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[Petrie]

Gee, this fellow seems to have low self-esteem. How can we help? Let's berate him incessantly and tell him exactly how much we look down on him!

Sometimes people need to hear the hard truth. He needs to man up and end this shit immediately, but instead has a bunch of excuses.

 

[BladeoftheImmortal]

Positive reinforcement is usually better for someone with self esteem issues.

 

[Llyranor]

So since you didn't get the McJob, are you still in a good mood?

 

[Petrie]

Positive reinforcement is usually better for someone with self esteem issues.

There is nothing to positively reinforce here.

 

[matt360]

Positive reinforcement is usually better for someone with self esteem issues.

Agreed, but then why did he make this thread in the first place? What was he expecting us to say? We've told him in every manner possible what we believe he needs to do based on his posts, past and present. And we've got nothing but excuses in return. Sure this thread is entertaining, but it's also become a waste of our time and effort.

It's frustrating trying to help someone who only pretends to want our help.

 

[Xzeon]

For those who don't know, In N Out isn't a McJob as much as you would think. Starting is 10 an hour, and DM's get 150k.

Plus I'm going to school and just looking for a part time job while I work on getting a degree. My point is this shouldn't be a reason to look down on somebody.

I didn't get the job anyway due to a tiny tattoo I have, so it's a non-issue.

Also my mom is complaining that she has insane cramps and is refusing to go back to the hospital, so this girlfriend stuff is a lower priority.

Edit: I specifically mentioned I had a group of friends in a post in this thread. I'm not some weird basement dweller... I have changed immensely in my life and am pretty social now.

dude your only make a few dollars above minimum wage, i mean a job is a job but its still a shitty one.

and you didnt even get it cuz of a tattoo?

GET IT REMOVED.

isnt it common knowledge most employers dont like people with tattoos?

and now you wont talk to your GF cuz your mom is not feeling well right now.

SO ok, you couldnt do it cuz you were happy about getting a job, but then you actually didnt get the job, and now you cant do it cuz your mom is sick.

Okay looking down on ANY employment in this age is completely fucked... Especially for a full time student.

the point of the matter is, why will being in a good mood prevent you from talking to her or dumping her? so your just gonna forget everything that happened and be like 'oh hi honey, i love you so much cuz im gonna be working at fast food restaurant soon.'

and then you didnt even get it!

getting a job is fine, but dont act like its a million times better than working at McDonalds when its not. and were angry cuz your saying your good mood will prevent you from dealing with your relationship problems. why are you even in a good mood if you didnt get the job?

you are not making any sense.

Positive reinforcement is usually better for someone with self esteem issues.

weve been trying to be nice to him, for a fucking long time, and he keeps having excuses for not doing anything and just keeps saying more horrible shit about her and why he cant do anything.

why did he make this thread.

he should have dumped her a long time ago when it was apparent he was pretty much her sex lackey.

im getting really fucking angry at this point, im done, OP i dont know what else to say, i think you are a troll.

JUST END IT WITH HER OR SHUT THE FUCK UP.

 

[oneils]

How does my last reply show any kind of density?

I'm very self aware... It's how I've improved so much in the first place.

I did go to therapy and fix nearly everything about my life...

This is really good to hear. Are you still in therapy? If not I suggest going back to see if you can get help working through this. It will be a lot more productive than this thread. I wish you the best of luck. Hopefully you have the resources. Maybe your school can help.

 

[LycanXIII]

We don't actually know if he has any friends (at least good ones). He's never brought any up and seems to dodge statements implying he should hang out with them more.

He's got his Duder somewhere.

How does my last reply show any kind of density?

I'm very self aware... It's how I've improved so much in the first place.

I did go to therapy and fix nearly everything about my life. My first girlfriend ever treats me poorly and I'm finding out how to deal with it, and I WILL deal with it.

But you didn't six months ago, so why should we believe you now?
Also, what was the tattoo? A butterfly or a star?

 

[EviLore]

Going nowhere.