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Bladenic

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Yay Project X Zone 2 demo is out today

Also I ordered shoes last night even tho I need new clothes like jeans more

It was that or ordering some video games lmao, probably should have just gotten some pokemon instead.

February has 2 games I really want, meanwhile my backlog is insane and I have no time for gaymes

/deardiary
 

berzeli

Banned
Are you worried that with too much conversation you'll accidentally find out he's gay?
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edit: We're not nice people, still finding a poorly worded post funny, are we?
 

Meicyn

Gold Member
Just texting, he replies and seems interested for a while and then just stops replying to whatever I'm telling him.
Edit: I sound like an asshole from the previous version of my reply, so here's a better version. Consider making a phone call now and then rather than limiting yourself to just text messages.
 
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Deleted member 465307

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Nintendo slays :")

I recently S-ranked my Avatar support with Lissa in Fire Emblem Awakening and a little love-y portrait of her popped up. I think I literally jumped back in disgust and said, "Ew."

I wouldn't really care either way if the petting mode was included in the game, but I think I am more comfortable with what the Fire Emblem franchise is and has become when features like that don't exist. Especially if the game is still balanced without it being included.

I'm now waiting for Fire Emblem to get big enough that it gets it own Happy Home Designer-esque spinoff called Fire Emblem: Waifu War Eugenics that's all about the support and children.

The outrage over Fire Emblem kind of warms me up. Mostly because of how under the radar the series was before. How amazing that people care about it now <3.

In other news Detective Pikachu looks weird as fuck.

It's so weird that it goes past making me uncomfortable and becomes something I am eagerly anticipating.
 

RM8

Member
The most amazing thing about this is that even Japan hated the face rubbing mode. There's still hope for this series :p It'd be so cool if FE for NX would have a more serious tone with way less pandering and dumb stuff.
 
Are you worried that with too much conversation you'll accidentally find out he's gay?
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I honestly wish Pamplemousse the greatest success and happiness in life and sex, which is why I had to roll my eyes a bit at his refusal to get on hook-up apps for which the main complaint is typically that they're TOO oriented towards casual fucking. You don't get any more "random stranger" than that unless you literally want to suck a disembodied dick emerging from a glory hole. Which, god bless, is also an option, I suppose.
My complaint was that it's too talking based. I MAY use one in the future, but I'm worried about STDs and don't want to do the whole small talk nonsense when all I want is some cawk. Seriously, some of you lucky guys on here have boyfriends slippin' you the D every night, but I haven't had ANYTHING since, like, age 12! I'm so dong starved that I feel like I'm going stir crazy.
 
GET IT.

I mean, befriend him.
Lol
I wish, im not the most social and I have a tough time meeting new people and becoming friends. And basically he is the opposite, much more social. Basically me being uncertain and not having confidence like always. Like i should move out of my comfert zone and meet more people but i dont really have that many hobby and the things i like are usually pretty weird and others dont really like it.
 
We have Pride March in Melbourne (Australia) on Sunday. It looks like it will rain though. And my group doesn't have a 45-foot bi flag this year. We borrowed the flag previous years from a US group and nobody went over there this time to pick it up (and postage is expensive). I expect it to feel weirder to just walk with signs or something. I said I'd hopefully attend still.

I took a photo last year of it:
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I should attend for reasons including being able to help in case of a repeat of abuse being directed towards us, maybe being able to help if there is an issue. We spoke with one of the organisers a few weeks ago to try to prevent and deal with the nastiness, hopefully some suggestions will be taken on board.

Are you worried that with too much conversation you'll accidentally find out he's gay?
10/10, let's keep this as the climax of the saga and not continue.
 

Monocle

Member
It's true that there are stupid, rude and annoying people there, specially those who start a conversation with dick pics. Or those who talk using less than 2 silabes. Even those who start talking and suddenly stop without any sense.

Anyway, I have met some nice and interesting people there and in Scruff. You can find decent people there as well. And it's perfect when you are on holiday if you want some casual encounters.

If you are looking for a boyfriend and/or Mr Perfect there, I wish you good luck.
Luck of the draw I guess. I found like four decent guys on Grindr over two days. A couple of which are probably boyfriend material.
 

RM8

Member
I had a recent exchange like this:

Guy: Hi
Me: Hi
Guy: I'm also looking for friends, sex can be found way more easily, lol
Me: Cool!

Guy sends shirtless pic

Guy: So what else do you like besides good sex? ;)

There are some friendly people on those apps, but it'd be an understatement to say we're in the minority, lol.
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
I had a recent exchange like this:

Guy: Hi
Me: Hi
Guy: I'm also looking for friends, sex can be found way more easily, lol
Me: Cool!

Guy sends shirtless pic

Guy: So what else do you like besides good sex? ;)

There are some friendly people on those apps, but it'd be an understatement to say we're in the minority, lol.

It's annoying but at this point I either stop talking to the pervs or troll them.
 
Edit: I sound like an asshole from the previous version of my reply, so here's a better version. Consider making a phone call now and then rather than limiting yourself to just text messages.
Don't worry. I don't know, these days it's so unusual calling people. Still if he'd rather just talk on the phone and he's interested he should say something about it and/or call. I think?
 

Vazra

irresponsible vagina leak
Don't worry. I don't know, these days it's so unusual calling people. Still if he'd rather just talk on the phone and he's interested he should say something about it and/or call. I think?

Sometimes people need a push to do the simplest things. Give him a call and see what happens.
 
He wants you to crush him on the inside too.
Lol well I havent came out publicly and said that im Bi. So thats very unlikely but I wish.Like i just dont kinda know what to do, like i have classes with him but i rarely talk and let allow talk to him, because we dont sit near each other and i dont really know him that well. I just don't really know how to go around it all, at school im very quite unless im with my friends then im usually loud and more out going, but that only because they know me and we all have the same sense of humor and hobbies.
 
Well you know where to start. (Y)
Yeah i got a lot of things i got to start on. Like I know most people would be supportive or just not really care, or say "who" when they hear my name. But i have also heard some pretty homophobic shit and i would probably not be bullied or anything but theres this little part of me that rather not put a target on back so to say, which really fucking sucks that i have to worry about something like that. Still need to come out to my family and close friends first.
 

mantidor

Member
If you are really that desperate you can go to some dark room in a bar.

I just wouldn't recommend it to be your first time, but if you are that desperate go ahead, sex is honestly overrated, at least that kind of casual, meaningless sex, and you will probably regret it. Use flavored condoms if you just want to give oral.

But seriously use condoms, period, no matter who.
 
Yeah i got a lot of things i got to start on. Like I know most people would be supportive or just not really care, or say "who" when they hear my name. But i have also heard some pretty homophobic shit and i would probably not be bullied or anything but theres this little part of me that rather not put a target on back so to say, which really fucking sucks that i have to worry about something like that. Still need to come out to my family and close friends first.
You should bring home a bf to the fam. It just makes life easier.
You make it sound like this is some impossible feat.
Std still means std right
 
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Deleted member 465307

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Lol i should made get to know more first.

"Hey, I'd like to get to know you better. Could you come over for dinner next week?"

*next week*

"Family, this is my boyfriend."

Two birds, meet one stone. Life Made Easy™ by kirbyfan407.
 
You make it sound like this is some impossible feat.
It is, though, therwise I wouldn't be so miserable.

But seriously use condoms, period, no matter who.
Yeah, no. That's why I said STD free. What would even be the point with a condom? No pay off...

Even when looking for "straight" guys. It shouldn't be that hard.
There's no way for me to do it. I can't walk around with a sign, and 99% of the guys I want are probably straight.
 
Skip the dating and all that and meet the fam!


Don't take too long before he find him a bae
Lol the gay population at make school is not that big. I only know like 3 gay guys in my grade, there are probably a bunch who havent came out or i just dont know of.

"Hey, I'd like to get to know you better. Could you come over for dinner next week?"

*next week*

"Family, this is my boyfriend."

Two birds, meet one stone. Life Made Easy&#8482; by kirbyfan407.
Lmao yep life made easy
 

RatskyWatsky

Hunky Nostradamus
I do love my volleyball teammates :). I actually do the bulk of my playing in a gay league, so I've made a lot of new friends in the gay community, which I was never really a part of prior to volleyball. Everyone is really kind and welcoming, and we just come from a similar background than my soccer bros, for obvious reasons! :p So it was really easy to bond with them.

Aw, that's great to hear!

My soccerbros, unfortunately, sort of wrote me off and couldn't really understand why I was a bit too scared of reinjury despite being given the OK to try playing again..

Then they weren't really your soccerbros to begin with :^(

But seriously use condoms, period, no matter who.

(unless he's really hot, then they're totally optional)
 
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