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Dead Prince
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just post pictures of yourself!fernoca said:
Well, as I said..If Francisco is fucking ugly..then...DMPrince said:
Uglier than fucking ugly = Me.
Since I've actually been told..to my face that I'm ugly as fuck, fucking ugly, an abort of nature, a pizza face with barf topping.....among other things. :lol :lol :lol
EDIT:
Looking for pictures as reference ended with this. :lol
Dead Prince
Banned
pm the picture andfernoca said:Well, as I said..If Francisco is fucking ugly..then...
Uglier than fucking ugly = Me.
Since I've actually been told..to my face that I'm ugly as fuck, fucking ugly, an abort of nature, a pizza face with barf topping.....among other things. :lol :lol :lol
EDIT:
Looking for pictures as reference ended with this. :lol
:lol
Dead Prince
Banned
you can't be uglier than the picture i posted ;Pfernoca said:Only have/had the 'head-less' pictures I posted some pages ago..here and in the Post Pic thread.. :lol ..don't like taking or seeing pics of myself..
Here's a picture of me when i was a kid.
hahaha.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
i_am_ben said:
kitchenmotors keeps in regular contact with him, I believe. He uses another site at the moment as an outlet/vice and often seems a bit annoyed with himself at continuing to spend a lot of time on the computer, but is relatively fine as far as I can tell.
Sagitario said:
It's just a typical boring coming out story.
How did it start? I was eating a meal that looked like a vagina. I was visibly disgusted and pretty vocal about it. He then asked me. Comments/hints included conversations about:
-having sex with myself.
-Docking (he brought it up)
- Him: "There was this hot student who came in today." Me:"Man or a woman?"
I guess those are hints kind of. The guy who asked the question is a real funny guy so he just wanted to make as many of those awkward questions as he could. It was mainly to weird out the other guy that was there with us. Everything is back to normal. For a while after, they kept using the term "gay" for everything though. He has always known I visit this site and he knows there's a queer thread. I HOPE he doesn't read this thread. If so... *waves*
Sagitario said:This thread is the mainly reason I changed my username
Me too! Hahaha
_Isaac said:We are alike. I also get nervous about parallel parking or just downtown areas in general.Jezan said:... I suck at parking in downtown areas (or in parallel parking in general)
Same here, I'd rather park 5 blocks away than trying to park in downtown :lol
_Isaac said:
It's kind of similar to what happened with one of the 2 friends that know:
We were drinking coffee on Xmas and he starts talking about girls and says something along the lines of "... when you get a girlfriend... something something... [profit?]".
I replied: Do you REALLY think I'm going to be with a girl ever? Seriously?
He: Of course
, dude! Or are you gay :lol?Me: Yes, I'm.
He: :lol Stop joking :lol
Me: I'm serious
There were a couple of questions and that was it (everything as normal as usual), we kept playing NSMBWii until 2am of the next day...
_Isaac said:
Really? :lol *HIGH-FIVE*
I liked my old name and LOVED my avatar
PM your old user name
Kaiser Dämmerung
Member
Hey guys.
Sup.
Sup.
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
i_am_ben said:good to know. Although he's too hard on himself
btw how are you?
Me? Oh, decent enough. Life doesn't change much in my little world and that's how I prefer it.
How are you, and did you vote for neon green in the "colors" topic?
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
Kaiser Dämmerung
Member
Botolf said:I am not familiar with you, but hello anyway!
Any interesting stories to share?
Met Ted Price from Insomniac. Shook his hand as he complimented my work and I got lost in his dreamy aquamarine eyes. <3 *siiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiigh*
Kaiser Dämmerung
Member
Botolf said:No idea who that is, but I'll take your word on his eyes being dreamy
*squeeeeeeeeeeeeeee*
dragonlife
Member
Yeah, he is very attractive.Kaiser Dämmerung said:
ZephyrFate
Banned
he's super average
Cosmic Bus
pristine morning snow
He is average, but that's a hell of a lot more realistic than the slabs of carved beef always being drooled over.
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
That pic is so awesome.DMPrince said:you can't be uglier than the picture i posted ;P
Here's a picture of me when i was a kid.
hahaha.
Botolf - "Telephone" is one of the most awesome pop songs in years. Have no shame
God, I'm smashed.
Hah, I don't know if you've been following the thread too much or not, but shame is something I've increasingly parted with lately [julls said:That pic is so awesome.
Botolf - "Telephone" is one of the most awesome pop songs in years. Have no shame
God, I'm smashed.
]. Feels good to be understood and just let it all out. But yeah, awesome song. Gets ya pumped, love the lyrics, has a hilarious/quirky music video, it's just too damn good. Kinda surprised I'm only two months late to the party on this.I'm not drunk meself, but I am pretty fatigued after pulling an all-nighter working on my contest map. If I get that hundred dollars, I'll have fuggin' earned every cent. :lol
Ollie Pooch
In a perfect world, we'd all be homersexual
I've followed it on and off on my quiet times at work - good to see you coming to terms with stuff. (Actually I've been surprised to see how quickly, in your case. I'm sure it helps having a cool community of guys on here)Botolf said:Hah, I don't know if you've been following the thread too much or not, but shame is something I've increasingly parted with lately [
I'm not drunk meself, but I am pretty fatigued after pulling an all-nighter working on my contest map. If I get that hundred dollars, I'll have fuggin' earned every cent. :lol
And yeah - it's a great song. I tend to stay out of the pop world so to speak until you get one of those killer catchy tracks, then I go crazy and make impulsive concert ticket purchases!
I've been drinking all evening with some mates, nerding out by playing this Simpsons dvd board game one of them got as a gift. She was insistent. I lost
Now I'm chattin up hotties online with the bf next to me playing Pokemon. :lolYeah, count me surprised as well. I dropped that first post with some pretty muted expectations, didn't at all expect any of what was to come, or the serene that's kind of settling in on me now. Wouldn't have happened without you guys and your awesome support, the issues stewing painfully in my head for years would have been a real possibility otherwise. The past little while has almost been bandaid-esque, the last bits came off and I had to deal with a hell of a lot of sensory/emotive overload (lots of sweating/rapid heartbeat/mood swings :lol ). It's kind of funny, isn't it? I'm not an "always known" guy, but that goes for more than just who I'm attracted to or would like to hold a relationship with. I struggled with/repressed my identity in general. I pretended/forced myself to be unemotional, for example. That happened so early that I just took it for granted that it was how things were supposed to be. I took it for granted that I was heterosexual, even though those feelings were rare occurrences and never really lasted through the slightest change of mood. I'm tired of taking things for granted, and I'm really tired of protecting a status quo that does nothing but hurt me.julls said:I've followed it on and off on my quiet times at work - good to see you coming to terms with stuff. (Actually I've been surprised to see how quickly, in your case. I'm sure it helps having a cool community of guys on here)
And yeah - it's a great song. I tend to stay out of the pop world so to speak until you get one of those killer catchy tracks, then I go crazy and make impulsive concert ticket purchases!
I've been drinking all evening with some mates, nerding out by playing this Simpsons dvd board game one of them got as a gift. She was insistent. I lost
"Let me show u mah pokemans" :lol Sounds nerdy/fun as hell, man.
ZephyrFate
Banned
so? I'd rather drool over thatCosmic Bus said:
kitchenmotors
Banned
i_am_ben said:
Skittleguy is doing very well, a lot better now that he's distanced himself from GAF. I wasn't going to comment since Patrick responded, but I said something to Andrew today and he wanted me to post his thoughts on the whole matter, as he doesn't plan to return.
Skittleguy said:
So there you have it. I made a comment that it sounds like he's still feeling negative and that doesn't represent him anymore, which he responded -- he's just negative when it comes to this part of GAF.
Honestly, I feel the same way. I don't really like the new direction this thread has taken and while I enjoy the company of gaygaf people on here and on Facebook, there is a very vocal group that turned me off to this thread. I don't think that should come as a surprise though, given my past complaints of the gay community in general. I don't also see many of the old, regular gay gaffers in here so much anymore, which is a shame.
ZephyrFate
Banned
I'm really not sure how GayGAF has changed that much. I could look at pages 1 thru 100 and it would be no different than the current page.
dragonlife
Member
What new direction has this thread taken?
I know I didn't even look in here for the longest time at some point, but it all looks and feels the same: ronery > happy > bitch fest > dirty > repeat.
I know I didn't even look in here for the longest time at some point, but it all looks and feels the same: ronery > happy > bitch fest > dirty > repeat.
ZephyrFate
Banned
If anything, the new members and the coming out stories should be instilling pride in you guys, not keeping you away.
Souldriver
Member
The amount topics discussed in here is limited, so they come back every xx amount of pages. And I don't mean that in a negative way. I don't see much change or trends either, except perhaps that before the Gaygaf thread there were only a few well known gay gaffers (Suerte, Mercury Fred, Nick, Kryptonian come to mind), and most of them were well known for being very active in threads that dealt with LGBT issues and discrimination, but not much more than that. With this thread, the gay community has gotten a lot of faces and the topics discussed vary wildly. It seems more "club like" today.dragonlife29 said:
I think some people take (gay)gaf too seriously. If you don't like the topics, change them, or don't participate in them. It's not as if you need a gay thread on an internet forum or anything, or a whole lot of virtual homo mates. Having a thread like this is very nice: you get to know each other, and for some people it even ends up in meet-n-greets and maybe real life friendship. But if that's not really for you, you shouldn't feel left out or disappointed or anything. It's not because you're a gay gaffer, that you have to be a part of gaygaf. At least, that's my take on it. But I realize very well that I know jack shit about Skittleguy or his motives and feelings.
My problem with gaf in general is that it's fucking addictive!!! I don't get any work done because of it. For that reason alone I'd consider a permaban as well. :lol (But it wouldn't work, I'd sign up again sooner or later. The only solution is getting bored with the site, or it closing down. But I don't see that happening soon
)dragonlife
Member
Yeah, GAF is addicting :lol It doesn't help that it's my home page <3 Still, though, the first two paragraphs sum up how I've always viewed this thread and why I don't see a change.Souldriver said:My problem with gaf in general is that it's fucking addictive!!! I don't get any work done because of it. For that reason alone I'd consider a permaban as well. :lol (But it wouldn't work, I'd sign up again sooner or later. The only solution is getting bored with the site, or it closing down. But I don't see that happening soon
I guess you could take it like that, but people were asking where he's been--and now they know!Alcoori said:
ZephyrFate
Banned
To be fair, Skittleguy has always been drama-queeny. I don't think I've seen a positive post from him... ever.
I don't mean this to come off as slandering him -- I've attempted several times to try and curb his negativity, but it never works. It's not even worth it anymore. If him not being around here means LESS pessimism, I'm all for that. That's one of the things I have a huge problem with in the gay community: Overwhelming depression and incessant negativity.
I don't mean this to come off as slandering him -- I've attempted several times to try and curb his negativity, but it never works. It's not even worth it anymore. If him not being around here means LESS pessimism, I'm all for that. That's one of the things I have a huge problem with in the gay community: Overwhelming depression and incessant negativity.
dragonlife
Member
gurl y u gott go there
EDIT: Aw, you clarified after I posted.
EDIT: Aw, you clarified after I posted.
Souldriver
Member
Stop being such a negative nancy.ZephyrFate said:
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