TheLostBigBoss
Banned
im having ptsd flashbacks
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Elegant Weapon
Member
See, you got to be comfortable and into it to perform, me at least. It's easy to lose a boner if you're in your head. Not sure if that was your problem, OP
platina
Member
TheLostBigBoss
Banned
i was once given wise advice from a robot that I will pass on to you
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qOnInTJsos
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6qOnInTJsos
ComradeZero
Member
Got to give it to male porn stars. Idk how they do it.
Jeronimo Jones
Member
I don't know that I would stop, in a hypothetical situation.
Besides, how are going to demand that everybody else stops without making it worse? I wouldn't invite that person to future parties.
Yep. Gotta at least grab the guy's ass.
NoblesseOblige
Banned
This is accurate and they all sound mature and understanding about it so I'm not sure why you'd feel bad.
MisterAnderson
Member
Don't drink alcohol beforehand
vinnygambini
Why are strippers at the U.N. bad when they're great at strip clubs???
Thats no foursome....
Trojita
Rapid Response Threadmaker
Viagra and Cocaine.
Given that this is described as a 4-some and not some orgy, it'd be disrespectful not to stop if you as a group aren't all working together. Not some swinger situation where you can pick up his girlfriend and go to another room by yourselves.
crimzonflame
Member
thats not a foursome
Sucks, but it happens. Really sucks.
Especially the part trying to convince the girl that she's not the problem. In my experience, although 100% true, they ain't trying to hear that shit. So not only are you here out of a fuck (usually after talking up your skills), embarrassed and limp-dick, but then you -also- have to try your damndest to convince someone that "it's not you, it's me".
THE WORST shit.
Especially the part trying to convince the girl that she's not the problem. In my experience, although 100% true, they ain't trying to hear that shit. So not only are you here out of a fuck (usually after talking up your skills), embarrassed and limp-dick, but then you -also- have to try your damndest to convince someone that "it's not you, it's me".
THE WORST shit.
I didn't demand anything, I just said, "Hey, I think we should stop". We fooled around a little bit after it and that was it.
8You sound like you don't actually understand the small but important intricate psychological dynamics that goes into something like this. Trust, insecurities etc. are all very delicate matters in scenarios like this. It's important that no one has to do or witness something that makes them uncomfortable because those things can leave a person with jealousy and insecurities that they bottle up that further complicate things in the long run.
Jeronimo Jones
Member
It was initially described as a foursome but sounds more like they swapped partners, what's the etiquette for that? Do you own your partner's future potential orgasms?
I'm half-joking here.
Vault Dweller 111
Member
This just sounds like a partner swap where you fuck right next to eachother. I have no idea why that would appeal to anyone, but not my scene I guess.
You shouldn't have made them stop.
You shouldn't have made them stop.
Rentahamster
Rodent Whores
You have other options to get her off if ya dick no work, ya know.
If it made him uncomfortable he totally should have.
Monkeyball
Banned
I just can't picture ever wanting another dude to bang my girl.
DiipuSurotu
Banned
What about the you banging another girl part? It's a trade-off
Mammoth Jones
Member
You got whiskey-dick. It happens. Don't drink next time and enjoy it.
Personally I never could enjoy myself in those situations. Too much worry about STD's but good luck!
Personally I never could enjoy myself in those situations. Too much worry about STD's but good luck!
LordKasual
Banned
You drank too much.
Drugs and a lot of editing.
Yeah, it's no easy job I hear.
Wishmaster92
Member
OP to dick:
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, well I guess I'm a cuck.
In all seriousness nothing good ever comes out of this, OP.
Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, well I guess I'm a cuck.
In all seriousness nothing good ever comes out of this, OP.
It would have been a lot more surprising if they just continued without OP's permission. Pretty much grounds for breaking up. I've never heard of that happening but I've heard a lot of stories like OP's.
CliqWriter
Member
Gonna suggest something different then most the posts here, although whiskey dick is a probable choice.
Emotions man. They matter. Sometimes if you arent emotionally set with the person or situations to have sex your body knows. Even if there is a 10/10 standing in front of you, sometimes your body just wont do the trick. Sounds like your body was ready to go for a minute (because she was attractive), then your brain caught up and was like, Im not feeling this... bailout.
Emotions man. They matter. Sometimes if you arent emotionally set with the person or situations to have sex your body knows. Even if there is a 10/10 standing in front of you, sometimes your body just wont do the trick. Sounds like your body was ready to go for a minute (because she was attractive), then your brain caught up and was like, Im not feeling this... bailout.
Poor GRIMES
Banned
Lol? If youre uncomfortable at any point during sex, and your significant other is right there participating in consensual groupsex, then you should absolutely tell everyone involved to stop.
You weren't wrong.
HawksWinStanley
Member
I'm sure your buddy enjoyed the blue balls.
Did he really tell them to stop because it wasn't fair? What?
No.
Drink less.
Also, be willing to enter into sexual situations where the number one outcome is not you getting off. Be willing to watch. Be willing to have fun.
On the other hand, good on you for making it clear you weren't comfortable when you did. Never feel guilty about that. Sex should be a consensual, positive thing.
Also, be willing to enter into sexual situations where the number one outcome is not you getting off. Be willing to watch. Be willing to have fun.
On the other hand, good on you for making it clear you weren't comfortable when you did. Never feel guilty about that. Sex should be a consensual, positive thing.
Elegant Weapon
Member
If nothing else, the other guy's girl should have taken care of him in that situation
Nah, in these group situations that's actually the best thing you can do.
