Your advice isn't really a good one.. What good would a few hours in a parking lot do? Rules of the road are much more important, and if you are driving stick it's a lot better to learn on some back roads since you can apply both, the rules and your driving together. Obviously he should learn to drive with somebody who is capable of teaching that and not just with a buddy since that's how you get bad drivers.
So I'm 20, which isn't old but I guess many people around my age drive. I have tried driving and I'm not good which I understand since it's only been a few times. But now in this point of my life it makes me feel terrible not having it in many ways. I'm going to get it eventually. It just the pressure of if ever meeting someone potentially they may not like that I don't drive. Or the job I got pretty much benefits having a car which I can't afford even with the pay. Lately, I've just been under a lot of stress with the job is in my field but I don't really like it but it's a starting off Point. Also I told my parents I'm taking a year off before I go back to advance and put a lot of pressure on needing to work 40 hours to get a car and drive. I just hate this feeling but I know the sooner I get my license the better I suppose.
Well obviously if you are unemployed, most services and plans are out of the question for you. Let alone buying and managing a car.
I'm the new pilot program license and it's much cheaper than the usual B-license.
What exactly is the question?
just buckle down and do it. most people learn when there like 15 or 16. just get it over with so you don't feel bad about it
HuffPo said:According to several recent studies, many teens are pumping the brakes on getting their drivers licenses. In one study, AAA found that just 54 percent of teens are licensed before they turn 18. Forty-four percent got their licenses within a year of turning 16 (or the minimum driving age for their state).
Why the delay?
When unlicensed teens were asked why they were delaying the process heres how they responded:
44% didnt have a car
39% could get around without driving
36% said gas was too expensive
36% said driving was too expensive
35% said they just didnt get around to it
Source: AAA
Interesting. Can you tell me more about this pilot program thing?
If you need a car, go get one. But seriously; A car is dumb for many people. Financially and personally.
Some companies have a permit that they can sell you the pilot-license. It's basically the normal degree, but without any theory lessons (thank god) and you only pay for every driving lesson you need. I have only used 8 so far and I can already take my exam so it's only half the lessons you need to take in normal degree.
Just ask your local companies if they offer the pilot program.
Trust me. Driving is one of the more irrelevant things on people's lists, social-wise.
You'll be surprised how many people in their 20s still aren't driving, myself included. Though that maybe more attributable to the fact that I live in a transit-heavy city.
Of course, you still need to learn that shit eventually.
Lots of people don't drive till their late twenties or thirties. It's not that uncommon. It's pretty normal actually. I wouldn't get self conscious over it.
Umh... What kind of dystopias do you think exist outside of Helsinki/capital region? Living without a car is easy in most cities in Finland. Tampere, Turku, Oulu and even in smaller ones like Mikkeli, Kokkola and such, it's not all that hard to live without a car if you just don't choose to live far away from the city center/your job or whatever. It's only really necessary in more remote, smaller villages and even then it's not totally impossible to get by without a car if you don't insist living, like, 20+kms away from the nearest stores & such.Living in Finland and not having drivers license? Outside of Helsinki that makes life pretty hard.
Maybe teenagers but grown women don't really care. I mean, most people learn how to drive so it's not seen as that much of a an achievement at least where I live. I would learn how to drive for practical reasons which there are lots of.
It entirely depends on where you live and how often you need a ride. You can get by in the city and honestly, I'd do the same too if I could. I hate owning a car since it's the biggest money drain.
But there is nothing more unequivocal unattractive than someone having to beg for a ride. On both sides of the coin for both guys and girls. And in my own case, it's reversed where when I was younger, I was more okay with the other not being able to drive. Now, it's not like an achievement he said, but it's a sign of adulthood. Can get where I need to go? Like living alone, having a career, etc. A lot of the opposite sex ain't going to fuck with you when you have to go on Facebook and beg for a ride.
I can think of so many things far more unattractive than someone having to ask for a ride/help in that regards. Like people who are extremely judgmental about people who don't drive.But there is nothing more unequivocal unattractive than someone having to beg for a ride. .
It entirely depends on where you live and how often you need a ride. You can get by in the city and honestly, I'd do the same too if I could. I hate owning a car since it's the biggest money drain.
But there is nothing more unequivocal unattractive than someone having to beg for a ride. On both sides of the coin for both guys and girls. And in my own case, it's reversed where when I was younger, I was more okay with the other not being able to drive. Now, it's not like an achievement he said, but it's a sign of adulthood. Can get where I need to go? Like living alone, having a career, etc. A lot of the opposite sex ain't going to fuck with you when you have to go on Facebook and beg for a ride.
Umh... What kind of dystopias do you think exist outside of Helsinki/capital region? Living without a car is easy in most cities in Finland. Tampere, Turku, Oulu and even in smaller ones like Mikkeli, Kokkola and such, it's not all that hard to live without a car if you just don't choose to live far away from the city center/your job or whatever. It's only really necessary in more remote, smaller villages and even then it's not totally impossible to get by without a car if you don't insist living, like, 20+kms away from the nearest stores & such.
Well basically if you are single, you can manage easy. If you have kids or a proper house outside of the city centre, things become pretty hard fast without a license.
Not really.
The only reason I'm getting the license is leisure travelling. My bike takes me anywhere within 20km radius in 30 minutes or so and the buses cover everything else.
People use cars to travel pitiful distances to work because they are used to it, not because they need to.
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Umh... What kind of dystopias do you think exist outside of Helsinki/capital region? Living without a car is easy in most cities in Finland. Tampere, Turku, Oulu and even in smaller ones like Mikkeli, Kokkola and such, it's not all that hard to live without a car if you just don't choose to live far away from the city center/your job or whatever. It's only really necessary in more remote, smaller villages and even then it's not totally impossible to get by without a car if you don't insist living, like, 20+kms away from the nearest stores & such.
Driving is boring af, you're not missing out on much.
Well I guess it's of course possible but as someone that lived first 20 years in rather small rural town getting around without car was pain in the ass. Getting moped license at 15 years old made life so much easier.
It's a pain in the ass yes, until you adapt. I have to agree with many posters here that I've gotten compliments from fellow workers and friends who are amazed that someone can ride so many miles with their bike. It's obviously beneficial to ones health.
I rode my bike winter/summer for 13km to my workplace for 3 years... damn I kinda miss that even though it was miserable during bad weather.
Sold my car a decade ago, and I drive like twice a month in a Car2Go. I've gone whole years without driving now.
Honestly, no one cares except people who you wouldn't want to be around anyway. Most people I know find the idea of being without a car liberating or ideal, but it could just be that I'm in a liberal place that tries alternatives.
Well, the topic is about feeling secure about not driving, not whatever this is. I'm saying people that don't drive exist and thrive, and the strangers who would judge one for it can be ignored since they suck anyway."Liberal place" meaning city with public transit and bike lanes? Not everyone can be so lucky as to live in a place where there's actual alternatives to driving.
Well, the topic is about feeling secure about not driving, not whatever this is. I'm saying people that don't drive exist and thrive.
They can exist and thrive in places where driving isn't required, but in most places in the US being able to drive is essentially a requirement to lead a normal life.
I can think of so many things far more unattractive than someone having to ask for a ride/help in that regards. Like people who are extremely judgmental about people who don't drive.
Of course if they beg rides constantly and act like dicks about it, that's another deal, but if someone needs it only now & then and is appreciative (maybe pays for the effort or returns the favor somehow), I don't see what's so unattractive about it. A lot of people in modern world with public transport & modern lifestyles simply do not need to learn the skill or get a car and I fail to see what's so horrible about that. If anything this NEED for everyone to have a car is far more dumb.