Gaf-Didact
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This is something new?
Ultimately it's words against words.
We do know evilore backed off, there was no rape or anything sinister, just 2 drunken adults.
Don't get this uproar...i mean if evilore was involved in Amirox kinda of crap, i definitely support the boycott.
I agree with this. I know a lot of folks these days so not want to question the victim or the victims actions that may or may not have led to this. The problem I have is this isn't really victim bashing is it? How many guys out there go up to a girls hotel room smashed without any expectations? Let's be honest, how many girls are allowing you into the room not knowing what that setting implies. Now, if any action takes place where it is not concentual I can understand that. I dont know the timeline but most likely there was a period of time before she got sick that they were in the room just smashed. Did she throw signals? We dont know.
I guess my problem is we can't even ask questions about it. For example, I have a daughter and if she told me this story my first instinct would be to go after the guy.
but...
My second instinct would be to ask her what she was thinking and how much worse this could have been. The only reason I believe that he might have gotten the green light is because she did sleep with him later. Everyone saying that has no bearing is wrong because the issue of why he jumped in the shower is the real issue in the first place. Thats all he did, he got in the shower. Was it wrong? It depends, maybe she was down with him but then got sick. Did he know she was sick?
Her statement says they continued the friendship and even had a pysical relationship for awhile until a falling out.
I wish Evilore would have just made a simple statement based on the facts without the insults but that one line of her statement sort of matches up with what he was saying.