Become a patron of artists that produce the type of content you approve of.
That's... what we're doing. That's what this thread is about. It's literally people saying "hey this game has prominent LBGT characters, let's support it."
Do you have a problem with that? Because your message seems a bit confused to me beyond a general unhappiness with people discussing LBGT representation in games.
Nice cop out. If you want me to respect your position you'll have to adequately defend it.
I don't think anyone in this thread cares a whit for your respect at this point, but for what it's worth I'm seeing dozens of people defending that position, eloquently and reasonably, by going into detail on what they want to see, why they want to see it, and the underlying problems with the game industry that they believe lead to this situation.
You're answering that with a bunch of very strange comparisons (LBGT = left-handed, really?) and a forceful statement of your own emotional feelings about the issue. All that stuff about what you care about and about what you feel the
proper way to push for change is and all that is just your emotions, not rational arguments; if the best argument you can think of is "alright, so, picture LBGT people are like left-handed people", or "how can you discuss LBGT issues when guns exist", then yeah, nobody's gonna take you seriously.
(Because I am completely pedantic, I'll answer your "argument" about left-handedness anyway. There is extremely heavy social and cultural pressure towards straight white male protagonists; it's just that people don't usually
see this because it is taken for granted. At every step in the process of making a game, there are people who will say "nah, you have to make the protagonist more white / straight / male / etc or it won't sell." And because the game industry is inherently conservative -- in the sense of only being willing to pour money into stuff that has succeeded in the past -- the games that we want to see often don't even exist for us to support with our wallets the way you suggested; this thread is about a rare exception. The level of vitriol that people like, well,
you have brought to this thread shows how strong that pressure towards the "default" straight-white-male checklist is; anything that questions it sparks an immediate reactionary response.)
I'll also point out that your parsing of the issue is extremely emotionally-charged and judgmental; things like "vilify" and "trying to build controversy" and "'look at me' activities" aren't an accurate or rational summary of what's happening here. Eg. all discussion feels like you're being
vilified; anyone discussing what they want out of games is
trying to build a controversy out of
look at me activity... that's not an argument, that's you trying to clobber people you disagree with over the head with your emotional response. It's an extremely hostile and not-very-accurate parsing of the entire discussion, so it's natural that people are going to dismiss anything you base on it.
If you want people to take you seriously -- if you don't want to be dismissed the way you're getting dismissed above -- then you need to be able to put those emotionally-laden judgements aside.