Some quick advice please.
Met a girl last Thursday. A pacy 1 hour dinner date, she was going out after.
Friday, we meet again and go for drinks with her friends. I walk her home, make a move, she rejects my initial advance, but eventually invites me back to her place. Have some fun on the bed, looks like sex is gonna happen. I strap up and immediately suffer from limp dick. Sex doesn't happen.
Sunday, I see her briefly at a summer fair (we have mutual friends), chat to her a bit. She messages me tells me "i think you're cold." I take this as her testing me out. Whatever.
Monday, I meet her for lunch. Really fun and nice.
Tuesday, go for a run together. She comes back to mine. We sleep together.
Wednesday, randomly get invited by mutual friends for dinner. Beforehand she opens up about her last BF, basically broke up but continued banging him for several months. He is no longer in the country, away for a month. During dinner she tells her friends we're seeing each other. Back to mine after, on the bed, condom on, limp dick again. Tears and "you dont think im hot etc." I try and explain its me, not her, and it will be fine over time.
Yesterday, chat to her but don't meet. She wants to go on a weekend trip with me in the future.
Tonight I'm taking her to a party.
So, its been a bit of a mad week, I've never had something quite as intense as this. She seems like a great girl, maybe some pent up emotions, but seems to be into me. I'm trying to remain level headed and not get too carried away.
However, I am concerned about the sex. I do have a complexity about sex which I believe is mental (I even saw doctors about potential ED issues and they ruled that out). I don't want to have condomless sex with this girl, but I also don't want sex to be a deal breaker. In addition I really can't work out what she's in it for. She tells me she doesn't do casual sex or hookups and that she is into me.
So, I'm being a bit cautious (only been a week), but she's hot, fun, kinky and ticks all the boxes for a potential GF. I'm just thinking to go with the flow and try and chill on the sex complex, but what do you guys think?