Ghost_Protocol
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I hear that quote getting tossed around a lot whenever the topic of ignored texts/calls/emails comes up, and I just wanted to know if I was alone in thinking that I, personally, feel like I DO owe someone an explanation for suddenly ignoring them out of the blue. Especially when I know they were looking forward to seeing me again.
Whenever I've gone out with a girl and had a good time, but wasn't really into her, I feel like a spineless asshole if I straight up ignore follow up calls/texts/messages/whatever. I HAVE to reply with an "I'm sorry, I had a good time, but I'm not really interested in pursuing this any further. Good luck." Or something to that effect.
Is it a gender specific thing? Is it less of an issue of common courtesy (IMO) and more of a "women can't predict how men are going to react and are more at-risk in dating scenarios so they should have more leeway there" type thing?
I also get that the "she doesn't owe you an explanation" line is sometimes just more of a rebuke to someone who might be coming off as a little entitled/m'lady-ish, but I hear it thrown around SO much that I feel like it can't be just that all of the time.
So what is it?
As a dude, I've almost never gotten a courtesy "no thanks" from any girl I've ever gone out with, unless we were officially dating.
Whenever I've gone out with a girl and had a good time, but wasn't really into her, I feel like a spineless asshole if I straight up ignore follow up calls/texts/messages/whatever. I HAVE to reply with an "I'm sorry, I had a good time, but I'm not really interested in pursuing this any further. Good luck." Or something to that effect.
Is it a gender specific thing? Is it less of an issue of common courtesy (IMO) and more of a "women can't predict how men are going to react and are more at-risk in dating scenarios so they should have more leeway there" type thing?
I also get that the "she doesn't owe you an explanation" line is sometimes just more of a rebuke to someone who might be coming off as a little entitled/m'lady-ish, but I hear it thrown around SO much that I feel like it can't be just that all of the time.
So what is it?
As a dude, I've almost never gotten a courtesy "no thanks" from any girl I've ever gone out with, unless we were officially dating.