Captain_Spanky
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Or: Sticks and stones may break my bones but whips and chains excite me.
So What Is BDSM?
BDSM is a catch all term incorporating Bondage and discipline, Domination and submission and sadism and masochism.
As a whole it represents the alternative lifestyle that often involves things like power exchange, fetishism and that lovely warm glow a good beating brings.
BDSM At Wikipedia
A great basic introduction, with links to a whole range of paraphernalia and concepts.
The other, possibly the most important, acronym you should be aware with is SSC. Safe, sane and consensual. If your partner does not abide by that stay the fuck away.
The aim of this thread is really to be a catch all for any and all bdsm subjects. Got questions? Although by no means an expert I've been involved in what is pretentiously called "the lifestyle" for most of my adult existence, and certainly my current circle of friends are all at least kink-aware if not actively involved themselves. Or post pretty (but not NSFW) pictures. Perhaps you just want to open up and tell a funny story. Even swapping tips and ideas for cheap, ad hoc things you can use during playtime.
Maybe you were really confused when Grey Fox asked Snake to "HURT ME MORE".
To start things up with an actual discussion:
Currently BDSM is illegal in the UK. No matter what the context an adult can not consent to harm. Letting someone spank you till you bruise actually makes you an accessory in a conspiracy to knowingly commit a crime. Furthermore possession of images that are of an "extreme nature" or "show acts that could pose lasting damage to the breasts, buttocks or genitals" or in fact "of an obscene nature" is very, very illegal. Like child porn illegal. Obviously this language is meant to allow the law to be completely open, which is never a good thing. Until test cases start appearing those with an interest in kink may as well consider themselves criminals.
*Yes I am aware my username is Captain_Spanky. Surprisingly it has nothing to do with the topic at hand. Feel free to get the obvious jokes in though.
So What Is BDSM?
BDSM is a catch all term incorporating Bondage and discipline, Domination and submission and sadism and masochism.
As a whole it represents the alternative lifestyle that often involves things like power exchange, fetishism and that lovely warm glow a good beating brings.
BDSM At Wikipedia
A great basic introduction, with links to a whole range of paraphernalia and concepts.
The other, possibly the most important, acronym you should be aware with is SSC. Safe, sane and consensual. If your partner does not abide by that stay the fuck away.
The aim of this thread is really to be a catch all for any and all bdsm subjects. Got questions? Although by no means an expert I've been involved in what is pretentiously called "the lifestyle" for most of my adult existence, and certainly my current circle of friends are all at least kink-aware if not actively involved themselves. Or post pretty (but not NSFW) pictures. Perhaps you just want to open up and tell a funny story. Even swapping tips and ideas for cheap, ad hoc things you can use during playtime.
Maybe you were really confused when Grey Fox asked Snake to "HURT ME MORE".
To start things up with an actual discussion:
Currently BDSM is illegal in the UK. No matter what the context an adult can not consent to harm. Letting someone spank you till you bruise actually makes you an accessory in a conspiracy to knowingly commit a crime. Furthermore possession of images that are of an "extreme nature" or "show acts that could pose lasting damage to the breasts, buttocks or genitals" or in fact "of an obscene nature" is very, very illegal. Like child porn illegal. Obviously this language is meant to allow the law to be completely open, which is never a good thing. Until test cases start appearing those with an interest in kink may as well consider themselves criminals.
*Yes I am aware my username is Captain_Spanky. Surprisingly it has nothing to do with the topic at hand. Feel free to get the obvious jokes in though.