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NGSB (No Girlfriend Since Birth)

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This is not going to go well

Lightskintwin, the goal is to make these people stop feeling bad about themselves and resenting women and men who are in relationships. That's not helping.

Gurthang, women are 52% of the population. Your argument makes no sense.

No, but this idea that they don't have girlfriends because all the alpha males are fucking them is ridiculous.
 
Happy Birthday dude.

god I hate face book - what has it comes to when mothers talk to their sons through it
 
You don't need to be in shape to get a GF, you just need an outgoing and charismatic personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.
You don't need to be in shape to be financially well-off, you just need a can-do and hardworking personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.
 
How?
Explain why is it ridiculous?

Its been going on throughout the history.

What makes you think our generation is any different?

As an alpha male who's fucked/fucks plenty of women, the type of women I fuck with wouldn't even consider most of these guys that feel that way; so for those guys there's no point even worrying about them if those women were never in their reach in the first place.

Meanwhile, there's still a shitload of other women.
 
How?
Explain why is it ridiculous?

Its been going on throughout the history.

What makes you think our generation is any different?

So how did I get a girlfriend? She: pretty and outgoing, me: pale, skinny, nerdy. And she wasn't even the first.

I have plenty of friends who don't fit the macho stereotype who have great girlfriends. And I have plenty of great female friends who never had any interest in macho guys with sixpacks with cheesy oneliners in bars.

Why are you assuming that all women are so vapid that they can't possibly be interested in different kinds of personalities?
 
As an alpha male who's fucked/fucks plenty of women, the type of women I fuck with wouldn't even consider most of these guys that feel that way; so for those guys there's no point even worrying about them if those women were never in their reach in the first place.

Meanwhile, there's still a shitload of other women.
That's what I'm saying. If a girl can easily have sex with an alpha guy who is fucking loads of other women too then there is no need for her to lower her standards and fuck short men.
 
So how did I get a girlfriend? She: pretty and outgoing, me: pale, skinny, nerdy. And she wasn't even the first.

I have plenty of friends who don't fit the macho stereotype who have great girlfriends. And I have plenty of great female friends who never had any interest in macho guys with sixpacks with cheesy oneliners in bars.

Why are you assuming that all women are so vapid that they can't possibly be interested in different kinds of personalities?

This.

That's what I'm saying. If a girl can easily have sex with an alpha guy who is fucking loads of other women too then there is no need for her to lower her standards and fuck short men.

The point is there are plenty of women that are left out of this equation.
 
I kinda wished you guys take this somewhere else, just wanted a light hearted thread (yeah I fucked up quite a bit on my thinking but I was in the wrong).

Anyways, 2 hours before being 24 so there's that.
And yes I will take people's advice to actually go out and socialize. Worst case scenario, I'm back to where I am right now.

Edit: either that or just lock the thread, happy birthday I guess.
 
Gf are annoying, and turns condescending once they start noticing someone better and will endlessly compare and nitpick your flaws.

And many of them smells and are messy at home.
 
Even if you are the ugliest man in earth, just be friendly to some females in a non creepy "neckbeard" way. Networking is the key to life.. working, love, happiness
 
I kinda wished you guys take this somewhere else, just wanted a light hearted thread (yeah I fucked up quite a bit on my thinking but I was in the wrong).

Anyways, 2 hours before being 24 so there's that.
And yes I will take people's advice to actually go out and socialize. Worst case scenario, I'm back to where I am right now.

24's where it hits you, bud. 23's still "early-twenties," but 24 it starts to get like "oh no, where is this going." I totally sympathize.
 
So how did I get a girlfriend? She: pretty and outgoing, me: pale, skinny, nerdy. And she wasn't even the first.

I have plenty of friends who don't fit the macho stereotype who have great girlfriends. And I have plenty of great female friends who never had any interest in macho guys with sixpacks with cheesy oneliners in bars.

Why are you assuming that all women are so vapid that they can't possibly be interested in different kinds of personalities?
Sure
There are women who might consider men less than six feet attractive but it's a very small percentage of women. Which means that a large portion of men who are shorter than six feet will have to compete for a very low percentage of women who might find less than six feet guys attractive based on their looks and social status.
 
I've dated several guys and none of them were macho "alpha" types. The notion that that's what every girl wants is super insulting.

It seems like Gurthang is just bitter and would rather blame other people for his problems than accept some personal responsibility.
 
I kinda wished you guys take this somewhere else, just wanted a light hearted thread (yeah I fucked up quite a bit on my thinking but I was in the wrong).

Anyways, 2 hours before being 24 so there's that.
And yes I will take people's advice to actually go out and socialize. Worst case scenario, I'm back to where I am right now.

Edit: either that or just lock the thread, happy birthday I guess.

Sorry if I helped in getting this thread off-track for you. Just tried to help.

Happy birthday and have fun! Don't worry about too much except for having a good time.
 
Sure
There are women who might consider men less than six feet attractive but it's a very small percentage of women. Which means that a large portion of men who are shorter than six feet will have to compete for a very low percentage of women who might find less than six feet guys attractive based on their looks and social status.

Don't get me wrong height and other physical features do play a part, however 5'9 inches tall is the average height of a man. So your percentages doesn't add up.

There are
But the number is dwarfed by the number men who might have a chance with them.

The problem is he can't have them all at the same time and maintain their happiness. Just because he might have a chance with them doesn't mean he'll act on it.

Serious question, are you an alpha male, that's outgoing and charismatic, and has sex with every girl that he has a chance with?
 
You don't need to be in shape to get a GF, you just need an outgoing and charismatic personality and the confidence to put yourself out there.

I imagine liking the way your body looks though can go a long way to boosting your confidence.
 
Yup I say so. Stuff like "change your attitude", "change your standards", "there is always a niche for you" are self-serving and pointless.

If you go through 30 years of life and not a single person is up to your standards perhaps you do need to change your standards though.
 
The problem seems to be similar to quicksand. The older you become without a SO, the more desperate you get, deeper into the sand, the more you struggle, desperation sinks in which is a huge turnoff. The only way to right the ship is to be able to live with yourself without making every moment of your existence about finding 'the one'. That's when the improve yourself suggestions come in when it really should be about learning to love who you are. The rest just happens.
 
"Standard" means something is normal. When we say someone has high standards, we mean they consider normal what others consider better than normal. For example, I live in a fairly wealthy neighborhood and it's not uncommon for me to see Audis and Ferraris being driven around. That's my standard, and it's a high standard because in most places you don't see an abundance of luxury vehicles.

So if you have high standards but virtually no one has ever met those standards, then those aren't actually standards. They're expectations, and they're false. "Change your standards" means recognize what's actually standard and realistic for you.
 
"Standard" means something is normal. When we say someone has high standards, we mean they consider normal what others consider better than normal. For example, I live in a fairly wealthy neighborhood and it's not uncommon for me to see Audis and Ferraris being driven around. That's my standard, and it's a high standard because in most places you don't see an abundance of luxury vehicles.

So if you have high standards but virtually no one has ever met those standards, then those aren't actually standards. They're expectations, and they're false. "Change your standards" means recognize what's actually standard and realistic for you.

Damn, that's pretty on point.
 
Sure
There are women who might consider men less than six feet attractive but it's a very small percentage of women. Which means that a large portion of men who are shorter than six feet will have to compete for a very low percentage of women who might find less than six feet guys attractive based on their looks and social status.

You realize the vast majority of males are under 6ft.
 
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