Rahxephon91
Banned
Yes as a pround member of virgin gaf I do not have have much experince with women. People say I look gay, am oblivious to women, and or a coward. Well whatever the point is I do not know what it is to have a gf but I do know one thing. I get tried of people real fast and could never hang with someone on a day to day basis. Which brings me to my question.
Well let me do some backstory. I have a really good friend. Like best friend here. You know that one friend that you really have a great bond with. Well anyway we were both proud nerds but my friend is kind of stupid. He gets obsessive over the thing he is really into at the time, which leads to him being pretty unrealistic. Still hes may real good friend and really I've been by his side on everything and help him when he needed it(which is a lot as he has family problems) Anyway he got a girl friend earlier last year. It lasted a week but he was all "oh were in love". Naturally I just thought it was a silly high school thing and it pretty much was.
Then comes the new girl. Well I admit I didn't have a great first impression with her but then again she did'nt give me much of a chance. I'm hanging out with my friend and I guess she wants to hang out well I agree to go pick her up. During the drive she dosent talk. Ok maybe my mistake, I have a hard time talking to new people, espically when they don't give a helping hand. Anyway we go to the store and shes all on him and shit(well this is before they were going out) and she has another bf and shit. Well I'm a conservative person I guess and this kind of rubs me the wrong way. Anyway I go back to college(This was spring break) and they start going out. She constantly texts me if I approve of them or some shit. Well i don't care plus the txting is real annoying which leads me to telling her I don't care for her but its not like shes my gf.
Anyway as time goes on the dude loses interests in games and anime. Becomes somes super indie dude, shops only at forever 21, and goes out to clubs. Well I'm ok with the last one, I've been getting out more and he needed to to. Anyway I come home for Easter break and I tell him we should hang out. We don't and thats strange as we hang out all the time. When we talk its still kind of the same, same jokes and crap but she takes his phone sometimes and plays "the oh hes not here game". It just becomes annoying.
Anyway I cam home for Summer in May. My birthdays in May. I always see a movie for my birthday and I'm a pretty late sleeper. He knows this very well. I had called him up a couple of weeks beofre to tell him my plans. Regardless he decided to hang out with the gf. Anyway we've hung out 4 times since may and every time its been limited because at 7 he has to hang out with her and they hang out everyday it seems. I'll make plans with him and then bam they get squashed because she wants to do some shit. At first I understood, hey it is his gf. GF and BFs hang out a lot but now its just kind of pissing me off. Its like my friendship means nothing. Am I wrong gaf? I don't think I'm jealous at all, just kind of pissed off.
This seems to happen a lot, friends get gfs and they change. I mean yeah its pretty normal I guess.
Good HS friend got one and becomes a dick and only wants to talk about her. When he dosent have one he becomes cool but when he does, I sure dont wana hang out with him.
My other good friend got a gf and spent more time with her. I made jokes about him being pussy whipped, but they were just jokes. He still would hang out with the group.
College friend can't do anything when GF is around. Again I kind of understand.
Other college friend becomes a overly romantic fellow(i mean like writing songs) whenever a girl becomes involved.
I just don't get it. Maybe I have yet to meet a girl like that. But I can't see myself becoming like my friends. I mean I really like my time alone.
Well let me do some backstory. I have a really good friend. Like best friend here. You know that one friend that you really have a great bond with. Well anyway we were both proud nerds but my friend is kind of stupid. He gets obsessive over the thing he is really into at the time, which leads to him being pretty unrealistic. Still hes may real good friend and really I've been by his side on everything and help him when he needed it(which is a lot as he has family problems) Anyway he got a girl friend earlier last year. It lasted a week but he was all "oh were in love". Naturally I just thought it was a silly high school thing and it pretty much was.
Then comes the new girl. Well I admit I didn't have a great first impression with her but then again she did'nt give me much of a chance. I'm hanging out with my friend and I guess she wants to hang out well I agree to go pick her up. During the drive she dosent talk. Ok maybe my mistake, I have a hard time talking to new people, espically when they don't give a helping hand. Anyway we go to the store and shes all on him and shit(well this is before they were going out) and she has another bf and shit. Well I'm a conservative person I guess and this kind of rubs me the wrong way. Anyway I go back to college(This was spring break) and they start going out. She constantly texts me if I approve of them or some shit. Well i don't care plus the txting is real annoying which leads me to telling her I don't care for her but its not like shes my gf.
Anyway as time goes on the dude loses interests in games and anime. Becomes somes super indie dude, shops only at forever 21, and goes out to clubs. Well I'm ok with the last one, I've been getting out more and he needed to to. Anyway I come home for Easter break and I tell him we should hang out. We don't and thats strange as we hang out all the time. When we talk its still kind of the same, same jokes and crap but she takes his phone sometimes and plays "the oh hes not here game". It just becomes annoying.
Anyway I cam home for Summer in May. My birthdays in May. I always see a movie for my birthday and I'm a pretty late sleeper. He knows this very well. I had called him up a couple of weeks beofre to tell him my plans. Regardless he decided to hang out with the gf. Anyway we've hung out 4 times since may and every time its been limited because at 7 he has to hang out with her and they hang out everyday it seems. I'll make plans with him and then bam they get squashed because she wants to do some shit. At first I understood, hey it is his gf. GF and BFs hang out a lot but now its just kind of pissing me off. Its like my friendship means nothing. Am I wrong gaf? I don't think I'm jealous at all, just kind of pissed off.
This seems to happen a lot, friends get gfs and they change. I mean yeah its pretty normal I guess.
Good HS friend got one and becomes a dick and only wants to talk about her. When he dosent have one he becomes cool but when he does, I sure dont wana hang out with him.
My other good friend got a gf and spent more time with her. I made jokes about him being pussy whipped, but they were just jokes. He still would hang out with the group.
College friend can't do anything when GF is around. Again I kind of understand.
Other college friend becomes a overly romantic fellow(i mean like writing songs) whenever a girl becomes involved.
I just don't get it. Maybe I have yet to meet a girl like that. But I can't see myself becoming like my friends. I mean I really like my time alone.
