Hey GAF, been meaning to email for awhile. Most of my confessionals are actually questions (girl related most of the time), and they'd be better suited for the girl help thread. Although I much prefer the anonymity of email.
So there's this girl I know, she's been a friend of mine for a couple of years, and things have always been kind of "confusing" between us.
I met her through a friend of mine, who was actually dating her at the time. They were on and off, with her always breaking up with him and him asking her out again after several months. They recently broke up again.
But the thing is, she's always been kind of "close" with me. Really touchy and constantly talking to me and forcing conversations and stuff like that on me. I'm not a jerk so I don't tell her to eff off when I don't want to talk to her.
A few nights ago a mutual friend of ours was throwing a party. I don't drink or smoke, so I was the only sober one at the party. It's pretty funny to see all the shitfaced people and how differently they act when they're not sober but anyway, she was there too. Now she usually sends mixed signals to me with the constant touching and such, but tonight since she was drunk I guess she was overly attached.
She started grabbing me and touching me trying to get me drunk. I declined since I had no interest in drinking, but she continued to pester me about it through the night. Not only that, but she would cuddle with me at any chance she got. She also mentioned our buddy's bed several times, asking me if I wanted to go upstairs and see how comfy the tempurpedic mattress was and shit like that. I was also exhausted from a full day of work and classes, so I knew the second I touched the bed I'd fall asleep. I declined again. There was other stuff involved. Just her dragging me around, taking me outside to just hang out with her and stuff like that. Nothing unusual.
But what confirmed my doubts was when she very subtly asked me if I wanted to take a shower with her. I didn't expect her to say this, so I just looked at her out of shock I guess and she never mentioned it again.
Here's my question gaf, was she trying to screw me? I honestly don't know if she was or wasn't and I wasn't in the correct mindset since I was way too exhausted from an extremely busy day. There was a couple of times when another friend of mine would come over and tell me that "she wants my d," and that she was bitchy until I finally showed up at the party (like I said, full day of work and classes; I got to the party late). Her sister was at the party too, and when she introduced me to her she kept saying "Ooooo so this is ____, I've been hearing a lot about you." While looking me up and down and whispering to her sister. (She's 23 and acts like a freaking high schooler)
Oh and since this is gaf and the question will be asked, yes she was hot (admittedly so was her sister). I'm not attaching a picture since I want to keep this as anonymous as possible.
I honestly don't know why I wasn't thinking about it more, I guess I was too focused on getting some sleep. Anyway, what do you think, GAF?
