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Why do Men Cheat with Ugly Girls?

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soultron said:
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I wouldn't mind dating this kind of white knights °¬°
 
I can see where the dude in the video and Soultron (much love Soul brotha) are coming from. I tend to talk to more girls than guys, and a lot of times just sex comes up, and some girls who are really pretty scoff and doing particular things in the bedroom, and it seems to be because they feel very secure in their physical appearance compensating. Mind you, there are pretty girls who are freaks, but I am just talking about particular cases, I'm not suggesting one group is larger than the other.

More importantly though, while not trying to specifically comment on frequency of it occurring, I do see a lot of girls who focus a lot on physical beauty, but seem to be... simple everywhere else. They don't seem to have very much in terms of rousing conversation, they don't focus on education (both schooling and self taught) and their domestic abilities are just not there either. These particular girls are a problem unto themselves, they are pretty and they know it, and that gets to peoples heads (Men and women I might add) - when they lose this beauty, or when their significant other no longer appreciates shallow things as much as he used to, I can see it leading to cheating, emotional cheating more than the physical stuff.

Basically, what I am trying to say is, while I couldn't tell you how often it happens, what's particularly interesting about the pretty shallow girls is that everyone wants them at first. That gives them the confidence they need, they think to themselves "I am desirable as I am" - but what they provide is something that wears quickly.

Pretty girls who aren't full of themselves and are intelligent and have depth are what everyone wants~
 
My theory is that there are two types of cheaters. One type tries not to cheat, but eventually gives in to temptation. These types can easily resist the hot woman at the bar, it's the ongoing temptations that eventually cause them to give in. They are more likely to cheat with someone they are around often (friend, coworker) and looks aren't very important, as it's a built up sexual tension. The other type doesn't really care about fidelity and will give in to some chick at the bar that strikes their fancy.

I am also not convinced that Bungalow Bob is not just Shanandeus's other troll account.
 
Dude is dead right though. Ugly girls get socially punished by awkward stares and blank looks when they say something lame or tell a bad joke. Subconciously they adapt and improve. Hot girls are rewarded with positive reinforcement no matter what the fuck the say, regardless of how idiotic it is. Simply because guys want to fuck them. That's why ugly chicks are always cooler than hot chicks. Rare exceptions being a hot chick with great parents/friends that kept her in check growing up.
 
Mattdaddy said:
Rare exceptions being a hot chick with great parents/friends that kept her in check growing up.
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Yup, that's why I always go to compulsive eater meetings to pick up women. I dream of finding a good looking girl that's just messed up in the head because her parents told her she wasn't good enough since she was little and now all she needs is a lot of love and is a freak in the sack.

They give me ugly looks when I arrive with a bag of donuts though.
 
Jobiensis said:
My theory is that there are two types of cheaters. One type tries not to cheat, but eventually gives in to temptation. These types can easily resist the hot woman at the bar, it's the ongoing temptations that eventually cause them to give in. They are more likely to cheat with someone they are around often (friend, coworker) and looks aren't very important, as it's a built up sexual tension. The other type doesn't really care about fidelity and will give in to some chick at the bar that strikes their fancy.
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Based on personal experience, I agree with you
 
I saw some show about cheating. The "expert" tied alot of cheating to problems some people have with intimacy. In their minds they have sex as something dirty or nasty. So they will look for a skank to be dirty with when they have a "clean, pure" relationship. I know one guy who cheats on his wife that. He said he likes to get freaky in the bed but doesn't want to see his wife doing that kind of stuff so he hooks up with random freaks. I am thinking his wife knows and doesn't care or they have an agreement becuse he is out way too much for her not to know. I do wonder if that okay or not.

There is not one blanket reason why people cheat. Every situation is different.
 
Jobiensis said:
My theory is that there are two types of cheaters. One type tries not to cheat, but eventually gives in to temptation. These types can easily resist the hot woman at the bar, it's the ongoing temptations that eventually cause them to give in. They are more likely to cheat with someone they are around often (friend, coworker) and looks aren't very important, as it's a built up sexual tension. The other type doesn't really care about fidelity and will give in to some chick at the bar that strikes their fancy.
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From personal experience, you're dead on.
 
Truly amazing what hot guys will settle for sometimes. We have one female in the building who is on disability with bi polar disorder, high maintenance and quite below average looking. Yet she averages 6-9 guys a year off the internet before they figure out they need to run.
 
madara said:
Truly amazing what hot guys will settle for sometimes. We have one female in the building who is on disability with bi polar disorder, high maintenance and quite below average looking. Yet she averages 6-9 guys a year off the internet before they figure out they need to run.
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Crazy can be a hell of a lot of fun. For a little while...
 
SapientWolf said:
That problem is that a guy would be even more likelier to cheat if he was with a woman he found unattractive, regardless of any of those qualities.
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This is sooooooo true. Although I don't cheat, a similar rule applies to me: if a girl's a 9 or 10, there is a remote chance I'll accept to be in an exclusive relationship with her, if she's less than that, then she'd pretty much have to be the 2nd coming.
Jobiensis said:
I am also not convinced that Bungalow Bob is not just Shanandeus's other troll account.
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Shanandeus, are you a Mexican strength and conditioning coach?
 
WanderingWind said:
Are you?
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Not exactly. Although strength and conditioning coaching is one of the things I studied, I just do it for fun as a volunteer at a local university (and one of my athletes might be in the 2016 olympics). My real job is totally unrelated. And I'm Mexican-Canadian.
 
I do not condone cheating, just break up with the girl if you want something else. What I will say is that in my experience the better looking the girl iv'e managed to date the worse off she is in bed. Don't ask me why that is and it certaintly isn't the case for everyone i'm sure. Just my personal experience. One of the most beautiful girls I ever dated and fell head over heels in love with was absolutely terrible in bed and completely unwilling to try anything new.
 
Always-honest said:
Not all men are incontinent fucksticks.
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I agree. Haven't cheated yet. It's a personal thing with me. I take personal honour very seriously. It wouldn't matter if anyone else didn't know because I'd know and have to live with myself.
 
They had some interview with BILLY BOB THORNTON and he said some of the best sex he ever had was with the not so good looking women. I think he was basically bashing Angelina for saying hot looking women are not the necessarily the best in the sack.

BILLY BOB THORNTON urges men to stop fixating on beautiful ladies when it comes to sexual conquests, because he has found "average looking women" are often better in bed.

The movie star, who was married to one of the most beautiful women alive - ANGELINA JOLIE - insists sex doesn't always live up to your expectations if you date stunning women.

He tells ESQUIRE magazine, "Sex doesn't have to be with a model to be good. As a matter of fact, sometimes with the model, the actress, the 'sexiest person in the world', it may be literally like f**king the couch.

"Don't count out the average-looking woman, or even maybe the slightly unattractive woman, or the really unattractive woman.

"There may be this swarthy, little, five-foot-two stocky woman who just has sex (written) all over her."
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SmokyDave said:
Putting across your opinions in an obnoxious manner is, however.
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Because there is so much reason to be another passive voice on a male dominated site. No thanks, I'd rather be loud and obnoxious than pitiable.

Besides I'm not going to mince words in a thread like this or at dudebros like Bob over there.
 
jmdajr said:
They had some interview with BILLY BOB THORNTON and he said some of the best sex he ever had was with the not so good looking women. I think he was basically bashing Angelina for saying hot looking women are not the necessarily the best in the sack.
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well I have to agree. some of the worst pussy I ever had was attached to a hot face.

but not every time. :-)
 
Devolution said:
Because there is so much reason to be another passive voice on a male dominated site. No thanks, I'd rather be loud and obnoxious than pitiable.

Besides I'm not going to mince words in a thread like this or at dudebros like Bob over there.
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...so how many people are on your dudebro ignore list, any way?
 
This thread is sexist. There is no difference between man and woman. They are equal and these threads should not be able to exist.
 
Sealda said:
This thread is sexist. There is no difference between man and woman. They are equal and these threads should not be able to exist.
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If we got rid of the sexist thread on the first page there would be three less threads.
 
CaptYamato said:
If we got rid of the sexist thread on the first page there would be three less threads.
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I agree the stickies are really sexist since they only show the male SPORTS and not the FEMALE sports. As if they should be seperated in teh first place. Which is another topic, i will not delve into that right now. However, the professional sports in USA are deeply sexist and discriminating.
 
WanderingWind said:
Zero! I just passively ignore people. It feels less Fox News-y.
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Yes, ignoring sexist douches is comparable to Fow News I guess, if you're one of them. Clearly, I need to be more fair and balanced.
 
Most men cheat out of insecurity, hence the ugly girl. In their minds, they're throwing that girl a bone and that girl needs him. It strokes the ego and lets them know they still "got it".
 
My theory is that there are two types of cheaters. One type tries not to cheat, but eventually gives in to temptation. These types can easily resist the hot woman at the bar, it's the ongoing temptations that eventually cause them to give in. They are more likely to cheat with someone they are around often (friend, coworker) and looks aren't very important, as it's a built up sexual tension. The other type doesn't really care about fidelity and will give in to some chick at the bar that strikes their fancy.
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Really, really, really agree with this post. The temptation aspect (option 1) is the biggest obstacle of all in my experience.

Edit: But the second description (of a fool) is much more common than the first, if I've judged mah observations co-rrectly.
 
Devolution said:
Yes, ignoring sexist douches is comparable to Fow News I guess, if you're one of them. Clearly, I need to be more fair and balanced.
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...okay, simmer down, look at that comment again, and think of another way that could interpreted. Because you took it WAY wrong. Way.
 
Infinitemadness said:
Most men cheat out of insecurity, hence the ugly girl. In their minds, they're throwing that girl a bone and that girl needs him. It strokes the ego and lets them know they still "got it".
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That's certainly a reason. However, I assume that people of either gender cheat for a plethora of reasons, so I think the assertion that most men do it for that reason to be kind of presumptuous.

And for what it's worth, I understand the underlying point that the author of the video is getting at, but the premise seems silly. Mind you, I'm sure it's meant to be viewed as a tongue-in-cheek video, or at least I hope that's the case. Otherwise, I guess I'm supposed to think that this guy suspects he is blowing minds by explaining to stuck up attractive girls why they had it coming when their stud boyfriends hooked up with ugly people on the side.
 
A lot of what he says is common knowledge amongst men, or at least its a common stereotype. However, I haven't come across many women/girls tending to hold similar thoughts in regards to lesser attractive men.
 
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