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So, earlier today I was browsing the thread about someone's brother wanting to weigh in on the pros and cons of vaccination (http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1381461). Normally I don't really discuss stuff I read on GAF, but in a conversation with my best friend I mentioned it briefly.
Now, I'm always up for discussion on things, but my best friend revealed that she had an anti-vaccination stance. To my regret, I went into it, which started a shit storm of unknown scale...
In all of this I'll admit that at one point I did go a bit overboard, but in my opinion there is some seriously questionable stuff going on in that conversation... I got a few quotes from it, translated from Dutch, to provide some insight into the situation.
Me:
In regards to this I remarked that she was questioning my sources without giving her own, in which her response was that I wasn't open for a discussion.
Then she followed by doubling down on the vaccines cause autism thing and saying that I obviously hadn't looked into how autism works. I have autism, for context, to which she replied that I probably hadn't done enough research and that she would never let her kids suffer as cruel of a fate as autism (I took it personally, which may be my interpretation of course, but I still found it hurtful in this situation.
This was all followed by her brother starting to take over the conversation by stating how (supposedly) polio and the measles were man made creations and that vaccines are just meant to make money off of the poor. Needless to say, I asked her why he was on the phone suddenly and how this was all relevant to vaccination today in general none the less, at which I started to get annoyed because this guy was still talking loudly into the phone with my best friend remaining silent.
The conversation ended with her stating that I always need to be right, and that she doesn't get why I don't believe in some stuff, like God for example and that I didn't respect her opinion, to which I asked why I need to believe in God, but my opinion on that matter suddenly doesn't matter, to which she said that I shouldn't take stuff too literally (it's an oddly specific example, especially in they context.)
I'll admit, the situation got a bit heated at one point, and I'll take some of the blame for that. I don't even care about the whole vaccination conversation anymore, but am I wrong for having reacted in the way I did? She's like a sister to me, but I've never had a discussion filled with so much hypocrisy tbh. I don't know what to do. As always I ended the conversation by taking the blame, but this time I really feel like that wasn't justified tbh. I tried to preserve the context of the conversation as well as I could for the translation.
Now, I'm always up for discussion on things, but my best friend revealed that she had an anti-vaccination stance. To my regret, I went into it, which started a shit storm of unknown scale...
In all of this I'll admit that at one point I did go a bit overboard, but in my opinion there is some seriously questionable stuff going on in that conversation... I got a few quotes from it, translated from Dutch, to provide some insight into the situation.
Me:
Her:But why is that your stance?
Me:A doctor told me brother when they had a kid that vaccines cause autism and I read a lot about it on the internet.
Her: (this is when it all went downhill)But what about all of the stuff and people that say they don't?
Well I don't know where you got that, but you didn't get that off the internet.
In regards to this I remarked that she was questioning my sources without giving her own, in which her response was that I wasn't open for a discussion.
Then she followed by doubling down on the vaccines cause autism thing and saying that I obviously hadn't looked into how autism works. I have autism, for context, to which she replied that I probably hadn't done enough research and that she would never let her kids suffer as cruel of a fate as autism (I took it personally, which may be my interpretation of course, but I still found it hurtful in this situation.
This was all followed by her brother starting to take over the conversation by stating how (supposedly) polio and the measles were man made creations and that vaccines are just meant to make money off of the poor. Needless to say, I asked her why he was on the phone suddenly and how this was all relevant to vaccination today in general none the less, at which I started to get annoyed because this guy was still talking loudly into the phone with my best friend remaining silent.
The conversation ended with her stating that I always need to be right, and that she doesn't get why I don't believe in some stuff, like God for example and that I didn't respect her opinion, to which I asked why I need to believe in God, but my opinion on that matter suddenly doesn't matter, to which she said that I shouldn't take stuff too literally (it's an oddly specific example, especially in they context.)
I'll admit, the situation got a bit heated at one point, and I'll take some of the blame for that. I don't even care about the whole vaccination conversation anymore, but am I wrong for having reacted in the way I did? She's like a sister to me, but I've never had a discussion filled with so much hypocrisy tbh. I don't know what to do. As always I ended the conversation by taking the blame, but this time I really feel like that wasn't justified tbh. I tried to preserve the context of the conversation as well as I could for the translation.