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Why do Men Cheat with Ugly Girls?

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CaptYamato said:
No, actually, she doesn't. What she is a woman that is not afraid to say what is on her mind and you don't like that. She can also fight her own fights though. However, she should know you have be proven to be delusional.

Remember GAF this is the same person that said he could take on Manny Pacquiao because he was bigger despite never having any kind of boxing training in his life.
lol at the first bolded. She can try to fight them, but she gets her irrational ass handed to her based on the 2 devolution dominated threads I've seen. And please continue following her from thread to thread defending her honor.

And lol again at the second bolded. You might want to go back to that thread and read the last page of it since some things clearly went right over your head.
Devolution said:
I got 99 problems but a dick ain't one.
You sure it's only 99?
Devolution said:
Nah but you get to join the club of exclusive dudebros on my ignore list.
Way to go! Ignore someone who's so much more intelligent than you that he finds you irrational. Gee, I wonder why it is that you're so fucked up.
Tkawsome said:
Phew. Only a few. For a second there I thought it was going to be tough.
As long as you live in a city, it's really quite easy. The key is to approach hot girls and just not give a fuck; also, be beautiful.
 
SapientWolf said:
Himuro chased Koshiba away so creepy-gaf is running out of women to hit on.
The Last Judgment is overdue.

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alphaNoid said:
I've never cheated, never will. I have no desire to be with anyone besides my wife, its awesome.
that's only half the battle. the other half is romancing your wife a lifetime to have her not cheat on you or leave you.
 
Bungalow Bob said:
Way to go! Ignore someone who's so much more intelligent than you that he finds you irrational. Gee, I wonder why it is that you're so fucked up.
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If you were really intelligent you wouldn't gloat about it. You would just move on. Seeing you argue is letting me know you don't have the mental capacity to accept when you are wrong. Which is most definitely a sign of stupidity.




and that last page was you agreeing with Evilore and changing your own words around to fit what he said.



viakado said:
that's only half the battle. the other half is romancing your wife a lifetime to have her not cheat on you or leave you.

Now that brings about a whole other topic. What is love? Can you ever really be "in" love? Why would she need to be Romanced if she truly loved you?
 
Ehhh pretty girls can be freaks in bed. BUT they've also got to be a bit mental. That's what you need. A hot girl that's got some issues. Awesome in bed. Fucked in the head.

I happen to be with a really cute girl right now that is also fantastic (but not too freaky). I didn't settle down for a few years because such girls are difficult to find. But they're out there. She is 5'2", though - maybe that's one reason why she developed all these other "skills", as he says, despite being so attractive.

Also opposite to what he said -- there's this gorgeous girl in my office. Bombshell. Disgustingly attractive. I've never cheated in my life, and likely never will, but if I were to ever cheat, it would be because of someone like her. Because I had an opportunity to fuck a girl that beautiful and I wouldn't be able to pass it up. If I was dating a pretty girl that wasn't worth a damn otherwise? I'd just dump her and move on. What's the point in hanging on and being deceptive if all she's got is looks?
 
Steelrain said:
Holy shit take it to PM's. No one want to hear about you two bitch over nothing.

Don't worry I am done with him.




Now a question for gaf. Why would you stay with someone you cheated on/with or vice-versa?
 
CaptYamato said:
Don't worry I am done with him.




Now a question for gaf. Why would you stay with someone you cheated on/with or vice-versa?
I couldn't stay, the guilt would eat me alive.

If they cheated, I would never be able to trust them again. So it would end right then and there.
 
Steelrain said:
I couldn't stay, the guilt would eat me alive.

If they cheated, I would never be able to trust them again. So it would end right then and there.

Understandable. Never understood the people that either stay or get back with someone that cheated on them.
 
Steelrain said:
I couldn't stay, the guilt would eat me alive.

If they cheated, I would never be able to trust them again. So it would end right then and there.

Pretty much this. Even if it was a long term relationship. Hell I'd probably feel worse either way in a longer relationship.
 
I guess my question would be what could someone do to earn forgiveness and gain back the trust you had if such a situation were to occur?
 
CaptYamato said:
Understandable. Never understood the people that either stay or get back with someone that cheated on them.
Really? Never? Emotional dependency. And the fact that any notion that the person might be too good for them (eg, sought out someone else, meaning someone better to the victim) can also make them seem much more attractive and alluring.
 
MightyKAC said:
I guess my question would be what could someone do to earn forgiveness and gain back the trust you had if such a situation were to occur?

I don't really think you can truly gain back the trust, that's the problem.
 
Power Glove said:
Hey ladies, you wanna know what really turns a guy ON ?

friction on his penis ಠ_ಠ

I hate it when im making out with a girl to the point where it gets really touchy and she doesnt go for my penis, i mean what the fuck.
 
Socreges said:
Really? Never? Emotional dependency. And the fact that any notion that the person might be too good for them (eg, sought out someone else, meaning someone better to the victim) can also make them seem much more attractive and alluring.

Yep. Strong believer in if it happens once it will/can happen again. The trust has already been broken. Once lines are crossed they are easier to cross again and again.
 
CaptYamato said:
Yep. Strong believer in if it happens once it will/can happen again. The trust has already been broken. Once lines are crossed they are easier to cross again and again.
No, that wasn't my point. Go ahead and flatter yourself, but you're speaking about other people. I'd be shocked if you really couldn't understand what makes other people tick.

Maybe by "I never understood", you actually mean "I find it stupid that".
 
Socreges said:
No, that wasn't my point. Go ahead and flatter yourself, but you're speaking about other people. I'd be shocked if you really couldn't understand what makes other people tick.

Maybe by "I never understood", you actually mean "I find it stupid that".

No, actually, I thought you were asking when you said "never"



Misunderstanding.
 
SalsaShark said:
I hate it when im making out with a girl to the point where it gets really touchy and she doesnt go for my penis, i mean what the fuck.


You take her fucking hand in yours, and you jam her hand into your pants. She will take it from there bro.
 
Devolution said:
I don't really think you can truly gain back the trust, that's the problem.

I dunno. Like I said relationships are complex things by nature. And just like everything not all situations are created equally. For me it would have to depend on why she cheated, what the details were and if we had children or not.

If it was a weak moment I might forgive her because I've had Plenty of those.
 
MightyKAC said:
I guess my question would be what could someone do to earn forgiveness and gain back the trust you had if such a situation were to occur?
There is nothing they could do. The trust and respect for that person is completely gone.

I'm not the jealous type, so I don't go looking for dirt. But if someone's dumb enough to get caught red handed or I hear about it from more than one friend, it's over. They wanted so badly to experience something new and exciting with someone else, so I'll do the same thing -- without them in the picture and with a clean conscience because I'd be a free, single man.
 
Solideliquid said:
You take her fucking hand in yours, and you jam her hand into your pants. She will take it from there bro.

I actually did that once, when the girl was kinda going for it but felt like she was wondering if she should do it or not. She laughed.

I wouldnt really do it in a regular situation out of the blue man. I guess im not THAT manly.
 
MightyKAC said:
I dunno. Like I said relationships are complex things by nature. And just like everything not all situations are created equally. For me it would have to depend on why she cheated, what the details were and if we had children or not.

If it was a weak moment I might forgive her because I've had Plenty of those.

Weak moment is such a cop out I'm sorry. A person who cheats doesn't give an honest shit about their relationship no their partner (at least in that moment, which is enough). I have no sympathy or respect for cheaters.
 
Devolution said:
Weak moment is such a cop out I'm sorry. A person who cheats doesn't give an honest shit about their relationship nor their partner. I have no sympathy or respect for cheaters.

I respect that but I guess my point is we've all been guilty of doing stupid things when we're not at our best. If I had to spend my entire life paying for every mistake I've ever made I could literally get nothing else done. With all that said, there MIGHT be cases where I could find it in my heart to forgive someone for making a dumb mistake....

Though honestly, those cases would be very VERY rare indeed.
 
CaptYamato said:
Remember GAF this is the same person that said he could take on Manny Pacquiao because he was bigger despite never having any kind of boxing training in his life.
Whoa, what? Yeah, I'm gonna need a link
 
not the guy's fault. because the said hot girl he's dating chose a man on how selfish and dishonest he is, rather than stable and sincere.

damn that video is truth.
 
Bungalow Bob said:
And lol again at the second bolded. You might want to go back to that thread and read the last page of it since some things clearly went right over your head.
Even on the hardest difficulty, he's pretty easy to KO in Fight Night Round 4. I feel you.
 
Parallax said:
Whoa, what? Yeah, I'm gonna need a link
It all starts with my first post near the top of the page in this thread. Though the discussion was slightly off topic, it helped a lot of people learn about weight class sports (plus it's funny as hell).

And to relate it slightly to this thread... not only do sports fans prefer big guys, everything else being equal, so do women.

And ladies, if you want to have a chance with hot, successful, funny, charismatic men, make sure to have a respectable squat, press, deadlift and 100m dash time.
 
Bungalow Bob said:
It all starts with my first post near the top of the page in this thread. Though the discussion was slightly off topic, it helped a lot of people learn about weight class sports (plus it's funny as hell).

And to relate it slightly to this thread... not only do sports fans prefer big guys, everything else being equal, so do women.

And ladies, if you want to have a chance with hot, successful, funny, charismatic men, make sure to have a respectable squat, press, deadlift and 100m dash time.

Saw this in the thread:
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If that doesn't prove we're animals, then I don't know what will.
 
See the thing is I know several pretty women that do all those things he says the ugly woman does. I have to wonder where the guys who agree with the video are meeting their women, so I know to stay away from there.
 
He nailed it when he said 'that uglier girl, she has other qualities.' After the initial 'look at how hot this chic is' point wears off, if that is the only attraction; then it'll never last. The so called 'ugly bitch' may have something on a non-superficial level that the other person needs. Things like being able to hold a conversation, being able to be yourself around them etc. Just stuff that you want longer term, not shorter.
 
Two points,

One, attraction isn't all about looks.

Two, cheating is a combination of not respecting your partner enough to be honest with them and seeking something that is missing from your current relationship - it doesn't necessarily have to be sex (i.e emotional cheating vs. physical cheating).

Like most things in life there is a lot of grey area when it comes to relationships and one of the things I've found is making up 'rules' about what you will or will not accept in a relationship/partner often results in a failed relationship. If you aren't willing to work through the problems that will inevitably come up, you shouldn't be in a relationship.
 
esquire said:
If you aren't willing to work through the problems that will inevitably come up, you shouldn't be in a relationship.
I hope you're not suggesting that people who cannot accept the reality that cheating happens shouldn't be in relationships.

EDIT: I'm super tired, so I'm sorry if that came out the wrong way. I think it did. Haha.
 
soultron said:
I hope you're not suggesting that people who cannot accept the reality that cheating happens shouldn't be in relationships.
All I'm saying is that it's not that black and white and taking a dogmatic approach to relationships isn't going to have good results. For starters, different people define 'cheating' in different ways.
 
Mohonky said:
He nailed it when he said 'that uglier girl, she has other qualities.' After the initial 'look at how hot this chic is' point wears off, if that is the only attraction; then it'll never last. The so called 'ugly bitch' may have something on a non-superficial level that the other person needs. Things like being able to hold a conversation, being able to be yourself around them etc. Just stuff that you want longer term, not shorter.
That problem is that a guy would be even more likelier to cheat if he was with a woman he found unattractive, regardless of any of those qualities.
 
CaptYamato said:
If you were really intelligent you wouldn't gloat about it. You would just move on. Seeing you argue is letting me know you don't have the mental capacity to accept when you are wrong. Which is most definitely a sign of stupidity.




and that last page was you agreeing with Evilore and changing your own words around to fit what he said.





Now that brings about a whole other topic. What is love? Can you ever really be "in" love? Why would she need to be Romanced if she truly loved you?
Oh baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.
 
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