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Bachelor production shut down after crew films sexual assault

johnsmith

remember me
Alcohol and consent are super weird. Add cameras to the mix and it gets even weirder. I also don't understand where the sexual assault comes in, when there are no allegations of rape and she was essentially giving the dude a blowjob of her own (super hammered) volition. I do agree that if the chick is hammered enough to want to get it on in front of tons of cameras, they shouldve pulled the plug.

They should just cancel the show though. They're all mostly trash.

Didn't include this since the source is the daily mail

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.
 
How does blacking out work in a case like this

what if you consent while blacked out

I've seen people be fully functional blacked out, but they don't remember anything the next day

I never understood how blacking out and memory loss worked when drunk.

I've been drunk plenty of times to the point of passing out and up to the point of passing out I remember everything, regardless of whether I actually had actual control of myself or not. So I never understood how people can be functional but just happen to have gaps in their memory.
 
what is the legal standard of consent with regards to alcohol?

i know it varies by locality.

I never understood how blacking out and memory loss worked when drunk.

I've been drunk plenty of times to the point of passing out and up to the point of passing out I remember everything, regardless of whether I actually had actual control of myself or not. So I never understood how people can be functional but just happen to have gaps in their memory.

different people react differently to alcohol

i've know people that you'd not think are drunk but literally can't remember anything
 

RinsFury

Member
This show has always disgusted me, time for it to go off the air. I hope all those filming that failed to intervene are charged as well.
 

OSHAN

Member
I never understood how blacking out and memory loss worked when drunk.

I've been drunk plenty of times to the point of passing out and up to the point of passing out I remember everything, regardless of whether I actually had actual control of myself or not. So I never understood how people can be functional but just happen to have gaps in their memory.

Just sounds like you've never been black out drunk before. I'd say that's a good thing.
 

FZZ

Banned
I never understood how blacking out and memory loss worked when drunk.

I've been drunk plenty of times to the point of passing out and up to the point of passing out I remember everything, regardless of whether I actually had actual control of myself or not. So I never understood how people can be functional but just happen to have gaps in their memory.

Happened to me two times, once for an hour long period, another for a period of 10 minutes but i fell asleep right after

usually when I drink a lot on an empty stomach and mix different liquors (although I know that's just me being superstitious), but its usually when I have around 10+ shots and then pound a shit ton of liquor at once like a full cup of wine or half a cup of soju. My body is still functioning and im not on the floor but my brain is so dehydrated i just dont know whats going on and what my actions are. It's scary when you realize that you had no control of yourself the next day.
 
Alcohol and consent are super weird. Add cameras to the mix and it gets even weirder. I also don't understand where the sexual assault comes in, when there are no allegations of rape and she was essentially giving the dude a blowjob of her own (super hammered) volition. I do agree that if the chick is hammered enough to want to get it on in front of tons of cameras, they shouldve pulled the plug.

They should just cancel the show though. They're all mostly trash.

That is not consent, you cannot consent when you are "super hammered." Having non-consensual oral sex IS sexual assault. And if the Daily Mail source is to be believed, he DID rape her.
 
Didn't include this since the source is the daily mail

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

That's rape. Plain and simple. And the crew that was there are accessories to rape.

They should all be in jail.
 

Lombax

Banned
Didn't include this since the source is the daily mail

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

That right there is rape.
 

Magus1234

Member
When I was a drinker Hard alcohol was like a button to me. If I drank any amount I was liable to completely black out the night. Not in the sense that I was in a stupor, but just wasted with no memory and no one would really know. So if someone took advantage of me in that state it would not seem like I was blacked out. Really scary, and I learned as a young adult to not drink hard alcohol because of it.
 

Mesoian

Member
What? Yes you can.

If you are as drunk as the press implies she is, there is no way she could have made any sort of valid statement regarding her capabilities. Her "agreeing" to have sex in that state would be the same as her "agreeing" to drive a car.

You cannot consent in that state.

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

That's rape. And if it's filmed, the producers of the show will be amazingly lucky if they avoid jail time. That entire production studio is going to burn over this.
 
So they forced her to get drunk, naked, and go down on the dude? Pretty sure you need to be conscious to give head... personal responsibility for your actions, folks.
 
Didn't include this since the source is the daily mail

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

That's rape'

I mean that's not even worthy of discussing what counts as incapable of giving consent. She couldn't move on her own!
 

Kalor

Member
I heard the initial reports the other day but this is way worse than they led you to believe. Hopefully she's to able to move on from this.
 

ZeroX03

Banned
This won't kill mainline Bachelor, not even close. I don't follow it, but know enough people to know just how much of a juggernaut it is.

Probably just kill this cycle, it's a spin-off and they can rebrand, they've done it before.
 
There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

When alcohol is involved there can be a gray zone with consent.

There is no gray zone here.
 
I'm not surprised 2 of the most polarizing people over the past 2 seasons of the bachelor are involved in this. DeMario was exposed this season for having a girlfriend back home while he was dating the bachelorette. Corrine, was probably the most sexually aggressive contestant in bachelor history, which is saying something.
 
Nuts. Initial report seemed to imply she gave him oral sex and didn't remember. Clarification that she was unconscious and he performed on her seems to be as rape as rape can be.
 

Dosia

Member
If you are as drunk as the press implies she is, there is no way she could have made any sort of valid statement regarding her capabilities. Her "agreeing" to have sex in that state would be the same as her "agreeing" to drive a car.

You cannot consent in that state.



That's rape. And if it's filmed, the producers of the show will be amazingly lucky if they avoid jail time. That entire production studio is going to burn over this.

I never said she could consent in her state. I said you can consent if you are drunk. Not blackout drunk. I make decisions all the time when im drunk along with millions of other people.
 
Forget blackout drunkenness. You can't consent while drunk. Period.

So she raped him?

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.


different situation if this is accurate
 

CDX

Member
Didn't include this since the source is the daily mail

There was hugging and kissing and touching, but before long, she seemed to go limp and was sliding under water. DeMario kept trying to hold her up and at the same time he appeared to be having intercourse with her. After he finished — which only lasted a few seconds — he lifted her out of the water and laid her on the cement, where he proceeded to have oral sex with her. She appeared to be unconscious. At that point some of the crew came out and carried her off to her room. She was limp and seemed unable to walk on her own.

Also from daily mail:

DeMario told sources who spoke with TMZ that he was too drunk to have sex

He allegedly admitted to having oral sex after Corinne put her genitals in his face


Corinne is preparing to file a law suit because she feels she was not protected by the show’s producers. And she ended up flying home to Miami after she was examined and interviewed,’ says the source. 'She was totally distraught and even after being told what happened, she insisted she had no recollection of the events.

Corinne and DeMario have been in touch since the incident and are allegedly on good terms.

'DeMario was trying to reach Corinne via email, Instagram and Facebook for a few days. Finally, [he] got a hold of her, they exchanged numbers and they've been talking. They are both speaking and on good terms,' a source told EW.

Sources who spoke to Corinne also say she doesn't blame DeMario fully for what happened. She thinks the producers were at fault for letting the incident unfold and has hired a lawyer to represent her going forward.

Interesting from a legal perspective if BOTH were too drunk to consent and producers encouraged the behavior.
 
I never understood how blacking out and memory loss worked when drunk.

I've been drunk plenty of times to the point of passing out and up to the point of passing out I remember everything, regardless of whether I actually had actual control of myself or not. So I never understood how people can be functional but just happen to have gaps in their memory.

You've probably just never been blackout drunk before. I've been blackout drunk like... twice in my life, and it had never happened until I was in my 30s which is pretty rare. On my honey moon my wife and I were drinking a fairly normal amount, like more than usua lbut nothing crazy, and then at some point in the night, I have absolutely no memory of anything. We didn't do anything unusual... Literally left the bar, went to bed, but I have no memory of cashing out, paying, going upstairs, etc., etc. It had never happened to me before and I was pretty shook from it. My wife was like "YEah, you were drunk but pretty normal."
 

Aselith

Member
So they forced her to get drunk, naked, and go down on the dude? Pretty sure you need to be conscious to give head... personal responsibility for your actions, folks.

Fuck off with that. How bout his personal responsibility for raping someone?

And no, you don't have to be concious because people can force their penis into your mouth and make it work.
 

entremet

Member
This won't kill mainline Bachelor, not even close. I don't follow it, but know enough people to know just how much of a juggernaut it is.

Probably just kill this cycle, it's a spin-off and they can rebrand, they've done it before.

Of course it won't. The Bachelor is a money making beast.
 
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