I don't think it's about "defending" instead of "helping". Being a male in American culture is toxic. It's all about macho bravado, violence, and stoicism...
I'm sorry that I don't have solid sources, the following is just what I've read here and there so I will concede points if I am mistaken:
- The disparity between females and males in higher education is growing. It's already a 60/40 split. Many boys are being left behind by the education system.
- Men commit suicide in greater numbers.
- Men live shorter lives due to social stigmas behind seeking proper preventative medical attention.
I mean, these are just a few, and those points are really meaningful to me. I mean, proper education of a nation's youth is probably the most meaningful aspect of society because it sets the tone and precedent for the future of the society itself. Wouldn't you agree that it's a big problem that needs to be addressed?
I would imagine that if our young women weren't getting the educations they needed that would be the first issue on the agenda. Over reproductive rights. Over equal pay. Because it's our youth that's truly important. But when young men start falling by the wayside, people aren't taking notice. And that's kind of sad to see.
So I don't think these are just petty excuses I make up to mask weird issues I have. I think they're real problems. I don't really expect feminism to go up to bat for men, despite their philosophy, their resources are limited. I was just a bit taken aback by your assertion that men don't have any "meaningful issues."