ZephyrFate said:
women are not frail pieces of glass that if slightly pushed askew will fall over and shatter
and if we're going for gender equivalency in the modern age, being able to defend yourself against someone who is attacking you REGARDLESS of the gender is the way to go
The woman obviously didn't feel like she was fragile. If she had, she wouldn't have gone after the OP.
All involved sound like douchebags. The girl for escalating things, the OP for the ridiculous qualifications put forth to justify his actions, namely crying about permanent scarring.
Both can learn a lesson.
For the OP: Talk shit, get hit, or scratched in this case.
For the girl: Don't expect to be able to assault someone with out getting hit back, regardless of their gender.