You're missing the point, Gurthang.
I'm not
OP and those who keep telling him to just be more confident and outgoing are.
You're missing the point, Gurthang.
This is not going to go well
Lightskintwin, the goal is to make these people stop feeling bad about themselves and resenting women and men who are in relationships. That's not helping.
Gurthang, women are 52% of the population. Your argument makes no sense.
Y'all biting on the troll is p funny.
No, but this idea that they don't have girlfriends because all the alpha males are fucking them is ridiculous.
You don't need to be in shape to be financially well-off, you just need a can-do and hardworking personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.You don't need to be in shape to get a GF, you just need an outgoing and charismatic personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.
Y'all biting on the troll is p funny.
Is he trolling?
What's the point?
Nevermind then.
No, but this idea that they don't have girlfriends because all the alpha males are fucking them is ridiculous.
You don't need to be in shape to be financially well-off, you just need a can-do and hardworking personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.
How?
Explain why is it ridiculous?
Its been going on throughout the history.
What makes you think our generation is any different?
How?
Explain why is it ridiculous?
Its been going on throughout the history.
What makes you think our generation is any different?
That's what I'm saying. If a girl can easily have sex with an alpha guy who is fucking loads of other women too then there is no need for her to lower her standards and fuck short men.As an alpha male who's fucked/fucks plenty of women, the type of women I fuck with wouldn't even consider most of these guys that feel that way; so for those guys there's no point even worrying about them if those women were never in their reach in the first place.
Meanwhile, there's still a shitload of other women.
Wow the same day is my birthday tooMarch 8th to exact, my mom always says I was like an early birthday present for her since she was born on March 20th.
So how did I get a girlfriend? She: pretty and outgoing, me: pale, skinny, nerdy. And she wasn't even the first.
I have plenty of friends who don't fit the macho stereotype who have great girlfriends. And I have plenty of great female friends who never had any interest in macho guys with sixpacks with cheesy oneliners in bars.
Why are you assuming that all women are so vapid that they can't possibly be interested in different kinds of personalities?
That's what I'm saying. If a girl can easily have sex with an alpha guy who is fucking loads of other women too then there is no need for her to lower her standards and fuck short men.
I kinda wished you guys take this somewhere else, just wanted a light hearted thread (yeah I fucked up quite a bit on my thinking but I was in the wrong).
Anyways, 2 hours before being 24 so there's that.
And yes I will take people's advice to actually go out and socialize. Worst case scenario, I'm back to where I am right now.
SureSo how did I get a girlfriend? She: pretty and outgoing, me: pale, skinny, nerdy. And she wasn't even the first.
I have plenty of friends who don't fit the macho stereotype who have great girlfriends. And I have plenty of great female friends who never had any interest in macho guys with sixpacks with cheesy oneliners in bars.
Why are you assuming that all women are so vapid that they can't possibly be interested in different kinds of personalities?
I kinda wished you guys take this somewhere else, just wanted a light hearted thread (yeah I fucked up quite a bit on my thinking but I was in the wrong).
Anyways, 2 hours before being 24 so there's that.
And yes I will take people's advice to actually go out and socialize. Worst case scenario, I'm back to where I am right now.
Edit: either that or just lock the thread, happy birthday I guess.
There areThe point is there are plenty of women that are left out of this equation.
So tomorrow's my birthday and as always, my mom posts her usual birthday greetings on her Facebook account. Sure enough, she jokes about me having no girlfriend since birth (which I didn't know 'til googling it).
Sure
There are women who might consider men less than six feet attractive but it's a very small percentage of women. Which means that a large portion of men who are shorter than six feet will have to compete for a very low percentage of women who might find less than six feet guys attractive based on their looks and social status.
There are
But the number is dwarfed by the number men who might have a chance with them.
Jesus this guy knows a lot about women. and he's taller than 6 feet? goddamn.
"No excuse to be in X socio-economic situation, just have a good attitude!"Huh?
But is he an alpha male?
"No excuse to be in X socio-economic situation, just have a good attitude!"
Empty pep talk like that
Where the heck did the term "alpha male" even originate from?
Where the heck did the term "alpha male" even originate from?
A Greek philosopher once attended a bar.Where the heck did the term "alpha male" even originate from?
x2Where the heck did the term "alpha male" even originate from?
Very related.These things aren't related though.
Very related.
If you mean context, yes it is also applicable to both topics.
You don't need to be in shape to get a GF, you just need an outgoing and charismatic personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.
Yup I say so. Stuff like "change your attitude", "change your standards", "there is always a niche for you" are self-serving and pointless.
"Standard" means something is normal. When we say someone has high standards, we mean they consider normal what others consider better than normal. For example, I live in a fairly wealthy neighborhood and it's not uncommon for me to see Audis and Ferraris being driven around. That's my standard, and it's a high standard because in most places you don't see an abundance of luxury vehicles.
So if you have high standards but virtually no one has ever met those standards, then those aren't actually standards. They're expectations, and they're false. "Change your standards" means recognize what's actually standard and realistic for you.
Sure
There are women who might consider men less than six feet attractive but it's a very small percentage of women. Which means that a large portion of men who are shorter than six feet will have to compete for a very low percentage of women who might find less than six feet guys attractive based on their looks and social status.
That's what I said. Most women consider guys under 6 feet unattractive. Which in return implies that most men are unattractive.You realize the vast majority of males are under 6ft.
That's what I said. Most women consider guys under 6 feet unattractive. Which in return implies that most men are unattractive.