My point is, if I'm deep into an unfamiliar area with a shitload of souls on me, and someone start banging on my door and I need to go check what the hell is going on, I shouldn't have die in-game just because there isn't a pause button. That's just stupid.
And the reason I feel strongly about it is because it has happened to me, and it was not a fun experience.
*Edit*
If you're human/all ember'd up then alright, you shouldn't be able to pause due to invading and such, I'll give it that. That a good reason to why it wouldn't work. When you're hollowed though, that's another story.
I don't want it to be a menu screen pause, just a freeze everything pause.