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Why are so many people such physically broken messes?

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I live in Japan. Is Japanese food healthy? They say it is, but I never see much of a selection of vegetables at restaurants/eateries. I just see a lot of sugar/sodium/carb-filled foods. Compared to America, where vegetables, chicken and turkey are cheap, the prices here are quite expensive. As a result I have had to adjust to a slightly less-healthy diet since being in Japan. Sucks.

On the other hand, I have no idea why you people living in America drink/eat so much god damn soda/eat fast food. Really, just buy meats/veggies at the grocery store. Cook at home. Eggs for breakfast. Sandwiches for lunch. Some good veggie-chicken stir-fry and salad for dinner. Drink water. The end. I wish I had the same cheap resources you guys do.


The Japanese generally eat the same kinds of things these days as the US, but they just walk more.
 
Portions are huge in the US. I was in NYC for vacation (from Europe) and it was pretty insane, at most places me and my GF could've split one portion between us and still have been completely happy. And don't get me started on those litre-sized drinks you can get at fast food places...
 
I think culture and education are important factors, too. Not just the fact that unhealthy food is tasty and cheaper than healthy food.
 
Portions are huge in the US. I was in NYC for vacation (from Europe) and it was pretty insane, at most places me and my GF could've split one portion between us and still have been completely happy. And don't get me started on those litre-sized drinks you can get at fast food places...

Yeah, the food culture in the US is more about eating until you're stuffed. I might not be representative of the country, but when I go out to eat I'm disappointed if I leave and don't feel stuffed. Like I didn't get my money's worth.
 
I saw a point being made that I want to address.

re: getting older and having kids

My mom and dad are past their 50s and 60s. They were both in excellent shape, weighing 120 and 170 pounds. My dad was very physically active as a handyman around the house, and my mom as a housewife. We ate mostly healthy, homecooked meals. They do perhaps 15 minutes of exercise on a treadmill on occasion.

They aren't fat. They raised two kids and my dad held a fulltime job until last year. We don't have a lot of money either.

So... I dunno about that reasoning.

It is easier to find the time to exercise when you a) don't have young kids anymore who you have to keep a constant eye on or b) have a partner who will watch the kids for you

For me I have neither a or b so during the weeks I have my son it's nearly impossible for me to go for a bike ride
 
Yeah, the food culture in the US is more about eating until you're stuffed. I might not be representative of the country, but when I go out to eat I'm disappointed if I leave and don't feel stuffed. Like I didn't get my money's worth.

Yeah. I was raised to eat that way. This stretches out your stomach and it takes more and more food to feel stuffed. Your body gets used to it and it is very difficult to start eating less. :(
 
Yeah. I was raised to eat that way. This stretches out your stomach and it takes more and more food to feel stuffed. Your body gets used to it and it is very difficult to start eating less. :(

why do you need to feel "stuffed" after eating? thats not good. i always quit eating before i feel full. maybe a few times a year i eat so much that i feel stuffed, but its really rare. there is simply no need to eat so much. it has been shown that restricting calory intake and feeling slightly hungry almost all the time is actually healthy. certainly much healthier than feeling stuffed every day.. plus you get used to feeling hungry, it feels normal to me now.
 
why do you need to feel "stuffed" after eating? thats not good. i always quit eating before i feel full. maybe a few times a year i eat so much that i feel stuffed, but its really rare. there is simply no need to eat so much. it has been shown that restricting calory intake and feeling slightly hungry almost all the time is actually healthy. certainly much healthier than feeling stuffed every day.. plus you get used to feeling hungry, it feels normal to me now.

Its habitual, a very difficult habit to break. You don't feel full unless stuffed and if you don't feel full, you get hungrier later anyway. Bad habits die hard let me tell you.
 
Its habitual, a very difficult habit to break. You don't feel full unless stuffed and if you don't feel full, you get hungrier later anyway. Bad habits die hard let me tell you.

i guess. i just personally dont get it. i feel like a lot of people just stuff themselves because its seen as a virtue to eat a lot, to eat a full plate.. i mean, at least here in Finland its rude to eat smaller portions if youre eating dinner with others. you are always offered more, and then some more... i know my mom does it every single time i visit. she always makes too much food, too damn much.

it should not be considered "polite" or a virtue to stuff yourself full. its non-sensical.

now if someone has an actual food addiction or something, then i can understand it. like you said habits are hard to break.
 
The stuff the auto and oil industries did to remove and keep other transportation alternatives in the shitter is really depressing.

A thousand times this. As someone who relies completely on public transit and a bicycle as a means of transportation I absolutely hate how far I need to go sometimes to get something I need. Don't even want to get started on the current state of public transit for reliability.
 
i guess. i just personally dont get it. i feel like a lot of people just stuff themselves because its seen as a virtue to eat a lot, to eat a full plate.. i mean, at least here in Finland its rude to eat smaller portions if youre eating dinner with others. you are always offered more, and then some more... i know my mom does it every single time i visit. she always makes too much food, too damn much.

it should not be considered "polite" or a virtue to stuff yourself full. its non-sensical.

now if someone has an actual food addiction or something, then i can understand it. like you said habits are hard to break.

If you're visiting someone, it makes sense. The logic behind that is pretty simple. You're going to stuff yourself if you like the food, because it tastes amazing and you want more.

The eating until stuffed thing at every meal is a problem, unless you work out a lot. It's something I deal with when I'm dieting by eating less meals. Right now I'm back to putting on muscle, so having a huge stomach is helpful to meet my caloric needs. :lol

I can eat a fully loaded burrito bowl from Chipotle, even if I'm barely hungry, without issue. So at least it's coming in useful now.
 
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If you're visiting someone, it makes sense. The logic behind that is pretty simple. You're going to stuff yourself if you like the food, because it tastes amazing and you want more.

A host that expects their guests to stuff themselves is not thinking in a healthy manner.
A guest that accommodates such a custom is not thinking in a healthy manner either.
 
Compared to 30 years ago? Yes. And it will get closer in the future.

Personally I don't find much difference between カール and Cheetos.

I have to admit, I don't know what a カール is (urban dictionary told me, "curl" also means "lifting a weight with your shlong"). But in a bunch of typical Japanese small restaurants, e.g. Kaiten-Zushi, Yakitori, Udon-Soba places etc, and especially the public eateries at Uni, where I used to eat twice a day, the food is totally different from what you may find in the States. Especially you almost always get served green tea or water for free. Even at places like Mos Burger etc.

You are most probably right in the assumption that the gap will get closer in the future, but to imply the Japanese "generally eat the same kinds of things" is, in my opinion, a bit exaggerated. It's no wonder a fat kid in Japan is still a sight to behold.
 
Portions are huge in the US. I was in NYC for vacation (from Europe) and it was pretty insane, at most places me and my GF could've split one portion between us and still have been completely happy. And don't get me started on those litre-sized drinks you can get at fast food places...

The funny part is that everyone got so up in arms over Bloomberg's soda restriction in NYC but the thought process behind it, by his own admission, was explicitly about the issue we're talking about here: when you give people larger portions they're more likely to eat/drink it all even if they'd be satisfied with less. It was never about saying "you cannot drink this much soda". Of course I still think its a woefully ineffective measure, but I didn't see it as an attack on freedom like some people seemed to.
 
A host that expects their guests to stuff themselves is not thinking in a healthy manner.
A guest that accommodates such a custom is not thinking in a healthy manner either.

There are more important things in question than any health consequences that might occur from one meal.

If someone is having a feast, you feast.
 
It isn't that obesity isn't a problem, it's just that it's one problem in a sea of problems that everyone has, including you, and I'm not sure I'd consider your problems to be less important (although I might). Consider these, as very straightforward examples:

Lack of education is a serious problem. Just as you might wonder why some people can be so lazy that they don't do exercise, I wonder how people can be so lazy that they don't graduate from college with a good GPA and maximize their professional productivity.

Smoking, like obesity, causes serious medical risks that the rest of us will be paying for if you have emphysema or cancer at an early stage of life.

Alcohol use can cause serious physical problems as well, but can also cause serious familial issues. An alcoholic dad, for example, is less likely to be an engaged dad, and a disengaged dad is more likely to raise a brat who is a drain on the system in their own right.

Poor use of your financial resources can also cause serious problems for everyone. If you go bankrupt, the bank will raise premiums on everyone else to compensate for the money they lost on you.

I could keep going, but hopefully my point is clear; everybody makes mistakes. Very few people don't make serious ones in their life. How many people are non smoking, non drinking, physically fit people who got 4.0 GPAs and never get in to financial trouble? If you hate or scorn people for these problems, you're essentially admitting that you scorn ~90% of the population. I'm not saying you can't do that, I just want to make sure that your philosophy is internally consistent.
 
Because some people just get more satisfaction out of eating something unhealthy than going to the gym.

Before I found LCHF, I kinda accepted being fat because I was never really happy when I was trying really hard to lose weight by eating right and going to the gym.
 
It isn't that obesity isn't a problem, it's just that it's one problem in a sea of problems that everyone has, including you, and I'm not sure I'd consider your problems to be less important (although I might). Consider these, as very straightforward examples:

Lack of education is a serious problem. Just as you might wonder why some people can be so lazy that they don't do exercise, I wonder how people can be so lazy that they don't graduate from college with a good GPA and maximize their professional productivity.

Smoking, like obesity, causes serious medical risks that the rest of us will be paying for if you have emphysema or cancer at an early stage of life.

Alcohol use can cause serious physical problems as well, but can also cause serious familial issues. An alcoholic dad, for example, is less likely to be an engaged dad, and a disengaged dad is more likely to raise a brat who is a drain on the system in their own right.

Poor use of your financial resources can also cause serious problems for everyone. If you go bankrupt, the bank will raise premiums on everyone else to compensate for the money they lost on you.

I could keep going, but hopefully my point is clear; everybody makes mistakes. Very few people don't make serious ones in their life. How many people are non smoking, non drinking, physically fit people who got 4.0 GPAs and never get in to financial trouble? If you hate or scorn people for these problems, you're essentially admitting that you scorn ~90% of the population. I'm not saying you can't do that, I just want to make sure that your philosophy is internally consistent.

But I think the point that you are missing is, those other issues that you bring up, should be secondary to one's health. Personal health should be everyone's first and foremost priority in life. So while I understand that people make mistakes, and that may lead to some of the issues you brought up (bankruptcy, low grades, etc.), bad personal health cannot be easily excused as it is the result of a slew of issues that can be rectified.
 
What blows my mind each and every time when discussions about nutrition pop up on GAF is that supposedly grains, wheats and other cereals are considered bad now. When I grew up, bread and stuff like muesli was considered very healthy. Especially when whole grain products.
 
But I think the point that you are missing is, those other issues that you bring up, should be secondary to one's health. Personal health should be everyone's first and foremost priority in life.

In your opinion. For example, I think education is more important than physical health; I'd rather be friends with an intelligent obese person than a physically fit simpleton. I'm okay if you disagree with this.

So while I understand that people make mistakes, and that may lead to some of the issues you brought up (bankruptcy, low grades, etc.), bad personal health cannot be easily excused as it is the result of a slew of issues that can be rectified.

A poor education can also be rectified (just work harder in school, or go back to school if you've already graduated), so can bad financial choices (just stop spending your money on anything but food/transportation/etc, and save up every extra penny for potential problems down the line), so can smoking, so can drinking.

I'm now imagining an obese man who is financially and academically successful wondering how the jock can be so stupid and poor, while the physically fit guy who didn't do so well in school ridicules the nerd for being so fat. It seems like we'd all be better off if we stopped pointing fingers at each other for our mistakes and flaws, because we all have them -- and moreover, we all have some that could be rectified if we'd just work harder at school, or work harder at the gym, or stopped buying cigarettes. "Your problems are worse than mine!" just escalates the argument, in my opinion, to an even more vociferous form of finger pointing.
 
Americans are victims to their own food industry. They grow up eating whats been fed to them: highy processed, sugary, genetically modified, low-fibre, but inexpensive food. That food becomes your pallete. On top of that, Americans don't leave themselves much time to eat. Dinner is the only meal that gets properly perpared for many.

So eating healthy is actually a big deal in America. It requires a lot of self-education, paying more money, being counter-cultural, and changing your pallete. Eating whole grains instead of white, and making sure its actually healthier. Have you actually looked at multigrain cheerios? They added so much sugar its worse than regular cheerios.

Anyways my point is, these are all hurdles that keep Americans fat. From what I've seen in Europe, its a stark contrast. For Europeans, the quality of food is much higher by default, you don't necessarily have to seek it out. They have a much better work/life balance, more time to prepare food and eat. They grow up eating healthy, and so they have a pallate for healthy food.
 
But I think the point that you are missing is, those other issues that you bring up, should be secondary to one's health. Personal health should be everyone's first and foremost priority in life.

Yep. That's exactly where you and I differ. Imagine the possibility that the bolded statement is not true. Definitely is not for me so far in life. Can't think of anything more boring than exercise and maintenance to spend my time on. Don't give a damn if it means less lifespan, what matters is doing things you like while you are alive.
 
What blows my mind each and every time when discussions about nutrition pop up on GAF is that supposedly grains, wheats and other cereals are considered bad now. When I grew up, bread and stuff like muesli was considered very healthy. Especially when whole grain products.

That is an part of the whole no carb group... I eat low carb as well but that is mainly because that lets me eat more meat. My breakfast for instance is always oatmeal while my lunch is usually meat and vegetables.

In the end it's calories in, calories out. Sure some people have super good or super bad genes or whatever, but in most cases it simply works. People just give up to easily and expect super results way to soon. It's a slow and steady grind. When I cut I aim for losing 1 pound a week and I am not always seeing that pound drop off every week.

What annoys me is when people act like low carb diets are somehow magically better at the same total calorie intake. It's just a matter of what fills you up the most and not giving up when the weight fluctuates. You can lose weight on candy if eat low enough amounts but it would be bloody torture and your body would get severe malnutrition issues, but the weight would drop...
 
All these people that can't find time for the gym i'm with you and have not been to the gym in 15 yrs. Thing is I've still found time to get a work out in to get fit and it couldn't be easier. Wake up and do 33 pushups, now repeat that 8-10 times a day. This should be no more than 10 minutes of your day. And I've raised a kid too, CRAZY!
I'll get some sit ups in while watching my favorite shows. So easy and convenient. On another day I'll do pull ups with a $30 doorway bar and some days it's dips in the corner of my kitchen counter. I also do these like the pushups, throughout the day when I have 45 seconds.
Running is boring to me and so time consuming so I just sprint up a hill by my house a few times and get that heart rate pumping. I am done in 10 to 15 minutes. This is 2-3 times a week max.
This is not everyone's answer but its mine to keep from looking "physically broken".
 
What blows my mind each and every time when discussions about nutrition pop up on GAF is that supposedly grains, wheats and other cereals are considered bad now. When I grew up, bread and stuff like muesli was considered very healthy. Especially when whole grain products.

Those things aren't necessarily unhealthy but they have TONS of calories. I had to stop eating bread and cereal completely because it just took away such a huge chunk of my calorie budget. My breakfast used to be a bowl of cereal, two sandwiches and a fruit (~600 kcal), now that I eat oatmeal porridge and a piece of fruit it's 350 kcal and keeps me full just as long. The old notion of a third of your diet consisting of carbohydrates is very outdated.
 
I wake up around 6 and get myself and my daughter washed and dressed. This usually takes about an hour. Get my daughter breakfast and make sure she eats it. Make a lunch for myself to take to work. Takes about an hour.

Drive to wherever my daughter is being looked after for the day, various grandparents or play school. Drive to work. Takes about an hour.

Work 9 hours at a desk.

Drive to pick my daughter up and bring her home. Takes about an hour.

Make daughter dinner, make sure she eats it. Bath daughter and then play. Take daughter to bed and read stories. Takes about an hour and a half.

Get daughter to sleep and start dinner for me and the missus. Missus comes home, chat while dinner cooks. Takes about an hour.

Eat dinner and sit down finally. Watch tv and then go to bed. Takes about two hours.

Go to bed.

Exercise is not high on the agenda.

I think you are me.
 
GAF waxes erroneously about nutrition and fitness in the same breadth that they expose their ideas about the sloth that is fat people.
 
It is easier to find the time to exercise when you a) don't have young kids anymore who you have to keep a constant eye on or b) have a partner who will watch the kids for you

For me I have neither a or b so during the weeks I have my son it's nearly impossible for me to go for a bike ride

Join a gym with a daycare, many gyms now have this. Or workout at the home when the baby is sleeping/napping.

3 days a week. Telling me this is impossible ?
 
Join a gym with a daycare, many gyms now have this. Or workout at the home when the baby is sleeping/napping.

3 days a week. Telling me this is impossible ?

I don't know why people always have to recommend gyms. Gyms aren't necessary for weight loss. I like gyms personally. But a healthy diet with a brisk walk once a day is enough, mixed in with some body weight exercises. Diet is really the kicker here.

Most overweight people--including myself formerly--have terrible diets, usually in the form of excess sugar. Unfortunately our fat phobia has shifted a lot of calories to sugary processed foods. Combine that with the terrible food culture in the US--lack of cooking, too much snacking, too much fast food, and you have a recipe for obesity.
 
I don't know why people always have to recommend gyms. Gyms aren't necessary for weight loss. I like gyms personally. But a healthy diet with a brisk walk once a day is enough, mixed in with some body weight exercises. Diet is really the kicker here.

Most overweight people--including myself formerly--have terrible diets, usually in the form of excess sugar. Unfortunately our fat phobia has shifted a lot of calories to sugary processed foods. Combine that with the terrible food culture in the US--lack of cooking, too much snacking, too much fast food, and you have a recipe for obesity.

Thank you. A gym is not needed to drop weight. Clean up your sloppy diet, and you'll lose weight.

I call bullshit on anyone who "doesn't have time" to eat healthy.
 
I'm 31.

I love food (all kinds).

I work 10 hours a day (minimum), plus 1 hour to get to work and back home, plus freelancing, which eats too much of the time (testing & reviewing).

I'm a coffee addict, show add some sugar to the mix.

Still don't make a lot of money so I can buy whatever food I want, any time I want.

During my free time I usually like to rest for a while and then get on with my hobbies (reading, playing, going out, etc).

Where does a gym or excersize fit into my life? I don't really know.

This is such a cop out, I'm sorry. You make time. If you can't dedicate 30-45mins every few days to exercise you need to re-evaluate your time management. I own a business and work a lot and always find time to exercise.
 
This is such a cop out, I'm sorry. You make time. If you can't dedicate 30-45mins every few days to exercise you need to re-evaluate your time management. I own a business and work a lot and always find time to exercise.

Why don't you learn playing the Banjo? If you can't dedicate 30-45 minutes every day to practice the banjo you need to re-evaluate your time management.


Other people. Other priorities.
 
Why don't you learn playing the Banjo? If you can't dedicate 30-45 minutes every day to practice the banjo you need to re-evaluate your time management.


Other people. Other priorities.

Because playing the banjo is detrimental to ones health.
 
The Japanese generally eat the same kinds of things these days as the US, but they just walk more.

Ah, not entirely true. Many of us, when we think of Japan, instantly think of a major metropolitan area. However, outside of the big cities of Tokyo, Hiroshima, Osaka, etc, lie the suburban wastelands where you must use a car and there are many drive-thru eateries.

Consequentially, if you do live in Tokyo there are just as many unhealthy restaurants lining the blocks, along with Soda vending machines at every step, just begging your after-work exhausted self to indulge.

In reply to your comment: We do not eat the "same" kinds of foods as Americans do, however... while I would agree that the availability of burgers and fried chicken is fairly plentiful, we have our own plentiful amount unique junk food which include beef bowls, yakisoba, ramen, nikupan, kara-age, curry-rice, and more. While this is indeed Japanese food, it's also a direct dose of carbs and sugar that your body doesn't need. Additionally, if you look at Japanese restaurants and izakayas, there aren't really many recipes or dishes that include hefty servings of vegetables like there are in Korea and China. Instead you will commonly be served big bowls of empty carbs and seaweed.

Like the case of America, the best alternative is to just cook your own food at home. Of course, vegetables are not always the cheapest.
 
Why don't you learn playing the Banjo? If you can't dedicate 30-45 minutes every day to practice the banjo you need to re-evaluate your time management.


Other people. Other priorities.

Well then they ought to re-evaluate their priorities.
 
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