What is the difference between hunters and farmers?
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What's Unattractive to You?
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Hunting for sport vs. hunting for food would probably be my best guess.
Yep.
I find that killing things for fun...is pretty messed up. Hunting for food (even though our society is advanced and we have food available) is at least more understandable then just killin shit for fun hur durr.
Lord Thrappleper The 49th
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Personality wise, people who are unable to learn. Like if they do the same shit over and over and never learn from it, and simultaneously condemn it for making their life bad make me instantly repulsed away from a woman. Ignorance is something I can work around, but being physically unable to learn from ones decisions is something I can't work with. Racists, homophobes, religious/atheist nuts, they are all thing born out of not knowing, not be unable to learn. I can help them unlearn it.
From a purely physical aspect, this
And this:
Are both examples of what I don't find physically pleasing. I'm not calling them ugly, but I simply don't look at them and feel any chemistry. Women who let themselves go, or women who try way to hard, are physically not very attractive for me. I like nice normal girls who eat what they want, excercise when they want, and rather look more respectable than beautiful.
In contrast, my girlfriend holds different values. Physically she says she doesn't have a type, she doesn't care what they look like. Personality wise she says if they were cocky, know-it-all, arrogant, generally doesn't care for anyone but themselves it would be a big turn off for her.
From a purely physical aspect, this
And this:
Are both examples of what I don't find physically pleasing. I'm not calling them ugly, but I simply don't look at them and feel any chemistry. Women who let themselves go, or women who try way to hard, are physically not very attractive for me. I like nice normal girls who eat what they want, excercise when they want, and rather look more respectable than beautiful.
In contrast, my girlfriend holds different values. Physically she says she doesn't have a type, she doesn't care what they look like. Personality wise she says if they were cocky, know-it-all, arrogant, generally doesn't care for anyone but themselves it would be a big turn off for her.
I'm all for appreciating and respecting someone's opinion but, yeah, you're wrong on so many levels.
bone_and_sinew
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Women without ambition and alcoholics are the two most turn-offs I run into.
Bleh, they look trashy. Tattoos are for criminals and sailors.
Okay. I haven't ever met someone who hunts for sport, only seen them in headlines about big game and whatnot. But I know plenty of people who hunt for food and have fun doing it. Maybe it depends on location.
you don't think criminals or sailors can be attractive?
bone_and_sinew
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Oh yeah, superstitious women. Any time I get the "what's your sign?" question I immediately think they're an idiot only worth fooling around with.
richardhawk
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People that pretend any humor with a slight racist / sexist skew is as bad as the Holocaust. I don't mean some shit head spewing racial slurs but more so the type of comedy bill burr does.
The "I only eat plain burgers / well done steak" crowd.
I have a huge problem with a friend of mine using the phrase "I'm a feminist" anytime she goes on about how she blew a dude on the first date and we shouldn't judge her for it. I'm super sex positive and if you want to suck 100 dicks in a row more power to you. Just don't wave a flag of feminism as if that's a shield that will stop people from having anything to say about your activities.
The "I only eat plain burgers / well done steak" crowd.
I have a huge problem with a friend of mine using the phrase "I'm a feminist" anytime she goes on about how she blew a dude on the first date and we shouldn't judge her for it. I'm super sex positive and if you want to suck 100 dicks in a row more power to you. Just don't wave a flag of feminism as if that's a shield that will stop people from having anything to say about your activities.
LaserBuddha
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Is this the 1940's or what?
Cow Mengde
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Smoking and drug abuse. Smoking is a huge turn off. I can smell them from a distance.
Personality wise, I go with ignorance and close minded.
Personality wise, I go with ignorance and close minded.
FO-totality
Poet Centuriate
Having a gaf account
Total dealbreaker.
Total dealbreaker.
I find it really hard to keep interest in any girl who can't be decisive on anything.(If I wanted to be the sole decision maker I wouldn't be dating you.)
Also people who are really serious about stuff all the time. Can't stand that.
Actually yeah, this too. I can definitely deal with ignorance, (I love sharing knowledge!), but outright refusing to learn is too much.
Also people who are really serious about stuff all the time. Can't stand that.
Actually yeah, this too. I can definitely deal with ignorance, (I love sharing knowledge!), but outright refusing to learn is too much.
Dee Dah Dave
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Tattoos. Fat. No sense of humour. Thick as pig shit.
Those will do it.
Those will do it.
terrisus
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War Peaceman
You're a big guy.
I think a what you find attractive thread would be better. It is too easy to be negative and we all know that if someone came along and rocked our world we would rationalise away any negatives.
What the fuck kind of bullshit are you chatting? This is the 21st century. Not everyone who has a tattoo is a convict or sailor. What about a dad who has his daughters name tattooed on his chest so she is always close to his heart even though he doesn't see her anymore? Stop being an idiot and don't make such ignorant comments.
One day I'll convince you
Don't be sad. The smokers still have each other and everyone who accepts us and our self-damaging habits. =)
It the having fun killing part that kind of makes me uneasy...you really have to be a certain type of person to enjoy taking a life. I can understand those that like the nature part, getting out and being in a forest or mountain, but you can go do that and not kill.
Low intelligence and the inability to have fun. Also someone who goes on about their past relationships and how good they were.
Physically, I like fit an healthy women, so anyone who's ether extreme is pretty much instantly a no go for me. I also only really like certain types of faces, but sometimes that could be overridden with an attractive personality for some part.
Also religion, especially if it gets in the way of life, it's not worth it, I used to have a housemate that ticked pretty much every box that I'd go for, but she's an Evangelical Christian, and although I don't care about whether or not other people want religion in their life, I don't want it in mine. I'm still good friends with her and we keep in contact regularly though.
Physically, I like fit an healthy women, so anyone who's ether extreme is pretty much instantly a no go for me. I also only really like certain types of faces, but sometimes that could be overridden with an attractive personality for some part.
Also religion, especially if it gets in the way of life, it's not worth it, I used to have a housemate that ticked pretty much every box that I'd go for, but she's an Evangelical Christian, and although I don't care about whether or not other people want religion in their life, I don't want it in mine. I'm still good friends with her and we keep in contact regularly though.
Miles Quaritch
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Bad hygiene, especially bad oral hygiene.
There is literally nothing worse than talking to someone whose breath smells like they've been eating out dog asses for an entire weekend.
There is literally nothing worse than talking to someone whose breath smells like they've been eating out dog asses for an entire weekend.
I was trying to be nice :/
Stupidity really annoys me. Whether it's natural or forced.
Also, can't tell you how unattractive I find drug taking. Done certain drugs myself now and then in days gone by so I'm not a shrew by any means, but I just lose all lust for a girl that's into it. Nothing I can do about it, just the way my brain works.
Also, can't tell you how unattractive I find drug taking. Done certain drugs myself now and then in days gone by so I'm not a shrew by any means, but I just lose all lust for a girl that's into it. Nothing I can do about it, just the way my brain works.
Yup.
People do this? I can't say I've ever encountered people pretending to be dumber than they are.
Only people pretending/actually thinking to be smarter than they are.
Earthstrike
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People who are controlling.
People who are ignorant.
People who are ignorant.
Nose Master
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Stupidity is probably the worst. A girl could be 11/10, but the instant something inane falls out of her mouth I lose interest entirely.
John Kowalski
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also neopictorialists really kill my sex drive
No need. It's inexcusable.
No one who picks up the habit in this day and age will not know the risks and social costs. Every time a person smokes she causes direct harm to herself and others. It can't be rationalized as a harmless indulgence or personal vice.
hillsighed
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Smoking. That includes vaporizers -- that shit is just gross.
LifEndz
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This. Had a gf that was a frequent smoker and I swear that I could taste the smoke on her body when we had sex. It was so bad that I didn't want to kiss her, let alone make love to her.
John Kowalski
Banned
you should smoke too
Boom Boom Pow
Banned
fat. unsightly teeth. showing gumline while smiling. pimples. fat. and yes. fat. gah fat is so unattractive
edit: ah yes. smoking too.
edit: ah yes. smoking too.
Cow Mengde
Banned
At least you tolerated her for a bit. I can't even sit next to someone who smokes. They just smell so bad.
ReturnOfTheRAT
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I've discovered in the past few months that a lack of education, ambition, and a boring personality are the biggest turnoffs. I've got no time for someone with those traits.
Tawney Bomb
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I guess smoking, that's the big thing.
This, though to be fair I didn't expect anything else. Unintelligence/lack of motivation and smelling bad are pretty common traits for people to dislike >_>.
- Inability to thought branch and be skeptical. Unawareness in general (e.g. lacking a cosmic perspective)
- Religion
- "Not religious but spiritual"
- Obesity
- Anyone who believes in "depressive realism." Cynicism can be valid for some things but it can very easily be overbearing and irrational
- Irresponsible drug use
- Lack of interest or ambition towards anything
- The physical appearance of looking too "done up." I understand some people like the hobby of dressing up, but that aesthetic really bothers me. Functional clothes and natural-look makeup (if any) is heavily preferred
- This shouldn't even need to be on the list but hygiene. Body + oral
This pretty much.
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