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[sphinx]

if the guy (is it a he or a she??) is really down because of this, you guys are being mean to him with the laughs and the jokes.

OP, explain or people won't take you seriously and keep posting gifs.

 

[mackattk]

My friend took that homosexuality test that was posted on here a few weeks ago, she was labeled as a full blown lesbian.

Link to this?

 

[Suairyu]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

Everybody is different™

 

[LegendofJoe]

A LOT of women are bisexual, more than most people realize.

 

[Dance Inferno]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

I said damn.

 

[Harpuia]

Did she break up with you? We can't help you without more deets man!

 

[MThanded]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

This post right here.

 

[Alligatorjandro]

Does she want you anymore?

 

[Tesseract]

is her name susan?

 

[Jitters]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

HA!

 

[Enron]

A LOT of women are bisexual, more than most people realize.

I learned this from Cinemax 20+ years ago. You guys are just finding out now?

 

[Conciliator]

Suggest a treesome before it's too late

?

 

[gdt]

Well then.

 

[darthbob]

?

He means weed.

 

[Shao Kahn Brewing a Stew]

1. She's lying. Feed yourself Pizza and she's not into you.
2. She really is a Lesbian and you being sad blew the opportunity to have fun. She's your girlfriend, not your wife. If she was with you and you guys had a healthy relationship, support her.

 

[Salvor.Hardin]

Did she recently find out? Or did she already know and used you for some personal gain? Is she totally gay, or is she bi?

 

[Arsenic Yellow]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

Best quote of this thread.

To the op, work on moving on. If she says she's a lesbian, there's nothing you can do about it. really sorry about the situation. My first "boyfriend" ended up being gay. He never told me why he broke up with me, for a long time I was so mad at him for lying, about two years later we rekindled our friendship and i realized it was silly to be so mad at him, it couldve been worse, we couldve gotten married or something (we were young and in highshool so its unlikely but still).How long were you guys dating?

 

[Mistake]

My ex was a lesbian.....was.

Too bad op, what's the details? Is she leaving?

 

[BlueSteel]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

 

[Oersted]

My girlfriend took that homosexuality test that was posted on here a few weeks ago, she was labeled as a full blown lesbian.

Wait what? Link to the test?

 

[CrankyJay]

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[The Lamonster]

This was the third time I've checked this thread for an update from the OP giving us more info.

I'm not coming back. You had a chance to actually get the help you are looking for but ya blew it kid.

 

[Polari]

Ex-girlfriend, am i rite?

 

[Takamura-San]

I should take lessons from the OP.

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

That's a good hint.

How does she feel about you. Also that doesn't mean Lesbian.... she may be BI.

 

[Borgnine]

She's pining for a treesome you sap.

 

[legacyzero]

Came in hoping somebody posted this.

I knew I could trust you GAF!

 

[Stahsky]

This was the third time I've checked this thread for an update from the OP giving us more info.

I'm not coming back. You had a chance to actually get the help you are looking for but ya blew it kid.

3 posts up!

 

[BlueSteel]

This was the third time I've checked this thread for an update from the OP giving us more info.

I'm not coming back. You had a chance to actually get the help you are looking for but ya blew it kid.

And if you didn't post how you weren't going to help me you would've saw that I already made one a few posts above you.

 

[Oersted]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

Is bisexual worth being considered regarding to her?

 

[Valkyr Junkie]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

So her first hint that she was a lesbian is when she told you she was a lesbian?

 

[BeauRoger]

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

Hah! Touché. Though unless she has been running some kind of scam or was in heavy denial, she must have been straight at one point. I think that going from that to lesbian would require a true test, to be sure she isnt making a mistake. I agree though, people who havent ever gotten any could easily just point to what attracts them most.

 

[Amagon]

Sorry to hear dude.

 

[LegendofJoe]

I learned this from Cinemax 20+ years ago. You guys are just finding out now?

lol I did too. My wife is bisexual though, so maybe that clouds my view.

 

[Nesotenso]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

well on the bright side, you were not married.

 

[BlueSteel]

She's pining for a treesome you sap.

When we were in the brief "open relationship" phase she flat out told me she wanted one with me in it. Now it's all gone.

 

[ZombieFred]

Dude, take it from me when my Ex fiance wanted an open an open relationship in the end because she wanted to fiddle with women, get the fuck out of there and run for the hills. Block communication, say goodbye on a good note. Spend time with your friends and focus on yourself and rebuild on your strengths.

Do not look back and stay in the past.

 

[Alligatorjandro]

You should move on.

 

[Borgnine]

When we were in the brief "open relationship" phase she flat out told me she wanted one with me in it. Now it's all gone.

...

 

[distantmantra]

I dated a girl for six years during high school and college. She broke up with me because she finally realized that she was a lesbian. I think she had known for a while, but was probably struggling with it herself. It was pretty hard to accept since we had a good relationship, but after taking some time to deal with it, I moved on. We're now really good friends and talk regularly. She even made my daughter a quilt when she was born.

 

[Double D]

My sister and brother-in-law went through this a couple years ago. She was pregnant with their third kid at the time. She's since gone full gay. I'm happy for her, but it was quite the conundrum at the time. At least you found out now, OP.

 

[Takamura-San]

What are her reasons for the open relationship OP?

 

[Borgnine]

Certainly are a lot of people admitting to watching Friends in here.

 

[Salvor.Hardin]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

She's bi curious, bro.

But the fact remains that she doesn't love you which is the important part. It has less to do with her sexuality and more to do with your relationship.

 

[Platy]

By what you describe she still looks more bisexual than lesbian.... but I doubt this matters since the relationship would not work either way from what you are describing ...

good luck on that

Give her all the suport you can, she needs it

You don't need to have sex with somebody to be completely sure of your sexuality.

I figure people posting on this website would know that.

You are good

 

[bud]

I'm a guy. She was the one who first wanted a relationship. We fought a lot at first, but god I loved her. Marry type of love.

Then slowly things started unraveling. She wanted to be in an open relationship last week and wanted to explore other girls. That was my first hint. As the days went by that fear grew.

Bracing yourself doesn't make the impact better.

I know she hasn't found "new vag," but I'm still crushed.

EDIT: No she didn't know, but I'm guessing she had a suspicion of it and held it in.

I know if she is one, then I have to let her go. Still hurts.

"if she is one?" so you don't know whether or not she's a lesbian?

why couldn't she be bisexual?

 

[CountAntonius]

"I always get the feeling that when lesbians are looking at me they’re thinking, that’s why I’m not a heterosexual" - George Costanza

 

[kingocfs]

When we were in the brief "open relationship" phase she flat out told me she wanted one with me in it. Now it's all gone.

The hell is the matter with you.

 

[NullPointer]

She can read minds?

flawless victory.

 

[BlueSteel]

I do want to move on. If bracing for it did anything it's the realization that I can't stay in this funk.

I don't know if course of action is even a rebound or something. My sex-drive just plummeted.

I'm lost GAF. What would you suggest I do to move on aside from focusing on my hobbies and interests and work and school and whatever.

 

[Nibel]

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