I did similar hours myself and got plenty of gaming done too. Now that I have a job, a real job. I away from home 6-6 Thats an extra three hours a day I don't have any more. It adds up. I also don't have children of my own to worry about so my heart goes out to all the gaming parents out there.When you were a kid you also had a full-time job. We called it school. My hours were 8:45 to 3:15 every day, but I got up at 7 and didn't actually get home until at least 4. And yet I still got tons of JRPGs in, even with homework included.
When you were a kid you also had a full-time job. We called it school. My hours were 8:45 to 3:15 every day, but I got up at 7 and didn't actually get home until at least 4. And yet I still got tons of JRPGs in, even with homework included.
The problem isn't the job, it's how you budget your time outside the job.
That said, if you have a wife and kids those should take priority.
You can pick all three at once, just do everything in moderation.You know how they say "cheap, good, or fast, pick two"?
"JRPGs, job, social life, pick two"
When you were a kid you also had a full-time job. We called it school. My hours were 8:45 to 3:15 every day, but I got up at 7 and didn't actually get home until at least 4. And yet I still got tons of JRPGs in, even with homework included.
The problem isn't the job, it's how you budget your time outside the job.
That said, if you have a wife and kids those should take priority.
As I dive deeper into adulthood, I find it increasing difficulty to make time for them, and being fairly introverted, I don't even have the social obligations, girlfriend/wife, kids issues many people have. I'm finding that, while in my earlier years it was common for me to entire days gaming and think nothing of it, today I don't really have the stamina for marathon gaming and do it sparingly. I seem to prefer spending my free time doing a variety of activities, of which games would be ~1-3 hrs of (and it's not uncommon for me to go a day or two without playing anything, and yet I still buy the fuckers like that's all I do everyday). The fact that recently, I'm trying to dedicate myself into improving my drawing skills hasn't helped since that's time I probably would have spent playing games before.
I tend to look at JRPGs and longer games like that as projects that I work on every now and then until completion. Like someone putting together a complicated model ship or drawing an elaborate painting. I don't usually finish them right away (it depends on how much I'm into them), but I kind of reconciled with that and accepted it since I still enjoy playing them. I also have a habit of playing on hard difficulties and attempting to do EVERYTHING, which I should try to curb if I wan't to get through stuff faster. I just finished Dark Souls II the other day after playing it on and off since release, and I just got to "that" part on Bravely Default (which I'll probably just rush through to get to end just to knock it out). I like to sprinkle shorter games in between "projects", or during active ones when I need a break, just to keep the pacing from slowing down too much and to keep things fresh.
I have a full time job, a wife and a young child. I get about 1.5 to 2.5 hours a night for myself. I don't have any time management secrets. My backlog is huge and it takes me a couple weeks to beat most non-JRPG games. It took me 6 months to beat Persona 4 Golden. OK maybe a combined four because I took a break in the middle of the game. I've been playing Persona 3 Portable for I think a month now and I think I'm about 75% done.
The Vita is fantastic for me because I can put it to sleep in the middle of anything. I can also play it if my daughter is doing something by herself in the living room or playing with my wife. I don't have to wait for the console to boot, load the game, etc. It's helped me get through a few games for sure.
I look forward to sleep mode for the PS4.
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You can pick all three at once, just do everything in moderation.
One game at a time my friend.