I watched my brother, he’s 8 years older, spend himself into debt repeatedly. Each time my parents bail him out and then he just goes and does it again. I chose to be like my parents who are very fiscally responsible and it has helped with my anxiety so that money isn’t a big issue when it comes time to pay some unexpected bills and some that are expected(personal property tax).
With that said, I’m kinda cheap. I only buy things on sale, I stash a lot of money away, I usually buy a Series or two late iPhone from apples refurb department but I do have cable however due to it being the only way I can get MASN and watch the Nationals. I have a Roth 401K and ESPP. I have a very healthy savings account and I do not live paycheck to paycheck. Also, my house is paid for.
My daughter is the only grandchild and one day she’ll be able to live comfortably and enjoy things in life without the anchor of student loans so that makes me happy.