Plenty of people don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that. What people are jumping on is the OP's notion that a human life will most often have more suffering than joy. If he's generalizing from his own experience, he's probably suffering from depression.
Plenty of people don't have kids. Nothing wrong with that. What people are jumping on is the OP's notion that a human life will most often have more suffering than joy. If he's generalizing from his own experience, he's probably suffering from depression.
Personally I think if you replace the word 'suffering' with 'dissatisfaction', then he would be right. Even joy is dissatisfying if we're clinging to something impermanent because we know it will end, while the reverse is not true (dissatisfaction is not satisfying). But then that also alters his argument as life is what it is regardless of how satisfied we are, so then it is our responsibility to find satisfaction in imperfect circumstances and it places the agency on us.
Just because you know something is impermanent, doesn't mean that you can't be satisfied by it. For some, the realization of the impermanence of existence allows them to appreciate what they have.
Just because you know something is impermanent, doesn't mean that you can't be satisfied by it. For some, the realization of the impermanence of existence allows them to appreciate what they have.
Satisfaction and appreciation are impermanent.
The OP seems to be open to the idea that most of humanity could come out at the end of life with more 'happiness' than 'sadness', a net positive. I'm not seeing where he is saying humans are a net negative overall. Even if he was/is, it would be hard to disprove or prove that idea either way.
Regardless of population concerns, when you give birth you force (eventually) sentient beings into existence without giving them the chance to consent to existence.
He said multiple times throughout the thread that he thinks suffering usually outweighs joy. I don't know if he's actually depressed, but that's where these posters are coming from. *shrug*
Honestly, it seems to me that the OP has several entangled ideas here:
-suffering outweighs joy
-conscious existence has no inherent value in and of itself
-consent trumps all
It's this last that's the real sticking point, since obviously consent is absolutely impossible in this case. A non-existent person can't consent, so if consent is a prerequisite to existence, you will necessarily come to the conclusion that nothing can exist, ever.
People are arguing more with the first two than with the last, but it's probably easier to tease out all the threads and see where the real disagreement is; I think it's in that last point.
I guess I'm not assuming human life is on net negative. But the risk allows the possiblity that it is ultimately negative, and that risk isn't something that would-be parents should be taking on behalf of their children no matter the odds.
Human life MAY be net positive, I'm not discounting that possibility. I only think that the risk that it's not makes forcing people to experience it immoral.
This is the only possibly worrying thing I see:Existence guarantees suffering but only promises joy/creativity.
I'd rather not have been born, but the only way to opt-out is through this painful process.
Whether "evil" is immoral is up in the air. Questioning whether "evil" as humanity generally envisions it means questioning whether the Holocaust or other genocides are immoral. I think it's pretty clear how most of humanity views those historical events.
I don't think the immorality lies in the fact of merely existing, so you and I wouldn't be forced to kill ourselves in order to be moral. The real immorality lies with our forebears who chose to give birth to us without our consent to existence. The first bolded piece of the quote highlights the fact that the unborn can't give consent to exist. I don't think this is absurd, although the truth often is. The question is whether we can find some moral basis to override this fact, which I don't think we can, or at least I haven't been convinced so far.
100% agreement. We had the first year in a very long time where the rate of our population growth did not rise, and that trend will continue the more we bring people out of poverty and into comfort.
Yes. Why? The internet.Widespread destruction of ecosystems for greed....vast wars and instruments designed explicitly to kill each other most effectively.....billions and billions into fueling hate-filled mercenaries and revolutions and death camps and all sorts of unnecessary bullshit.
Do you really think humans have contributed positively to the Earth's wellbeing?
Actually i agree with the OP, add to that the state of the world right now, and the future not looking so bright ( low water reserves, food scarceness, us killing the enviroment, people getting crazy... er) and i can't help but to concur, i would've personally preferred not to be born had i been given the option.
Since it can't be done, I think the answer must be that people shouldn't have kids, unless there is some overriding concern that humanity must be preserved. However, when the human population is straining the earth's capacity as it is now, I think the only moral thing to do for would-be parents is to adopt.
Edit: I'd be fine at parties where contraception is used . I'm not advocating people kill themselves either. I'm just saying that when you give birth to people unable to consent to existence, that is the situation you force them into; I'd rather not have been born, but the only way to opt-out is through this painful process.
Regardless of population concerns, when you give birth you force (eventually) sentient beings into existence without giving them the chance to consent to existence. Even if they are born into a perfectly happy family with all the means to raise them, these kids will be forced to suffer the pain of being alive, either through depression or simply the pain and fear of death. The only way to opt-out of living after birth is through death, and even if death is through painless suicide or even unforeseen accident, there is always the fear of dying which is undeniably unpleasant.
Assuming that inflicting suffering on beings capable of feeling pain/fear/what-have-you is immoral, how can having children be moral, even if there is the possibility the net joy they experience is greater than the net pain? Isn't that risk something that should be consented to? Or does the preservation of humanity outweigh that facially immoral act?
yeah sure: http://www.breathingearth.net/
Looks like things are getting better to me.
Sure bringing planned parenthood and education will help third world countries tremendously. But do we really want to bring our wasteful mentalities to those countries as well. I read somewhere that one American citizen uses as much resources as 30 Indian citizens. http://www.guardian.co.uk/environment/datablog/2009/sep/02/carbon-emissions-per-person-capita But why would anyone care the earth is just a big rock after all. Who cares if your future children will have to deal with depleted resources. You want children so that they might experience that happiness you feel in your life. It's just a natural thing we humans have to do right?
Regardless of population concerns, when you give birth you force (eventually) sentient beings into existence without giving them the chance to consent to existence. Even if they are born into a perfectly happy family with all the means to raise them, these kids will be forced to suffer the pain of being alive, either through depression or simply the pain and fear of death. The only way to opt-out of living after birth is through death, and even if death is through painless suicide or even unforeseen accident, there is always the fear of dying which is undeniably unpleasant.
Assuming that inflicting suffering on beings capable of feeling pain/fear/what-have-you is immoral, how can having children be moral, even if there is the possibility the net joy they experience is greater than the net pain? Isn't that risk something that should be consented to? Or does the preservation of humanity outweigh that facially immoral act?
Well, in principle you could, but it would be a tough task, practically speaking. I think most people generalize from how they feel themselves and what they see around them in family and friends. So I, for example, feel like life is generally pretty good even if it's not always awesome and has a few bumps.- I don't think anyone can show that humanity overall is a net negative or positive, there is simply not, and will almost certainly never be, enough data to draw that conclusion for the whole of human history. All you can do is see why people draw a conclusion to one side, the other, or neutral.
Well yes, but we are conscious beings. I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to say here. Our morality is based on what we value, and so (for most of us) conscious existence is viewed as a moral good.- Conscious existence only has value to other conscious beings.
- Since we have created morals, consent is important. An egg and sperm can not give consent to become life, so they (the humans containing them) shouldn't bring life into the world.
Once you meet the right person you want to see stupid little versions of them.
Well, in principle you could, but it would be a tough task, practically speaking. I think most people generalize from how they feel themselves and what they see around them in family and friends. So I, for example, feel like life is generally pretty good even if it's not always awesome and has a few bumps.
Well yes, but we are conscious beings. I'm not entirely sure what you're trying to say here. Our morality is based on what we value, and so (for most of us) conscious existence is viewed as a moral good.
Depends on which moral philosophers you look at, and I don't think many would see it as so important that it trumps everything else. *shrug*
Regardless of population concerns, when you give birth you force (eventually) sentient beings into existence without giving them the chance to consent to existence. Even if they are born into a perfectly happy family with all the means to raise them, these kids will be forced to suffer the pain of being alive, either through depression or simply the pain and fear of death. The only way to opt-out of living after birth is through death, and even if death is through painless suicide or even unforeseen accident, there is always the fear of dying which is undeniably unpleasant.
Assuming that inflicting suffering on beings capable of feeling pain/fear/what-have-you is immoral, how can having children be moral, even if there is the possibility the net joy they experience is greater than the net pain? Isn't that risk something that should be consented to? Or does the preservation of humanity outweigh that facially immoral act?
Regardless of population concerns, when you give birth you force (eventually) sentient beings into existence without giving them the chance to consent to existence. Even if they are born into a perfectly happy family with all the means to raise them, these kids will be forced to suffer the pain of being alive, either through depression or simply the pain and fear of death. The only way to opt-out of living after birth is through death, and even if death is through painless suicide or even unforeseen accident, there is always the fear of dying which is undeniably unpleasant.
Assuming that inflicting suffering on beings capable of feeling pain/fear/what-have-you is immoral, how can having children be moral, even if there is the possibility the net joy they experience is greater than the net pain? Isn't that risk something that should be consented to? Or does the preservation of humanity outweigh that facially immoral act?
Probably because it wasn't his fault the adopted child was forced into the world. Personally I think having children is selfish, not immoral.Also for parents to adopt children still have to be 'forced into the world', by your own standards. How would this make it better?
Probably because it wasn't his fault the adopted child was forced into the world. Personally I think having children is selfish, not immoral.
How is it selfish?
Once you meet the right person you want to see stupid little versions of them.
Guys.
Guys.
Guys.
Listen.
Guys...come on...
Isn't it like...immoral to be, you know, alive? Think about it. Odds are our existence does more bad than good to the world. Most probably if you post here , you are living in a 1st world country or even worse, you are part of the elite of a developing/non-developping country, which means there's is someone, somewhere, that is suffering so you can spend your time on gaf and afford your vegan food, your new ipad, and your fifth 3DS because you like colours. We produce massive amounts of waste and many of us live in countries that threat the politics in other countries like goddamn games.
Yeah, I would love to know hwy it's selfish.
It's selfish because there are so many kids out there that need to be adopted. That should be obvious...
I think its quite worrying that our population continues to increase while resources diminish as a result for increased demand. Bringing your own children into the world is essentially to satisfy your own selfish desires, to carry on your bloodline, to achieve what you couldn't etc. Not saying its wrong, but it is for self satisfaction. One particularly annoying trend is teenage mothers that decide "hey I don't want to contribute anything, so I'll pop out a bunch of resource hogging kids instead" If you can't support these children, don't fucking have them.
Those are some reasons people have children. Not all reasons people have children are selfish. What about bringing someone into the world to show them the wonders it holds? Many first world country's populations are in decline, or would be without immigration. Teenagers dropping out of school to have kids and live on government support are far outside the norm.
How's that not selfish?
One of the greatest joys of being a parent is witnessing the world through the new perspective that is your child.
The reason people have kids are not some sort of utilitarian thinking, in an attempt to rectify the birth rate of the nation .