Rez said:don't be silly, most people at a concert don't know how to play guitar or sing. it doesn't stop them from having rock and roll-esque fantasies when they turn that shit up really loud or go see a performer. it also means that they won't get the same buzz from a female singer. they'll get a different feeling, sure, but the sense of escapism will be somewhat different. the same is true for games.
I have absolutely no problem with self-insertion, if that's how I came across. My argument was that being a fan or self-insertion and then saying female characters can't be bad-ass is pretty silly, because I'm sure a majority of the people doing said self-insertion are not bad-ass themselves. If they can believe that they, in a realm of the gaming world, could do anything as a character, then it's stupid to say a female couldn't.