Yekshemesh
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This is what would've happened if I pulled this shit on my mom...
From my own brothers if I ever did anything like that to my parents.
This is what would've happened if I pulled this shit on my mom...
Quality post, Dr. Phil. I'm sure you'll be editing it with evidence any moment now.
Evidence for not teaching kids to solve problems with violence:
Every study conducted in the last 3 decades
1960:
http://www.jstor.org/stable/1165805
2002:
https://www.brookings.edu/research/hitting-kids-american-parenting-and-physical-punishment/
2016:
http://www.chicagotribune.com/lifes...cts-study-balancing-0428-20160428-column.html
2017:
https://www.usatoday.com/story/news...r-bad-behavior-even-10-years-later/562203001/
Evidence FOR teaching us to beat the shit out of children:
"I was physically abused as a child, and I turned out OK. Please don't tell me I was raised wrong."
Perfect. Simply perfect.This is such annoying post because there were no controlled studies on implementation of physical punishment. As such the best they can do is find that physical punishment is a risk factor for physical abuse - which is obvious in the same way that sex is a risk factor for stds
Until there is an actual study that tests the hypothesis - "physical punishment can be an effective form of discipline without triggering development issues" - in which researchers actually evaluate conditions and methods, then this argument will continue to be based on one-sided research.
Of course no such academic research will ever take place, so all we'll ever have is anecdotes from countless people who have received physical punishment (likely supplementary to other forms of discipline/ positive reinforcement) without sustaining any developmental issues as a result.
Lucky his mum isn't from Africa or the Caribbean. He'd be a corpse by now.
Yeah lmao, Caribbean parents here. Long time ago I spoke back to my mom not even nowhere near as this kid. All I gotta say is...I barely made it, and grateful to still be here lmao.
If I EVER spoke to my mom like that, I would've been knocked into another dimension. I can't believe the back and forth banter..I would've yanked that shit out of the wall so fast.
First of all this isn't a kid, its a grown ass man acting like a child. Now when it comes to punishing kids there's different ways to go about it. When I was a kid and you acted up you got whipped with a belt or spanked. I remember when I was in a grocery store and I tried to steal one of those Caramel egg things. My dad saw me put it in my pocket and just before we checked out he pulled me in front of all the registers and spanked my ass in front of everybody.
It stung for a bit but I'll tell you what, it was the last time I ever did it. Now I'm 29 years old I work full-time job and I go to school full-time, did spanking turn me into some weirdo. No, but when I acted up or I did something that was wrong. Even the threat of getting spanked was enough to get me to stop. Not because it hurt, not because I was scared of it but because I knew it was wrong. Now I've seen kids get put in timeout they turned out okay too. Nowadays it seems like if you take something away from them like TV time or an iPad or cell phone that seems to work.
This dude needs his f****** Xbox taken away from him until he learns how to treat people with respect. Cuz I'll tell you what if he acted like that out in public and spoke to the wrong person he'd be getting his ass kicked.
He's 18, I doubt taking his XBOX away from him would fare well for his mother and their relationship, he'd probably just flip out, and argue with her for an extended duration. I don't think his mother is likely to resolve anything by bruteforcing the situation. I don't think kicking him out of the house would benefit much either.
Personally I would do something like go on a break away from him for a little while, a week or two, and cancel the internet before I left. It would give him a heck of a lot of time to think about everything.
If I EVER spoke to my mom like that, I would've been knocked into another dimension. I can't believe the back and forth banter..I would've yanked that shit out of the wall so fast.
Should be added to OP:
https://clips.twitch.tv/IronicTawdryPanGingerPower
Apparently he assaulted his sister too and threw her up against a wall:
https://clips.twitch.tv/WealthyOutstandingStrawberryFreakinStinkin
Class act, this kid
......what?Apparently he assaulted his sister too and threw her up against a wall:
https://clips.twitch.tv/WealthyOutstandingStrawberryFreakinStinkin
ive never sworn to my mum, yet alone talk to her like that.
Jesus christ lol
Probably the best solution, either that or kicking him out of the house for a few days so he learns to be thankfulShe could just cut off his internet and being that he is job less clown.
Shit would be hilarious
People need to school their kids from early.
You can't beat your kids now that's also a issue,with no discipline they just run riot.
Mom must do something about him.
Beat him up, kick him out, send him to a doctor, call the exorcist... I don't know, but something must be done before it gets uglier.
WTF? The usually achingly left wing Neogaf now advocates beating up children?
WTF? The usually achingly left wing Neogaf now advocates beating up children?
This is such annoying post because there were no controlled studies on implementation of physical punishment. As such the best they can do is find that physical punishment is a risk factor for physical abuse - which is obvious in the same way that sex is a risk factor for stds
Until there is an actual study that tests the hypothesis - "physical punishment can be an effective form of discipline without triggering development issues" - in which researchers actually evaluate conditions and methods, then this argument will continue to be based on one-sided research.
Of course no such academic research will ever take place, so all we'll ever have is anecdotes from countless people who have received physical punishment (likely supplementary to other forms of discipline/ positive reinforcement) without sustaining any developmental issues as a result.
No offense to anyone else but only a white kid can get away with talking to his mother like that.
This is what a lifetime of "Time-out" results in.
My mother would have asked me to repeat what i said and in the middle of repeating it back hand to the mouth and beat my ass right after.
So is this what white parenting looks like?
Maybe its because I am a minority who went to minority-dominant schools (University was culture shock, never saw so many white people in the same place), but this sort parent-child is so cringe-worthy to watch. Its not even that I feel bad for the mother, its that I feel so sorry for everyone involved and can only imagine the regret over what got them to this place. Its so utterly tragic, a failing of the middle-class American failing. Its like The Simpsons or Family Guy...except its real. I feel like maybe I am having trouble articulating it, but this short clip almost reflects as a failing of society, especially (white?) middle-class America as a whole.
Not cool dude