chat to better evaluate if she's either a: take it to the sheets or take your kidneys kind of girl
oh also, inb4 why don't you have a seat over there...
Wife is a huge gamer - it's like dating someone with any other common interest. I was once just as much into music as i am gaming and my previous fiancee and I shared that common interest. It's pretty much the same deal.