JackEtc said:
Wait, whahaht? That sucks if I understand it correctly.
Care to elaborate?
It probably exaggerated a bit and I don't want to hog the thread but since it really is a "this sucks" moment and not worthy of a girl-age thread I guess I can share a few details.
She's the daughter of my aunt's my mother's sister brother-in-law. I met her for the first time this holiday when I was back in my homeland (I live in Switzerland). We spent a week with the families of my two aunts and her family at the beach, 19 people in total.
I'm interested in her and I guess she must be too. We talked a bit there and chatted in facebook a few times but I don't know for sure. She's basically the first girl from my homeland which I ever considered dating because she's not only cute but also smart and yadda yadda.
Now, I'd ask her out but as you read in my first post, I'm in Switzerland and she's not. The place-factor isn't that much of a problem though, next year she's studying in Munich which is 3 hours away from Zürich by car and I'll probably see her in April again. The real problem is that we know her family and even the slightest hint of interest would lead to expectations I'm not willing to commit to (engagement, marriage etc.).
So yeah, that's it, nothing too fancy
Arcblade said:
This why you only poli with Muslim chicks after they've emigrated out of the middle east, and been here for a few years.
She is Muslim but not from the Middle East (so am I, same nationality too) but this hasn't got anything to do with religion.